A woman beset by a most ridiculous request from her lover and the threat it poses to their relationship is asking for a way out.
The woman shared her story showing how her man is giving her a reason to doubt the solidity of the relationship.
Below is what she shared:
I met a man on-line and as we have com-municated for such a while, I started liking him.
He is based in the United States. As the online relationship progressed, he started talking about marriage.
These days, he even refers to me as his wife each time we talk. I told him one day that I was not sure about him because we have not met and explained that I understood that distance is not a barrier but I needed more convincing.
I suggested that I could at least meet someone from his family. He made arrangements and I eventually met his dad. His dad likes me a lot and always says good things about me to his son. We have been on for several years now.
Recently, he asked me to send my n*de photos to him and that gave me the wrong signal. We have talked about it but he keeps insisting, saying that it is the only way we can connect and feel closer to each other.
I have not responded to him yet. Please how do I handle this strange request?
Never… dont fall for it girl, moving long
Well I won’t blame him , with all d fake bodies and fake people invoke now. One needs to be careful these days d kind of relationship they start
Don’t be stupid
Snap 100 and send to him
Ok what are you waiting do that fast before you lost him to someone else
He has the right to see what he’s about to spend his hard earning money on.
are you stupid don’t try such
Una no get topic
Any guy asking fr nude pics/videos doesn’t respect u n don’t let luv deceive into getting ur nudes published online n den I start seeing #RIP# cuz of d embarrassment. From a girl to a girl flee from DAT relationship he is not meant fr u n am sure he is married in America n probably does same to any naive girl he meets online. So flee my advice
After u finished sending it
Don’t do that, he’s not serious
Gossipmill na dis picture una supose post for this news did the picture match with d message rubbish
Most people are saying “don’t do it” meanwhile they send nude pictures even within their town.
Don’t be stupid,if u like send it na you sabi.Its just a pity that the next thing you will see is your nude pix all over the social network.
Why pls don’t do it.
Don’t do it
Pls don’t send,he is not serious,and he will post it on social media at any slightest provocation,
Please what are you waiting for? Though I don’t believe human beings in their right sense can ask such a rubbish question…. See person pikin!
Ok! If U send to him Pls send to me because U are about becoming a porn star.
Nowadays girls sends nude pictures without men’s asking for it
Drop the idiot
Madness… That’s no man to date
Oh girl tell am make he send you his own first
Mr man, sexual relationship has no business with “serious” relationship.. Are you a learner, must we tell you to RUN before you run??
Hmmm Social median freaks, is either they ask you to send them money or nudes
stupid people
Send it naa ! whom are you asking before you send it ??? when you people started you ask if you will accept him… Ur mama there Idiot .. Rubbish !
Hmmm Social median freaks, is either they ask you to send them money or nudes
stupid people
Don’t be stupid to send your photos and you see yourself in social networks
As call girl. So woman drop that stupid man out of your life
Try and send both your mother’s own very stupid question.
Well it is totally down to you whatever you want to do but don’t forget the people that ask for such pix, it depends on the kind of pictures you displayed.
Send it please, send it. So that it can go viral. Biko send it. Otondo geh
guys… what is d need for all dis rubbish… seeing a lady’s nude is not in any way a sign of assessment… her character is what really matters… so i advice us to start asking them to show us their nude character instead of nude body…
Send artificial first and see his reaction. And his reaction will tell you what to do next
A matured man will ask for your pix without make up while a kid will ask for your nude
D guy is a fake guy
What are you waiting for? send him the thing nah.
Wetin remain for your body to see again ,,send it to him fast fast
Ask him if his mother sent naked pics to his dad before they got married and gave birth to a swine like himU0001f621
Do not send, just go and show it to him live.
If you were the one who ask him to be your bf you can send it to him but if you were on your own while he came asking you to be his gf simply tell him to go the same way he came
He know you are too cheap. As naira is to dollars.
Adeyosoye- you too much only the wise one understand you
Don’t doo it
A wise girl should be able to know a responsible guy by his speach. By chatting or by communication. This reminds me of a friend of my in Nigeria whom I introduced to my guy here in Austria to settle down with. Firstly I adviced her not to never try to send her nude pics to him in case he ask. She replied me ok thanks bros. I adviced her so because that is what people are into now on media. But could u believed that at the end after their 9 months relationship the guy showed me the girl nude photos many in quote. And he told me the girl has failed his text and that he has nothing to do with the girl again. When I got to Naija june 1st 2015 for my late mom burial I told d girl u av done a great mistake after I gave u all the code and advice that I av seen all ur nude photos which u sent to my guy. Then she began to cry and cry, but then it was too late.
