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Hi, I am 32years old and my girlfriend is 31years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

486 thoughts on “Please Help: My Girlfriend Donated A Kidney To Me, But I’m Not In Love Anymore What Do I Do?”

  1. Austin Egwavoen

    Weytin dey worry ur brain u sure say u dey normal so break up with her u die cheat on her u die do any thing to hurt her u die foolish guy

  2. Primrose Gunura

    Give her back her kidney
    n get a map nd a car n go straight to hell coz that z where selfish,ungrateful ,,heartless pipo lyc u belong….
    The Devil z oredy waiting fo u….tick tock tick tock⌚

  3. Kwame Solomon Hormenyo Junior

    Go on ur knee and pray to God ur love will surly come back…

  4. Oluohu Augustine

    Give her back her kidney since u luv her again, abi u wan carry am go luv anoda person sho…

  5. Elizabeth Johnson

    Pls free her from thinking that u love her, I’m sure someone will be out there who would love and appreciate her, I promise u she will find someone one day that will never hurt again and she be treated like a queen she is. because even ur blood would run from this unspeakable act

  6. Zaharadeen Aliyu Labaran

    Idiot and shameless goat why can’t you do what is right and give her kidney back to her.

  7. Morrow Drammeh

    Just explain your self,she will understand. Girls can sometimes understand,for the kidney that’s for humanity.#Is not a big deal.

  8. Dear Brother don’t cause or invite death upon your self. That Girl is everything for you. She sacrifice what God gave to her, give it to you so that you can live the rest your life with her on earth and now you realize that you don’t love her for marriage, better think twice otherwise if she put her two knee down and call God for you, your gone because God must answer her prayers. Please stop hurting that Girl and take her to her parent and get married to her. My last word. Note that she is your own.

  9. Segun Agbessi

    This is a very simple issue bro, give her back are kidney, and collect from the one you love. Simple. Problem solved.

  10. I just pray that she forgives u and let’s u go in peace. For when u r helping someone in this wild life, don’t expect anything in return, love is something that can’t be bribed. Only God can judge u better. For no matter what, if love is gone out of your heart, u can’t force it or keep pretending for the rest of your life. If she does 4give u and lets u go though with her kidney, God will multiply her blessing.

  11. Naa God she do am for no be for u. If no be God she won’t do it. If u don’t love her anymore but with a concrete reason do ur ll. God ll surely see her through anything with or without u.

  12. contract expiring, giv’am her kidney back Kia Kia before she go collect am with force lol…I don’t know any other love in this life than giving a part of oneself (kidney in this case) unconditionally to someone so that he/she may live and not die…then you have the gut feeling to say what? Not in love anymore? In fact, return the kidney back first and come back alive so we can talk about it…such an ingrate!!!

  13. Harrison Tracy

    Return back her kidney and also pay her for damages very fast, mind u she has to name her price.

  14. Ella Nessia Sabra

    You are so ungrateful. You just used her to save your life. Very selfish.

  15. You don’t love yourself, she loves u like herself and gave u a part of herself. If u don’t love her anymore, then give her all of her love including her kidney.

  16. The greatest weakness of this generation is that. We have trained our eyes and ears to see sin and define it. Instead of training our eyes and ears to see grace and embrace it. Remember where sin did much. Grace did much more.

  17. The greatest weakness of this generation is that. We have trained our eyes and ears to see sin and define it. Instead of training our eyes and ears to see grace and embrace it. Remember where sin did much. Grace did much more.

  18. Okeleke Onyie

    You are not in love again indeed! Na that her kidney you carry go send you to the grave you were already heading to before she came to your recue, so you better use your head.. Imagine!

  19. Okeleke Onyie

    You are not in love again indeed! Na that her kidney you carry go send you to the grave you were already heading to before she came to your recue, so you better use your head.. Imagine!

  20. Powerman Mufuni

    you have a spirit of anti christ. who doesn’t believe that jesus came in flesh. it was jesus thru her who gave you that kidney. divorce her and loss your life. you live becoz she gave to you. leave her and all you don’t have will be taken away from you

  21. Powerman Mufuni

    you have a spirit of anti christ. who doesn’t believe that jesus came in flesh. it was jesus thru her who gave you that kidney. divorce her and loss your life. you live becoz she gave to you. leave her and all you don’t have will be taken away from you

  22. Freeman Ndlovu

    Its not a matter of choice here man of God yu need to reconsider coz when Jesus gave his life he had all the love to all living humans and their possesion
    So the mercy this girl had on yu was like The same Jesus had on us
    So when yu reject her yu will be cursing yourself and yu will be rejecting Jesus ‘s love
    I rebuke the devil in yu my brother may the holyness come to u and let yu live in peace and love with your life saver .
    Amen

  23. Freeman Ndlovu

    Its not a matter of choice here man of God yu need to reconsider coz when Jesus gave his life he had all the love to all living humans and their possesion
    So the mercy this girl had on yu was like The same Jesus had on us
    So when yu reject her yu will be cursing yourself and yu will be rejecting Jesus ‘s love
    I rebuke the devil in yu my brother may the holyness come to u and let yu live in peace and love with your life saver .
    Amen

  24. Michael Ezeanodo Nmoso

    If a girl can offer her life to you just to safe your life.Then she is the love of your life. Open your eyes and love her because she deserve the best from you

  25. Kingsley Akaninwor

    nna dat girl go kill u o u better go bk to her b4 she kill you as u bk her u no no waiting she day reason go bk go bk go bkoooooooo

  26. Dougie Dg Doug

    Mmmmh when You a recipient, You directly have that donor living in You. So if You don’t love her, just give her back her everything then we see how many generous people You’ll find like her who can risk their own life to see You kicking.. Dude grow up love is just something that begins slowly from friendship to the level of Best friends as lovers..tame your heart to be more appreciative

  27. Dayö Timöthy Ajibade

    What you’re trying to do, only a woman can do it and go scot free. As a man, you’re supposed to be locked in a relationship especially one in which you have received such a precious gift as that but a woman can do that without repercussions.

  28. Tunde Owoeye Abrahams

    You are not serious at all, not just that, you need deliverance, may God deliver you, Amen.

  29. Adeniji Augustine

    Give her are kidney back and see if u no go die bad human being na u be

  30. Bolnaba Seidu Bashiru

    It’s as simple as 1 minus 1. She gave you de kidney bcos of the luv u guys shared. So if u no longer luv her return her kidney to her. Stupid selfish man.

  31. Francis Ndegwa

    U moron return her kidney back ed walk awai ed 2 those u will get check out weda thei wil giv out theiax, UA craixy

  32. Better learn to re – love her. Na Kidney wey she donate o no be offering. you must love her beacuse she has given you part of her life. you know wetin dem they call kidney at all? no try that kind rough play.

  33. Miriam Ofonghor

    You don’t know what you are saying. Did u kw what it takes to donate kidney for u?? That is life. Put urself to dis ad think hadn’t been u were dead wat we people around u would ve done think ad dont be a ticket

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