As fans place Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde on full blast for saying she doesn’t go to the market because of her status and instead, her husband does, OAP Freeze has stepped in to rescue the Nollywood big screen diva.
OAP Freeze is of the opinion that there’s nothing wrong with what the couple practice…
Read his opinion:
“I read some negative comments in response to what my good friend and sister @realomosexy said about her husband going to the market for her. I love helping out with market chores and a month ago while buying live guinea fowl and chicken in the market, I made an amazing discovery. I found out that the really scrawny chickens are called wizkid while the robust ones are called baddo! I have sellers in the market who know me by my first name and even know my taste when it comes to their respective commodities.
Now why would I go to the market when I have bae and a maid in my life? First of all bae is not my slave. She is supposed to be my partner, my ride or die, my bestie and she has no issues at all with going to the market. However, her workload can be crazy and sometimes I have to come to the rescue. In addition to this, driving to the market together and shopping together helps us bond. (Do I have a witness????)
The next question is “why can’t you guys send the maid?” Maids usually try to steal a few pennies off every pound and to enable them afford this, they often buy stale foodstuff as they are cheaper and then they hike the prices. I really don’t mind paying a premium to enable me me indulge in the luxury of having someone do my shopping, it’s the inferior and stale foodstuff that I absolutely can’t handle.
My maid once bought two stale and dry stock fish heads for 2k. A few months later I went to the same market with the same 2k and ‘chartered’ stock fish!
A woman of Omotola’s ‘status’ will be mobbed in the market! By the time 50 people ask her for selfies in 5 minutes she won’t achieve much. However, her ‘status’ does not stop her from spending all day in the kitchen; which she very often does, as she is an incredible cook, who loves simmering remarkable delicacies.
If you can’t go to the market for your wife, don’t cry when she elopes with someone who is willing to do so. If your husband is not ready to go to the market for you, #GetARealMan or#HugTransformer
P.S. For Omotola’s eyes only.. Babe hold captain tight o! Man wey fine, get money come dey go market. Ha”
I’m getting tired of women’s who always want a man to do everything, what is your purpose in the relationship
What’s the issue of going to market for your wife U0001f60f if you don’t have a house help or she if its not practical for her / wife to go what is the problem I go to market for my wife I cook we all eat we are happy U0001f61cU0001f44cU0001f3ff
Every marriage is different. If ur wife is famous and u don’t want crazy fans harassing her or Kidnappers to take her and use her for ransom for millions of naira.I think it’s wise to go to the market for her every now and then. I’m sure they have a house help that goes for them frequently.
That is the reason he is omotola’s husband, live ur own life and not others,whether ur man goes to the MKT or not, appreciate him, he is just living his life
Women n there demands this days are so alarming, at times I wonder why do we men get married to them…is it just to hv baby…
There is nothing wrong with that, I can even cook and serve my woman.
I have notice for the passed 5 days now,,Always U and ur husband plz tell them to leave ur home before they ,,reserved
I still don’t understand what’s so wrong with a man going to the market for his wife?
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If the only thing women will do is jus to have children then it’s worth it. Try carrying a load in ur tommy for 9 mths,try going to work everyday while experiencing morning sickness for the first 3 mths of the pregnancy, try nd go thru the incomparable pain of child bearing, nd u will know that women are unique creations. A woman wakes up by 4 a.m to prepare for the family,while d man is still on d bed snoring.Both come back by 6p.m or dre about,while the man showers nd relaxes,the woman rushes to the kitchen to prepare evening meal,do so other house chores,attend to the kids nd other thing.Upon all dat,she will still discharge her night/midnight duties.Na wetin be our sin now.Pls men wateve assistance u can render to ur women,pls do. We deserve it.
Dis yellow leprechaun called freeze wey go jus dey run mouth.
I do better grocery shopping than my wife and she knows that. I don’t see any problem in that.
Guy I dey buy grocery for my house… Nothing wrong there. My wife is not famous. She must not do everything. I like to eat healthy so i buy food for the family.
