According to Thisday,In her statement of case in support of petition at PRFD with number FD14001650, Pastor Anita however, accused her husband of having inappropriate relationship with some of his female staff members.
According to the statement,
“the wife has discussed with the husband his appropriate relationship with some of his female staff members. She has explained that this has given her cause for concern. The husband has minimised her worries and taken no step to alleviate her grievances.”In fact, the statement indicated no allegation of adultery as there was no co-respondent to the petition and no names were mentioned.Dictionary.com defines adultery as “voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse.”
The statement reads in part: “The wife submits that her marriage to the husband has irretrievably broken down and there is no hope of reconciliation. The wife will submit that it is the husband’s unreasonable behaviours which have led to this.
“The husband and the wife are both Pastors. The husband undertakes his work, in the main, in South Africa and Nigeria. The wife lives in the United Kingdom. The wife will say that they have lived separately for 16 years and over this time have drifted apart. The wife has come to realise that the husband will only visit the UK for annual church programmes that he holds rather than to be with this wife. The wife feels that he has been unavailable as a father to their children during their developing years.
“The wife feels that their marriage suffered under the pressure of their work. They would rarely spend time together due to the husband unavailability. Special occasions such as Christmas, Birthdays and family occasions and anniversaries past them by and their rarely spent any time together as a family as the husband was more devoted to his work than he was to them.
“The wife feels that she has been used to portray and enhance the husband’s image as a family man when the reality is that there is no existing relationship between them. She feels that she has been present for official functions simply for his convenience. On occasions she has been copied into his travel itinerary which has been given to him by his staff on a need to know basis.
“The wife has tried to discuss her concerns with the husband. He claims that she is carnal and he is insensitive to her feelings and her needs.”“As a result of the husband’s attitude to their marriage, the wife will say that he is virtually not recognised as a married man in the ministry. His teachings and beliefs on marriage is that the husband is a master and a controller and the wife will say that his concept of biblical; submission is so extreme that it is impossible for her to meet his expectations. She feels humiliated by the way he treats her in the presence of his close female staff members and she feels that she has been taken for granted which has become unbearably stressful for her.
“The wife will say that the relationship with the husband is non-existent to the point that his itinerary which was announced publicly at the beginning of the year had no provision for time with his family. His staff members who travel with him organise both his personal and professional life without any input from her. The wife will say that she is treated with disregard almost like akin to an intruder.
“The wife feels that she has been mentally, physically and emotionally deprived of the experience of a marital relationship. She feels that the husband has persistently judged her and his communication with her has been unduly harsh. The wife knows that he was hard to please and has been extremely critical.
“The wife reserves the right to expand on all of these particulars if the divorce petition is defended.”
Pastor anita Come over to Abia State in Umuahia Branch of Christ Ebassy. BISHOP Chris is already in Heaven He is a Spirit o o o!!!
Am sure u not married and will not…sure
I think my pastor is already an angel on earth be4 in heaven,..God save & guard all men of God
U are stupid for saying that. ..Instead of calling the adulterous man to order. ..angel cohabiting with single ladies. Am very sure u are not married and will not
As christians we ought not to be ignorant of the enemy’s devices all this properganda are all from bottomless pit of hell.Pastor & Pastor Mrs I believe they are very close to God.and if they should hav such marital problem they should reason wt God their mentor and not a worldly court,for the belivers cannot be judged by reprobates let alone the marital issue.I want to tell the masterminder of this propaganda that these couple are above this kind of Joke and pls 4 God’s sake u should stop blackmailing the Men of God…He reprove kings for their sake saying touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm.pls be warned!!!
My friend the way you talk about this human as if he is your God and above mistake. In this issue you have already taken side in support of your so-called man of God. Between you and Madam Anita, who should know the man better? Instead of you view the case objectively you started blaming the the woman.
I know REV Chris is too big for this ok
God bless u 4 dat,leave dis misled ppl 2 kip worship dia pastor dt uses ozone relaxer evry sunday mrnin
Brotherly tanks very much for your observations, contribution & concern on this issue, majority of those talking on this issue are those that are blindfolded or have been brainwashed by there so call man of God so what she says now will make no sense to them.
It’s a good thing to be brainwashed. Read your bible it’s clearly scriptural . Romans 12:2
And be not conformed to this world:but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. The word transformed here is translated brainwash
Well said ! They will always take his side. When he went to consult with tb josuah they defended him, now his wife is saying what she sees and feel they are calling God into the matter! Blind people!
