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Please Help: My Girlfriend Donated A Kidney To Me, But I’m Not In Love Anymore What Do I Do?

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Hi, I am 32years old and my girlfriend is 31years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

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486 comments

  1. Jessica Williams

    No problem if u ain’t in love return her kidney back to her its simple no need for long talk how can someone give u her kidney n u say u don’t love her no more THE THUNDER WAY GO FIRE U STILL DEY DO PUSH UP.JUST LEAVE HER FIRE NA DIE BE UR NAME

  2. Tosin Oshinberu Oyagbohun

    Very simple, return her kidney back to her and let her go,then you go for your heart desire. ….OZUOH,OLORIBURUKU somebody. …

  3. Andrian Nicole Colbert

    Ungrateful idiot that’s what u are

  4. Julian Helen Suzzie

    Give ha back ha kidney…..wicked guy

  5. Cecil Morgan Migeal

    Give her kidney back

  6. Cheater & lier

  7. Baboon you deserve for die so the girl fit fine different lover bcus u r capable of killing her despite all she did to u.

  8. Akintoye Jamiu Jumat

    return her part ……….case settle

  9. Adebayo Babatunde Opeyemi

    Go die broda.no time to waste

  10. God help her soul for being with somebody like you.

  11. RETURN HER KIDNEY PLS

  12. Anucha Edith Chinyere

    Give back her kidney

  13. You were never in love with her. And you should have stopped her from donating a kidney when you know u dont love her. Humans have an insatiable greed in them anyway. This is just one of the exhibits. Nevertheless, no need staying with her when u know u dont love her. You will be hurting yourself and your partner if you keep pretending. But just know you are heavily indebted to humanity and nature. And you will be forced to pay the price when they come knocking. All the best.!!!! This is my answer @ Kess Gbemre

  14. Give her back her kidney

  15. You are fantastically idiot to hurt her after she gave you a second chance to live again.

  16. Aliyu Bawan-Allah

    Remove it & return it back 2 her.

  17. Return it simple,she was gving the kidney to the love of her life

  18. Alexander Wood

    Return the kidney, laaa

  19. Return her kidney…QED

  20. Adegoke Anthony Lijirin

    woo.. i pity you .. if u don’t want to die untimely death.. u better continue to love her.eleda dey get person real bad o. barao…

  21. Jonathan Akyer-bassaw

    Give back her kidney

  22. Ibironke Badru

    Nothing u can d is only God tht will judge u

  23. Ibironke Badru

    Nothing u can d is only God tht will judge u

  24. Pangah Mazingaizo

    Give back her kidney ma’an n go n try to find ur brains where ever u last dropped them

  25. Pangah Mazingaizo

    Give back her kidney ma’an n go n try to find ur brains where ever u last dropped them

  26. Stephen Onyebuchi

    GIVE HER BACK HER KIDNEY SIMPLE.

  27. Stephen Onyebuchi

    GIVE HER BACK HER KIDNEY SIMPLE.

  28. Give her back.lol

  29. Give her back.lol

  30. Chinwendu Jacinta

    It’s simple give her back her kidney n then u can walk away

  31. Michael Bigwonder Obetoh

    Build the love for her. In those days our fathers and mothers never knew what is called love and they loved happily. So live like them

  32. Goodman Justice

    Give her kidneyback as simple as ABC

  33. Kill urself or beta still giv her back her kidney

  34. Kill urself or beta still giv her back her kidney

  35. Emmanuel Chibuike

    Thunder fire you cox you will soon die if you ever leave that girl

  36. Lizzy Kadzima Mukuruva

    Shame love is blind

  37. Lizzy Kadzima Mukuruva

    Shame love is blind

  38. Oga abeg return um…

  39. Oga abeg return um…

  40. Djabanor David Sackitey

    Go n give it back to her immediately b4 I get u arrested

  41. Djabanor David Sackitey

    Go n give it back to her immediately b4 I get u arrested

  42. Mosefe Tladi Jomo

    Just take the kidney back

  43. Return Back Her Kidney Thn Now Tht U Dont Love Her

  44. Mariagorathy Ngozi

    You are heartless and wicked….! God will help her to replace that kidney spiritually but as for u,u must surely pay for it in no distance time

  45. Maano Floyd Peme

    Thats a shem man return the kidney men poor girl.

  46. My guy just look at the bright side, false your self you would find something that will make you love her cuz she deserves your love

  47. Do Not take it set down talk to her about your not in luv anymore let her decide either she give it to you or just let you sleep in your grave early

  48. You are a mad man! Near don’t post this your nonsense because you are wicked and heartless. You must do whatever you can to love the innocent girl

  49. Anagor Chinedu Paul Assortedwealth

    May thunder destroy you

  50. Hahahahahahaaaaaaa una no go kill me here oooo

  51. U are just joking

  52. Bildady K Kiprotich

    Mburu Njeri see men who deserve to die nowU0001f602

  53. Portia Davhana

    Return the kidney.

  54. James Omiyinka Akinbowale

    No problem, life goes on. but make sure u return her kidney back. chikena!?

