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Too Bad! I Long To Be A Good Wife But Can’t Find Anyone To Marry Me

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I’m 38. I’m a nice person. All I have ever dreamed of is being married. I know I would make the perfect wife. I’m not jealous, I’m not a pushover, yet I would devote myself to making sure my husband is happy.

Deep down, I want to feel needed. I want to be the person who fusses over my husband’s dinner, who keeps a perfect running household and still manages to look elegant and beautiful at dinnertime. I want to be taken care of, to be looked after, but more importantly to feel safe. All my friends are getting married, some of them to guys who are really, really below their league, and yet I cannot find anyone who wants to marry me. I’m constantly searching for that one person who will be my saviour.
My greatest fear is that I will end up alone.I can see myself at 40, still single and living in a little flat that I bought at 38, which seemed super independent and grown-up but at 40 seems like the biggest humiliation.

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351 comments

  1. Gloria Tsakani Hlungwani

    Go out there en start looking en stop hiding in the house

  2. Rita Olori Abisola

    Oluwa please provide this beautiful woman a good husband, amen.

  3. Donna Van Daal

    STRANGE!!MAYBE YOUR TO KIND HIHI

  4. Gloria Tsakani Hlungwani

    Try to look sexy a bit comb ur hair en romove that thing in ur head u will wear it after u got ur man

  5. Akorefe Oghenefure

    Inbox me let me arrange husband 4 u

  6. Relax. Talk to God about it. Am sure God will answer your prayers

  7. Nwanneka Chris Augunus Ebere

    If u are not jealous, how then can u love the man u are looking for?..

  8. Contact me for a visa to Canada.USA.Australia

  9. Wtf datz wat dey say at first U0001f601..

  10. Soladoye Ebenezer

    Prayer is the key!

  11. Nii DoDoo Dimpson

    Am also single & searching for a only understanding lady who will love me for who I am

  12. Abdallah Tuwano

    Be patient and pray to God ,everything will be fine

  13. God ur the founder of marriage, where ever her better half is hiding make him uncomfortable till he finds her

  14. I hav a husband for uu..contact me I’ll lead u to him..

  15. Benjamin Irene Ojone

    Prayer is d only solution ,because delay is nt a cause……

  16. Go back to your root dear, they might be a problem, because a times that’s where most people got their problems from.

  17. Am also available for u

  18. You re old enough to perform the action

  19. Abimbola Ibukunoluwa

    Gloria Tsakani Hlungwani u are wonderful with ur comment.

  20. My sister, you will find someone God has for you.

  21. You are suppose to Look for who to marry not will marry you.
    Marriage is for women.

  22. Something is Missing here.Something is definitely wrong.How can such a beautiful looking lady like this say she is finding difficult to a husband….You need to look inward.look at d mirror and do a soul search,then u get your answer.

  23. Odighi Omoruyi

    real husband doesn’t come through facebook, keep trusting in God

  24. But in those days only homely girls get married ..now club girls are the one

  25. Ogunade Simbiat Busayo Adenusi

    Dont be in haste and become a second wife oooooo

  26. Alexander Goldhoorn

    Come to holland ..!!!

  27. Omon Stanleyboy

    Prayer is the key sister

  28. Chijioke Okezie

    is well with your soul.

  29. Dnt worry
    Da gud lord Wil grant u Ur hrt desires ijn amen cheers
    All will be well just believe in God

  30. Rachealgold Alamina

    Sandra Na pastor fit u.U ve a good heart

  31. Rachealgold Alamina

    Sandra Na pastor fit u.U ve a good heart

  32. Where were you When you were 20year old?

  33. Where were you When you were 20year old?

  34. Adamu Abdulkarim Dlakwa

    Inbox me i have one for you

  35. Adamu Abdulkarim Dlakwa

    Inbox me i have one for you

  36. Hannatu Abdullahi

    My dear marriage no be small thing ooo but keep praying may God grant you your heart desires

