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“Sєx Before Marriage Is OK As Long As It’s Mutually Pleasurable”- Female Pastor Says

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A pastor has authored a book which says it’s okay for singles to indulge in sєx before marriage, Christian or not.

Having sєx outside marriage even though accepted by society, is frowned upon by christians. An author, Bromleigh McCleneghan, has attempted to explain why it may be okay to actually indulge in ‘guilt-free’ sєx even as a single christian who doesn’t conform to the world (okay na).

According to her, it’s okay to have sєx along as it’s “mutually pleasurable and affirming“. She also said it’s not by force to stay off sєx, especially if you became single by circumstance.

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The married mother of three who is also an associate pastor at the Union Church of Hinsdale in Chicago, USA, said it’s also great to be faithful to your sєxual partner, even if you are both unmarried.

Here’s what she said below:

“If we refrain from having sєx that isn’t mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn’t respect the sacred worth of ourselves and our partners…Chastity, or just sєx, requires that whether we are married or unmarried, our sєx lives restrain our egos, restrain our desire for physical pleasure when pursuing it would bring harm to self or other.”

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512 comments

  1. I’d rather believe in God and die to find out there isn’t, than believe there’s no God and die to find out there is..

  2. But thousands of people in the world do sex b4 marriage

  3. Johnson Chisom Oparaeke

    Is a win win situation

  4. Another poor brainwashed man U0001f602U0001f602

  5. Riccardo Malimpensa, I see your heart is hardened. . But God doesn’t need you, you need him.

  6. James Ver Tyonyion

    It is not about what you think, it is all about the standard of God.

  7. Well of there’s life after death I already know I’m a spawn of Satan and living in hell already darling #Lovingit

  8. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Noel thank you. God bless you too.

  9. Fornication means sex between people who aren’t married. . Adultery, sex involving a married person and an unmarried or two married people who aren’t couples. .

  10. We all are guilty of this sin, but the truth remains the truth. . Sex before marriage is a sin.

  11. Stupid gossip mills. No one would say that.. Even an atheist.

  12. Commrade Skimma Abasiano

    Answer Jerry Mohamed Kaba question!! I no sex before married is a sin but only God can judge us, only by his grace we over come temptation, may the good Lord deliver us from the way word life

  13. She needs to be delivered

  14. She needs to be delivered

  15. Evelyn Prophetic Peters

    I’ve already answered him…it’s a sin period.

  16. Evelyn Prophetic Peters

    I’ve already answered him…it’s a sin period.

  17. To that female pastor……

  18. Why all dis critics now… I have d right to my opinion n i stated it above dat dis is my own Opinion.

  19. Why all dis critics now… I have d right to my opinion n i stated it above dat dis is my own Opinion.

  20. Youngdestiny FathersGold

    She is correct

  21. Youngdestiny FathersGold

    She is correct

  22. Tashah Stack, there’s no point arguing. . You are probably one of those who science said evolved from apes.. well I was created and I acknowledge my creator.

  23. God even loves u as much as u kip saying rubbish abt him,He is waiting to rciv you. Give your life to Him,He loves u

  24. Ifunanya Juliet Uchendu

    All these false teachers everywhere. Judgement will surely starts from you

  25. Ken Chidozie Ogbunude

    Riccardo the same Bible told you what happened when people wanted to stone an unfaithful woman in front of Jesus in the new testament

  26. If you usually go to her church I urge you to stop because she is leading you to hell…..

  27. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Tashah some stuff in the bible are hard for us to understand. What is written is written. Don’t question God. Please man believe, cause if you don’t believe and if something goes wrong in your life (if), and if the problem is beyond anyone, who wil you turn to? The only person you can turn to is Jesus Christ, your Lord and Saviour. Without him you wouldn’t be here today. Please my friend believe.

  28. to my own opinion i will say sex befor marriage is okey, if u wnt to get marry to d guy or to d lady is free free to hve sex wen d probability of geting marry is 80 to 100% , one tin is dat courtship does nt make u knw d carachter of d man or d worman u ar about to marry, u can still keep urself until u marry DAT man or DAT woman

  29. I wish I find ds woman book one day #herresy all ard us

  30. Givenchy Dielupeni

    Most of you “prude” females commenting on this post and referring to the white mans “Holy” book have probably got more hole -in-onessss than Tiger Woods, the differences y’all be keepin it on the down low. Sinners everyday of the week except Sunday’s U0001f602

  31. Miniallah Alex Bullen

    It’s not.if it was so the bible could have not tell us clear in 1 corthian 7:1 to end the bible is clear say that if a man that go out with woman out of marrage is better for that person to get marry.so let some of the poster red the bible alot than spoiling the univers

  32. Hmmm I’ve read most comments on this post before commenting, well am happy that most people condemned what this female pastor said even though all have had sexual experience before marriage at least the truth must be told. Am not surprised what she said cos people read the bible upside down, it’s a shame she’s a pastor. I rest my case.

