Mavin first lady, Tiwa Savage, has shared her opinion on se-x education for teenagers and youths in the society. The mother of one is of the opinion that instead of educating teenagers and youths on se-x abstinence, it is advisable to teach them how to practice safe se-x, because no matter how much you lecture
them, they ‘will still have se-x.’
In a recent chat with Hip TV, the 36-year-old songster said, “I think se-x education is very important. “As Africans, sometimes we advise the youths that the best way is to abstain and not have sex but you and I know it’s unrealistic.
They will have se-x. “It is okay to spread the message on se-x education among youths in the country but I feel it’s better for us to teach them how to have safe sex, instead of abstinence.”
She spoke further, noting that nothing had changed since she became a mother. According to her, “I think a lot of women will agree with me that when you give birth it doesn’t mean you’ll stop being se-xy at all. “I mean, it’s probably being se-xy that got us pregnant in the first place. So having a baby doesn’t change anything. It just makes me obviously more responsible. “I have a lot to live for; I have a lot to work for. But as a woman, I’m still who I am so that’s not gonna change,” the ‘Kele kele love’ songster noted.
If Tiwa actually said this, then God must visit her with fire. Do u believe in Bible or ur opinion? Who gave u D life u’re living today? D month one loose focus on heavenly things, that brings ones downfall. NB, “seek u first the kingdom of God and every other things will be added unto you”. My people perish because of lack of wisdom. I pray God will shower us His divine blessing in Jesus name.
You will surely pay for this deception. Sex can never be safer than in Marriage. Safe Sex is Legitimate Sex, which is in marriage. Fornication is outrightly so unsafe… even if you use condoms, will it save you from disobeying God? Will it save you from Hell Fire? Madam Tiwa Savage, I know your pay master…He has being decieving mankind since the beginning. Don’t decieve our young ones biko.
She is making sense
What has she said that is not the truth……Fact – many people start having sex at and early age……Fact – people have been preaching abstinence for so many years but it all fell on deaf years…..Fact… the number of teenage pregnancies is on the rise….so yes teach your children sex education…..We all dream out kids would abstain but its better to face reality that they might also have sex at an early age…..And to those trying to disagree tell the truth how old were you when you had sex and were you married???? Lets get real for once and do the right thing.
but look at the facts…how many young people are having sex before marriages….very many….people have been having sex way before Tiwa talked about it…..So this hell fire how will it help us stop the teen pregnancy that is on the rise??
its good that both be taught, abstinence and safe sex so those who choose the other will then knw how to deal with the consequences
Fact is, youths would hardly abstain no matter how hard you try to let them know why it is better they should, its better the society teaches them the safety of it, periodd.
@uncle Chinedu……fire qwa! God isn’t man….get dat ok!
there are still many beautiful african boys and girls who practice abstinence, i belief they are
God bless u for that wonderful msg my brother jose an inspire u more.
You’re not serious U0001f643
Well, it can never be better to follow man’s way other than God’s way. Abstinence is the safest. It is a pride. Well, it is only the unruly that finds it difficult. Once you start kicking against God’s precepts, be ready for further consequences. Soon, you all we say it is good for youths to practice homosexuality….since some still indulge in it. May God have mercy for my generation
u are right tiwa
Rosana Philda well spoken
José Ernest Okocha brain washed dey worry u …. weytin concern God about sex…. our present condition in nigeria pass hell fire…. bro pack well abeg!
Rosana Philda, teaching ur children “safe sex” which is actually unsafe, is prefering to live your life in total rebellion with God. Whatever your facts are, the problem with man is rebellion…it is rebellion that makes you see teenagers going into sex, protected as safe…while they are going into eternal damnation.
West, I promise you this, on this very day as my witness and by this very time 1:49:17 PM; that you must give account of that statement you made now in tears; and will wish you never made it. If only it would be forgiven you.
José Ernest Okocha you are 100 +% right.
