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I’m 38. I’m a nice person. All I have ever dreamed of is being married. I know I would make the perfect wife. I’m not jealous, I’m not a pushover, yet I would devote myself to making sure my husband is happy.

Deep down, I want to feel needed. I want to be the person who fusses over my husband’s dinner, who keeps a perfect running household and still manages to look elegant and beautiful at dinnertime. I want to be taken care of, to be looked after, but more importantly to feel safe. All my friends are getting married, some of them to guys who are really, really below their league, and yet I cannot find anyone who wants to marry me. I’m constantly searching for that one person who will be my saviour.
My greatest fear is that I will end up alone.I can see myself at 40, still single and living in a little flat that I bought at 38, which seemed super independent and grown-up but at 40 seems like the biggest humiliation.

351 thoughts on “Too Bad! I Long To Be A Good Wife But Can’t Find Anyone To Marry Me”

  1. Marion-cherie Abdullahi

    Hahahaha I cnt stop laughing U0001f601,NA only u never marry? Pray to God and he will give u one.

  2. Marion-cherie Abdullahi

    Hahahaha I cnt stop laughing U0001f601,NA only u never marry? Pray to God and he will give u one.

  3. Gloria Tsakani Hlungwani

    Yes thats what im saying no guy wil look at her but if shes more sexy evn a younger man wil aproch tyms has change

  4. Lorna Ombati

    never loss hope continue praying God will answer ur pray & have faith,with God everthing is possible

  5. Mhar-Lhon MC

    He he he he….. Wave your hands to those single out thereU0001f603U0001f603U0001f603U0001f603who’s looking also for her true love…..see dis woman if she gonna pass her personality according in your taste!!!!U0001f61bU0001f61bU0001f61b
    goodluck to u my dear hope u can find ur true love….

  6. Lelley Emmanuel Fearless

    my dear do u believe social media can get u a gud marriage? is high time we go back to our creator, marriage is of God

  7. Collins M Ekele

    Selection is the problem of some women, looking for tall, handsome and swarg guys but don’t care if the guy have good character or not all they need is handsome, tall and swarg, those are the issues of late marriage.

  8. Ikolo Jessica

    My dear, God Cares, he sees d heart, he knows our pain, he will hear u and give u ur heart desire OK, is never too late, God has just answer ur call, smile on Aunty

  9. Qozeem Orkeh Kolawole

    Your comment stinks! I won’t blame you for saying this bcos u change guys like a toothbrush. Can u imagine what a woman of that age will feel for being single till this age? Come on babe, learn how to console and to give advice. Ok?
    Good day.
    (Wish me happy birthday)

  10. Adebayo Isaac Adeyemi

    Just dedicate your life to God and see how God will turn things around for you.

  11. Obioma Jesus

    I don’t think this story is true how can she be searching for a husband and hide her name and where she came from, well if it is true feel free to add me i need a matured lady like you thanks

  12. Solomon Lazarus

    You don’t worry yourself so much, God will bring you your rightful husband, God’s time is the best, just be prayerful, you still have time

  13. Grazzy Pressy

    Looking for husband? Now social media don make women yeye ooo, does it mean no man ever wanted to marry u abi na iyanga lead you here? If na iyanga just know say ur own don finish be that but if no man at all then go back to your village with a strong man of God cause witch dey wear weg na ooo.

  14. Frank Kingsley Uzoma

    Good advice the problm is would thy have that patience to wait. thy excuses wil b time thy go

  15. For those who think they ‘re better at thinking deeper than others ‘re yet to proffer solution or advice.

  16. ThankGod Chigeru

    When a woman say her age pls add 5 to it dats her real age,she is 43.come to me I will give u a husband wit a Certificate.

  17. Frank Kingsley Uzoma

    Madam theres somthing inside you you havent bn able to tap into once you dd the right man wil poop up.

  18. Daprinc Henry Ogoke

    chai!… Now na morning! 40% of what you want de abroad de fine money, 40% don marry, 20% don turn to golddiggers.
    Go tell your government, nobe facebook foult.

  19. Aisha Macauly

    this lady must be a christian lady..cryin out for marriage,muslim can’t do such tin in d air..am proud to be a muslim..Allah Akbar

  20. Barnabas Njuguna

    These are the types of during their teens,they abuse men excessively,they feel that no man around is of their class, feel that they are super humans on top of the world…but as clock ticks away,is when they realise that they are not super humans and a MAN is important in a WOMAN’S life and NONE is USELESS….

  21. You are a disappointment to your religion for saying thatU0001f621U0001f621

  22. Natola Christie

    God will make it happen soon just keep on being a prayerful woman like Sara

  23. Ayelokun Hercease Olanrewaju

    You’re bad market.. from fried pan to fire. U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602

  24. Murphy Aigbekaen

    If getting married is your desire, please take it to the lord God in prayers. God has great plans for you. Read the Bible: Jeremiah 9 verse 11. But after marriage, please don’t forget God.

  25. You look nice but who kwos….Any way come come let me introduced you to a biz dt will make u happy and u will see dem rushing even at the age of 50 …but u look older than ur age…am a swiss garde distributor

  26. Rosana Philda

    I need more info on what a so called good wife is….or good husband is…..coz if you have a list down then someone san easily pretend to be the ‘good wife’…..Being a good husband or wife to me means being a good partner n person….it has less to do with what one can do but has more to do with who the person is.

