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Please Help: My Girlfriend Donated A Kidney To Me, But I’m Not In Love Anymore What Do I Do?

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Hi, I am 32years old and my girlfriend is 31years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

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486 comments

  1. Olawunmi Awojinrin

    Baba if u steal my 100h I go understand but giving out one of my kidirin & in return u deny me my right in ur heart…haaaa baba hell will break loose

  2. Vicky Beli Osedebamen

    i have see a cus like befor. After d woman donat her kidney d man, wil beat her everyday and call her names on one faithful day, while beating her he misstakely heat her heart and she died. That how d woman ghost came al d time and statr temet d man. And he becom mad. The lady take a rei wit her life too. Yo are now one witi her, becos if yo dont marry her, yo lif wil be cut shro.

  3. Bishop Princewill

    Abeg return back her Kidney.

  4. Oyewumi Olorunyomi

    first return her kidney* then I we advice you

  5. You dey mad.

  6. Why toy are not in love anymore? You should give it back. You idiot

  7. Put urself to bed n sleep to death..cos u worth not living

  8. Give her back her kidney …..quickly go and die because death is what you deserve

  9. You will realise wherever you go that love is accepting the other for the good and the weakness in them.

  10. Give it back to her

  11. Patricia Metivier

    You never love her because of her kindness you was going to cherish her so let a next woman rip out your heart as karma

  12. We need not look at this the wrong way things happen people change and I as a young woman also understand and been through similar I’ll advice him that he put her sit down and have a chat with her and let her express her feelings about the relationship yes she gave him a kidney out of love to save he’s life but sometimes she might also be feeling trapped in the relationship who are we to judge. Prevent issues and bigger problems later on by solving the small ones now talk to her we are humans and we are prone to errors and feelings.

  13. Even I fall in love with her for what she did for you.

  14. Yinka Orogun Adewumi

    You are an ingrate.return what belongs to her n let see how you will survive without her

  15. Jenniphere Banda

    Everyone is saying return the kidney….wait a min 1st. He might have loved her before the kidney, but it’s unfortunate those feelings ent there anymore. No need to waist time, let them part ways….her soul mate might be waiting for that opportunity. She should count him as charity n she has done her part.
    It’s better she moves on than to be unhappy for d rest of her life.

  16. Give her back her kidney is simply U0001f60d

  17. With all this comments. I believe the guy is dead already

  18. Chinedu Oguledo

    No problem at all, but return her kidney back first

  19. Oloruntola Horlarbici Mufuliat

    Since u re out of love with her then her kidney should be out of ur body too, the one u re in love with now will give u a kidney to replace that of the lady u fell out of love with. Anoufia… Buffon

  20. Holumi Kaystar

    You a fool. You want to love the idiots who refuse to help when you need help. You will force yourself to love her and find solution to problem behind your sudden fade love for her.

  21. My guy,you are nothing but an ingreat fool.that girl deserves an everlasting love from you,she deserves to be treated like a LADY that she is,she deserve all the best treatment from you.you don’t have to abandon her because she lay her expensive life for you.if you leave this girl just like that and say you don’t love her anymore, God of the father,the son and of the holy spirit will punish you for that.you should make that girl the person after your own heart.

  22. Martins Alfred

    U know how to crack jokes dont you? For better for worse it says..deal with it!

  23. Stupid go.to hell

  24. Divine Charles

    What do you know about love?

  25. Itumeleng Tsokeli Monethi

    Give it back

  26. Fabian Lo'Akora

    You’re an idiot. Abig one

  27. Please give her back

  28. Emmanuel Ifebi

    Moron, return her kidney to her. You don’t even love her at any point in time. You pretended to loving her so you can get the kidney from her. That’s Naija man’s way(419). Now that she donated a kidney to you, your eyes are now clear and the love has disappeared, turkey.

  29. U dey mad guy

  30. Give her,her kidney back now!why didn’t you say that when you are about to die,or because you don well now,why people are taking sacrifices for granted???

  31. Ogechi Laureen Mbuko

    Na die u deyU0001f64f

  32. Uche Skylett Uzokwe

    Cnt bliv u don’t feel love anymore Fr sm1 Dt save ur life…. Just wallowing in thought

  33. Why u don’t love her anymore?

  34. Vennesa Simpson

    Return her kidney n let the one u lobe donate it for u

  35. Moses Friday G

    Pls return her kidney back to, her, den u can leàve

  36. Stupid talk you’re not in love with her,then why do you accept her kidney animal?

  37. Adamazi Gift Okoroji-Udensi

    Men I feel for girls who risk their lives for some sick men. That kidney will fail idiot

  38. Augustine Ndosha Austine

    Is very simple bro just return the kidney

  39. Augustine Ndosha Austine

    Is very simple bro just return the kidney

  40. Selena Williams

    You shouldn’t even ask for help on this one Just give bk d woman r kidney.

  41. Selena Williams

    You shouldn’t even ask for help on this one Just give bk d woman r kidney.