U are just foolish and can’t see what’s wrong with ur so called pastor , am sure u are brainwashed. ……are u married am sure no ..pray….so that u will not abandon ur home for those good for nothing ladies
Ministry starts from the family. Anything short of a sound family foundation as the real foundation for Ministry is deceit. It is only the marital relationship that Christ used to equate with our relationship with Him. This woman must have been in trauma all these 16 years hoping for an improvement. I only hope her decision was guided by the Holy Spirit, that’s all.
that’s true. judge not
Stop using the bible to justify his illicit act! Judge not my foot! Now you want to say you know more than the wife? It is the same bible that says many shall come in my name, cast out demons but behold they are false prophets! Or does the bible say he should leave his wife in uk and stay in nigeria? So the wife now is the devil abi?
As a man Of God..those things we regard as little things matters alot. Proper attention need to be paid to family…close affection.holiday and time to bond together are all necessary to keep the relationship togeda. God did not command us to overlook our wife and relegate them to the background. Wife’s input counts alot.if pastor chris has done what suppose to be donew, this would have saved the marriage of public ridicule and shame. They both need to be counselled and seek the face of God so that their marriage could be saved. A word is enough for the wise as my people used to say
Well said. Body no bi fire wood. Poor woman !
May God rule over Chris and Anita at there time of trial! A family stay together in time of pains and joy, let us pray for the two pls!…….
Pray for who??? They have mislead a lot of ppl.its high time they ar exposed!!
Shame on you for sayn this.
May God forgive you
Do you understand anything at all,exposed how ??she complained abt her husband being so much engaged with his work n not having time wit her,it can b frustrating as a wife
Pls read the reason for her action very well. Who are ur pastor living with in white house …just go through the demands Anita gave…did he meet any ? How can a man live with those single ladies in the name of church work..what is he preaching to people. He should pray for mercy from God…if not he will be exposed the more
No, they did not mislead, rather the couple were not supported by their closed allies until they came public, probably because people erroneously feel they don’t need counselling as Powerful men of God. They are both humans and nothing is wrong with being just human. The woman is not a fool. She must have acted based on excusable strong and real imagination, cos marriage is everything marriage.Pastor Chris should exhibit that powerful and charismatic gift with which he moves the congregation to appease his wife. God loves marriage institution, so pls marry the two.
No those single ladies who wouldn’t marry misled him
Na true jare all dis naija pastors na one by one God go dey expose them
Your family is your first point of ministry:. if you cant take care of ur immediate how do u take care if others? Pastors of nowadays..
True
may d God lord empower d both of dem en kip dem 2geda.We luv u pastor chris en anita
May God help us!!! Its well.
PASTOR ANITA NRW THE JOURNEY FROM THE BEGINING. IF SHE WANT WORLDLINGNESS TO OVER SHADOW HER FINE. BUT PASTOR CHRIS FOCUS IS THE GREAT MESSAGE WHICH HE CANNOT COMPROMISE. HEAVEN IS ALREADY HIS GOAL. WETHER DIVOICE OR NOT. HE IS A SPIRITUAL MAN. WHAT THE WORLD SAY HAS NO MEANING TO HIM. PASTOR ANITA SHOULD PRAY FOR FORGINESS AND REPENT FROM WORLDLINESS
True talk.
Where are u sense of reasoning, can u define the word WORLDLINESS, ur so called pastor Sorrounded by single ladies doing the chores that his wife shld be doing, if he dies in that attitude he will end up in hell, not everyone who call me Lord will enter into my Kingdom. Take it or leave no pastor is to big to fall, instead of praying for family that God shld unite them as one, U are ther critisizing pastor Anita, I wonder what can of christian we av nowadays.
My bro.na wao! Alot of Christians dont even know dat it all begins from the homes…for many their pastors are Christ…infallible hence they re piety in their thinking. I dont know of any real man of God that does nt worship with his wife side by side. We re humans…we need nt give the devil a chance…God help their marriage.
So Jesus no like marriage be that bah?
..off point…emotional and deceived. Put urself in her shoes. If she’s canal cos she wanted her man then, her angelic husband should marry an angel not human…no one is judging but, i think Christianity starts from the home…take an example from other pastors…they preach daily with their wives seating closer…it’s tempting for a woman to leave her husband for such a long time…i blame madam for not realizing dat we are human…God help them…
I can see you are God that determines who goes to heaven! Pride goes before a fall! And this same God has wrath The pastor that surround himself with single girls, and so after wealth is not worldly abi? Even the devil you know can preach the bible. Remember the devil qouated the book of psalm to jesus when he tempted him. And the same bibles says many shall come in my name! Make una dey follow follow blindly.
Anita should have explore more options to resolve the problem in the home rather than allow unwise counsel from close aquintance. She may think her action is right at the moment but soon than later, she will realise the impact of her foolish decision on herself and the children.