  37. My dear, kip prayin nd God wil do it dis yr. Jst av faith in Him

  38. U need God in ur life . With God everything is possible.

  39. Feiz para ti

  40. Almighty GOD will bless you with a good husband

  41. Jokpa Silas Ojachiere

    pls young lady dnt and never entertain the fear that would remain single cos they may become ur lot, u hv all it takes to become a good wife just put ur hope in God and look unto him alone and I bet u will return to this same page with ur testimonies in the shortest time. and pls also understand that God is never late, see u in rings soon

  42. Chigozie Okoroafor

    Inbox me ur digits I’ll help u in pray until something happens. Be fast about it if u a serious.

  43. Uzoma Collins Ik

    Prayer to God

  44. Odewole Olatunde

    Contact me, am OK for u. Tabx

  45. Keep calm God will bless you with your desired husband in no time.

  46. Adigun Shakirudeen Babatunde

    u go marry me

  47. Nkemakonam Chukwu

    contact me i will help you

  48. Obi Rich Emerald

    Marriage is a mystery. The bad girls keep getting married while the good ones stays in their father’s compound.

  49. Zinsu Stany Cyril

    Na so so mouth

  50. If ur real u maybe perfect match….. contact me through whatsapp +923045207133

  51. My dear, l no hobby could be found anywhere but dis medium of search n publicity isn’t to healthy for a worthy person like u as claimed. There are so many dogs, he goats n serpent here. Be watchful still and don’t allow anyone ruin ur virtues. JEHOVAH IS STILL ABLE TO JIRE HUSBAND FOR U N DON’T BE DISMAYED BY UR AGE….

  52. At this age, you’ll definitely know the value of a husband

  53. May God ans ur prayers.

  54. Zinsu Stany Cyril

    Which single responsible brother will marry her?

  55. Uchenna Nnamani Urchman

    38 + 6 = 44 all women do minus there age ,God well give u ur husband ok

  56. There is no sickness without cure. You will surely marry ur man if u won’t be too desperate. Let me assist you

  57. Obinna Ike Eze

    Hard luck my dear, but its not all about getting married. Life is much more than just getting married, just focus on God.

  58. Ben Orieoghene

    You are not alone ooo

  59. Javed Wazed Rubel

    Can you go for second wife ?

  60. Kip praying is a matter of time….have faith in Allah

  61. Inbox me

  62. Emmanuel Ifebi

    Each and everyone of us has his or her own destiny. Follow your destiny woman. God’s time is the best as l believe God has something in stock for you. It will come at God’s own appointed time. Don’t be too desperate for a husband lest you make a mistake you will live to regret. I know you need a husband. There are so many men out there. You will not like to marry a kidnapper, armed robber, or somebody who may use you for Juju to make money. I don’t know your religion, but , whichever religion you belong to, keep your fingers crossed and pray to Our Almighty Father to grant you, your heart’s desire, Amen.

  63. In box me ‘ so we can talk dear u dont need dis publication

  64. Valter Loi-Heng

    You’re 38 and nice person…??? Depends what you consider a nice person….!
    At this age and single, you must be so miserable with lots of issues and nobody interested. Pray maybe there’s someone out there same as you. God luck 4u both ….

  65. Ibrahim Abdulmumini

    Will you marry my father?

  66. Ogunbowale Ade

    Although time wait for no one, pray and be mindful of what you want and desire. Your perfect man is just very near, in a short while you will sing praises.

  67. Just tell God what you want and when you want it then get out of the house attend functions and always put on a beautiful stop trying to play the role of a man be submesive God will work it out I know a lady getting married today @ 42

  68. God can grant u all ur heart desire is better late than never he will come ur heart of heart is very close to u. key ur faith and believe God want d best among d best for u be hopeful.

  69. Olaoluwa Oyeniyi

    Just have faith in God !

