Nigerian gay activist, Bisi Alimi, has written an epistle telling Nigerians that it is not their responsibility to take care of their parents, neither is it the right of their parents. According to him, a child owes his/her parent nothing, as he/she never begged them to have sex.
He went further to disclose that a child, is not an old age pension scheme. He went further to tell Nigerians not to succumb to emotional blackmail from their parents, or they will milk them dry.
Here’s what he wrote;
“Nigerians, doomed financial vicious circle is when your parents brought you up so you can be their cow to milk, while you look forward to doing same to your children.
I understand that the system is fucked, pension money is being embezzled by stupid greedy politicians, the same ones you worship and bow to, and there is no guarantee for old age, but fuck, the system won’t fix itself. If you don’t resist, you will be consumed.
The idea that it is the responsibility of the struggling young to take care of the struggling old is a myth sold to you by the corrupt politicians who have stolen the resources of your commonwealth.
Remember, one rich man among 100 poor men will eventually end up being poor.
You only have two commitments in life; yourself and your children and that’s until they are old enough to be kicked out of the house.
You do not, I repeat, you do not owe your parents any pay back unless you are still living with them, which means get the fuck out or start paying rent and bills.
Remember, you didn’t beg them to have sex, they wanted to have children, it’s their choice, you should not be their old age pension scheme.
Only do it if you can and have the resources to, but even with that, know the limit or they will emotionally blackmail you and milk you dry.”
Am short of words, May Almighty direct you 2 HIS way.
No problem oo,but remember that whatever u sow u shall reap
hmmm no parent z beggin 4 ur payback! but if uve got conscience, ull knw dat dey went thru pains in makn u who u are! nd nw they re ageing.. tell me hu z meant to take care of dem? wuld u be happy to see dem beggn? i leave dat to u to answer, but pls stop influencn nigerians wiv ur own school of thought!!! kip it to urself!
Olori buruku bi eran iya osogbo.
Bros my parents are my pride,i must definitely take good care of them cos there prayers upon me is important for me to grow in life.thanks for ur baseless advice n opinion.
Bros my parents are my pride,i must definitely take good care of them cos there prayers upon me is important for me to grow in life.thanks for ur baseless advice n opinion.
Honestly , You r a disgrace to humanity and I can’t imagine where u got that taught. God help u .
I totally agree with the rest! Our parents are our pride as we are theirs. If we can not do good for the one who brought us in this world I highly doubt we can ever connect or do good for anyone. Even if you take care of your mother her whole life like a queen, you still haven’t compensated for the the pain she went through during your delivery. And our father sacrifices everything to make sure we get best. So as a human we do owe them alot and the humane thing to do is be there for them when they need you the most.
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Ademola,Your are telling us not take care of the transport of life why did you have to say that .but you take your own mama way dey live for post office in Mushin to UK an you are telling us shot here why
this man is an idiot
You are asking did you beg them to have sex?
When they had you did they neg you to be hungry
They fed you clothed you and sent you to school
Only for you to come back with your godforsaken anus saying rubbish
So as they are now old and cannoh longer work what do they do
You are more wicked than Nigerian politicians
This guy called bisialimi need help and deliverance urgently. He’s sick in the head.
Idiot fuck Boi
what is a pride of a parent if not the child. what is the pride a child if not the mother. The joy every woman is her son/ child.
please don’t be a disgrace to them since they never denied or disgrace you like this in their life time. How do you feel if the only son ( sorry you are not worthy of giving birth except you are buying from the government, being a gay activist) comes out and deny you openly like this! Please keep your white methodology to yourself and he goat spouse. In Africa, after God is our parent. I will only say your ideology or opinion wasn’t well presented since you talk about pension scheme. That youths today should not rely on their children and should save for the future because of the government’s degenerating situations. Don’t be a vagabond Bisi.
May God forgive you thankGod that nobody is agreeing to your school of thought yeye man
You are a foolish man Bisi Ademola omo ale Alimi. Oloriburuku somebody keep your nonsense advice to your self .May thunder fire that your mouth. Eni ti iya ati baba ko jo lo ju ko la mo yi abiyamo .
This guy, who are u sef ar u sure u are part of dis generation or u were Been selected 4rm beans…..pls pls and pls don’t corrupt people of our generation and get D fuck bak 2 were u are been debunked 4rm pls.
May God help him to come out of bondeg , ur parents is everything u have on earth because God use them as a vessel to bring you on this world if u dont know what to say just shut ur mouth ok
The truth is always bitter…
The post didn’t say categorically that you should not take care of your parents. However, we all should understand what we are doing before we jump into it. As parents, it is our responsibilities to provide and help our children to become great people. The reason for doing that is not supposed to be because we want to rely on them at old age. Children are merely our contribution to the world. A sensible parent would prepare for his/her old age irrespective of children.
Maybe when we get to that level of consciousness our people will deemphasize the issue of marriage and child bearing which has become a thing of compulsion even when people don’t have the means to effectively do it.
another Idiot has spoken SMH
Join him as an. Idiot…oloshi
all i have to say is that if you don’t repent you will not leave to see your old age
Well, thank God majorities had given him what he wanted to hear. Why won’t he 0pen his mouth and uttered such trash, when the only thing he knows best at doing, is giving out his anus for men so that contributed in making him not to think straight
He has a point. My parents had 7 children though they could not care for themselves. They were emotionally, mentality and financially withdrawn from our lives. We grew up in poverty, physical, emotional abuse. I recall 1 day asking my dad why he had so many children knowing he cannot provide a basic necessities muchless an education. I remember him telling me that when he is old he will have his children (us) to care for him. We are our parents security because now they are older they expect so much from us. Honestly, having 2 sick parents is so hard because us siblings can barely help ourselves. We didn’t get an education or skill, which means we struggle working mediocre jobs that can barely buy food. None of us have an education or skill because our parents couldn’t send us to school. In the end 1 of us got the opportunity to live in America & with that opportunity many doors were open but its still a struggle as now i have to be helping 6 siblings plus 2 parents. If my parents had only 2 of us life would be in better. Parents need to make better decisions in their life as we suffer since we have no say in who become our parents.
You are stupid, you don’t know what you are doing
Who be this? I am sorry for you Busy Alibi or wettin dry call you. I even thought you were talking ironically. In fact, you are disgrace not only to Yoruba tribe that is rich in culture but to entire Nigerians and Africa as a whole. Oyinbo style abi? Bastard!