Hey for those who think it is a surprising thing, they need to check history to know that there were men God whose wife almost cost them their ministry. E.g Charsle weaselly, Moses and others. Let us stop criticism and pray for this man and his house hold. God help us all Amen.
i wish u were in her shoes so u can use ur willpower to solve d problems she is in. Which suld com first: ur family or work? thnk pls
emmy, what other options did you expect her to explore other than dicuss with her husband? should she have taken her private family matter to the church to disect and label her names? or she should have confided in people who couldnot solve thier own problems? why would a woman discuss a major marital problem with her husband and he wouldnt even consider a change in attitude? why must a wife suffer unecessarily for good 16yrs of marriage. if she had cheated on him, wouldnt he have labeled her a whore? must she suffer psychologically till she dies? why wont pastor chris have his wife around him instead he chooses to have ladies who are members of his church? lets stop blaming anita simply because pastor chris is the general overseer of christ embassy. pastor chris himself should be held responsible for his actions, general overseer or not. he is a man like every body else and not GOD. I praise pastor anita because not every woman will be this bold. its better to walk away from marriage with dignity than leave in disgrace. she is woman and has needs and feelings. there is nothing canal about that.afta all she is a married woman and has the right to desire and have sex with her husband and anyman who chooses not to oblige his wife is unfair and unjust irrespective of the reasons.family comes first before church. no matter how busy, he can create time for family vacation. we have 12 months in a year and 365 days. how can that number of days passby in a whole year and pastor chris will not create time for family. they so critically drifted apart that its only on church programs he stays with them. if pastor anita is bad in character, then he should spend more time with her to see that every bad attitude she has changes.
@Emmy you are here calling another who is hurt “foolish”…. if u read what she filed you would have known that she has tried other ways to reason with this una Man of God or Angel
See like my brother already said
Pastor Chris has been overtaken by wealth. He is super
rich and with the power of women all around him, he has
abandoned his wife for sixteen years. I hope those chics
fucking him will be finally happy and try their luck. Wonders shall really never ends
She say she no do again! Wetin be una own! Why are you crucifying this lady for sharing her pains? May what she went through happen to all those married men and women condeming her in jesus name! Then you will realise her pains. Instead of you to rebuke your pastor you all are clapping for him.
What is foolish about her decision afterall he has not been in their life for over 16yrs. He is just like a stranger to his children and the family. They don’t know him! Are u seriouse?
so surprising
he should stop d couples fellowship programs henceforth! and go and repair his broken home
Pls the PASTOR to build is home first before teaching on how to build their home
Any way only God knows the real reason of they’re problem.
All things (good or bad)works together for good,to them that love God and to them who are called according to His purpose .D couple love God and they were called by God.The mistake started when they live apart for 16yrs Niger and Uk.Marriage is a yoke that needs love environmrnt to survive. They should come together and do everything together either Uk or Niger another pastor should take care of d other branch and God will take glory.Unless pst Chris doesnt like his wife anymore but what will cause him to be far from her.The problem which everyboby is contributing to now will sooner or very soon be over.Nothing is new on earth..God will work out somthing good out of this.watch out and see.
Pastor Anita could have moved back to Nigeria to live with the husband . Pastor Christ was called and the wife became a pastor because she is married to the man that was called by God . The body of Christ should leave this pastor wife ‘s are pastor too . It makes the women big headed , trying to take the leadership mantel from their men . Women were meant to be an helper to their men . Pastor Anita problem is that she wants to take the leadership position from the pastors she met in the ministry before she was married because she is Pastor Christ ‘s wife . If she really love the husband , let her do away with the pastoral position and stay with the husband as a wife and give peace a chance in the family !
Don’t judge others so that God will not judge you. Women bears a lot of pains and burdens and for her to speak out means she’s losing her mind and dying inside. Just pray for them or people like you should shut their mouth so that you won’t incure God’s wrath. My prayer is that God should shed His light and let His name be glorified
Rember,the woman has only two daughters . Many African men like pastor do not value a woman who cannot give them male children. This may be the plight of this poor woman.
Some of them because of their ego treat women any how. Imagine a married man taking vital decisions in the home without even taking the opinion of d wife into consideration. Ego,they call it. Many so called pastors are the culprits.
Mummy Anita shud not be blamed at all.
How has the man been managing for the past 16 yrs. Is he impotent?.He needs to answer d question.
They need prayers, ple stop commenting on this issue God know the best is a trying time for them.
I jst Laugh……. End Time Is Near… Not every1 dt Say “Lord! Lord!! Wil Enter OoooooO…. Pls we all have 2 b Wise…..