  33. Abdi Salam Elmi Mohamoud

    Haha remember one thing if you tested a girl to know how she’s and your own sister will be tested as you did other girls, if you need sex first you have to marry her then test and everything will be ok

  34. This is condemnable to say the least.

  35. Miniallah Alex Bullen

    That poster is possages he or she need deliverence

  36. James Ver Tyonyion

    If it is your opinion, keep it to yourself and don’t encourage others to disobey God as this female preacher does. Causing others to sin is worse than one’s personal sin. I am not perfect but what I am saying is simple: don’t dilute God’s standard before people especially as a preacher.

  37. She will rot in hell…a devil’s agent claiming being a child of God

  38. Female false prophet.

  39. Female false prophet.

  40. Some people here need to go and learn English oooo. I used d word “I” 4times in my comment n d word “Me” once isn’t that enough to prove that d comment is just about ME? and is it a must to comment on my post. #Nawaoooooo

  41. Some people here need to go and learn English oooo. I used d word “I” 4times in my comment n d word “Me” once isn’t that enough to prove that d comment is just about ME? and is it a must to comment on my post. #Nawaoooooo

  42. Michael Anelka Assoue

    It is a sin

  43. Michael Anelka Assoue

    It is a sin

  44. Itz Gbolahan Pharuq Tj

    Am a Muslim but it us wrong ….

  45. Itz Gbolahan Pharuq Tj

    Am a Muslim oooo but sex b4 marriage is totally wrong

  46. Itz Gbolahan Pharuq Tj

    Am a Muslim oooo but sex b4 marriage is totally wrong

  47. Augustina Macaulay

    Lol I’m 10yr oo

  48. Wetin u dey talk ma, why are dis so called pastors always contradicting d word of God.Mutually pleasurable indeed!

  49. Wetin u dey talk ma, why are dis so called pastors always contradicting d word of God.Mutually pleasurable indeed!

  50. Abiodun Obamwonyi-Bright

    What is this so called pastor teaching our youths. May be u re a reading a different Bible. The Bible says marriage is honourable the bed undefiled. Pls stop preaching the wrong doctrines to our youths. Pls…

  51. Abiodun Obamwonyi-Bright

    What is this so called pastor teaching our youths. May be u re a reading a different Bible. The Bible says marriage is honourable the bed undefiled. Pls stop preaching the wrong doctrines to our youths. Pls…

  52. Portable Mabel La'Golden

    For the fact that everyone is doing it doesn’t makes it right… It is a sin to have sex before marriage and I’m surprised a pastor is in support. Thank God for the word of God *Bible* many pastors would have lead many to HELL . May God forgive us all. Amen

  53. Daniel Godman Kolade

    Thank God 4 xtianity, odawise she wuld’ve bin beheaded 4 such stupid statement.

  54. Daniel Godman Kolade

    God created man in His our image & likeness, we aren’t electronics.

  55. God dey oooo

  56. Queen Ayanfe-Oladeji

    Tashah Stack, why are u so comfortable knowing u are a spawn of Satan and living in hell already? Do u think hell is like ur room where there’s air-conditioning? Or u think its like a mansion where u get all the comfortable life u desire? No. Hell is not where anyone can cope with, that’s why ur mentality and ways of reasoning have to change. Besides, because u see people doing something doesn’t make it right. What’s important is what God says about what u are doing. Sex before marriage is fornication and should be avoided as much as possible. That doesn’t mean u will not get a good husband, and having sex before marriage doesn’t determine u getting a good husband. All u just have to do is to let God leads u.

  57. Chimwemwe Fewz Mwamlima

    who told her that she is a pastor?

  58. Wrong teaching pls

  59. Osofowora Adekoya

    Please, read your bible, no Pastor has a final say on any issue the scripture is against. That so called is not from GOD. Check her foundation….very faulty.

  60. All those people judging the female pastor, how many of you can proudly boast of abstaining from sex till after marriage.

  61. You sound like someone who thinks you are superior to a woman,who on earth do you think you are

  62. Erm not according to the Bible read the WORD again

  63. None or few can boast. That’s y she is being judged. Her duty is to keep helping the weak n helpless till the favor of God find us all n not to lead us into temptation. Oh, also exodus 18:22 encourage us to judge the good from the bad. Peace unto u.

  64. Amen…bt we sin everyday

  65. Where the hell is she, i wanna congratulate her.

  66. Oyebiyi Tunde Michael

    Ha, and in the beginning it was not so, insanity as now crept into to religion now. Sex before marriage is okay by a female pastor, oh seriously I now understand the end time of a thing. 2Tim.3:1-4 unholy alliance. God will deliver us from all this falsehood end-time preachers.

  67. you have said it all Queen. Case closed!

  68. Christopher Arthur

    I rebuke this in Jesus name!

  69. Kemisola Joy Abolaji

    my bros pls pray to God to give u your own woman bec some good on bed but at the end of the day is notin pls stop testing u ar not a dog

  70. She didn’t even have any scripture verse to back up her statements.

  71. Queen Ayanfe-Oladeji

    Atamuno Atams, Fornication means sex between any 2 people who are not legitimately couple. Adultery is when u are marry and still having concubine. That is having relationship with someone aside ur husband or wife. It my not limited to sex alone, it maybe romance, kissing or any other relationship having aside ur marriage is adultery.