Abeg help me ask these egomaniacs ooh? Guy, it’s all about the mentality!
What ever works for you and your family bikonu .marriage has no particular formular.
@ everyday man, thank you and I like your name U0001f44f
what is anyone’s business if he goes to the market.some pple got no jo that is why they can meddle in other pple’s business.
Daddy plz take it easy on mr freeze
Famous, celebrity, star, legend, hero, etc MAGGOTS TO DUST!!
I don’t see anything bad in it but since they have grOwn up girls they should start doing that
Please leave this woman and her marriage alone,yours can’t go to the market for you,but hers goes,so what’s your own problem now? Na your husband?
For your information marriage has no formula, how yours work is not how the next person’s works……cry your own cry!
And wait till 60 yrs to get one if your are lucky maybe as sugar mummy.
Please what are you saying ???
Ask me using panadol for someone else headache ooooo
If that’s true, she is a lazy woman. If she want to clothes, who do the shopping for her??? Maid can do that, not your husband… the man maybe doing the cooking as well. Market and cooking is the joy of a true Africa woman..
Wat is wrong wit dat.
@tracy well u go need to ask Google for answer ooo
Not supported, she should be a woman and stop this famous of a thing they used to deceive themselves with. What is she trying to teach her children? Maybe the way her husband goes to market today, will not be the way the men that will marry her daughters will be tomorrow. Yea husband can help at home sometimes, but don’t put it, because she is famous.
She’s a big fool for coming out in public ridiculing your husband claiming to be famous that’s insane,and I feel sorry for that pilot that’s has now become shopper all of sudden.in fact wheres their grown up kids? this woman should be ashamed of this nonsense she’s talking about. In the first place who ask her of such? Must she say it out even if that her SHE MALE husband does the shopping, this is how home breaking beatings gradually. .
That’s your problem
There is nothing wrong when a man goes to the market or cook for the wife.but when you say because you are a celebrity you can’t go to the market so your husband will be the one to go to the market for you,babe you don mad
Leeanne Paul thanks.. My wife is my most valued gift from God so I gats make her life easy in any little way I can, as long as she respects me and supports my dream.
Omotola look bush
And Wht Is wrong in d husband going 2 d market 4 d wife
” Nija man with their pride without money 4 pocket “
Chei….u too don chop vegetable…..rite?
Any man will go if they are using your bank card.
Bcos of ur status ryt? I hope U also dnt go out to buy ur wears too cos of ur status, rubbish….Are you d first actress or only actress in Nigeria? Dnt other actress go to d market? Or dnt you have a maid dat can do dat? It is fine if her husband goes to d market once in a while but if it is a frequent thing, den, it doesn’t make sense….Even in the western world, d women still visit d grocery stores….Madam, you got it all wrong, itz not as if you are d breadwinner, ur hubby is…so calm down abeg and do ur duties as a wife and mother.
One million likes for you. You hit the nail on the head tell them make them hear. Loud mouth people that can’t humble themselves because of little fame that they’ve got. She is not even as pretty as Ego Boyo who is so humble inspite of her astonishing beauty. It’s ok if the husband goes to the market once in a while but not everyone time like you said. There is a hierarchy of things in the home: God, family and career. It is an error if our career dominates our family duties always. She has abnegated her God given duties for bread that does not satisfy. She should take lessons from Abigail in the Bible that David married. Rubbish. I pity her husband, the thinks that is love, and she even said it on tv
Even Mrs Obama goes shopping for her family. Nigerian and too do.
There is nothing wrong with it but when it becomes a routine, den sumtin is wrong wit it…doesnt she have a maid? or her kids not old enough to go to d market dat her hubby dat provides for d family go to d market while wife and kids cross leg in d house…Daz so wrong dear, not dat he is even a jobless man…he is a damn busy man and d time he has for himself and family, den he uses it to go to d market, haba! daz not nice at all
Bad Belle people … Leave her alone nd concentrate on ur own issue
thanks for sharing your good talks…. I love you some men DNt get it…my dad did same to my mom n we all happy together cos I see it as a romanti moment for the both of them
Pls who’s ds #Mrdepender# fik u can go ad hv a taste of transformer…..mwtttttt
I can only do so when my wife is not feeling well or when she is not around
That’s not even her husband.