A woman ‘s duty first is to her husband ,pastor Anita was it your husband that ask you to be based in U.K? If you feel your husband is not making out time for the family why didn’t you make out time for him? Am not judging but as a woman you are suppose to make sure your home works,why didn’t you relocate to Nigeria to be close to your husband? Am a woman like you ,I left my job when it was affecting my marriage and my family was not getting quality time from me but The Lord was faithful HE gave me something better and more accommodating to my family.pls pastor Chris don’t destroy your marriage reconcile with your wife God will help you both.
THANK YOU for this comment! I wonder why she even leaves away form her husband. The truth is that Pastor Mrs Anita is competing with her husbandm For Gods sake MUST SHE BE A PASTOR? Must you pastor a church because your husband is a founder???
we dont know if pst anita chose to be a pastor or her husband commanded her to be a pastor but i do know that it takes two to tangle. as much as a woman builds the home, the structure on which the woman builds is set up by the man. the way you lay your bed thats how you lie on it. no one person in this world has 100% pass mark in character and definitely not pastor chris or his wife so they are both at fault. 16yrs is not 16 days. they have both gotten used to living thier seperate lives.comin back together wont be easy except God takes absolute control.
Who told you she is competing with her husband? I am aware that is the line the pastor and members are trending! Thank God that the divource proceedings is not filled in nigeria and a transparent and fair hearing will be given. She wants to give him time to have his whole church members and girls to himself. Why won’t he stay with his wife in uk and allow other pastors to manage the church in nigeria. Money no go let am see road! Abi na only him know God? Well God is exposing them gradually and he should remember that God has wrath!
Nene u sed ur job ryt? Wat is a job compared to an intl church? Who told u she dint evn try to com to Naija to stay with her husband? I’m sure u r d kind dt wud evn gight ur hubby if he dint gv u attention fr just one month.
God bless u Nene. Im not married buh there is something i understand. God is the head of the church and man, while man is the head of the family and his wife. Yes its easy to apportion blame now buh it cannot be ruled out that both are at fault if the real reason they want to divorce is dis oooo. A woman builds and break the home. I feel 16year is tooo long for the woman to have been quiet about this. And i also feel that court is d wrong place to start this case. Did she report him to the higher judge? Was she guided by the Spirit of God? God gave her this man as a hubby she should have reported him to God. Maybe she has too we know not. The bible’s basis for a divorce is if the other spouse was caught in the act of fornication or adultry…. The truth is we can go on and on in this issue buh one thing i think is paramount here is prayers for them, not only them buh also other men of God. They are humans or so dont be deceived. Temptation everywhere…..hmmmmm i rest my case. God grant them wisdom and this is a wake up call for everyone.
A Pastor like pastor Chris that people warship should easily feel like god himself. He speaks that a man is a master and and a woman should do everything to please him, not the other way round. What about man love your wife as Christ love the church and will die for her. The Bible says a man shall leave his father and mother and CLEAVE to his wife and they shall become one, not leaving apart for 16yrs because of church– the is not biblical. If he wanted to pursue God alone, he didn’t have to get married in the first place. He portrays a bad example for the church- two is better than one. I pray that if she has been maltreated and he has been pretending all these years, may God himself expose him so he won’t mislead his followers any longer and if she is at fault may God also expose her. However; my greatest wish it that both of them will repent to God and be humble with each and make their marriage work. Power, money, and knowledge can be destructive- especially African men. God help us oh!
My submission is that the decision of Pastor Anita to divorce her husband is not wise and scriptural, why will she take such decision. if actually she suspected the relationship between her husband and some female staffs, what then was she doing at UK? A wise woman will build her house, though the husband is the head but the wife is the builder. She must also know that many ladies will want to have Pastor Chris and it is Pastor Anita’s responsibility as helpmeet to always make that impossible by not staying in UK and leaving the husband in Nigeria. Even if the devil wants to get a man, the first thing he does is to create distance between him and God after then He strikes. Well Im a follower of the ministry and if actualy I can see the whole matter like this, pls let this rubbish stop, for the sake of us that are eating food from this green pasture. PASTOR ANITA, let this rubbish stop plssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.
This is the best thing happening to Christ embassy. It’s the only way to correct the error as regard the concept of marriage in this church. I believe all this is working together for the good of the church and I am sure that this couple will survive this but this will help everyone set their priority well. This is not the work of any devil, Its just the consequence of the dangerous move of having a couple live separate from each other. It’s well with this couple.
any man that cannot meet d needs of his family is worse than an infidel…na bible talk am. the woman is right.