  27. Ezenwa Livinus

    This same Allah akbar. boko harams always shouted. before executing their victims. If I hear ehhhhh

  28. Good people do not praise themselves but rather being praised by others, It is highly unlikely that you are who you proclaimed to be. Do not praise yourself in an attempt to lure unsuspecting individual to fall in for you and take the bait.

  29. Faith Ella Enesi

    Did you also know her past life? Is she a vagin? Coz of her words you are feeling bad have you live with her and get close to know the real her? Grace matters alot

  30. Quasi Richibee

    N it seems u are older than your age o but u dnt give up your mr right is comn.

  31. Prince Brooklyn Spanish

    I know some of u will find this comment useless, some won’t even read it, some will talk about it & some will criticise it. But I will write it anyway because I don’t care. Ur opinions or views about this comment doesn’t count. I wrote it for a reason so I won’t remove it for an excuse, trust me. So, all I wanted to say is. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

  32. Alline Art Chris Joyce

    Wait for Gods time. more over marrige isn’t a must my dear sister. Yes is every ladies dream to have a lovely husband and lovely home so calm down move on with ur life. Be happy with yourself love yourself don’t det such give u worries for sure the right man will find u.

  33. Keep it up,you gonnq hv one.God knows the rite hour for u.but stay off babalawo

  34. Sly Shola Tijani

    Am gonna marry u if u don’t mind the age difference coz u re older than me with just 2 years but I’m interested u

  35. Moses Friday G

    Hmmm b4 now, I tot it is only commodity like phones, cars, clothings, electronics, food items, etc that they use to place on advert like this. I don’t knw that it has gotten to this where ladies now place themselves on advert, hmmm God no go let am bad for us reach this level.
    Incase u get d man, don’t blame him if he start to treat u like his shoe ooo, days d way he willlater see u no mata how good u think u r

  36. @gabriel Agbiwor see me and Nigerians.must everything be spiritual…character matters.i know a lady.very very beautiful.u will mistake her for a Fulani,very good looking ,but her character God is even questioning her behavior,men re also questioning her behavior even me too

  37. Sunday Ricardo Richard

    Reason while you still single,is bcos you lies a lot while did I say so?you lie about your age here

  38. Sunday Ricardo Richard

    Reason while you still single,is bcos you lies a lot while did I say so?you lie about your age here

  39. Ugwu Kenneth E

    1,2,3,4,5,6,7,9,10,11,12,13,14,15,16,17,18,19,20,21,22,23,24,25,26,27,28,29,30,31,32,33,34,35,36,37,38……all these years you have been praying for a husband and he didn’t come, try being a Rv sister maybe that’s your destiny.

  40. Raymond Jambeidu

    Have you prayed to God about this your dream dear? If not please do.God also longing to have you as a doughter and then He will appoint a sweetable befitting Husband for you in no time

  41. Hmmm…its not of him that willeth,nor of him that runneth,but of God who showeth mercy.Take it to God in prayers and see surprise…its all in good time!!!

  42. Lora Lau Ra Ununushe

    Only God gives husband, I prayed the God I serve will give you that perfect man u always desired!

  43. Falako Damilola Oluwaseun

    Pls contact me on whatapps,am living in lagos nd u,08161809206,i av sm tin for u.

  44. Paulpapa Omoyebagbe

    Go to Mountain Of Fire And Miracle Ministries prayer city in Lagos.You will testify of the Goodness of God

  45. Chinyere Mbaegbu Oyeka

    I think maybe b/c u live alone no guidance& wealthy.secondly u need to go for deliverance in a living Church like Scoan,the lords chosen & champion church at Abuja i think some thing is wrong spiritually. After prayer there will be a good news.

  46. Don’t worry God is keeping u for d best man ur not old I know u get one nice man soon jst be happy and keep doing ur tin wish u d best

  47. One thing I have learnt about life is, that,when u put ur mind so much on such things it just won’t happen at that time. Marriage and child bearing does come as a surprised alot. Focus ur mind on something else while u pray,best believe marriage will come and you saying u not jealous ur just telling the man that it okay to cheat which is wrong. Seek God and ur parents blesses thing will happen that u won’t except.

  48. If you show interest now n that her that you live in the village not lagos, she will tell you bros please Waka commot make I see road pass, that is some of our women for you oooooooo

  49. I salute u.U are one in a million.U r bold and u know what u want.Tell them.I wonder y so many unmarried men r not marrying so many unmarried ladies

  50. Nelson D Angel

    I’m here please U0001f60dU0001f60dU0001f60dU0001f60dU0001f60d age is just a number U0001f615U0001f606

  51. Prince Johnson

    My dear your problem has finished, start rejoicing because God has answered your prayers, my grandfather just called me some minutes ago and asked me to get him a wife that will take care of his old age, my grandmother that suppose to do the work died 2years ago. so if you’re interested to marry my grandfather please contact me

  52. Sorry ooo , I think you are out of the champions league now so go back to the local league .. Good luck to you ..

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