Like seriously, dat is fornication… Is she a doctor? Honestly speaking i don’t think she is d person dat said dis cus if she is d one den she is sick in d #brain
Jose Ernest okocha.. lets be realistic with what is going on in our society, u will see kids of 10, 11..e.t.c having sex and parents won’t know even teens… Yes, abstaining from sex is d best but how many teens do abstain from it or even youth? The best way is to teach them how to have safe sex from all dis infection outside when they have d knowledge of it then they can prevent from infection and the ones that want to abstain. God will give them d grace n forgive those who didn’t abstain.. 2)if u are God u would have destroy d world with anger, he guy only say his mind no need of cursing him. only God know d saint not even is perfect. We are all trusting in his grace.
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Temitope A A, that’s the same way you will soon speak for gays with the way our society is fast turning. Let’s face the #Truth and leave the #Fact. Jesus is the #Truth. The Truth leads to life, but the facts will never remain substantial. It might hold water now, but will fail. Let’s teach our young ones the fear of God. The Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. If we tend to fear God, we won’t be deliberating on this. I won’t teach my children to safe sex, cos that’s not my duty. I will teach them sex is good in marriage and is regrettable outside marriage. I will help them emotionally through the challenges. I will help them see the Truth and not the facts.
José Ernest Okocha …. hahahahahh… u bi comedian?.. very funny
West, your case is settled, funnily though
You cannot give what you don’t have. You just gave what you have. My prayers is that the Almighty God will show you the way of righteousness in the Mighty name of Jesus.
Wanna have safe sex with her
People like u wil even go to d extent of quiting relationship if she didn’t agree to have sex wit u, pretenders do d worst!!!
Thanks Victoria for saying that trash and refering it to me. Well, I am what I am in Christ.
Clap for yourself
ok start with ur kind
God bless u bro Jose José Ernest Okocha. Abstinence is safest….until u married. That’s what we Christians should impact teens and youth when teaching them sex education. That’s what exactly God what from Us. Sex in marriage is more safest. Those that know the truth will understand. God bless us all.
Its only Tiwa’s opinion because I guess she couldn’t keep it in her pants anyways. But the truth still stands. Truth has nothing to do with how we feel or public opinion. But God forgives.
🙂 God bless you significantly for this post in the next 24hours from now in Jesus name. @UjuBekee
That’s good dear
Madam I am sure you are not a mother
What nonsense is that
Ojoma Medugu are u referx to me or u
im not only a mother of my kids but many- we are not even here to rub shoulders on children matters, who has and who hasnt. its a place to give ideas and i gave one in support of children not against. read weell.. and before u adress people in future like this, be care on social media, u may just be hurting a woman who hasnt got kids. i forgive u
Point well spoken dear , God bless you , ( from Uganda)
Jose Ernest I think you know what you saying maybe you want to have many likes!! do you think it’s only sex that lead one to hell fire? Or don’t you think that husband and wife can equally go to hell fire. Why don’t we practice what we preach for once? You’re here preaching for us to abstinence from sex, while you’re there dangling ur manhood on other Pple daughters. Sex education is very important, educate your kids on how to go about sex, b4 a young man out there teaches her/he. It’s very important and it’s help to prevent unwanted pregnancy and infections.
If we don’t teach our kids on how to go about sex, believe me young men or women are there will teach them, then parents will end up regretting. Why is it so difficult for people to understand that sex education is important? Children of this days have gone astray together cuz they lack the knowledge.
Very true, good sex education is what our society and world needs.
Another south african method. one wonder what happens to comon sense and morality…
Ur making sense but again better to know what ur geting urslf into than total foolish on that forbidden root..
Onyema Blessed, please read me, I am a witness. I don’t just preach, am an evidence of it, by the special grace of God. Thanks for the aspersion, and may God forgive you for what you have said. You talked to the wrong person…I won’t lay a harmful word on you, but would warn you to desist resisting the word of God. If you do, it shall be well with you.
Pretenders in this page why can’t you admit what the young woman said is true, is like some of you have not come across all this “mummy pikin” them that were not giving chance at home to have sex but when they enter high institution they will try to recover the ones they never did.
I guess because of her guilt, but she shouldn’t use her guilt as basis for such immoral advice.
Was she taught before she had sex????
