A recent survey discovered that 15 percent of American men had paid for s*x at some point in their life.
The stats surprised me — they were higher than I had expected. But then I realized that I personally know a few men who have frequented the services of ladies of the night. A few indulged on a bachelor’s trip to Prague, another hired a prostitute every night on his way home from the pub, and yet another hired services online a few times a month.
So I thought I’d ask them outright: why do you pay for s*x? The answers are way simpler than you’d imagine:
5. They want to sleep with MUCH hotter women.
“If I’m being brutally honest, the hottest women I’ve ever f*cked have been s*x workers. I would never be able to f*ck women who are ridiculously hot unless they were prostitutes.”
This was the top reason they all gave. I was surprised, since the guys I asked are all good-looking, successful in their chosen fields, and have no problem getting dates. But they all agreed that to sleep with stunning women, the easiest way was simply to pay.
4. They want to be in control.
“I still want to make sure that the woman is having a good time. But truthfully, I’m more concerned that I’m getting what I want, since I paid for it. And because I paid for it, I’m not afraid to ask.”
Most of them said there’s something very hot in being able to ask for what you want in bed and get it, no questions asked. (Although one guy did admit he paid a prostitute once so that SHE could be in charge.) But generally, they all admitted to being more open about what they wanted and more physically satisfied when they paid for sex. Emotionally, of course, remains to be seen.
3. They want to indulge in a fantasy.
“I like to try things — I’m not going to say what — that a girlfriend once told me was kinky. When I pay a hooker, I’m not worried about what I ask for. Nothing shocks them.”
Although most of the guys I spoke to were all single, the old cliché of men asking prostitutes for certain “services” that would offend their wives still seems to exist. One man said that he’d never had better oral sex in his life than with a prostitute.
2. They want to find the quickest route to having s*x.
“Getting a prostitute is so easy: no strings attached, you can choose the woman you want before you purchase, then they arrive at your door. Couldn’t be easier.”
All the guys I spoke to had used different methods of visiting prostitutes. Two used websites, another visited a brothel, and another took a prostitute’s number from a London phone box. But they all agreed: it was the quickest way to get sex when they felt the urge.
1. They want to avoid complications.
“We want to have sex without all the bullsh*t of pretending to be really interested in a girl. When you pay for sex, you don’t have to swap numbers at the end when you know you won’t call. You pay, have sex, she leaves. Everyone’s happy.”
Several of the men had previously had one-night stands with girls who wouldn’t leave them alone after the fact. They said that taking home a girl and sleeping with her seems like a great idea … until the girl suggests meeting again or wants to start dating or having a relationship. As embarrassed as they were to admit it, many of them said the sure-fire way to have no-strings-attached sex is to pay for it.
– This post originally appeared on “Your Tango”
Another reason is because they are safe. No guy goes into a prostitute without protection.
Ashewo no de ask for money for Brazilian hair or money for hostel accommodation (student wahala)
Another reason is that, they are good in bed and more satisfactory.
Na mtn dem be Pay as you go
Hmmmmmmmmmm, most men even prefer them than their lovely wives , men are funny, @ Chukwuma Peter , how are they good in bed when every man they narrow their dirty ass, My dear the worst thing in life is going to brothel to ask for sex, they are exposed to many things to dangers , this days sef married men patronize them well, when their wife try to show a trick to them they wnt fancy it, See this prostitutes you see are not ordinary they drink different kind of drunk to make them sweet on bed , when the man goes to his girl or wife he wnt be sexually attracted to them.
so the money you pay her..she does not have to ask for it….and yet it might even last just 10min and she does not have to deal with your emotional issues…but sad that a woman who will have sex with you till morning…cook for you wash your clothes….listen to you when you have emotional stress….she will be called materialistic is she asks for money to do her hair and her accomodation…..nkt
that is another lie most do it when they are drunk then 6 months down the lane the ashawo is in your office saying she is having your baby…..how did that happen…
they why do the men not marry them if sex is so important…..
