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Please Help: My Girlfriend Donated A Kidney To Me, But I’m Not In Love Anymore What Do I Do?

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Hi, I am 32years old and my girlfriend is 31years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

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486 comments

  1. Simple. Return the kidney and find your way

  2. Simple. Return the kidney and find your way

  3. Muhammad Ibrahim Gaidam

    Hmm u be mugu!!may god treat u the way u treated her!!oya say ameen

  4. Muhammad Ibrahim Gaidam

    Hmm u be mugu!!may god treat u the way u treated her!!oya say ameen

  5. Give her back her kidney and ask your new girl friend to give you one and you will realise how much you have gumbled coz she ain’t gonna give you

  6. Give her back her kidney and ask your new girl friend to give you one and you will realise how much you have gumbled coz she ain’t gonna give you

  7. Give her back her kidney ingrate.

  8. Give her back her kidney ingrate.

  9. Adedoyin Bamigbade

    Return her kidney

  10. Adedoyin Bamigbade

    Return her kidney

  11. Prisca Johnson

    U de mad

  12. Prisca Johnson

    U de mad

  13. Easy, just give her kidney back

  14. Give him back his kidney

  15. Ebenezer Omole Stone

    Return d kidney, shikena.

  16. U must b insane

  17. Regina Samuel Imonina

    U nor well

  18. Thaps Chiloane

    Go to the organ bank where love does not matter and money matters leave me with my organs

  19. I blame the woman for giving her kidney to a man that is not yet her husband,she suppose to know that not every relationship will end in marriage.

  20. Na God go punish you, stupid man, its because of people like you others finds it difficult to show kindness to the needy out there

  21. Obi Michael Ifenso

    Return her kidney because it’s obvious you pretended to be in love with her for same reason and now that you have gotten what you want, you are seeking for advise. Just follow my advise.

  22. But Oga pls I beg you to return back her kidney atleast let the man that will marry her after you dump her be sure that his wife is complete and who knows he too might need it.

  23. U are a fool, ur kidney will nt keep long self

  24. Very wicked man

  25. No much story, return the kidney, abi you n know say you no love am before you collect kidney

  26. Fcet Prominent

    Bring back the kidney. Thunder fire u there. chop luv portion for her sake.

  27. Ole! U are not in love any more ke, ha! Am sorry u just have to be I’m love o

  28. I will take my kidney back

  29. Fcet Prominent

    On d otherhand, mayb u collected d corrupt kidney

  30. Please return it back….

  31. Trudy Naana Abenawaa

    Pls give her kidney back to her…..simple, case closed

  32. Ken Chidozie Ogbunude

    Oga go find the Love where you keep am o

  33. Thunder fire u

  34. Bonnrtt Jessamy

    Not a nice man ungreatful

  35. Give it to her back and kill your self

  36. Olushegun Peters

    Then you are mad

  37. Give it back….move on ….and drop dead!

  38. Jessica Chigaemezu Princewill-Agim

    U must go back to been in love oh. Which kind am not in love again.

  39. Cole Chris Chidi

    return her kidney bro. thats what i’d do. stupid fool

  40. I agree with u lsa musa

  41. Victor Nwakaire

    You are stupid.

  42. Jesse Emanuel Pelumi

    Idiot just return her kidney then jump inside lagoon finish

  43. Stephen Chimeziri

    Return it or fall back in love with your head hitting the love concrete floor

  44. Isaac Linus Ndrimbula

    thief, give her back her kidney… she sacrificed her life for u n here u r cooking stories… go tell them Tata pls….

  45. Abidoye Abosede Duntoye

    Let her know ur mind

  46. Emeka Kingsley Okafor

    Kill urself, period…

  47. You are a beast!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  48. Adaora Nwachukwu-Ogbuchukwu

    U better be in love with and even love her more because She’s now part of u. Don’t be an ungrateful being.

  49. Bring Back our kidney Ooo..

  50. Omobonke Salako

    You can gorge this. matter yourself lol

  51. Iniobong Sabbath

    Guy muse you have girls friend what did the bible say about girl and boy friends

  52. Agbontusi Jennifer

    God punish you for that statement at all.

  53. Just give her kidney bk and go hug transformer

  54. Villa Goz Sammiuelz

    Than ur are stupid . she really loves u that’s Y she gave you her kidney

  55. Simple as ABCD return her kidney. Fast.

  56. Umeh Patrick Boniface Azubike

    You’re a cheat & an ingrate a devil incarnate one like you doesn’t deserve a life

  57. You haven’t said anything.! How could you possibly conceive such wicked thought about someone who literally gave you life? Do you think it’s easy? Even to give animal kidney – boiled, fried, roasted or barbecued – to someone else to eat takes much love, let alone human kidney which saves life. Well, since you are so heartless not only to conceive the thought but also to say it out on Facebook, then quietly go and return her kidney. And God save you, if you’ve not even spoilt her kidney, otherwise, you’d return the kidney, pay for damages before you die. And if I were the girl, even if the kidney would no longer be useful to me, I would throw it away instead of allowing you keep it ; in fact, I won’t even sell it to you. Kidney thief! U0001f60fU0001f612

  58. Gladys Onyeukwu

    Return her kidney to her go ur way…if only u will survive it…ungrateful animal

  59. You better commit suicide before she comes for you.

  60. Opara Wisdom Nnaemeka

    Woman don naked swear for u befor.

