My name is Charity Omorogiuwa.
I was married to a man for 2 yeas and 8 months before my husband died and left me with our only son.
I suffered and raised my kid alone because I was neglected by my husband’s people. I returned to my parents when my husband’s people started making attempts to kill my son because of property. I left everything for them and took my son and ran.
My father and a few uncles returned the dowry.
My son is 14-years-old now and a man i have been in a relationship with for about 4 months now is asking my hand in marriage. I told him what happened to me and that I have a child. He said no problem, that he loves me not my past.
However the problem now is that he asked me not to let anyone in his family know that I have a child. I asked him why and he said his mother and family will not be in support if they find out that I have a grown-up son.
I have been thinking about the whole thing and I dont know what to do.
My mother-in-law to be is very nice to me and I know that she will be greatly disappointed if she finds out in the future that I hid such a thing from her. I also dont know if its wrong to deny my only son just to get married again.
I love this man and he cares for me deeply.
Please, how do I go about this?
He’ll not be that great hasband you don’t marry him
Forget about the idiot husband him never no any thing about love
Lol.. Deny ur son asap and marry him… Sebi u no get sense… She goat..
He dy craze!
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Hehehehe pipo av no chill
Deny him n God WILL Deny u toooo on Judgement day
Story ; tell him to go to hell
Then he doesn’t luv u, even Jesus accepts us the way we are.
Dnt eva deny urson 4any man nor reason.urson is urpride n hope 4 2rw.if he truely luv u he ‘ll acpt u N urson d way u r.dnt pretend bz u wnt 2get married.
Na u sabi..
Hahaha denying your son is the worst thing you will do if that man love you he most take your son has his own son
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How do u mean u dnt know if it’s wrong to deny ur soon just to get married, u should be ashamed of urself if u re even considering denying ur Son bcos of a Man.!!!!!
If he can,t marry u wen u ve a son the qn will be is dat luv my dia jst let him go
Woman you are just afraid to be alone and that’s what makes u to be crying and seeking for help
u must b v foolish, is he d only man on earth…there are some many fishes in d sea…try to catch d good ones….
His not yur husband madam.
Follow your mind
Madam you think we are after your own problem??? Fail na 140 par litter for Nigeria now, please you are on your own
He does’t love u .just move on with ur baby God will give u ur true love who will love u with ur baby & the way u are keep praying with faith
Means he don’t love you ,if he loved you he will accept you with your son
You are mad
Hé should go to hell. If he doesn’t love ur son then he never loved u.otherwise he will take u as u are i mean with ur son. Just let him go there are better days ahead
Don’t try it ur child should be ur priority ok,u don’t know wat d future holds for dat child,dat man in question doesn’t love u,if he does he Wld love n accept ur child
U too u don’t no what luv is,u said somebody luv u and he want u to deny ur son,what if both of u marry each other and there is no children btw two of u,
Must you get married?!
must u marry him
pls be serious joor
Let him go and seek God face
Don’t mind him, if he loves you he will also love your son and take him as his own son
He did’t n’t Love u………………………
Dummy.You are even considering denying your kid for a man?Shame on you
My husband said to go tell him to burn in hell. If he don’t love your son he don’t love you.
Run for your life woman he doesn’t love you at all
illegal son if ur brother he go take son that don’t belong to him??
Forget that son of a bitch! !!!he is not serious!!!God will grant your heart desire!!!
Madam consider de future of ur son he is only one dat luv u not dat man dat want u two u 2 deny,pls got with God n ur beloved son
Dnt deny ur son cos of him,he should go to hell,he doesn’t love u
My dear my advice for u is that for u to deny ur biological son for a man, please forget about d man and be a single mother hope on God and pray to God and by faith take good care of him because the joy ur son will give u when he grow up will be much better than that of a man.
Don’t even try that, there are a thousand and 1 men out there that will accept you and you son,he doesn’t love you,anybody that love you must love what you value or treasure, beside you can find another man , but you can’t find another son, be wise
Don’t try it
Excuse me !didn’t he know she has one before approaching her ?
You, was that man blind , was he not away that she has a son before pushing for marriage? If she marry without telling him is a different case,
Any man that cannot marry you and your sun should get lost
He isn’t a man but a boy
He will also deny you one day, be careful
Hmmm leave ur son? U are thinking about it nd even asking for help on social media? The real truth here is dat u don’t love ur son cus if u do u wouldn’t hv ask for help. Even if we tell u what to do u will still do what ur heart tells u… #IrrelevantQuestion
Pls let him go
Am sorry that is not ur husband
Idiot no try that nonsense. Make the man go hell
My people said nkem ji ka. If he does not love your son,then stay clear of that marriage. don’t forget that your son is your first blood.hold on to your son,let him be the husband you desire for now until the one who will accept you and your son comes by.