I beg every one of u on media we all av kids and we should begin to advice then from their young age about all the norcence on media because we can not stop their access to the media but to put it on their head about it. Thank u all and God bless u.
That’s is not ok take ur nude pic and hang it to all the juction to the street
DO NOT DO THAT UNLESS your willing to have your pictures on social media.
Don’t answer him oooo he lies
Idiot swear u never send nude pics to a guy mumu.
All these girls pretending here , must have in one way or another sent nude pics to their boyfriend /husband sometime in their life! You all should stop all these pretense mehn …mtcheew
This post is as useless as the ‘P’ in ‘Pyscho’…
You are finished if you dare send it.
Lol @even within their town
Dont try it he is a ritualist
Send it if you like.
dt do it
Google,get a picture close to your body type
CROP it and send it
He might be fooling you ,can blackmail you if he gets your naked pics
You think every lady send nude pics to a guy just like that . U are rather the idiot for being childish. Grow up Julian Johnson
Don’t dare send them
Instead of u to condemn this act , you’re rather asking stupid and irrelevant questions
Tel him to send you his father own
#Stupid.. im already looking at one..
Don’t be stupid except u r desperate
Let him come and see it with his naked eyez and be satisfied. Don’t ever try to send anything to him, becos the pix must be published one day. By the way,what is he using ur nude pix to do?
Yes you have to send because these days it’s very confusing “you may look like a woman but in reality you’re something else”. Advice don’t take it personal it’s for your benefit
You are irresponsible that’s why you have irresponsible friends asking you for Nude Pics so give it to them please
r u saying u have never seen each other ???
Lol if you try such, you loss ur respect. Waite for Gods time.
Wat is wrong the country called Nigeria heeeee
Africa too pretends, 95 percent of people making senseless comments here telling her not to send it are already doing it,pretendance .
Keep the story for the news agencies bro”
Sorry why should we help u as in help u to do what abeg find better thing post
Don’t do it.
Which help do you need? Well it’s a good thing you asked but please he doesn’t love you and will never marry you even if you send him the pictures of your inner vagina, tell him to gerra rof here and out of your life. Be the first to dump him.
Both of u are stupid
No try am
in fact you are simply stupid for asking for help, you mean you don’t know what to do? then you are a fool
Don’t mind him. If you try it, then kiss him goodbye
Give am After all Marriage is for Better or for worst.
Middle finger for the both #mtcheww
Forget the fool
Tell him to go to hell and if this ur photo I see now, u ve already gone too far and need deliverance
All this your stories don’t make any sense at all ,they said love is blind when you fall in love you will not know the time you will act
It can happen to anyone once u fall in love
@jen any body can be a victim just pray not to come across such victim,people fall victim out of love does not mean their foolish
@jen any body can be a victim just pray not to come across such victim,people fall victim out of love does not mean their foolish I only blame they guy who send it to social media..
I have some nude photos of four girls and I will never publish it, I swear!
Don’t mind him
Hmm!! Ok u know what send it to me first, for approval … Ewu Hausa like u… Case closed pls next post
O rubbish, is all about character
U not that stupid do not act like u a.never please a man
What is nude? Be on your senses lady.
The guy no knw say love fit make u do anything.Na play him dey
Yes i agree with u on dis
Uche Ezeonye dont mind them jare.those dat are talking will even do worst for d sake of love.
I rather ask a lady to send/show me her nude character before getting serious with her, not her nude pics
Don’t do it o
You will later see yourself on Facebook.
Send it to him now; is it not what you have displayed now?, that is what you are.
U should reason well b4 u comment wat such of rubbish love is that any reasonable lady we not send her nude pix to any useless man I say any useless fool for wat now if I may ask nonsense a bird of the same fader flow 2gether.
Uche Ezeonye spear me out of that stupid love u claiming wat types of nonsense love is that, any man that ask nude is irresponsible I say so by there behavior we shall no them n any lady that send her nude pix is irresponsible…. Simple ABC hahahah
Julian Johnson I bet you one of the guys that ask girls to send you nude pictures! With the way you carrying on. Smdh…