I think wives are too good sometimes………Women have suffered…..men want so much from ladies…one that can cook…one that can clean….one that is good in bed….others prefer a shy wife….so she cant be good in bed….one that is working…..Hmmmmm what do men think we are made of……You pay a prostitute for yes yet your wife’s hair is a mess….she goes to parties looking like a house help…no food at home…and you will still bring her diseases…..Imagine for one moment…if wives were to charge their husbands each round of sex they have the same way the ashawos do……wont we be rich……
Rosana Philda you are not a guy, you will never get it. No ashawo gets pregnant like that. Ashawo is a professional that every guy dreams of having a good time with, bcos no casualty is attached.
Rosana Men that go there are not going ther looking for a wife to marry rather to quench they lust for good sex or satisfy thy sexual appetite
Frank Kingsley Uzoma but that is the lame excuse people are giving..that the wives are always asking for money for hair n other things…or they are not good in bed…alll that is BS…..so who says women do not have big sex appetites…so are we also allowed to look outside if we are not satisfied…actually men who sleep out leave their wives hungry foe sex…so in short most wives are given a go ahead to have other men who can satisfy them since their husbands sleep with hookers and leave them sexually starved……Many men are blind when it comes to sex…if the woman tries something new she will be accused of cheating.
some men do that out of their stupidity,instead of going for those ASEWO,why not teach your wife to be what you want her to be in bed
This rosana jst de complain shaaaaa…. Babe relax, ashewo nobi spirit, na social worker under the hospitality industry. Lol. Anyways, mk I sign out from dis discussion before my future wife catch me here. God has forgiven our passed sins. Am jst talking from passed experience abeg oh.
they are some girls u feel they are decent this prostitute are better than them so dont criticise them
Beta pickin #point%
As a born dribbler Teach your wife and enjoy your marriage please.
Thats where you ladies fool yourslves bcos men wil always b men and if wman dnt buy that then let the roof burn down bcos yu cnt see that men are head not tail search for one that wil share things 50/50 Probably in white man land not in our african land
What else besides being nasty and dominant
Frank go and read ur Bible it is an error for a married man to cheat my goodness well on d last day every one will speak for him or her self
I pity those men
Frank Kingsley Uzoma well men are funny when it comes to money they want 50/50 but taking care of the house is a woman’s job…well today women can do what men can…so you can cheat as a man and so can I as a woman…..
Angela even as a woman that u are if ashawo sleep with u………. u will b in love with her…. so lock up
Frank Kingsley Uzoma and men are no longer the head…they let their women work to provide….what makes you a head???
the truth is that men want new things, even if d’wife is sweeter. ashawo is better than one mistress that lives near ur house! hookers judt do and leave, no big deal. if a woman can get a one night hooker every time she needs sex then there wont b a problem.
roasana no man will ever sleep wit hooker witout protection unless he was a dog when u knew him too
as a man i do not mind my wife cheating if she can get a male hooker anytime she wants! bt me and u know that is not possible. female hookers are everywhere,bt male hookers are rare. most times women sleep with close friends .that is a no no
and most men will do a hooker what they would nevr do to their wives, even d’hooker would hate it bt she is being paid
Odia Alex men are easier to get you know why…they think about sex every 10 minutes scientifically……she does not need to get a hooker all she needs is to point and a guy n he will be erect in less than 5 min……and the plus side is she never has to pay a coin for it……so who has it better here…she will get the sex but not spend a coin….women are clever that way….
Odia Alex so men spend their family money on hookers and their kids cant even afford school fees and they are proud of it….
D truth is dat anyman doing dat is possessed of a particular demon
Yeah they re possess
Never you all not forgat all women are ASEWO
A vida e pezada mas eu nao gosto nada
Rosana Philda well you not right ! I know your type ! Expensive girl that what you are maybe we come to serve you people
Plus a you are right brother