  70. It could be a spiritual problem, not necessarily a problem of attitude.

  71. Too selective during her past life.

  72. Taye Thompson Amadasun

    My dear. May the Lord almighty hear the voice of your cry and see your needs.

  73. Ogunade Simbiat Busayo Adenusi

    yes she can still get married to a single brother for every single woman there is a single man i bliv let her wait upon Allah and Allah will definitely surprise her bcos 4 every divorce in a marriage started mostly from a man bringing in another woman and no woman will be happy to av a second except dat woman did not love her husband and every man too dat brings in another woman did definitely not love d woman so don’t let her be haste to put her innocent unborn children in trouble

  74. Gods time is the best.

  75. Prince Okwudili

    She is looking for husband while some like Tiwa savage is pushing theirs to commit suicide.

  76. Naija guys eeewo can’t stop laughing! Awoof dey run belle o! Whoever posted this for her ain’t helping her, cos on here u just exposed yourself to team of players, heart breakers and others! Rather talk to your creator… He created you Delay ain’t denial… wait for your time! A happy single lady is better than a crying married woman! Don’t be deluded God’s time is the best

  77. Afam Onyekwelu

    Go to God in prayers abt that ad remember that there is noting he can not do ur still too young.

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  79. My dear what ever reiligion you belong give yourself to God work of God and believe that Almighty fa will surely answer you

  80. Go to ur village u wl fine ur own husband der waiting 4 u…& stop actin

  81. Hilairus Ilario Hilaire

    Man u are physically dead with that man on stats..

  82. Adekanye Yomisola

    Is better to be late than to be in wrong relationship,God time is d best,be patient

  83. Which state re u frm

  84. Azubuike Jude Jucel

    It happens… So sad though

  85. Dis my number 08179020132

  86. Akindoyin Tunde Immanuel

    I think you are good at giving advice… in my own opinion, this is the best advice as far as this post is concerned

  87. Give me call xo we can talk

  88. Jindu Anthony E'dilichukwu

    Such is life dear, is nt he dat willeth or he dat runneth but God dat showeth mercy. Pray for mercy of God door of marriage will open in ur life

  89. ok send your adress .there is solution for you.any problem is simple infront of God.

  90. Amaka Emeka Ani

    God never late, He is still the God of yesterday, today and forever just believe he will surely grant u ur heart desire AMEN.

  91. Asafo Adjei Junior

    They only realise they are nice people, humble, caring, God fearing and what not after they hit 30s 9ja gals too de form. Too much packaging during their young age when they think they own the world and will be forever young.

  92. Princess Melissa Terhayene

    Rita Abikwi God bless you for that mature and lovely comment some people just don’t think deep before they comment thank dear xx

  93. Adebisi Rasheed

    Can I have ur contact? Or are u on Facebook? Am Adebisi Rasheed.

  94. John Collins Onyekachi

    Prayer works with what you said to yourself,that what bring birth to your heart desires,pls.stop saying negative words for your marital issues,God created everything in this world with His mouth by start saying let there be light from darkness,pls Dear sister start sayin,the man you want,when and mostly have faith,God will lead you to the man as God led Rebecca to the servant of Issac in Jesus name,Amen

  95. Ephesians Nosakhare

    Announcement na only u never marry for the world not only Facebook you go still go tell them YouTube. I dislike when women comes out and say rubbish and some start saying they problems here. Let men change as buhari said stop looking for big money before marrie or have car excess me gossip mill Nigeria

  96. Pretty Nduta Ndush

    My sister got married at 50,,,to a very good man,,,Gods time is the best.

  97. Unfortunately the world is changing…
    The youth now no longer wish for someone who can cook clean up the house or however nicer you can be..
    I guess someone as beautiful as Rihanna or Beyoncé.. Mention them lol ?

  98. Princess Melissa Terhayene

    Ekwe praisy lol marriage councillor pffffffff

  99. Benjamin Latevi

    But anything am sigle

  100. Benjamin Latevi

    But anything am sigle

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