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Hi, I am 32years old and my girlfriend is 31years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

486 thoughts on “Please Help: My Girlfriend Donated A Kidney To Me, But I’m Not In Love Anymore What Do I Do?”

  1. Olawunmi Awojinrin

    Baba if u steal my 100h I go understand but giving out one of my kidirin & in return u deny me my right in ur heart…haaaa baba hell will break loose

  2. Vicky Beli Osedebamen

    i have see a cus like befor. After d woman donat her kidney d man, wil beat her everyday and call her names on one faithful day, while beating her he misstakely heat her heart and she died. That how d woman ghost came al d time and statr temet d man. And he becom mad. The lady take a rei wit her life too. Yo are now one witi her, becos if yo dont marry her, yo lif wil be cut shro.

  3. Give her back her kidney …..quickly go and die because death is what you deserve

  4. Duncan Mubbale

    You will realise wherever you go that love is accepting the other for the good and the weakness in them.

  5. Patricia Metivier

    You never love her because of her kindness you was going to cherish her so let a next woman rip out your heart as karma

  6. We need not look at this the wrong way things happen people change and I as a young woman also understand and been through similar I’ll advice him that he put her sit down and have a chat with her and let her express her feelings about the relationship yes she gave him a kidney out of love to save he’s life but sometimes she might also be feeling trapped in the relationship who are we to judge. Prevent issues and bigger problems later on by solving the small ones now talk to her we are humans and we are prone to errors and feelings.

  7. Yinka Orogun Adewumi

    You are an ingrate.return what belongs to her n let see how you will survive without her

  8. Jenniphere Banda

    Everyone is saying return the kidney….wait a min 1st. He might have loved her before the kidney, but it’s unfortunate those feelings ent there anymore. No need to waist time, let them part ways….her soul mate might be waiting for that opportunity. She should count him as charity n she has done her part.
    It’s better she moves on than to be unhappy for d rest of her life.

  9. Oloruntola Horlarbici Mufuliat

    Since u re out of love with her then her kidney should be out of ur body too, the one u re in love with now will give u a kidney to replace that of the lady u fell out of love with. Anoufia… Buffon

  10. Holumi Kaystar

    You a fool. You want to love the idiots who refuse to help when you need help. You will force yourself to love her and find solution to problem behind your sudden fade love for her.

  11. My guy,you are nothing but an ingreat fool.that girl deserves an everlasting love from you,she deserves to be treated like a LADY that she is,she deserve all the best treatment from you.you don’t have to abandon her because she lay her expensive life for you.if you leave this girl just like that and say you don’t love her anymore, God of the father,the son and of the holy spirit will punish you for that.you should make that girl the person after your own heart.

  12. Martins Alfred

    U know how to crack jokes dont you? For better for worse it says..deal with it!

  13. Emmanuel Ifebi

    Moron, return her kidney to her. You don’t even love her at any point in time. You pretended to loving her so you can get the kidney from her. That’s Naija man’s way(419). Now that she donated a kidney to you, your eyes are now clear and the love has disappeared, turkey.

  14. Give her,her kidney back now!why didn’t you say that when you are about to die,or because you don well now,why people are taking sacrifices for granted???

  15. Uche Skylett Uzokwe

    Cnt bliv u don’t feel love anymore Fr sm1 Dt save ur life…. Just wallowing in thought

  16. Stupid talk you’re not in love with her,then why do you accept her kidney animal?

  17. Adamazi Gift Okoroji-Udensi

    Men I feel for girls who risk their lives for some sick men. That kidney will fail idiot

  18. Selena Williams

    You shouldn’t even ask for help on this one Just give bk d woman r kidney.

  19. Selena Williams

    You shouldn’t even ask for help on this one Just give bk d woman r kidney.

  20. Amoateng Kwaku-Captain

    Is just simple, if u don’t love her again, all u need is to return her kidney.

  21. Amoateng Kwaku-Captain

    Is just simple, if u don’t love her again, all u need is to return her kidney.

  22. Xolani Rodney Ndzungu

    U cnt return someones kidney its against the law becus u gave some1 life

  23. Xolani Rodney Ndzungu

    U cnt return someones kidney its against the law becus u gave some1 life

  24. Akushomagon Samson

    You an idiot to asked that stupid question , return back her kidney now or are you waiting for baba lawo to tell this ????????

  25. Kome Ekakitie

    No big thing Na u start to love No? And no be u go end am too. Just call her and give r back her kidney. So wth tht u know u don’t have anything to do her for life

  26. Abi u know known waiting u dey talk ni, old boy l beg give her, d thing back kiakia,

  27. Teniola Bukola Amokeodo

    U did not know u did not love her when she gave u her kidney ingreat

  28. Well,d solution 2 dt is, give back her kidney I know she will say no blc her love is biger than ur.even she say no make sure u return it back if not.u will die early than ur time.

  29. Ok sir since u r no lnga inluv cus wat she did ws 4 luv den kindly n gently giv brk her kidney b4 thunder ………….. U? ⚡

  30. Vosti Kiyingu

    Stop being selfish ed foolish there’s no mo love than her donates kidney for u, stop this love thing idiot

  31. Ezekiel Ekanem

    U r jst indebted to her u dnt have any choice but mind u if u loose dat girl uve lost somthng dat u can never replace.. Idiot where was d current person ur in love with wen u were on dat bed helplessly? My frnd think as a man not as a Fool dat u r

  32. I don’t think if is something to negotiatable u have gone far too much just begin to think about the good she has done for u, Jesus said there no friend like the one who lay down his life for u, to me no matter what is still the best Engel on earth

  33. Arisikimonyahsaheed Omosalewa Ariyo

    That one is not a big deal don’t force yourself to love her,just return back her sweet and lovely, kindly KIDNEY back to her and let her go rite and you go left.mad man hissss b4 she give you her caring kidney u didn’t tell her you don’t love,so she risk her life to make u live you now feel free to let her go cos you don’t love her again,guy you dey Crazy well well

  34. Mike DeRosena

    Smh, Wow no offense let me be her brother. I would have repo that kidney from you with a light bulb.

  35. جورج د. راموس جونيور

    Return her kidney, and dieU0001f44dU0001f602U0001f602U0001f602

  36. Tawakalit Oluwakemi Adebayo

    Dat one no be wahala now just return her kidney back to her, if she like she can give dog to eat it or rat but u no way

  37. Leave dat buhari incarnate,he is just a just dreaming of his death,and people like him are buried in 3feet like housa goat not in 6feet.

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