Only the father Almighty comes before my children .anyone else after then ..always put your children first
Madam you think we are after your own problem??? Fuel na 140 par litter for Nigeria now, please you are on your own
Cos is he just a guy not a man
How’s that over problem? The choice is yours..deny your son and marry him or don’t deny your son and don’t marry him…. kiloconbeni
Please don’t deny your son if he does not like him let him go to hell
Please let him go OK.Your son will be ur breadwinner in the future whiles the so called man will be busy following small small girls like a dog.All because u are of age.
Tell him to go and die
Forget him,he’s not serious.
To hell with him. Look for ur own husband.that man is not urs
He does not love you
What help re u looking for? Either u deny ur son or deny him, very simple. Choose d one that’s more important to u and stop asking for help where there’s no help.
Wipe your tears woman he doesn’t deserve them . Pick up your pieces together and look after your son he needs you the most .
Its not by Force
Absolute rubbish leeeaavvveee him.. he is not ready for u n don’t love u
Please be wise woman, it may be, that son of urs will be the only child of ur life.
Let him go to hell ,he doesn’t love u.
Abegi stop crying,his not your husband if his really ur husband he won’t ask u to do that.That means that is how his going to deny u too later.THINK AND BE WISE.
Then walk away ma. This son will be forever our. He will be the own to love and defend you in future. If ur man does not want ur son,it shows he does not love you. Do not go into self denial. Build ur self confidence and ur skill and love for ur self. With this u will pull through
Pray and get another man. There is till a man that’s looking for you, that will love you the way you are; no editing, modification or adjustment, just the way you are, he will be so proud of. Just pray that God leads you that man to you or that He(God) leads you to that man.
Instead, forget about him and stay together with your son. Mind you, blood is ticker than water. God will provide you with another man in Jesus name.
Dont marry him u can always get s man but yr child u know yr struggle u know what u go through to bring him do not give up on your child he not a nice man he is putting u between a rock and a hard place
Please just forget he ever exist to you, that’s your blood, a better one that will take you and accept your son will locate soonest
I bet he doesn’t love you. He just believes you’re are a piece of assets to him and can command you to do whatever.
Please let him go he not your husband, if he don’t love your son than he don’t love you
Denying your son will lead to curse .madam train ur son very well, and tell that deceiver to leave u alone.God blss u.
When you see misery run, think of what else he will make you do! LoL!
don’t try it,a man who cannot luv ur son doesn’t luv u
They never born that man wey go want me deny my aim time son just because of marriage then to hell with the rubbish marriage my child is my pride abeg..
Don’t marry anyone that will want you to deny your son, he’s not serious minded
, then let go of him.
Then run away or must u marry him
Thunder fire marriage,
if he tuly love you he will also love your son no matter what,you already leave your husband porperty and run with him,you rise him to get so big,now a man want to come and separate you from your son,dont do it he do not realy love your son will get big just now and get a good job and look after you,put your trust in God he will bless you in time with a man that will love,but not only you he will accpet your son,so dont give up your child for not thing or any one be strong dont lost hope
I beg madam , come borrow my legs join ur own make u fit run away from the mad man
May i ask you one question? Why do you have to re-marry since you have a son? Do you know why God gave you that boy, the Answer is No. Some women don’t reason at all. You have a son whom you don’t know his position tomorrow and now one idiot asked you to deny your son and marry him. Go on deny him and marry that Animal let see if you’ll have a child with that idiot. By the time you get yourself is aready late rubbish
How can you?Remember he can do away with you but your son can’t.
Please charity, don’t do it…Maybe he is not the right person for you and God have is own way Okay…Just fast and pray for him to see light
Do u even have to think about this!? Who denies their own kids for a man?! Dumb his lousy ass
What sort of a dilema is that 4 a mother!?there is no choice 2 make ur son is ur flesh and blood but there are millions of men out there full stop.ur son is part of u he takes it or he leaves it!! I cant live without my sons but i can live without a husband
Leave my sister he doesn’t deserve u or your son
STUPID APPEAL !
Help yourself by stay strong
Let him go to hell!!
He doesn’t deserve you and your tears,if he can say that now what if you marry? He can say deny your health and die for him lol
Let him go to hell.
Nkemakonam Chukwu,if u dnt knw wat to say,why not ignore d post?Didnt he knw she has a son b4 approaching her?
I dnt see d reason why some idiots here are insulting d woman.She only asked for an advice and if u dnt hve any to give to her,why not ignore instead of insulting her.
Nooooo tell he to go to hell
Stupid questions. Deny your son for a man that can divorce you tomorrow?