Becoz his respect nd understandin each other
Some fans can be very nasty and disrespectful sha, they don’t know how to read between the line, they always cross it, that’s her personal life that doesn’t need your rude and negative opinion.
Facebook needs to start doing brain screening before registration, and stars needs to start doing background check before accepting people. Shai.
We humans can be very good in taking advantage of ourselves.. If she had married to Dangote and co, will Dangote go to market for her.. he can provide you with 1000 maid, but he will never go to market for you.. to the best of my knowledge, Omo-sexy and her husband can afford more than 5 maid..
Abeg make una dey read before una dey comments becos plenty humans dey miss d line,dem sey becos she famous her husband dey go market for her.Like seriously famous she for nor dey eat too becos she famous na she start abi.Ok i almost forgot sey her husband na local figure why she na international figure wey everybody knows.
Lol don’t believe everything you read
Don’t mind them, but many can do more than that for girlfriend. Mcheeeew!
Exactly! I mean it’s your wife, lol you’re supposed to be a team. After all you’re both going to eat the food ..
Well to my view.. A good husband should not let is wife be the only one going to the market.. He should go sometimes and also do the cooking sometimes… Its a way of building the love and relationship at home.. For me i can cook for my wife and kids and even do more CU’s de are my responsibility.. I see nothing wrong helping out cux days what family is all about….
@ Hanssen, I luv ur comment….If she had married Dangote or OBJ or Otedola, will dey be going to d market to buy foodstuff for her? I guess NO…she is just taking advantage of her humble husband.
D man too dey run eim mouth careless
I don’t agree with u lol
@ Lute, kindly enlighten me on what you dnt agree on?
Even yesterday I went to oyingbo market.
i love doing dat 4my wife is not a big deal.
or u divorce him
Ha what is really wrong with a man going to the market for their family sake. I beg make people mind their business. That’s her personal life and she does not need anyone the way she runs her home .make wunna concentrate on wunna house and stop saying rubish about how someone runs their home.
Oma Zurich,u made me speechless cos u just spoke my mind.
Maxwel, u r getin it wrong, d post did not emphasized on avin a househelp hr or not but d man goin to d market himsef.
Is she dat big to go to d market or what r we sayin?
Even d wife of d president of most powerful country, Mitchel Obama do goes to d market except we all dnt see wen d paparazis do shows her pics in d cover of the magazines.
U may not want to go to d open market due to what u’l want to term d hygenicall situation of d place bt cant she go to d stores?, malls? etc or whats she proving?
Wont she go if d husband is miles and miles away from her?
Rubbish
Leeanne, if u r a true African, u wouldnt allow ur man to do so bt see what civilization has caused, i dnt blame u sha.
Tobest, u r rite, my dad does d same to my mum too but not every now & den and she never comes out to d public and tell d world like dis.
Cheers all
What nonsense.I can go to d market for my wife once in a while but dat one no mean say she go come make am mandatory say na me go dey go market,even if she is d bread winner of d family,to hell with her.Some women no men wey dem fit dey use like dat sha.No be person like me
Not for d woman to make it mandatory dat d husband wil be d one going to d market.
Aisha Cole,yes there is nothing wrong going to d market for ur wife,but it shouldn’t be all d time cos some women take advantage over their husband dat is a must dey go to d market
But some husbands are MORE THAN HAPPY to PLEASE their wives.. I think everyone should be able to run their marriage how they please. I don’t think there’s a rule that says it’s a woman’s job to go to the market. If she can’t he goes and if he can’t she goes.