  61. Osasona Kehinde

    return her kidney with immediate effect,ingrate

  62. Hahahahahaha hmmm Guys sha….

  63. Return the kidney and free urself.

  64. Regina Okeoghene Opone

    Why? Okay, because you’ve seen a prettier girl abi. Na better thunder wen go fire u dey wait for u for front. Idiot!

  65. Olawunmi Awojinrin

    Bros you are very wicked o, may Ogun, sango, shopono and amadioha strike u down if don’t return her kidney back to her cuz u are as good as dead in her life

  66. Anthonia Uac Uchehara

    Give her back her kidney and fall in love with another donor, by the time you’re done with 5 girls, you’ll probably have 5 big scarsU0001f620

  67. If u ask me, na who I go ask? But if u ask me a 2nd time my response will be ” you are a BIG BUM”.

  68. I-Said YesLord Eternally

    Return her kidney

  69. Carl Jay Clancy

    Return the kidney bros!!!

  70. Ebenezer Adeniyi

    na God G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ punish Ʋ bro….na now Ʋ no say Ʋ no love her again….abi obatala fe pa eleyi niiiii….bro no мαкє me start to dey parah for were I dey sip M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ bottle of andre o..! see now I don dey parah sef I don trowey M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ drink away cause I don dey parah for here, iyalaya e`

  71. Nnanna Ephraim Ubawuike

    Give her back the kidney Nd die because bu deserve to die

  72. U dey craze

  73. Fredrick Ibuchukwu

    kil ur sef so dat u wont love ani oda person…#Ode

  74. Mithini Mac Jones

    return it at ones and go to hell

  75. Otumara Gabriel

    Return her kidney sharp sharp

  76. Francis Maduakolam

    Give it back niggur…

  77. Because of some of u men ladies thinks we are all the same

  78. Please make sure you marry someone before undergoing such a life saving procedure. I would do the same, however we must Marry first, then I’ll will save you my husband with my kidney. God will judge such a terrible person.

  79. We don’t know what love is that’s just it.

  80. Roselor Williams

    what a loser

  81. Abimbola Obafemi

    No need sef 4 him to luv her back cos a lady dat is ready to lay down her life 4 her luv does not deserve to be wit dis kind of self centerd moron,let him jst return back her kidney exactly hw she donated it to him den he can go nd live his stupid pathetic life wit his #NewFoundLove.Nonsense

  82. Give her kidney back and move on

  83. Give her kidney back and move on

  84. Maxwell Tochukwu Chiegwu

    Tell us the problem with ur love for her let’s tackle it and unite u two… It may be just a minor case

  85. Maxwell Tochukwu Chiegwu

    Tell us the problem with ur love for her let’s tackle it and unite u two… It may be just a minor case

  86. Maxwell Tochukwu Chiegwu

    Baby I need you… Even with only one kidney. Such a gud hearted woman I have been searching for

  87. Maxwell Tochukwu Chiegwu

    Baby I need you… Even with only one kidney. Such a gud hearted woman I have been searching for

  88. Omo, l dey fear u die….. see curse……. ki lo de ? Person no fit steal ur 1000 naira oh

  89. Omo, l dey fear u die….. see curse……. ki lo de ? Person no fit steal ur 1000 naira oh

  90. Kayode David Adeyele

    If you are willing to kill your self I will support you
    And before you kill your self
    Pls return the kidney
    Bush man
    Animal in human form
    You are classified as harshband
    Not husband

  91. Kayode David Adeyele

    If you are willing to kill your self I will support you
    And before you kill your self
    Pls return the kidney
    Bush man
    Animal in human form
    You are classified as harshband
    Not husband

  92. Humphreys Bravo Bravos

    She donated willingly and her life won’t end once you leave her but the true is you’ll never have peace once your mind pop in to her neither will she

  93. Humphreys Bravo Bravos

    She donated willingly and her life won’t end once you leave her but the true is you’ll never have peace once your mind pop in to her neither will she

  94. Onyebuchi Ezeike

    He can break up but the kidney will still fail because the right owner is far.

  95. Onyebuchi Ezeike

    He can break up but the kidney will still fail because the right owner is far.

  96. Symone Ifeanyichukwu Ugeh

    Give her back the kidney… simple

  97. Symone Ifeanyichukwu Ugeh

    Give her back the kidney… simple

  98. Da Kings Kingsley

    hian! u return de kidney back na

  99. Da Kings Kingsley

    hian! u return de kidney back na

  100. Selvidevi Selvi

    for my advice u trial talk to ur girl friend and tell she what u think about it and i hope she can understand what u fell about she becouse hers love is 100% bro

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