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I’m 38. I’m a nice person. All I have ever dreamed of is being married. I know I would make the perfect wife. I’m not jealous, I’m not a pushover, yet I would devote myself to making sure my husband is happy.

Deep down, I want to feel needed. I want to be the person who fusses over my husband’s dinner, who keeps a perfect running household and still manages to look elegant and beautiful at dinnertime. I want to be taken care of, to be looked after, but more importantly to feel safe. All my friends are getting married, some of them to guys who are really, really below their league, and yet I cannot find anyone who wants to marry me. I’m constantly searching for that one person who will be my saviour.
My greatest fear is that I will end up alone.I can see myself at 40, still single and living in a little flat that I bought at 38, which seemed super independent and grown-up but at 40 seems like the biggest humiliation.

351 thoughts on “Too Bad! I Long To Be A Good Wife But Can’t Find Anyone To Marry Me”

  1. Gloria Tsakani Hlungwani

    Try to look sexy a bit comb ur hair en romove that thing in ur head u will wear it after u got ur man

  2. Nwanneka Chris Augunus Ebere

    If u are not jealous, how then can u love the man u are looking for?..

  3. Nii DoDoo Dimpson

    Am also single & searching for a only understanding lady who will love me for who I am

  4. Sandra James

    God ur the founder of marriage, where ever her better half is hiding make him uncomfortable till he finds her

  5. Happyib Ebah

    Go back to your root dear, they might be a problem, because a times that’s where most people got their problems from.

  6. You are suppose to Look for who to marry not will marry you.
    Marriage is for women.

  7. Something is Missing here.Something is definitely wrong.How can such a beautiful looking lady like this say she is finding difficult to a husband….You need to look inward.look at d mirror and do a soul search,then u get your answer.

  8. Metu Eja Nla

    But in those days only homely girls get married ..now club girls are the one

  9. Pretty Chila

    Dnt worry
    Da gud lord Wil grant u Ur hrt desires ijn amen cheers
    All will be well just believe in God

  10. Hannatu Abdullahi

    My dear marriage no be small thing ooo but keep praying may God grant you your heart desires

  11. Jokpa Silas Ojachiere

    pls young lady dnt and never entertain the fear that would remain single cos they may become ur lot, u hv all it takes to become a good wife just put ur hope in God and look unto him alone and I bet u will return to this same page with ur testimonies in the shortest time. and pls also understand that God is never late, see u in rings soon

  12. Chigozie Okoroafor

    Inbox me ur digits I’ll help u in pray until something happens. Be fast about it if u a serious.

  13. Obi Rich Emerald

    Marriage is a mystery. The bad girls keep getting married while the good ones stays in their father’s compound.

  14. If ur real u maybe perfect match….. contact me through whatsapp +923045207133

  15. My dear, l no hobby could be found anywhere but dis medium of search n publicity isn’t to healthy for a worthy person like u as claimed. There are so many dogs, he goats n serpent here. Be watchful still and don’t allow anyone ruin ur virtues. JEHOVAH IS STILL ABLE TO JIRE HUSBAND FOR U N DON’T BE DISMAYED BY UR AGE….

  16. Uchenna Nnamani Urchman

    38 + 6 = 44 all women do minus there age ,God well give u ur husband ok

  17. Amechi Chime

    There is no sickness without cure. You will surely marry ur man if u won’t be too desperate. Let me assist you

  18. Obinna Ike Eze

    Hard luck my dear, but its not all about getting married. Life is much more than just getting married, just focus on God.

  19. Emmanuel Ifebi

    Each and everyone of us has his or her own destiny. Follow your destiny woman. God’s time is the best as l believe God has something in stock for you. It will come at God’s own appointed time. Don’t be too desperate for a husband lest you make a mistake you will live to regret. I know you need a husband. There are so many men out there. You will not like to marry a kidnapper, armed robber, or somebody who may use you for Juju to make money. I don’t know your religion, but , whichever religion you belong to, keep your fingers crossed and pray to Our Almighty Father to grant you, your heart’s desire, Amen.