Hahaha@Abbey, you be strong man be dat….No koknomicy fit make woman use you anyhow….lolz
Dem no born dat woman well.I can do dat for my wife but making it a must dat i will be d one going to d market,na him be say d house no go contain d both of us.One of us gots move ahead.
If she feels too big just to go to the market and buy what her family will eat, then this man is already in Hell, Coz after his pilot work, he will carry Basket and go to the market and buy food and possible cook it for her, for how long will this nonsense stop? till old age? …….. so now, her husband is no more the real man because he refuse to go everyday to the market , soon she will file for a divorce and ruin the man’s life. That’s an act of Demons in human cloths. SOME IDIOT THAT CALLED THEM SELF’S WOMEN ARE MORE DEADLIER THAN VIRUS,,he gave you everything you want in life, now you want to put his head under your skirt just because you are Useless Celebrity my Ass. maybe she will also not shiting on the Toilet coz of her Animalistic Statues as a Celebastard not just a celebrity. FOOL.
Yes it shouldn’t be compulsory …..he should do it whenever he feels like doing it for his wife
Sir Sipo Arinze
it’s so sad? that you digress to name calling☹️ because my opinion is different to yours?
It may work for me and not for you each one to their own ?maybe
Sipo
Please don’t be vex it’s just an opinion different from yoursU0001f44cU0001f3ffU0001f61c
You are a real man
Yes with 4 kids happy home just paid out for holiday to Florida two boys in university
Teaching them to respect to women as every man has come from a mother women are not our slavesU0001f60aU0001f44cU0001f3ffam not fake am very real U0001f44aU0001f3ff
Problem with African minds is they are colonised. Still living in the era where women were their slaves and did all sorts of things whilst they are there sitting. Free your minds.
Its not because shez famous but he loves her finish n klar!! No big deal ther.
u de go market…
Your wife must b a slave …My dad always do Dat ….nd my husband will do dat too
If you are a good wife you will never allow your husband to do that
Rem Gillian if you marry not man enough as husband he will do it but if you have my type you will know exactly what marriage is all about some men nowadays a being stupid and don’t know what they suppose to do and what they don’t suppose to do all in the name of love nonsense
That is not the duty of Man to be going to market just because He marry an actress. Pls be real.
I tire ooh
Ada Amaka he is a real man now because he said the one that favored you women that’s the kind of statement you women want to hear nonsense
Emelda mmanwa agugonwa you are a good woman you are brought up from a good family I pray for you that you will have the best husband in this world in jesus name
Oej mike all you just said don’t make any sense is bulls hit a woman should do her duty as a woman
All the men’s here that are saying that there is nothing wrong going to the market for your wife or cooking for your wife are all fake ass man I agree when a man do that for his wife maybe your wife is sick or gave birth at the hospital
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In Genesis 18:1-8, 3 angels visited Abraham, to entertain the guests, Abraham himself enter kitchen with sarah and prepared a meal and Abraham himself set the meal before the angels and waited like an attendant until the angels were satisfied. Genesis 19: 1- 3 lot himself cooked the meal he used to entertain the angels that visited him. Both men had wives yet they entered kitchen and cooked. Sarah and lot’s wife were NOT SICK. While taking care of household chores is primarily the duty of the wife, it does not lessen the value of a man to help his wife out at home. The bible didn’t say sarah or lot’s wife was sick and that’s why Abraham or Lot cooked. God who had that Abraham and Lot cooked written in the bible, did He not know the duty of a woman in a home? In times past woman were fully housewives and men primary providers, today that is not the case, women hustle to financially help their husbands care for the home, these women are not robots, so if a husband chooses to show love and help out in the kitchen, it is not the business of any1 to criticize him for doing such. If God didn’t see anything bad in what Abraham and Lot did and had it put in the bible 4 us to learn from and even blessed them for their hospitality, who are you to now say any man who shops for his wife or cooks for her is less than a man or do you know about marriage more than God who instituted marriage and authored the bible? Let each man manage his household as he sees fit and not force his view on how others should show affection to their wives.