Dear Tiwa,
Show me a marriage without challenges and I will show you a virgin in a maternity ward (birthing center): Most marital crises happen prime of the bliss. This is no different from what our parents went through and what we, the people that ventured into marriage would go through or are experiencing, these times of our lives. These wahalas come with “the territory”.
But what makes your palava unique is the arena chosen to out this perhaps usual roforofo fights: the social media. Your celebrity status accelerated the speed of the spread. Everyone on social media has an opinion, even those that don’t know what and how you feel. Don’t blame us, Tunji invited us. And you privileged us gate pass to your faltered family.
Tiwa, after watching your Pulse television interview, I felt your pulse and Teebillz heartbeat from a distance. You both cried out for help. You are hurting. Teebillz is also hurting. He is a coke head. He is human. The environment and nature of your business influences entices and encourages such social behaviors. He stole your money: greed… so what. Sometimes, you take from the one you love. He must have spent it on you and or the family… am not giving excuses, but Nne, words are like weapons, they wound you sometimes.
You publicly stated, while avoiding eye contact with the Television camera that the marriage was over. Tiwa, your pronouncement did not match your body language. You are angry. You still love him. What is missing? you and Tee are too busy engaged in the limelight, washing your designers’ linens in public. The cracks were getting deeper, but you both did not communicate to address your problems. Teebliz loves you. You love him. Life can be short or long. Love can be right or wrong.
Mama T, go after what you love. You are stronger than pride. Go get your man and seek help. Take a trip to a marriage counselor and offer him drug rehab. You too need to go into rehab. Forget everything. You both love each other; hence, you reached out to us. Tiwa, Teebliz is human. You are also human and woman. Those encouraging you to drop him or let him go are not your friends. They do not care about you and your child. Go and get your family back together. You both made mistakes. It is time to seek help as a couple and a young family. There is nothing out here but home wreckers services at work. Talk!. Talk!!. Talk to your husband. I felt your pains: you are still trapped in love. I believe he feels the same ways too.
You stated your mother always urged you to work things out: I think you should listen to your mother. Forget about the whispers, the comments, and the silly Facebook babbles and vitriolic nonsense from mostly losers, on social media and Nkworbi joints. Teebliz’s outbursts were an attempt to open up a dialogue with you: although he chose the wrong platform. He misdirected his plea to you to see his pains and love for the family. Your heart is young. Your love, still fresh, Tiwa, do not be deceived by several advisers and negative vibes to support you. These are from hangers-on that want to be there for you. The truth is, they will never be here. You do not need anyone’s advice to mend your broken hearts and rescue your young marriage from collapse.
You need two hurting hearts to meet, sit down as adults still in love, communicate and resolve your differences. Let your feelings show and go. Those advising both of you now, don’t feel the loneliness and lonely nights under the bedsheets, or mornings alone on the couch remembering how love came by and swept you off your beautiful skinny feet, the memories of gracious and seductive moments, the temptations to text him, or checking the cell phone every ring or minute, wishing secretly that he called or text..Or sleeping alone at nights in the bed you both shared some silly real and genuine moments of love, unlimited: holding his favorite cloth or T-shirt just to smell his body scents; the little things both of you did in the beginnings that made each fond of the other, the crazy memories when you both thanked God for making each the other’s selection, when you gave affection to get each’s attention. You, my dear, can work things out.
Don’t say it’s over. It’s not over. You still love him. He still loves you. To hell with what people will say. They have already stated their worst.
They will continue to say more as long as you’re alive and successful.
Don’t let that stop you from your love. Mama Tee. Waka after your man. Save your marriage and seek help collectively so that you will amaze the world with a second chance at love. I wish you best as you listen to your heart. Regards to your lovely son. Be strong.
The Article Originally Appeared on SaharaReporters written by Azuka Jebose
How can I transfer money form my dreamland account to my real life bank account??? I have too much money there!
I tot u people has closed this chapter of tiwa
use kuvukuland account,it is instant transfer
Stop blaming tiwa…that teeb I don’t even care about his name should grow up first then own his mistakes as a gentleman.. He is the one to try save the marriage.. Period
Geez.. why can’t u leave Dis lady alone for once. . Or u hve run out of news¿
I said it be4… u guys criticized me.
I said she should invest her time & energy to saving her marriage back more becos she has a child 4 him instead of opening secrets abt themselves except she doesn’t want it.
There is nothing she is passing through dat other married women r not passing through.
I wish her all d vry bst.
Very good,someone needs to tell Tıwa pls go n make ur marrıage work and stop all thıs show u are puttıng on.