  72. Queen Ayanfe-Oladeji

    Atamuno Atams, Fornication means sex between any 2 people who are not legitimately couple. Adultery is when u are marry and still having concubine. That is having relationship with someone aside ur husband or wife. It my not limited to sex alone, it maybe romance, kissing or any other relationship having aside ur marriage is adultery.

  73. Pastor dis, pastor dat enough of all dis, even if pastor said it am not surprised d end is near. Anything can happen is left for we Christians to be watchful and pray

  74. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    If she ain’t married yet God will give her the person for her.

  75. Oh Noooo… it’s big sin

  76. Oh Noooo… it’s big sin

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  78. Olatunmobi Ayinde

    That is called testing before buying

  79. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Tashah just know that the Almighty God loves you and I hope that one day before it’s too late you know the truth and repent. Jesus Christ will forgive you and your sins, he’s also ready to come into your life, if only you accept him as your Lord and Personal Saviour. Please my friend listen.

  80. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Tashah just know that the Almighty God loves you and I hope that one day before it’s too late you know the truth and repent. Jesus Christ will forgive you and your sins, he’s also ready to come into your life, if only you accept him as your Lord and Personal Saviour. Please my friend listen.

  81. The-blessed Byron-hube Mosalakgotla

    Please tell her that she’s speaking from her self not from God.

  82. Queen Ayanfe-Oladeji

    Bro, bible is not a story book where we have characters but a word of God to guide us. Pls read Hebrew 13:4. Galatian 5:19-21. Truly there are some people in the Bible that did what u said and it happened in the old testament when Jesus has not come for us, then it was the blood of animals they use to make sacrifice whenever they commit sin. But since Jesus has came, there’s nothing like animal blood again for the forgiveness of sin, all we have to do is to accept him, stay away from all what he commanded us to stay away from which fornication and adultery is part of, and keep all His commandments.

  83. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    What do you mean allU0001f602U0001f602. I’m 15U0001f602

  84. what is the name of the pastor?

  85. Divine Sogikammachukwu Okeke

    My name is Don Divine, am 21, i live alone in the city of Lagos yet i say no to sex before marriage. It’s a sin, its formication. I have feelings but i control them. No one will tell me stop if i decide to, money is not the issue. And i will stay a virgin till 28 when i will marry.

  86. Don’t see any scriptural backing. So this pastor is messed up

  87. Riccardo Malimpensa

    white ppl gave u the god u are adoring now. jesus is white. they are keeping you slave through a white,blonde,blue eyes god. they teach u from the cradle that god is white,blonde,blue eyes. but the fool is me,right

  88. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Divine God bless you for obeying his words.

  89. Lol… Na wah oooo Naija people shaaaa. Well believe it or not SEX plays a vital roll even in marriage n if u r a Pastor holy spirit can’t do anything about that. Many marriages r suffering n smiling cos they didn’t test their selves before marriage. Many Ladies got to know that their husband has erection problem or cant even last dan 50secs on her all dis happened cos she herself didn’t test. Everything for Naija Una too like spiritual stuffs n na all of us corrupt pass

  90. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Riccardo Jesus is not white. Cameras weren’t around when Jesus was on Earth. I maybe 15 but I ain’t stupid.

  91. Queen Ayanfe-Oladeji

    Tashah Stack, I am a living soul and I will not die but live to declare the goodness of God. I was only referring to what u said “Well of there’s life after death I already know I’m a spawn of Satan and living in hell already darling #Lovingit”. I don’t need to die before I know what’s going on cos my Bible tells me everything I need to know about hell and the kingdom of God. We all know that anything hell is trouble and I reject it in my life, I really want u to reject it as well bcos Satan will not be able to safe u when u can no longer cope with it again. And am happy to tell u that, I’m happily married to a man that knows the truth and God has been helping us to follow His way.

  92. since we all know d truth why still practicing it. becos 87% of men dat marry av sex before marriage still d condemn d act of doing it

  93. End time prophesy!!

  94. Lie from the pit of hell

  95. How do u knw that she is a pastor, she might be marriage cancelor, not a pastor

  96. Queen Ayanfe-Oladeji

    Riccardo Malimpensa, do u know that if there’s actually no God at the end of the day, I and those who believe there’s God won’t have anything to lose. But if it happens that there’s God, u and those who says there’s no God will lose so many things. What and what do u people enjoy from satan that makes u believe so much in him? Thank God for saving me ooo.

  97. Owine Oghenechouko Blessing

    Anti christ Godspel don dey come small small

  98. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Satan only comes to seek and destroy. God loves you man please repent and you shall be forgiven cause our Lord is a merciful, loving and a forgiving God.

  99. Queen Ayanfe-Oladeji how can you believe in something against alot of womens rights. We can’t, can’t speak,our husband is our ruler.It also states that only man should divorce the woman , ita a sin for the woman to divorce the man. Pffft I’ll follow the rules that won’t get me locked up not the fictional ones in a book created years and years back. We were thought through school god and Jesus were both white Dieudonne,

  100. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    They’re not white. Cameras weren’t even made back when Jesus was on Earth. What you see on Tv are just movie actors. God knows why he said all that.

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