Abstinence is not only a biblical principle but a moral/ cultural principle. Anything less makes you inhuman (that is, you not only sin against God, you sin against your fellow man as well)
It’s hard to abstain but when you give your life to Christ and allow the Holy spirit to lead (live your life) for you, you’ll succeed till God shows you the right partner for marriage, and after that you can do that as you wish.
The fear of the lord Is the beginning of wisdom. Fools despise it to perish!!!
Be warned!!!
Frank Kingsley Uzoma we all sinners…..id it not the forbidden fruit…we have all broken part or most of the 10 commandments…we al human we make mistakes n some of us learn from them…so if you can find a way to protect your child from the best mistake you will take it.
José Ernest Okocha so since sex is never safe why do we need it….its the same as refusing to immunise…..safe sex is making sure when your child start having sex…she knows how to protect themselves from getting sick or pregnant…..better prevention than cure…..
José Ernest Okocha teens do not get into sex coz of rebellion its coz of curiosity…..because all they hear is do not do this do not do that……..
My question is she a born again christian? İf not she need to give her life to Jesus
She’s right. We were all told to abstain, but did we?
Are u a Christan at all. This lady is just getting me angry
Choosing the easy way out. No sex outside marriage
Wat u saying, then regret later why u didn’t keep yourself
Some comments here are stupid
Best comment award.
Abstinence should be taught as the best policy. But safe sex should still be taught, maybe once your married you decide to hold off on the kids till your ready. Win win.
Ewere Oyeze why would I regret it…..if you do not teach your child to protect himself or herself then you will be the one to regret when he or she becomes a young mum or dad or even die trying to to abort to save face…..
Gossip mill nawaooo
Rosana Philda while i understand about the outcomes of unsafe sex, however I strongly believe that the fear that comes from the forbidden of underage sex can prevent one to stay abstinence and also seek education should they decide to have sex. Let us be careful when we talk about underage sex assuming most kids are practicing them. Statistically, western world has high percentage of teenage sex, even though they educate their teens about it. It is not merely about educating, it is about being consistence and for teens to not give EXCUSE about gaining info regarding sex. We live in a world where we are prone to accepting anything that carries popularity, which is wrong. B4 u want to practice sex seek knowledge, books, internet, research, peers, even social media, etc but thus should not be accented as a normal norms from our elders or education system
The fear of God Almighty is the beginning of wisdom. I rest my case.
Tiwa! Tiwa!! Tiwa!!! How many times did I called you? Hmmm! Deviate your self from the wrought of God Almighty.
Philippa Kanda Yes the western world had teen sex with a low rate of teen pregnancy but in Africa we have teen sex with a high rate of teen pregnancy…that is waht we need to lower….teens will have sex even if you scare them they will just not let you know about it…..how many will seek advice for social media and that is even the worst place to get advice…..the best advice comes from our parent those who care about us.
You’re still a teenager don’t contribute into this matter ok
Pls dear, i said Western world has a high percentage of teen pregnancy than Africa..read it again
Social media can share some relevant news regarding topic..the world is forward now. Balance what u read in order to make an informed decision regarding any topic. I also mentioned about other means of gaining info not just social media..
Philippa Kanda are you for real pliz get me those stats….where western world has a higher teen pregnancy???
Anything outside the TRUTH (word of God) is from the pit of hell. Woman, you sure are a demon from hades.
Rosana Philda, ofcux western world d hv higher percentage of teen pregnancy, some of them In California or NY, where I hv lived got pregnant from 9years on a consists basis, so, my dear Philippa Kanda, doesn’t hv to show it to u on paper…. That’s facts!!!
Osita Dinma its always good to be informed so here is some information for you…..http://www.who.int/maternal_child_adolescent/topics/maternal/adolescent_pregnancy/en/
Osita Dinma funny how you live there n you are not informed…its good to get your facts straight…..
Hey old man what do u know about sex education, i don’t even think u went to school atall
True talk dear,speaking from experience
Sin started cos of curiosity. Fear God, and you will remain safe.
thank God u have a child now so start with ur own child