Save a disaster?
Why should anyone endanger their happiness all in the name of tradition?
I do believe there are some marriages worth saving, however this one is clearly detrimental to her wellbeing. Foh
U sounds like ur name.
Lolz very funny
Okay are You done since You sound worse than My name whoever You are cause idc
Their child will grow up knowing nd seeing his father downloading cocaine na wa o
Raja K Kishore I know you believe in Hindu but Jehovah and his son Jesus Christ created all the items you used in your Hindu shrine,so why don’t you go straight to the most high God (Jehovah) than using his items to form your God? Jehovah/Jesus Christ is the only existing God.every other items made by human and named as God is fake.
Basil Osezele At least comment and reply with out insult
when the guy messes up its the lady to fix it…how shallow…let him go and fix it…….He need to do a big big apology…..if he does not apologise then he is not sorry for the wrong he has done to her….
he is the one that opened their secrets to the world…him not her…so he should beg her for forgiveness….this man is just a disgrace….
Dougie Dg Doug your very very right…why should tiwa be sorry for the mistakes the so called guy has made.
Basil, get out of your cave and travel.
Rosana Philda as much as both have issues, the man is to blame for spilling had s dirty crap in public. How dare You in your right senses try to expose your marital issues to the world- Instagram… Shame on him
@mr Raja plz u hv 2respect my christian God bcos he is d most high,he is also a consuming fire plz be warnd tnk u
Mr Raja,i dot suport him bt why i sent dt infor is only bcos u disrespect my mighty God
Dougie Dg Doug yes he is…shame shame shame on him…and its sad that people want Tiwa to now fix it…..let the guy fix it if he really wants her back.
the man messed up so why should she be the one to fix it…let him do the fixing.
The so called Tee is a loser…he n st wanted attention and a way to evade his irresponsibility
A wise builds her house but ………………down wit her hands.It cant be that bad. I ve heard of worst cases but was eventually resolved. U too can bring back ur marriage if u want. Go my dear u nid bck ur man.
Wishing you the best dear
Every1 one has money there
Well maybe, but u can never be so sure @ oyinda
Chukwu Emmanuel Ifeanyi you say your God is fire U0001f525 so you are threatening me that He will burn my ass in hell fire if I don’t fall in line and confess my sins, this orgy I went through for many years and then I got enlightened like Buddha that there’s no proof for this sort of theology and left your religion.
Via an operator called Hardwork…..
Oyindamola Barbour Can You Enlighten Us With Facts Why You Think It Is Detrimental To Her Wellbeing?
@ Adeyemp your right, but seems like Tiwa Savage mother was divorced or separated from the father of Tiwa, so it means somehow generational problem that might go on till someone will broke the curse. Is not easy
For crying out loud why are people on this lady? Did she complain to you,all she did was respond to allegations levied against her.this society is very unreasonable when it comes to blaming women,in cases like this u don’t see people calling on the man to go fix it since he is a head,sometimes i wonder what headship represents in marriage.people be fair for once but heaven won’t fall
Is Tee Bliz that should salvage is home not tiwa, if he knows he cant handle his marriage he shouldn’t have married…
Raja K Kishore TO START WITH.WHAT ARE YOU INDIAN RAPIST DOING IN THIS PAGE?
A perfect marriage is juz 2 IMPERFECT people who refuse to give up on each other and depends on God with faith to help them make it work,BC we are imperfect Arguments n disagreement are natural in marriage but we should try n control ourselves,n not Fight infront if our kids,its destructive when children are subjected to this inconsiderate dishonoring behavior from parents, its important to realize that when 2 people,these children Love the most ,the ones who are in charge of protecting n helping them grow into healthy adults are pitted against each other right infront of them or within ear shot, This hurt them.
As parents live so that when ur children think of fairness, caring n integrity, they think of u.The best u can do for ur kids n family is to recognize that disagreement n quarrels are private matters that need to be identify n resolve BTW u n spouse without audience. Provide ur children with positive example of conflict resolution that doesn’t involve Screaming matches.
Ephesians 5:22(wives ,submit to ur own husband, as to the Lord)but if the man is not submissive to God Lady involved God,you can’t fight n win alone,you need God to help you,Once he is submissive to God u will never separate.Romans 12:17_18(Repay no evil for evil.have regards for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possibly, as much as depends on you,live peaceably with all men)amen.
