A pastor has authored a book which says it’s okay for singles to indulge in sєx before marriage, Christian or not.
Having sєx outside marriage even though accepted by society, is frowned upon by christians. An author, Bromleigh McCleneghan, has attempted to explain why it may be okay to actually indulge in ‘guilt-free’ sєx even as a single christian who doesn’t conform to the world (okay na).
According to her, it’s okay to have sєx along as it’s “mutually pleasurable and affirming“. She also said it’s not by force to stay off sєx, especially if you became single by circumstance.
The married mother of three who is also an associate pastor at the Union Church of Hinsdale in Chicago, USA, said it’s also great to be faithful to your sєxual partner, even if you are both unmarried.
Here’s what she said below:
“If we refrain from having sєx that isn’t mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn’t respect the sacred worth of ourselves and our partners…Chastity, or just sєx, requires that whether we are married or unmarried, our sєx lives restrain our egos, restrain our desire for physical pleasure when pursuing it would bring harm to self or other.”
You can teach your woman how to be good on bed the way you want after u are married..Testing each won’t amount to anything…even after marriage, childbirth, a woman libido drops. ..sex Is one of d important things in marriage though but u can’t keep doing this testing thing all for d sake of marriage. …
Tashah all those things you listed I don’t think you know. Maybe you should go back and read the whole scriptures about you just listed.
She is an adultrious pastor
DAT pastor is a devi L’s instrument
That’s called testing before buying!
Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya 15 but your look in your profile pictures says differently and why the 3 laughing logo? Well you know what you mean by that I can assure you I understand lol
Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya 15 but your look in your profile pictures says differently and why the 3 laughing logo? Well you know what you mean by that I can assure you I understand lol
That’s is called testing before buying
That’s is called testing before buying
Reading through carefully, I am tempted to believe that the human mind today is made to accept one irrational fact that sex is the only sin one could commit before marriage. What about the other sins? All we needed as Christians is not who did what before or whatever but rather the grace of God. In fact the fortifying blood of Jesus;that innocent blood shared on the cross for the remission, redemption and the salvation of the believer and of you and I. Don’t forget, condemnation is not a commandment a believer is to live by. Moreover, as a Christian we don’t leave under the laws but by the grace we are safe.
Can all here condemning this woman claim absolute righteousness? No! I don’t think so but God knows but the best.
Thanks Queen
Yes, the bible is not a story book but they are characters though, that’s why their names were mentioned and we read about them…also we have a popular children’s book “my book of bible STORIES”. Does the fact it happened in the old testament and Jesus died for us for the remission and atonement of our sins mean we should disregard the old testament and the stories therein?
So does that also mean having sex with my girlfriend is a sin because we are not “legitimately” married?
Mind you, the wisest king that ever lived and had the blessings of God had hundreds of wives and thousands of concubines. I know you’re argument would be that was old testament…
I like dat he is a DOG…. lol..
it doesn’t mean u shld disregard it, but it means dat sins dat r expressly condemned in d new testament outweighs d old testament, since Jesus came 2 nullify d old testament
Last days are here
FALSE TEACHINGS! !!!
The devil is a liar.
Hahahahaha ,i think she is not a Pastor but another empty lies from the kingdom of darkness.she is a joke and by the way what bible is she reading?
My sister Chinazo Obi Okojie Jesus did not come to “nullify” the old testament. He said I have not come to condemn the law but to fulfill it
Queen Ayanfe-Oladeji i dont believe in satan ooooo. i m just a free person with a working brain. what u call satan is just instinct that every animal has. if u are able to control ur instinct or satan as u call it, u will distinguish urself from animals and u will be a good person
I wish I waste devil
Maybe your working Brain is malfunctioning
Riccardo Malimpensa God has prove Himself to me many times, i feel so sorry for your soul.
Was it said by Obinim’s wife?
Na wetin ur Bible say? which Bible talk sey premarital sex is ok? By their fruits we shall know them.
