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Please Help: My Girlfriend Donated A Kidney To Me, But I’m Not In Love Anymore What Do I Do?

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Hi, I am 32years old and my girlfriend is 31years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

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486 comments

  1. boss marry who loves you.

  2. Walliyillah Abdulamid

    U self knows the right thin to do

  3. Olanike M. Bello

    Simple give her back her kidinrin abi what do you call it, go to the one you love to give you her own and see if she will give you, shi………or alakori eda

  4. Suleman Adeiza Shaibu

    its simple;give her kidney back 2 her;n tell d girl u love now to donate for you::n if she no donate for you;i pray u RIP

  5. Sakit nmn grabe

  6. Return her kidney now .Epe loma pa e if u dont return d kidney fool

  7. Wahu Benta Ogutta

    Return the kidney t

  8. You know people dey play with our Gracious God who meets His children at their points of needs, He gave you somebody who saved your life and now you have the impunity to utter those death sentence words, please be careful on whatever comes from your mouth because it cannot be taken back. Be careful, please.

  9. Dominion Richard

    Masa fall back inside her love or return her kidney

  10. Arinze Ochendo Ephraim

    U are a beast. Please before u live give her back her kidney to avoid my trouble.

  11. Biu Silibinafa Beryl

    Return her kidney back you ingrate.

  12. Then prepare for another kidney transplant.

  13. Okoehanlen Edokpa Helen

    U dnt love her anymore but u love ur life which her kidney gave back to u, Gosh!!! And yet her part is inside of u dat keeps u going everyday, mehn… Am short of words this world is simply wicked…

  14. Pls return her kidney and ask ur new love to donate hers

  15. Ur such a stupid man nd may God fogive, av u ever asked yourself why she donated kidney for you nd do think ts also easy for someone to risky her life nd give you her kidney. ..may God punish yu thre!!!.nktness.Brada don’t yu dare break th news to her that yu don’t love her.. ….

  16. Abi!! ask God for forgiveness first .may thunder fire yu thre!!!

  17. Justin Quame Boadu

    Ask your new love the kidney your ex gave is not good so if she can donate her and see?Idiot

  18. Jatunny Aquatic

    just return d kidney back to her and face d inevitable…….the ball is ur court,i bet d girl go surely witch u.

  19. Ur an ingreat idiot of no mekwatarism

  20. Return it back

  21. Champaigne Lycious

    Lazima kieleweke arudishe
    kidney ya huyo dem,stupid guy

  22. Simple thing, return back her kidney to Her.

  23. Give her back and die go, you doesn’t deserve to live .

  24. Stephen Ogbodo

    You are very stupid.

  25. You are an idiot

  26. Henriette Mousseng Itondo

    so sad just tell her and both of you discuss about

  27. U are very wicked o

  28. Na Thunder go fire you

  29. Christopher Friday

    Give her back her kidney

  30. Chiamaka Favour

    Give her bk her kidney b4 u Lev d r/ship. Goat

  31. Olusola Zacheriah

    U are a heartless human being

  32. Zipporah Hippolyte

    Give it back

  33. it Normal, give it back to her man.

  34. Geraldine Amba

    Plz gv her, her kidney,u can eat ur cake nd have, u re vy heart less

  35. Daniel A Abikoye

    You’re free to go. but God will judge

  36. Chidinma Maduako

    Give her back her kidney.Thank u

  37. Men men nawahooo what are u waitng for return her kidney back

  38. Very wicked of u
    Simply give her thing back to her

  39. Paddykul Akubo

    Return her kidney noooow

  40. Since you know that u are not in with her why you take her kidney? Want to punish u if u don’t Marry her

  41. Chizoba Nzeribe

    God punished you why didn’t you say collect the kidneys from her when you know she was doing it out of love.

  42. may God have mercy on you

  43. Gabriella Tianna McDonald

    Lolol return the kidney and be on your wayU0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f605U0001f605U0001f605

  44. Jehovah DE Ruler

    Your mother fio

  45. Return the kidney simple

  46. Esther Chidimma Ifeadigo

    Bring back our kidney

  47. Cecilia Williams

    Return her kidney

  48. Akinwande Zacchaeus Olusegun

    Simple thing, give her back her kidney. Go and met the one you love to give you her kidney. Crazy person.

  49. My own is after wasting 5 years of her life with you, not just wasting her time, she even gave you her kidney, you had d guts to come out and say you are not in love…The case is simple, before you talk to her, kindly take her to the hospital and do a transplant by giving d lady her kidney back, then you can let her know you dnt love her anymore…Retarded ingrate!