Mr Raja,i dot realy kwo why u dot kwo who created u,first he is Almighty God weda u beliv or nt he cant change,he loves you,jst beliv in him ad concentrate in his words bcos he can neva change dn i’l join my faith wt ur faith in prayer so he wil show forth himself 2u
Oyindamola Barbour Travel to ur home,nuts
Raja K Kishore Well seek for peace n seek for God ,n stop been a home destroyer
Igwe Isagba Sorry,i heard u bro
Ifeanyi Sylvester Egbunamu
Hello tiwa I fill your pains in dis your breakp marriage saga, its really not eazy for a woman to go into marriage an come out of it, but my question is, why is Your husband accuesing u of multiple men? Why has he not been. Able to no d type of woman you are? I sincerely feel for u my advise to you is put all tings to God in prayer an if you truly love your husband go back an apologize to him an u guys should put things straight. An let all dat have help to advertise your broken marriage, also help to advertise Your reconciliation with your hubby. Tanks
@Ifeanyi plz mind d way u insult ppl sho respect
Mr raja plz jst handle ds wt maturity dts jst a piece of advice tnk u
@Eyllena may God show u favour in Jesus name,u’l be a blessing 2ur generation,ur favourd
Indians with their bad head…say that to you gods in India Raja K Kishore
Worse human ever liveth
Tiwa pls just follow what you think is best for u just like what I said before u are the one that wear the shoes and knows were it pains u dear.
Chukwu Emmanuel Ifeanyi did I mentioned your name? be mute!
@ifeanyi my name sake hmmm kk is wel tnk u
Raja K Kishore you Indian rapist. shut up!
Raja K Kishore old ugly fool.i know you must be one of them that worship cow in India.
Had it been say dem dey use dz tiwa marriaqe palaver collect money for bank, i for like to follow d update so dt my bank acct qo dey smile
Successful marriage takes two. Once it falls apart: they can either pick up the pieces and try to patch things up or let go peacefully because of their kid. I really don’t understand why all these dirty secrets all in the name of scoring points or sympathy. It’s so sad reading and hearing from both parties actually. Where are their families and what exactly are they doing about all of these rubbish? They should be in a better position to advice them on settling their differences amicably for the sake of their son. I’m very ashamed that all of these are happening just because things fell apart between the duo. Neither of them are the victim but the innocent child.
True, i lav thm both..
Make God makes peace in ur home IJN Amen
To be a celebrity in Naija is almost like a curse. Everybody knows what you should do in your life except you. Give it a break guys, it’s no longer breaking news. Sigh!
I tire for them oh
Why are u advicing her to slavery? Who steal an eeg will steal a cow . So tiwawa dont take that man back. U are not stranded.
They won’t allow someone to read good post again for more than one week now 2persons are reigning here Mitchwww none sence
I wish you guise will stop anything concerning this two couples this is family for Christ sake, neither the saperate or come together as one one thing will happen
‘ eishing you yhe brst dear
Even as she faces this situation I am just waiting for a call from her
let her be oooo, so Nigeria problem is over . £$ is not high now . please babe live ur life . better things ahead .
Contact me for a visa to canada.usa.australia
Gossipmill Abel free this lady. I’m bored reading about Tiwa on ur page for several days now. Aha ah. Tell ur journalists to get to work and get juicy news
This man way write this letter, who send u?
Wona leave anybody make ei do as ei like wartty sef with advice here and there
Raja K Kishore Why are you so rude?
Gossip mill, mind your business na shuooo
Pamela Bawe some comments of isegbunamu were removed by fb, you don’t know the background
My Book tittled “Show me a marriage without challenges and I will show you a virgin in a maternity ward” will soon be out for the public. But before then, Baby Tee, please, please and please, go back to your husband and salvage your matrimonial home, if not for any reason, for the sake of your son. This is where the true test of your name comes to play. There can never be another home outside you and your husband TeeBillz. Honestly, I hate to see you shed tears just as I hate to see TeeBillz walk down the street without you. Be wise! Be the wise woman the bible is talking about and be Tiwa Salvage.
Let her b!!!!!! If bobo did not want wahala he would not have posted anything in d first place. shuuuu!!!!
you guys should leave Tiwasavage and her husband alone oooooooooooooooooo……………you all should face your own family problems oooooooooooooo. and stop gossiping about someones real life problems……………. leave them alone oooooooooooooooo
come i no open my facebook because of tiwa and tee bliz abeg close the chapter
Dear Tiwa, you and your husband should go to God in prayers. There is no marriage without crisis. You guys ought to love and cherish each other. The first five years of every marriage is full of full of trouble, quarrel, etc. Pls my dear sister forget the past and build your home. God bless you.
Tiwa, this is a candid advise take it with your heart and do the needful, nothing we have not heard and seen in this life.