There’s something about you guys i still don’t understand. What is wrong with the Bible? I mean every teaching and words in eat. I pick an IPad some days ago and i remember the Bible says thou shall not steal. When the person called, i told her my location and she was glad
don’t agree, but we all at fault
What if there’s no Bible to guild me, what’s wrong in obeying God’s word? The very one who made you?
What if you die and found out there’s God?
What a heavy wrong information this pastor is passing across to Christians. End time pastors. Ma, I hope God forgives you for painting this word down..
Let him show us the verses in the Bible that say it because he’s lying and misleading people.
I’ll have a joint with him U0001f61c
Marriage is Holy. keep it that way.
how is it ok
Divine Sogikammachukwu Okeke i dont believe in any god but i dont think to be a bad person. my family too never believed but i was taught to respect other ppl and not steal. and so? been good person is all about education, and not god or not god
The economy is hard, people are looking for a way out. Most of them have called themselves, but been accusing God of calling them. It’s just too easy. The church is a low-risk venture for these unscrupulous entrepreneurs. The taxless revenue far outweighs the goodwill capital needed to start a church. So, anyone can claim “pastor” and just come out to speak utter gibberish. Nevertheless, the foundation of God stands sure. On the day of judgment, your pastor will not be standing as an advocate. Be wise!
Personally, I’m not surprised at all because those are the signals of the end. Mathew
Tashah..if you dont believe in God where do you get time to study the Bible..busy quoting and misinterpreting it..if you dont believe in God stop trying to convince other people,GOD IS REAL WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT,WHETHER YOU DENY IT OR NOT..THAT WILL NOT CHANGE THE FACT THAT HE EXISTS AND HE WILL FOREVER EXIST.
Owoyemi spoken like a true immature personU0001f611
May the good Lord’s grace locate us
GOD is totally against it. it was not what bishop,pastor,evangelist.GOs or even POPE says that matters but what GOD says.
If God is involved every thing will be perfect,she will be good for u even in bed,u will enjoy her.
Sex before marriage is a taboo before God
Atamuno its seems to me like you’ve read the Bible then why are you trying to debate over straight forward things..debating will not justify fornication nor alter or change the word of God.
Whether you like it or not, whether you want to believe it or not and whether your in denial or not but he doesn’t exist,never did exist and will not forever exist. But if you lot want to believe and get brainwashed is up to you . Stop trying to convince other people god is real
Crazy so called Pastor. Some of these Pastor were not called at all. This Pastor needs deliverence. And is giving. Pastors who are anointed to preach a bad name. Beware pf False preachers. Pray for a spirit of Discernment.
Not a true minister of God
una get problem ooo, person speak his mind and tell you what he like and he will do and you guyz are telling him how to live his life, why? and all of you wey dey comment una no be virgin, abeg make una park well joor
Some people though,always trying so hard to justify their actions or their ‘disbelief’..if you dont believe in God and yet quote the bible,what does that say about you..you’re in denial!or maybe you just dont want to be wrong or maybe you’re afraid that God does exist and his word is real..And as much as i find this story to be sooo fake am shocked to see how some people react
Daz nt wat d bible says.wrong preaching
Bonno Mokobi, yes I have but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t ask questions as Christians. We are taught to just believe and accept in faith whatever we read from the bible or our pastors teaches us even though we don’t understand. But I think we need to start asking questions, I mean it’s human nature to be inquisitive…
I will stop if God is not real
Again again lol
One of the fallen agents of the devil. Get behind me satan!
You spend your entire life despising religion and embracing science just to find yourself in the hospital one day praying for a Miracle to happen
Crazy pastor in deeds
So after when you have sex with her and you discover she is not good enough for you on bed you will now abandoned her , how would you feel if she is your sister or your daughter ?
Nah man if I have to go hospital I’m just hoping science made the right treatments.
Like I said he ain’t going to do anything
Dnt mind them
So ladies are nw wat guys need to be testing,,, Ok o,, jst keep testing o, i jst wonder y u can’t use yur mouth to text wat u want to eat.
