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Hi, I am 32years old and my girlfriend is 31years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

486 thoughts on “Please Help: My Girlfriend Donated A Kidney To Me, But I’m Not In Love Anymore What Do I Do?”

  1. Jessica Williams

    No problem if u ain’t in love return her kidney back to her its simple no need for long talk how can someone give u her kidney n u say u don’t love her no more THE THUNDER WAY GO FIRE U STILL DEY DO PUSH UP.JUST LEAVE HER FIRE NA DIE BE UR NAME

  2. Tosin Oshinberu Oyagbohun

    Very simple, return her kidney back to her and let her go,then you go for your heart desire. ….OZUOH,OLORIBURUKU somebody. …

  3. Nixon McNeilo

    Baboon you deserve for die so the girl fit fine different lover bcus u r capable of killing her despite all she did to u.

  4. You were never in love with her. And you should have stopped her from donating a kidney when you know u dont love her. Humans have an insatiable greed in them anyway. This is just one of the exhibits. Nevertheless, no need staying with her when u know u dont love her. You will be hurting yourself and your partner if you keep pretending. But just know you are heavily indebted to humanity and nature. And you will be forced to pay the price when they come knocking. All the best.!!!! This is my answer @ Kess Gbemre

  5. Eze Ebu N'Afo

    You are fantastically idiot to hurt her after she gave you a second chance to live again.

  6. Adegoke Anthony Lijirin

    woo.. i pity you .. if u don’t want to die untimely death.. u better continue to love her.eleda dey get person real bad o. barao…

  7. Pangah Mazingaizo

    Give back her kidney ma’an n go n try to find ur brains where ever u last dropped them

  8. Pangah Mazingaizo

    Give back her kidney ma’an n go n try to find ur brains where ever u last dropped them

  9. Michael Bigwonder Obetoh

    Build the love for her. In those days our fathers and mothers never knew what is called love and they loved happily. So live like them

  10. Mariagorathy Ngozi

    You are heartless and wicked….! God will help her to replace that kidney spiritually but as for u,u must surely pay for it in no distance time

  11. Obaje Gabriel

    My guy just look at the bright side, false your self you would find something that will make you love her cuz she deserves your love

  12. Autumn Leaves

    Do Not take it set down talk to her about your not in luv anymore let her decide either she give it to you or just let you sleep in your grave early

  13. You are a mad man! Near don’t post this your nonsense because you are wicked and heartless. You must do whatever you can to love the innocent girl

  14. James Omiyinka Akinbowale

    No problem, life goes on. but make sure u return her kidney back. chikena!?

  15. Apuu Bem Pascal

    Dont even try leaving bcos u know where u go end and i tell u u will be a tragedy

  16. Just as we are ungrateful to christ who give His life for us,so is this man. He can only say thank you when the thirst of food is still in his mouth. Probably when the pains were there while on the hospital bed. You and your girlfriend return to Jesus and he will see u through.

  17. Oji Izu Praise

    Guy have you taking ur drugs be4 coming to media to say nonsense talk I believe is not only kidney problem u have both mental have joined ur cases don’t allow God to be angry with you agent of devil

  18. Abi Fantasia Lovia

    By power, by force or return back her kidney as fast as possible to survive in this world !!!

  19. free her now, but dnt fail to give her back her kidney or i ripe it off myself. u dnt even knw d meannig of love

  20. Amara Bella Bisty

    U are hereby charge for abuse and misconduct. I therefore put it to u that u should return d said kidney or face d judgment, this is related to section 106 of d constitution of federal republic of Nigeria.

  21. Kill urself. That’s all, nonsense. Ur a low life person, heartless, and the bad things in the world, that’s who u are

  22. Idiot. How can she gave you life and your now telling her that you don’t love her anymore foolish man .then return her kidney to her and die if you don’t love her

  23. Lee A. Fosu-Appiah

    I think all the ppl insulting u don’t know how it is to fall out of love with someone
    My dear u can’t force to love a babe because of what she has done for u so by all means walk out and pursue ur new interest after all life is too short to spend it in a loveless relationship but Oga one small thing : kindly remember to leave her kidney behind maybe so the person who will come for ur leftover will at least have a full human being.
    Mumu like ur type!!!!!!!!!!!

  24. Prisca Sabbastine

    Pple here are advising u. Me I will cause u. Nah God go punish u idiotic goat.

  25. Daniel Nwachukwu

    u must be stupid ‘so after she hv saved ur life now u re no longer in love with her ( barstard)

  26. Myke Achunike Udefi

    TO DIE IS BETTER THAN SWALLOW YOUR VOMIT PROUD MAN BUT BE SURE OF YOUR ETERNAL DESTINATION BKS OF DOUBLE LOSS

  27. Rosemary Odulaja

    Please return the gift, it was meant for her and she decided to share it with you. God gave u yours but don’t know what happened to yours so if you now want to go and share your life with someone else at least return her gift of life and see if the new woman have to share with you. You Good luck

  28. Abeg u no get choice nw, ur tym 2 decide has expired is left for her not to take advantage of her kind gesture

  29. Marlon Downer

    Mr feelings yes there an old saying sorry for maga dog he then turn back and bite you. So give back the life saviour kidney and dead you are ungrateful

  30. My brother the only help I can give you is to advise you to return the kidney back and go to hell. Somebody gave you what even your own blood sister can not do to you and you came on public to tell us you are not in love with her. Mumumumumunununu till death

  31. You are an idiot to ask this kind of question may thunder fire you there in fact any day you leave that girl you will die in the same kidney problem idiot

  32. Nung Lalipaak

    A big lesson I must say. After someone has given you a second chance to live you are nown making choices. The kidney she gave you will not function the very day you break up with her. She is the reason for your living on earth let the will of God be done not your will.

  33. U r just an idiot, hw many girls can make such a sacrifice, u lucky dat u r alive plse & plse return her kidney to her as soon as possible & look for another donor, i think yr father made a mistake nt to put on de condom, u r heartless, never post dat kind of crump otherwise …

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