  20. Valter Loi-Heng

    You’re 38 and nice person…??? Depends what you consider a nice person….!
    At this age and single, you must be so miserable with lots of issues and nobody interested. Pray maybe there’s someone out there same as you. God luck 4u both ….

  21. Ogunbowale Ade

    Although time wait for no one, pray and be mindful of what you want and desire. Your perfect man is just very near, in a short while you will sing praises.

  22. Love Osaghae

    Just tell God what you want and when you want it then get out of the house attend functions and always put on a beautiful stop trying to play the role of a man be submesive God will work it out I know a lady getting married today @ 42

  23. God can grant u all ur heart desire is better late than never he will come ur heart of heart is very close to u. key ur faith and believe God want d best among d best for u be hopeful.

  24. Taye Thompson Amadasun

    My dear. May the Lord almighty hear the voice of your cry and see your needs.

  25. Ogunade Simbiat Busayo Adenusi

    yes she can still get married to a single brother for every single woman there is a single man i bliv let her wait upon Allah and Allah will definitely surprise her bcos 4 every divorce in a marriage started mostly from a man bringing in another woman and no woman will be happy to av a second except dat woman did not love her husband and every man too dat brings in another woman did definitely not love d woman so don’t let her be haste to put her innocent unborn children in trouble

  26. Prince Okwudili

    She is looking for husband while some like Tiwa savage is pushing theirs to commit suicide.

  27. Ola Mi Lekan

    Naija guys eeewo can’t stop laughing! Awoof dey run belle o! Whoever posted this for her ain’t helping her, cos on here u just exposed yourself to team of players, heart breakers and others! Rather talk to your creator… He created you Delay ain’t denial… wait for your time! A happy single lady is better than a crying married woman! Don’t be deluded God’s time is the best

  28. Afam Onyekwelu

    Go to God in prayers abt that ad remember that there is noting he can not do ur still too young.

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  30. My dear what ever reiligion you belong give yourself to God work of God and believe that Almighty fa will surely answer you

  31. Adekanye Yomisola

    Is better to be late than to be in wrong relationship,God time is d best,be patient

  32. Akindoyin Tunde Immanuel

    I think you are good at giving advice… in my own opinion, this is the best advice as far as this post is concerned

  33. Jindu Anthony E'dilichukwu

    Such is life dear, is nt he dat willeth or he dat runneth but God dat showeth mercy. Pray for mercy of God door of marriage will open in ur life

  34. ok send your adress .there is solution for you.any problem is simple infront of God.

  35. Amaka Emeka Ani

    God never late, He is still the God of yesterday, today and forever just believe he will surely grant u ur heart desire AMEN.

  36. Asafo Adjei Junior

    They only realise they are nice people, humble, caring, God fearing and what not after they hit 30s 9ja gals too de form. Too much packaging during their young age when they think they own the world and will be forever young.

  37. Princess Melissa Terhayene

    Rita Abikwi God bless you for that mature and lovely comment some people just don’t think deep before they comment thank dear xx

  38. John Collins Onyekachi

    Prayer works with what you said to yourself,that what bring birth to your heart desires,pls.stop saying negative words for your marital issues,God created everything in this world with His mouth by start saying let there be light from darkness,pls Dear sister start sayin,the man you want,when and mostly have faith,God will lead you to the man as God led Rebecca to the servant of Issac in Jesus name,Amen

  39. Ephesians Nosakhare

    Announcement na only u never marry for the world not only Facebook you go still go tell them YouTube. I dislike when women comes out and say rubbish and some start saying they problems here. Let men change as buhari said stop looking for big money before marrie or have car excess me gossip mill Nigeria

  40. Pretty Nduta Ndush

    My sister got married at 50,,,to a very good man,,,Gods time is the best.

  41. Unfortunately the world is changing…
    The youth now no longer wish for someone who can cook clean up the house or however nicer you can be..
    I guess someone as beautiful as Rihanna or Beyoncé.. Mention them lol ?

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