You
this man what is your problem, do u wont to marry Anita, y are
you talking like an idiot
it is well with all God’s children. Pst Anita & Chris should both read d gospel of Matthew 18: 15-20. Nothing is too hard for God to fix.
No matter what must perform his work in the family and attend to your wife needs
THE MARRIAGE WILL NEVER CRASH IN JESUS NAME AMEN
its quite disheartening how Christians take to social networks to spew whatever venom they have in them. I am of the opinion that this is an issue that borders on every Christian n not just a denomination. This case is rather glaring owing to the personalities involved but what about those of us who have failed in our responsibilities as fathers/husbands n mothers/wives. I’ll implore u set your own house in order. “He is shaking the nations and purging His floor”. MARANATHA
White people and devorce,may God see you through,its only a time of trial,pls don’t fall for it. All is well
Is not an easy tasks to be pastor and husband at the sametime. I salute those that combine d two. They need an extraordinary grace of God. Pls pray for them . Marriage is not a contract.,I mean xtian marriage . It is a life long commitment
As u said ,dis uve endure for 16yrs,woman pray for Gods wisdom to see u tru intend of leaving ur home cos of things uve bin use to,u shld bé careful so pple will nt fall nd fail in there home cos of dis decision of urs,may God help u both….
Pls as a man of God kindly make ur family number one,we all know u are a pastor but share ur time for the sake of peace in ur family tanks.
Nigerians are really gullible people, so some people see Pastor Chris as God, I pity Nigerians, that is why some pastor are enriching themselves from poverty people.
Add me on BBM 7bea1454 We can reason together….
Imposters calling themselves men of God. Husband is a pastor assumed to have been called by GOD,he becomes founder,general overseer,president ,and the wife automatically becomes pastor,assistant founder,deputy general overseer,vice president of the same church.when the pastor is no more,the wife takes over
…to keep milking vulnerable Nigerian s with fake miracles.
Nigerian s shine your eyes! God has started exposing them,one by one,they will all be exposed…the beginning to an end of fake and manipulative pentirascal doctrines.
Thieves with bible,the end is near.
God is shaking the earth, all that is hidden will be brought to light. My people perish for lack of knowledge. How many Nigerian Christians really practice what they preach or give time to discover who God is without depending on Pastor said…… and
falsehood.
That is why people believe lies and give the glory of God to Men that has bewitched them to fill their pockets.
Study thr bible, and discover how the apostles shared everything together to avoid lack among themselves.
But today Peter will rob Paul to stay on high.
Shake the earth, the more O Lord especially my dear Country Nigeria.
Pastor Christ. Pls take another wife. Black ebony beauty from your congregation.
David the man after Gods heart had 300 wives. Wats new?
God hv mercy
God bless ur comment joor. Lolzz
Are u one of the daughter of Jazebel. U mumu of Highest order. How can make such stupid statement.
Ur family first biko
I guess all was because of money. If pastor Mrs knew her husband was not taking care of her,or spending time with the family was because both of them valued money so much. Mummy could have decided to go and settled with the husband in the same place or town or country,rather than depending on who is controlling uk,south Africa,or nigeria. Mummy you too should be blame for allowing ur husband all alone for he is human no matter that he is a pastor. On the other hand pasto please do what u preach to ur Christian.
It is well
@Igpapl, may God forgive yo
some of d comments are stupid. u are judging dis lady wit out knowing her. if dis woman has d mentality of a real Naija woman, me and u knw dat she will like to be treated a high queen. but she is not like dat. I had d opportunity to visit her church in London. I have never seen a woman talk about her husband wit so much honour and respect. she is so calm. am a woman, if my hubby is not adding me to his agenda me too will not like it. do u knw Hw if its d hubby dat ask her to tk over d church in Uk? I strongly believe dat she is d type dat answer yes sir to evrytin d hubby says. so don’t put d blame on her. A man is suppose to love d wife like Christ loves d church. remember oo. so let pastor Chris create time for his family not too. wait let’s really look at it oo. why are all dis high position female in Christ embassy not married? why is it dat only dis particular women u see around pastor Chris. he should per dem wit men like other pastors do. if it was d other way round, I knw tradition will kick in. Abeg stop judging pastor Anita.
May God help Pastor Anita to achieve her aim. she might have said the once she can but nobody knows what she has been passing through all this while. In any thing you do in life, your family should be your number one priority. thank you all
it is well,zGod knwz best ooo
stop saying wat u dnt knw.God only knwz d pple dat serve him hmmmm
They are both pastors, therefore, they should come together, sit down, put the word of God(the Bible)between them and talk. In this talk, pastor Chris should be ready to make the greater sacrifice. Above all, they need our prayers.
