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Hi, I am 32years old and my girlfriend is 31years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

486 thoughts on “Please Help: My Girlfriend Donated A Kidney To Me, But I’m Not In Love Anymore What Do I Do?”

  1. Olanike M. Bello

    Simple give her back her kidinrin abi what do you call it, go to the one you love to give you her own and see if she will give you, shi………or alakori eda

  2. Suleman Adeiza Shaibu

    its simple;give her kidney back 2 her;n tell d girl u love now to donate for you::n if she no donate for you;i pray u RIP

  3. You know people dey play with our Gracious God who meets His children at their points of needs, He gave you somebody who saved your life and now you have the impunity to utter those death sentence words, please be careful on whatever comes from your mouth because it cannot be taken back. Be careful, please.

  4. Arinze Ochendo Ephraim

    U are a beast. Please before u live give her back her kidney to avoid my trouble.

  5. Okoehanlen Edokpa Helen

    U dnt love her anymore but u love ur life which her kidney gave back to u, Gosh!!! And yet her part is inside of u dat keeps u going everyday, mehn… Am short of words this world is simply wicked…

  6. Opwolo Phelly

    Ur such a stupid man nd may God fogive, av u ever asked yourself why she donated kidney for you nd do think ts also easy for someone to risky her life nd give you her kidney. ..may God punish yu thre!!!.nktness.Brada don’t yu dare break th news to her that yu don’t love her.. ….

  7. Justin Quame Boadu

    Ask your new love the kidney your ex gave is not good so if she can donate her and see?Idiot

  8. Jatunny Aquatic

    just return d kidney back to her and face d inevitable…….the ball is ur court,i bet d girl go surely witch u.

  9. Since you know that u are not in with her why you take her kidney? Want to punish u if u don’t Marry her

  10. Chizoba Nzeribe

    God punished you why didn’t you say collect the kidneys from her when you know she was doing it out of love.

  11. Gabriella Tianna McDonald

    Lolol return the kidney and be on your wayU0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f605U0001f605U0001f605

  12. Akinwande Zacchaeus Olusegun

    Simple thing, give her back her kidney. Go and met the one you love to give you her kidney. Crazy person.

  13. My own is after wasting 5 years of her life with you, not just wasting her time, she even gave you her kidney, you had d guts to come out and say you are not in love…The case is simple, before you talk to her, kindly take her to the hospital and do a transplant by giving d lady her kidney back, then you can let her know you dnt love her anymore…Retarded ingrate!

  14. Indi Ner Mignott

    How can a man fall out of love with a woman who gave you one of there organ, even if you did not live her before what she did for you alone should make you love her to the moon and back. Anyways if that is how you feel about her, then set her free but before you do so please take her back to the first place that you met her, re- gifted her with the first gift you gave her, take you memory back to the first time you found out u needed a kidney and she told you she is willing to give you one of her’s just think about how u felt then…now think about how u would made her feel now when u told her you no longer love her, think about how damage she will be going into another relationship and if u still feel good about yourself may God have mercy on you

  15. It’s very simple, just tell her……take your kidney am not inlove anymore. Datz all.

  16. Deborah Okharu

    Since u don’t luv her anymore return her kidney or u gt hunted all ur days on earth

  17. Jeannette Hawkins

    Give her, her kidney back and move on to the next….wait, make sure the next bless you with a new kidney and you don’t die waiting U0001f612
    Bless you,

  18. U no serious o u must marry am o wen him give u kidney u love abi u try we’ll we’ll

  19. Go and find that love back before that kidney gets rotten with all your lungs, liver and intestines in your lousy stomach…tshuippp

  20. Jideobi Chioma

    Give her back her kidney then u can go to the one u love ,u are a bad person.

  21. Helen Erhabor

    My brother you already in is hand you have to bear with her or give her back her kidney which is problem.

  22. Obehi Judith CharlesAgu

    @Obehi, you wan kill am? The guy talk through, so that the end no go be like the Shondes, abi you no see am like this?

  23. Goodluck Okwara

    Listen the fact is that you never loved her from the beginning so you are just enduring because of the kidney. You have conditional love for her, young people should be careful in chosen their partners. Know who love you and love you till the point of death before donating something of this magnitude and for the guys don’t take advantage of a woman’s love to you for granted because you might never find it again if you lose her. How a woman love you risk her life to save yours you are now talking bulshit please if you know you don’t love her don’t even request something from her not even to the extent of kidney. Anyway this union can not work out there is nothing like by force love in my dictionary. One advice for the lady you should quit the relationship and then if your mind carry am bail him how much to pay for kidney but if you don’t want forget it and forget him because if you insist and marry him omo worst things to expect in your marriage, you can never ever be happy with him no matter what

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