  55. Give her back the kidney and go n die bcoz u don’t deserve it

  56. Apuu Bem Pascal

    Dont even try leaving bcos u know where u go end and i tell u u will be a tragedy

  57. Just as we are ungrateful to christ who give His life for us,so is this man. He can only say thank you when the thirst of food is still in his mouth. Probably when the pains were there while on the hospital bed. You and your girlfriend return to Jesus and he will see u through.

  58. Oji Izu Praise

    Guy have you taking ur drugs be4 coming to media to say nonsense talk I believe is not only kidney problem u have both mental have joined ur cases don’t allow God to be angry with you agent of devil

  59. Shakia Korieocha

    Easier said than done but yes I get it.

  60. Then my brother pliz give her back her kidney

  61. Abi Fantasia Lovia

    By power, by force or return back her kidney as fast as possible to survive in this world !!!

  62. free her now, but dnt fail to give her back her kidney or i ripe it off myself. u dnt even knw d meannig of love

  63. Amara Bella Bisty

    U are hereby charge for abuse and misconduct. I therefore put it to u that u should return d said kidney or face d judgment, this is related to section 106 of d constitution of federal republic of Nigeria.

  64. Abraham Kwaku Baah

    Kill yr self cos u knows the answer yr self !!

  65. Kill urself. That’s all, nonsense. Ur a low life person, heartless, and the bad things in the world, that’s who u are

  66. Delali Dekportor

    # return her kidney. I love all the comments

  67. Idiot. How can she gave you life and your now telling her that you don’t love her anymore foolish man .then return her kidney to her and die if you don’t love her

  68. Jenny Emerald Arhebamhen

    U go return the kidney

  69. My advice “come here let me kill you slowly”

  70. Ogbedhere Emmanuel King

    Give her her kidney back,…………..

  71. Lee A. Fosu-Appiah

    I think all the ppl insulting u don’t know how it is to fall out of love with someone
    My dear u can’t force to love a babe because of what she has done for u so by all means walk out and pursue ur new interest after all life is too short to spend it in a loveless relationship but Oga one small thing : kindly remember to leave her kidney behind maybe so the person who will come for ur leftover will at least have a full human being.
    Mumu like ur type!!!!!!!!!!!

  72. Prisca Sabbastine

    Pple here are advising u. Me I will cause u. Nah God go punish u idiotic goat.

  73. Yenma Becky Odisiome

    Hmmmmm some men are so heartless and with dead conscience jeezzzz.

  74. Kwabena Douglas

    Marry her bcos she love you very much

  75. Good give her back her kidney big fool.

  76. Then return her kidney

  77. Daniel Nwachukwu

    u must be stupid ‘so after she hv saved ur life now u re no longer in love with her ( barstard)

  78. Myke Achunike Udefi

    TO DIE IS BETTER THAN SWALLOW YOUR VOMIT PROUD MAN BUT BE SURE OF YOUR ETERNAL DESTINATION BKS OF DOUBLE LOSS

  79. Christy Abiodun Asemota

    You are a wizard!

  80. Rosemary Odulaja

    Please return the gift, it was meant for her and she decided to share it with you. God gave u yours but don’t know what happened to yours so if you now want to go and share your life with someone else at least return her gift of life and see if the new woman have to share with you. You Good luck

  81. Nii Ekow K. Simpson

    Then give her back her kidney nonsense

  82. Go to hell u buster!!!

  83. Abeg u no get choice nw, ur tym 2 decide has expired is left for her not to take advantage of her kind gesture

  84. Mr feelings yes there an old saying sorry for maga dog he then turn back and bite you. So give back the life saviour kidney and dead you are ungrateful

  85. My brother the only help I can give you is to advise you to return the kidney back and go to hell. Somebody gave you what even your own blood sister can not do to you and you came on public to tell us you are not in love with her. Mumumumumunununu till death

  86. Joel Olugbemiga Ayantoyinbo

    simply return her kidney before breaking her heart, chikeena

  87. Justin Nwabuisi Teko

    Then be ready to return her kidney back

  88. You are an idiot to ask this kind of question may thunder fire you there in fact any day you leave that girl you will die in the same kidney problem idiot

  89. thunder wey go fire u,still dey do gym ,mumu Man

  90. Njoka Emmilliatte

    You be witch, idiot. Give her back her kidney n go away.

  91. Sokunbi Ademola Moh'd-Quasim

    Thunder fire you.

  92. Give her back her kindney

  93. Obruche Oscar Ator

    Give her kidney back and pay for the surgery

  94. Same to some women

  95. You are a n idiot

  96. A big lesson I must say. After someone has given you a second chance to live you are nown making choices. The kidney she gave you will not function the very day you break up with her. She is the reason for your living on earth let the will of God be done not your will.

  97. Catherine Agbedeh

    Give her back her kidney # simple #

  98. U r just an idiot, hw many girls can make such a sacrifice, u lucky dat u r alive plse & plse return her kidney to her as soon as possible & look for another donor, i think yr father made a mistake nt to put on de condom, u r heartless, never post dat kind of crump otherwise …

  99. Queenbee Dian Clarke

    Gi bk d gal har kidney…..
    .

  100. Lalla Sarah Motokara

    return the kidney nd move on

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