All these Pharisees commenting here,where were you when she was siphoning money for him for more than 16 years? Instead of working hard to provide for your families you are here having sympathy for multi millionaires. God knows She can squash any young guy out there,and for the pastor,all those ayamgbas na dem chance be dis to screw the hell out of man of god. Next offering please
Men of God who are arrogant shud learn a lesson from this. You shud always adore ur wives and put them first in anything you are doing. Pastor Anita is very right in all these allegations.I am a woman myself. I will do the same if I were in her shoes. Pastor Chris shud have a rethink. I know d man is a typical Igbo man. If the woman had given birth to male children maybe she would have gotten a better treatment. Remember: dere is god ooo.
this is just a write up by some church members who want to hide up what has been spread already..the charges where adultery, unreasonable behaviors abd many other that she couldn’t say….we ain’t fools ooo.what about his bro that impregnated a south African lady abd they had to abort it with the knowledge of some of the elders of the church….adultery church.brainwashed people.
It is only D almighty God dat can say what happen so gossiping if man is guilty God will Georg him. by time d rot of God will come Upon him he will not see a place to hide his shame
Image laundry and being defensive will not help matters. Pastor Chris should use his charm and charisma to win his wife back. The enemy is on the prowl. Please do not give him a foothold. Don’t be fooled. Pastor Anita has overwhelming evidence to prove the mildly put “inappropriate behaviour with some female member(s) of staff”. Wisdom in this matter is the correct application of all scriptural provisions for the resolution of this highly distracting matter. A higher level of maturity and prayers should be sowed into this matter by all genuinely concerned. Please do not consolidate your plight upon ignorance or empty pride. Shalom!
Some of our men of God 2day r not frm God, they r just some charismatic orators who r blessed wit d gift of influencing people to make money..problm wit them 2day is dt some fools have been so brainwashed dt they can kill dia mother if d prophesy arrives 4 it 2 b done. Obama is an orator, although he is gifted,he did not become a pastor..He rather became a leader..some of this so called pastors shuld discover dia true callings..they shuld stop stealing from d poor and d rich alike..amassing serious wealth while dia congregation who contribute 2 dia coffers r ordinary poor men of God, while they d pastors buy jets..they r just running COMPANIES not churches..hw can a man dt call himself a pastor and a man of God who is able 2 organise and lead a family of close 2 millions(his church) fail 2 have time 4 a family of “three”(his immediate family). Wia dd he learn d Love and Devotion he is suppose 2 share in his congregation. “Our pastors lied 2 us, they r great pretenders”. Pastor chris pretended 4 “years” that evrytin is alright.A book shuld b written on hw “Religion” and its siblings “Churches” underdeveloped Africa.
Well said all…. But the fact remains this guys are bunch of hypocrite in the name of God…2 me it’s just a tip of & iceberg. trust no man born of a woman but God.
Well said all…. But the fact remains this guys are bunch of hypocrite in the name of God…2 me it’s just a tip of & iceberg. trust no man born of a woman but God.
Chukz ugbaja.
God created marriage and He is interested with how it is managed. No matter how committed you are to your ministry, your family is your first Church before others. your wife is your first point of duty. take it or leave it.
I pray pastor chris will jst pick up his phone and call pastor Anita and say hey my wife withdraw the case am coming to London so that we shame the devil and tell the world that we are children of God
Only GOD undertands most the secret places of human`s heart. Let Him take control & leaders in the ministry should lend their supporting hands of fellowship. It is well in the body of Christ.
pls people, instead of laying blames and comment on who’s right and who’s wrong, why not take some to pray bout d situation?,nobody is above temptation and trails, it’s what must come to everyone, and its what u make out of it that matters;whether ur gonna conquer them or ur gonna let dem overwhelm you!. as Christians, let us not join the devil and the world in affecting d faith of other Christians but rather,let us pray for them cos we belong to d body of Christ and christ is d head! about 2-3 yrs ago, the great man of God ‘Benny hinn’ had a similar situation with his wife which even led to a divorce , but thank God, today, they’re back together! let me also say, that dos who go about ranting their mouths criticising men of God, u’ve gotta be care full, so dat u’d nt bring causes upon urself and children and also setting a path for a frustrated future!!!