  42. Okwy Amaechina

    If it’s true, you are heartless.. you will die soon

  43. Okwy Amaechina

    If it’s true, you are heartless.. you will die soon

  44. Return her kidney

  45. Return her kidney

  46. She should give you acid to drink

  47. She should give you acid to drink

  48. Amoateng Kwaku-Captain

    Is just simple, if u don’t love her again, all u need is to return her kidney.

  49. Amoateng Kwaku-Captain

    Is just simple, if u don’t love her again, all u need is to return her kidney.

  50. You are mad after she gave you her life and you don’t love her again

  51. You are mad after she gave you her life and you don’t love her again

  52. Xolani Rodney Ndzungu

    U cnt return someones kidney its against the law becus u gave some1 life

  53. Xolani Rodney Ndzungu

    U cnt return someones kidney its against the law becus u gave some1 life

  54. Brenda Chetachi

    You are crazy

  55. Brenda Chetachi

    Evil master, you don’t deserve her , big fool like you

  56. Akushomagon Samson

    You an idiot to asked that stupid question , return back her kidney now or are you waiting for baba lawo to tell this ????????

  57. Olaleye Medinah

    Mehn guy……you must love her by force ooo…..lols
    You owe her

  58. Ola Atta Ajewole

    Return her kidneyU0001f621

  59. No big thing Na u start to love No? And no be u go end am too. Just call her and give r back her kidney. So wth tht u know u don’t have anything to do her for life

  60. Return back her kidney and take from the person you think u love now fool

  61. Robert Alustephen

    You will die very stupid because you are heartless man

  62. U r very selfish n cruel

  63. Thabang Captain Palthabia Mashao

    Niqqa should return the kidney an die

  64. Kritsamon Lertsuwan

    Lincoln Koh legit

  65. Bitch why you tag me?

  66. Abi u know known waiting u dey talk ni, old boy l beg give her, d thing back kiakia,

  67. Teniola Bukola Amokeodo

    U did not know u did not love her when she gave u her kidney ingreat

  68. Kritsamon Lertsuwan

    I don’t know. I thought of you

  69. Bitch Terence Ng hahahah

  70. Well,d solution 2 dt is, give back her kidney I know she will say no blc her love is biger than ur.even she say no make sure u return it back if not.u will die early than ur time.

  71. Kenneth Onyekachi Felix

    give her back her kidney

  72. Kindly return her kidney back. Ungrateful human being

  73. Return her kidney back to her, see sense o.

  74. Give her kidney back so simple

  75. Ok sir since u r no lnga inluv cus wat she did ws 4 luv den kindly n gently giv brk her kidney b4 thunder ………….. U? ⚡

  76. Bitch why you tag me?

  77. Stop being selfish ed foolish there’s no mo love than her donates kidney for u, stop this love thing idiot

  78. Olanrewaju Ololade Abatan

    Den RIP in advance to u soon

  79. Askendarria Abdulhamid Ibn Saidu

    Jxt hang your self

  80. Temitope Owolabi

    Den return d kidney….simple

  81. Okorie Nedd Chinedu

    Return her kidney and die

  82. Ezekiel Ekanem

    U r jst indebted to her u dnt have any choice but mind u if u loose dat girl uve lost somthng dat u can never replace.. Idiot where was d current person ur in love with wen u were on dat bed helplessly? My frnd think as a man not as a Fool dat u r

  83. I don’t think if is something to negotiatable u have gone far too much just begin to think about the good she has done for u, Jesus said there no friend like the one who lay down his life for u, to me no matter what is still the best Engel on earth

  84. For d first time in history dis country is united on an issue. Kudos

  85. Káyòdé Mathew Òkéôwó

    Then return her kidney and go your own way.

  86. What is the name of this movie?

  87. Arisikimonyahsaheed Omosalewa Ariyo

    That one is not a big deal don’t force yourself to love her,just return back her sweet and lovely, kindly KIDNEY back to her and let her go rite and you go left.mad man hissss b4 she give you her caring kidney u didn’t tell her you don’t love,so she risk her life to make u live you now feel free to let her go cos you don’t love her again,guy you dey Crazy well well

  88. Fabricated history not true.

  89. Buchi Blessing

    Return her kidney…just return her kidney.

  90. Ur wicked, return back her kidney

  91. Olayinka Doherty Odubajo

    You are ingrate

  92. Smh, Wow no offense let me be her brother. I would have repo that kidney from you with a light bulb.

  93. جورج د. راموس جونيور

    Return her kidney, and dieU0001f44dU0001f602U0001f602U0001f602

  94. Tawakalit Oluwakemi Adebayo

    Dat one no be wahala now just return her kidney back to her, if she like she can give dog to eat it or rat but u no way

  95. Ubanitv Brotherltd

    Return back her kidney and die for all I care

  96. Adewale Adesiyan

    No problem just return her kidney back

  97. Ali Abdul Mananu Gomda

    Boy u have to love her

  98. Ingrate like you..return her kidney.

  99. Leave dat buhari incarnate,he is just a just dreaming of his death,and people like him are buried in 3feet like housa goat not in 6feet.

  100. Felz Jaypark Moswela-nex Johan

    Give bac her kidney

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