People just dey run there mouth like I go die, Those who don’t believe in hereafter are already in hereafter. What fools
If there’s no God,the air u’re breathing free of charge,who is giving it 2 u?what if He seize it,’ ll u fight him?i pray that u’ ll ‘ve an encounter wit Him,4 u 2 know that really, GOD EXISTS!
Wicked pastor?is dat what you advice your kids?shame on you
Pastor is a Title, the word of God is powerful and does not change, pastor is not God and not all that call themselves pastors are real, you have your bible its your guide
Devil at it a again… world full of sin….
If u want 2 buy tin tomatos or soft drinks,do u ask the seller 2 open it cos u wanna taste 2 know wether its good?
That is a big lie,from the pit of hell
People we all need to read our Bible! Even though we are all sinners, the last time I check the bible it said we should not fornicate. The bible tells u about the last days and false prophets. It is only by reading the bible we will be guided.
@ Atamuno Atams the way you get on arguing about the bible this days ehnnn calls 4 concern and it’s not getting funny…… leave people that are perfect and let them go in their perfection please. The God I have come to understand is not a God that remembers our sin after we have asked for forgiveness….fornication, adultery, lies, lust etc are all sin and cos we indulge doesn’t mean we are justified and give excuses cos characters in the bible both old and new testament did same. Please lets live our life best on the understanding we have on the bible and stop this unreasonable tales telling. David comitted all the abominable things ever done yet he was a man after God’s heart cos he loved God. So he saints that knows how to cast stones pardon my boyfriend. Dear enough of the argument please
Another anti Christ agent… dont even mind her…
Please read ist Corinthians 6:18 to d end.mind you fornication means sex done aside marriage. Adultery is sex done outside your marital partner
Marriages collapse because of weak sex performance indeed is not good but sometimes it help a lot to know where u belong too
Chika Okpara OK dear, no more arguments
My bro so she can also cheat because if u don’t sex her well she will cheat on u so in some way is necessary to check the engine lol
Why marry the cow. When you getting the milk free
Not in Islam
in as much as i am against sex before marriage i still hold the opinion that its a wise thing to try oo. with reasons sha, my frnd divorced after two month of marriage based on the fact that the man had errection problem and a very small penis that didn’t tk her anyway, and the man as i heard couldn’t last even up to 2min, she couldn’ t bear so she left, she was actually into no sex b4 marriage of a thing, now my candid advice try it once and be sure of ur to be spouse, after that u pray for forgiveness and don’t do it again till after marriage, but be sure first oo. thanks
Tashah Stack May Almighty God guide u
Divine Sogikammachukwu Okeke you ignorant
story for the gods
The word of God will never change so she need to go somewhere with this ridiculous book.
Hahaha how many here had sex after marriage ???
This is demonic even men of God need deliverance
Chaii
OMG!!!!
What the heck is dis?
Not in my Bible
Members run for your dear life oooooop
End Time preaching
Which Bible told you we should have sex before marriage .which Bible told you from Genesis to Revelation where is in the Bible. We all signed to God. Please don’t this word again order wise God will punished you well. God have mercy on you .
What the devil has entered into people mind
This is demonic kind of teaching, should be condemned with the strongest term possible and be rejected by all
Why not 100% chance you won’t cheat? What’s wrong with you U0001f644U0001f644
Signs of end time. Is she talking to fools that can’t read the bible? Well, its all end time madness & immortality.
Bible did not say so but u do it pastor u ar very correct I support u ma
She didnt love him after all..if she did she would’ve stuck by him and seek medical attention and ways around their situation..your advise naah!! “try it once and after that pray for forgiveness” really??
Sin is sin let us not try 2 cover up our evil deeds by saying its alright sex b4 m…is a pure sin.weatha u did it out of love its still sin.
Please anyone can tell me if there is US Army still in Nigeria
number one ,nobody should listen to a female pastor the bible said they should not usurp or teach over the man Timothy 2:12,their fore tell her to shut her mouth!
This is a doctrine from the pit of hell. 1 Tim 4:1-2.
Yes ,I agree with her,
I want to attend her church… on the days I don’t go to mosque