Exactly Samuel take time to pray for the couple instead of critisizing.
u don’t need to blame des pipo. day av bin misled by d teachings of PST Chris. if a PST separate church leaders who r married to different branches of his church wat is he encouraging? y Will u send a man to Maiduguri n his wife to delta all in d name of church. if u cannot take care of d needs of ur wife,whatever need it may be….. den y is she ur wife? is she der just to make ur status complete as a ‘married’ man? if a pastor or any oda man can’t take care of his immediate family … den Hw can he care for d multitude behind him. if ur marriage is failing den ur church can’t stand. wat r u preaching on d pulpit? y r only fooling ursef n d persons following you. as a man ur wife is supposed to b ur wife, ur girlfriend, ur fiancee,ur whore, ur companion,ur best friend, n d list goes on n on…… d woman can’t take it any longer n it is beta she leaves now dat she has her dignity n pride n not wen she will go after d worldly tins while she is still in marriage n den d husband will say she is a whore. her body no b firewood. shuuuoo
annoynumos or whatever you call urself,re u better than chris??? you know what, u re morin bit antichrist nd i leave to d jurgment of GOD.
God knows it all. May he help them settle their case. Amen
but you women should know that being a pastor’s wife is not all that easy even if you both lives together. i know a prophet wife that is very unhappy because her husband engages more on fasting and prayers instead giving her time at nights.
this is where catholic doctrine of priest remaining unmarried get supports even thou the priest are not angels
May be Anita still feel like being treated like a woman while Pastor Chris have overcome that … shhhh who knows ..
I believe every problem has a solution. Pastor Chris you use to tell us that any problem without solution it means it’s not yet a problem, there are millions of people who love you and the ministry secretly why is this coming up now? U amend many homes, many marriages and life will your own be different God for bid. To pastor Anita you are a fighter and has already won please don’t let the Devil take over your thought. According to JOYCE MEYER in her book Battlefield of the mind chapter 3. She said something remarkable; She Said” No matter how bad the condition of your life and your mind, don’t give up! Regain the territory the devil has stolen from you. If necessary, regain it one inch at a time. Please ma if the statement above is true, divorce is not the best option remember it for better for worst. But I believe it can not get worst. I love you ma cos you have already endure to the very last, now please let your faith be tested and aproof. The level Iam today thanks to you and rev.pastor Chris, thanks.
When Catholics insist that clergy men don’t marry some “talk before think” would say its extreme.
Family is a big burden.family responsibilities slows a man down.
Distant marriage don’t work.
They just failed.
Gravely embarrassing.
they have been decieiving a lot of people for a very long time.teaching false doctrines.this shld be an eye opener for all d members
Who are you unreasonable critics to judge another man’ servant?
Take care of your families first before poke nosing into another man’s. May God help you all!
But why were they living seperately before? Are they not supose to live 2gethfer as husband nd wife? They are the cause of their problem.
All those of u who claim anonymous in ur comments are agents of d devil. Ur d accusers of d brethren. D devil knws the only way it can bring down d Pastor is to accuse him. The bible says any weapon fashioned against d children of God shall not prosper. Judge not so that he not be judge. Am sure those of u who are criticising under anonymity and not Christians. Pastor Chris is a man of God, what ever is happening is only God who can fix it. Ur comments and contributions are nt needed. Pls
I will only say one thing, let’s call a spade a spade, yes he is a man of God
let me bring to ur notice dat he owe God a responsiblity for accepting the call and he also owe his family especialy his wife a responsiblity too. he his not d only one who is married as a man of God there oda pastors out dere. so plz he shud settle dz shit in d right way…devorce is not d only option…I feel her pains. she must have bin accomodating d lonliness for long. he shud learn to carry his wife alone instead of oda female assistant. dats wat My pastor Dr Paul Enenche dose. its well God knws better.
But my is question is, these people do teach about marriage as an institution, would they ever teach about marriage again?
But my question is, these people do teach about marriage as an institution, would they ever teach about marriage again?
But my is question is, these people do teach about marriage as an institution, would they ever teach about marriage again?
jesus said that who ever do not love him more than his family more than his life is not his .
I pray God will resolve this issue for Pastor Chris and Pastor Anita, Marriage is not easy. But not everything will answer to prayer. It is a simple biblical procedure, man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife, not separate from his wife. Most pastors I know always go to church to minister with their wife beside them. Let them stay together at their church headquarter and allow another Pastor head the branch at UK or Nigeria or wherever. They are suppose to be together. We don’t only teach people the word by mouth alone, but also by action. How can you teach me “HOW HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE WORK” and your home is not stable. I pray God intervene in their issue. Amen!
Even Adam was tested .Temptation is part of human .Oyakhchrist is not an exraordinary being.Do nt blame him much
To my own conception,both of them are humans, they’re bound to make mistakes but d mistake u pple makes is that u’re attributing an ordinary man to be God who’s perfect in all His ways, salvation is a personal thing not a collective movement with God, that’s why there’ll surprises in heaven on that day, plsss I beg u by d mercies of God, forget about other people’s problems n work out your own salvation, because God’s the only ONE that knows everything n sees the intent of every hearts.