  50. Faiz Ahmed Faiz GB

    Wow …. First time I have heard this …

  51. Indi Ner Mignott

    How can a man fall out of love with a woman who gave you one of there organ, even if you did not live her before what she did for you alone should make you love her to the moon and back. Anyways if that is how you feel about her, then set her free but before you do so please take her back to the first place that you met her, re- gifted her with the first gift you gave her, take you memory back to the first time you found out u needed a kidney and she told you she is willing to give you one of her’s just think about how u felt then…now think about how u would made her feel now when u told her you no longer love her, think about how damage she will be going into another relationship and if u still feel good about yourself may God have mercy on you

  52. You are an idiot. Return her kidney you imbecile who is not grateful.

  53. Natasha Dennis

    Pray fa a change

  54. Anthonia Obehi A

    Return the kidney back

  55. Obaapa Amponsah Hayford

    Give it back to her sharp. Nonsense

  56. Return the kidney back

  57. It’s very simple, just tell her……take your kidney am not inlove anymore. Datz all.

  58. Brice Eselacha

    You are soooo cruel and mean, stupid nyammmmmm lyk u

  59. Deborah Okharu

    Since u don’t luv her anymore return her kidney or u gt hunted all ur days on earth

  60. Chisco Victor Chisco

    Give back what you take

  61. Albright Nan Okoth

    Return the kindney end go to hell devil

  62. Jeannette Hawkins

    Give her, her kidney back and move on to the next….wait, make sure the next bless you with a new kidney and you don’t die waiting U0001f612
    Bless you,

  63. U no serious o u must marry am o wen him give u kidney u love abi u try we’ll we’ll

  64. Almoah kidney thief

  65. Emelda MmaNwa Agugonwa

    Abi ooo my sister

  66. Return the kidney …. and die

  67. Vyda Rojas Kazibwe

    Give her bck her kidney

  68. Halimat Agbolade

    Very simple Return the kidney to her back

  69. Go and find that love back before that kidney gets rotten with all your lungs, liver and intestines in your lousy stomach…tshuippp

  70. Give her her kidney back!

  71. Beautyy Jennifer Okeh

    Give her back her Kidney, idiot like u

  72. haba@ mosy jay dat was 2 harse u no

  73. Ma Ejima Udemba

    GIVE HER KIDNEY BACK!!!!

  74. Jideobi Chioma

    Give her back her kidney then u can go to the one u love ,u are a bad person.

  75. Give her back her kidney.

  76. Everlasting Nwa

    Give her d kidney back

  77. Yonten Phuntsho

    Simply go to hell

  78. My brother you already in is hand you have to bear with her or give her back her kidney which is problem.

  79. You are evil return the kidney

  80. Give it back

  81. Obehi Judith CharlesAgu

    @Obehi, you wan kill am? The guy talk through, so that the end no go be like the Shondes, abi you no see am like this?

  82. Just do it for sake of you love

  83. Az Rukky Braimah

    Abeg returned her kidney back

  84. Goodluck Okwara

    Listen the fact is that you never loved her from the beginning so you are just enduring because of the kidney. You have conditional love for her, young people should be careful in chosen their partners. Know who love you and love you till the point of death before donating something of this magnitude and for the guys don’t take advantage of a woman’s love to you for granted because you might never find it again if you lose her. How a woman love you risk her life to save yours you are now talking bulshit please if you know you don’t love her don’t even request something from her not even to the extent of kidney. Anyway this union can not work out there is nothing like by force love in my dictionary. One advice for the lady you should quit the relationship and then if your mind carry am bail him how much to pay for kidney but if you don’t want forget it and forget him because if you insist and marry him omo worst things to expect in your marriage, you can never ever be happy with him no matter what

  85. Regina Razorokeke

    really were you ever in love with her

  86. God wil punish u 4 dat y wil u treat her lyk dat its bad

  87. Oluwatomisin John GodSon

    simple…give back her kidney

  88. She caused it. She should have donated her heart too…

  89. Shodimu Omolola Esther

    is very simple just returned her kidney back to her sikena

  90. U ar stupid….idiot

  91. Helen Isu Ekuma

    That one na talk mumu

  92. Short up and get out from here now.

  93. Babatunde Kolawole

    Return the kidney and just die

  94. Stella Musyoka Musyoka

    Shame on u.

  95. Timothy Temitope Joseph

    U are nt serious 4 saying dat man.

  96. Lusani Witness Magonono

    Thamathama Gundo Simethi dzi comment weh

  97. Judith Thobile Malinga

    Selfish man U0001f621U0001f621U0001f621

  98. Adeshina Jumoke

    Return d kidney nah. shikena

  99. Frank Akatugba

    Give her back her kidney and die.

  100. Mabel Ohui Lawer

    give it back ungreatful

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