Trials emerge in life,what we need to do as Christians, is to keep praying and hope that they are truly saints from above. Life is a misery. Cos if they are not,then it is time for them to be exposed. No false prophet or minister should be spared.
Please why will a man allow is wife to be presiding over a church in uk , while him in Nigeria. Where is the wife suppose to be? Is she not suppose to be with his husband! Cant other pastors do that!………… Am really confuse….
it is well with their marriage.I pray they work things out.its never too late to make amends.
Pastor Chris has been overtaken by wealth. He is super rich and with the power of women all around him, he has abandoned his wife for sixteen years. I hope those chics fucking him will be finally happy and try their luck. He will know the difference between gold n painted stone sooner than expected. I expected him to be on his kneel begging instead of claiming to be a man of God. Only God knows His people. Chris please ask TB Joshua. Lolsss. Wonders shall never ends
I belief that if pastor Chris is a true man of God,God Himself will intervene nd put the devil nd those commenting negatively to shame. AMEEEN
wonderful, how can a man be a pastor & a wife be a pastor, one is in Nigeria, one is in UK the question is, who will go down for who? two master, & you know master always have servant who will be master who will be the servant? well if there is no one to be a servant for whom then a master must look for servants for assistant,
my advice is, if Anita wants the best of her husband from PST Chris she must moved from UK & live with PST Chris in Nigeria & let UK have another PST.
The first mistake here is about d couple living seperately for 16yrs. Dats heartbreaking. Plssssss its not right. A man and his wife r one body. They shld live together under d same roof and sleep on one bed. I’m sure its d distance dat gv room to d devil to operate. I’m not here to judge but whose ever decision it was frm d beginning, let it stop now. If dis story is true, pastor Anita, I feel ur pains as a woman and pastor Chris why not work wit male instead of female just to gv peace a chance? Males r v gud and contributive in d ministry as well. They sing, preach, pray etc. Even if ur wife does not giv a hook about those ladies around u, hv u considered wot ur congregation and d world wld say? Pls don’t gv people an avenue to run u down. Pls I don’t support divorce 4 d sake of Christ, christainity, ur members and ur innocent, lovely and beautiful kids. but I want d two of u to come together and settle ur diffrences in respecting each other’s opinion. I believe if d two of u wil humble urselves and come under d same roof to hv an agreement prayer and fasting concerning dis, God wil surely intervane. And peace, love and happiness wil reign in ur home again. Dis marriage needs a rebranding. Dats just d way out. Ur marriage/home is v v important. Treat it as ur priority
Pastor Chris ought to have addressed and resolved his wife’s grievances before it got to this extent. Nonetheless, to resolve it remains the only option. Let him go to beg his wife and stay with her for one month. Thereafter, she should be accorded her place as wife so that she can do her job. Pastor Chris MUST discontenance the assumption that his wife is a Pastor and so she should understand. No. Her maker did not configure her that way. He must be around to receive the ‘heat’ and then try to ‘cool’ it through direct negotiation with her. He should not seek to build build build church and take for granted that the destroyer of church is also working very hard. I believe that the Lady (his wife) is a christian and knows what is at stake – she would not glorify the devil by proceeding with the divorce if she gets a good deal from negotiations with her husband. Moreover, I do not think asking for attention is asking for too much.
Finally, Pastor Chris must address the structure of the church which made the wife Head of UK/Europe church for it is the cause of all the problem. He must not tie her down with such responsibility nor put her (an informal relationship) into a formal structure where some other Pastors will be called her seniors. It is a management error.
Pastor Oyakilome had to behave like a
man of God for God does not approve divorce let him go back to and reconcile with his wife else he destroy his ministry
lord plz continue xposin dem amen!
I think pastor Chris should have a rethink abt this whole issue, because all fingers are pointing at him, but the problem is too is that, we have only heard the wife’s part of the story which gives her the grounds and reasons to proceed with filing for divorce, but we have not heard from pastor Chris own parts of the story, maybe he too has a saying of something which the woman must have done wrong which is equally wrong to their companionship and which must have led him to stay apart from the wife. My question is that , what does pastor Chris has to say about this issue?, And that, does all the allegations that his wife is making against him true or false?, if true, then, what could be his reasons to act in such cruel manner towards his wife? ,
All the same, the bible says if any body have a problem with a fellow brethren, he should keet his offering aside, and make peace with his brethren then come back and give his offering to God, so I think pastor Christ should forget abt the ministry for now, and go back and make peace with his wife and then come back and continue with his ministry.. as demanded by God..
May the almighty God see them thru.. AMEN