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Please Help: My Girlfriend Donated A Kidney To Me, But I’m Not In Love Anymore What Do I Do?

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Hi, I am 32years old and my girlfriend is 31years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now. I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.

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486 comments

  1. Abdulkarim Kana

    You better return that kidney my friend

  2. Agatha Ngozi Ofili

    No story. return her kidney back.. shekina.

  3. Austin Egwavoen

    Weytin dey worry ur brain u sure say u dey normal so break up with her u die cheat on her u die do any thing to hurt her u die foolish guy

  4. See question ooo return what she gave you simple.

  5. Dianne Williams

    You can teach your heart to love her give your life to CHRIST

  6. Mary Baffour-Awuah

    Oh Lee, a laugh die!U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602

  7. Primrose Gunura

    Give her back her kidney
    n get a map nd a car n go straight to hell coz that z where selfish,ungrateful ,,heartless pipo lyc u belong….
    The Devil z oredy waiting fo u….tick tock tick tock⌚

  8. V Musaah Chitwa

    Return her kidney you ungrateful man

  9. Kwame Solomon Hormenyo Junior

    Go on ur knee and pray to God ur love will surly come back…

  10. Oluohu Augustine

    Give her back her kidney since u luv her again, abi u wan carry am go luv anoda person sho…

  11. You not like her kidney as well.

  12. Giv her kidney bak to her n tak ur luv, wicked man

  13. Omo stick wit her or give her back her kidney

  14. Elizabeth Johnson

    Pls free her from thinking that u love her, I’m sure someone will be out there who would love and appreciate her, I promise u she will find someone one day that will never hurt again and she be treated like a queen she is. because even ur blood would run from this unspeakable act

  15. Solomon Jasper

    Find away to make her understand

  16. Angela Ofosuah Amoafo

    Give her back her kidney

  17. Patrick Obinkurang

    Give back her kidney take back your love. Kwasia sem

  18. Esther Okpokiri

    Give her back her kidney

  19. U are a very big fool

  20. Alabi Layo Yetunde

    Die by fire

  21. Prince Vitus Emeka

    You are a fool

  22. Zaharadeen Aliyu Labaran

    Idiot and shameless goat why can’t you do what is right and give her kidney back to her.

  23. Mmirikwe Bernadette

    No be una de first find trouble

  24. Just explain your self,she will understand. Girls can sometimes understand,for the kidney that’s for humanity.#Is not a big deal.

  25. Dear Brother don’t cause or invite death upon your self. That Girl is everything for you. She sacrifice what God gave to her, give it to you so that you can live the rest your life with her on earth and now you realize that you don’t love her for marriage, better think twice otherwise if she put her two knee down and call God for you, your gone because God must answer her prayers. Please stop hurting that Girl and take her to her parent and get married to her. My last word. Note that she is your own.

  26. Adams Khumphurt

    No sweat jes return kidney…simple

  27. This is a very simple issue bro, give her back are kidney, and collect from the one you love. Simple. Problem solved.

  28. Omolara Elizabeth

    Return the kidney pls

  29. Toure Toureabdoull

    Please sending her to me

  30. Give back her kidney

  31. I just pray that she forgives u and let’s u go in peace. For when u r helping someone in this wild life, don’t expect anything in return, love is something that can’t be bribed. Only God can judge u better. For no matter what, if love is gone out of your heart, u can’t force it or keep pretending for the rest of your life. If she does 4give u and lets u go though with her kidney, God will multiply her blessing.

  32. Naa God she do am for no be for u. If no be God she won’t do it. If u don’t love her anymore but with a concrete reason do ur ll. God ll surely see her through anything with or without u.

  33. contract expiring, giv’am her kidney back Kia Kia before she go collect am with force lol…I don’t know any other love in this life than giving a part of oneself (kidney in this case) unconditionally to someone so that he/she may live and not die…then you have the gut feeling to say what? Not in love anymore? In fact, return the kidney back first and come back alive so we can talk about it…such an ingrate!!!

  34. Indi Ner Mignott bless your soul…

  35. Jaffer Aita Joel

    The Thunder that will strike you is still in the gym

  36. Harrison Tracy

    Return back her kidney and also pay her for damages very fast, mind u she has to name her price.

  37. Give back her kidney

  38. Ella Nessia Sabra

    You are so ungrateful. You just used her to save your life. Very selfish.

  39. You don’t love yourself, she loves u like herself and gave u a part of herself. If u don’t love her anymore, then give her all of her love including her kidney.

  40. The greatest weakness of this generation is that. We have trained our eyes and ears to see sin and define it. Instead of training our eyes and ears to see grace and embrace it. Remember where sin did much. Grace did much more.

  41. The greatest weakness of this generation is that. We have trained our eyes and ears to see sin and define it. Instead of training our eyes and ears to see grace and embrace it. Remember where sin did much. Grace did much more.

  42. You are not in love again indeed! Na that her kidney you carry go send you to the grave you were already heading to before she came to your recue, so you better use your head.. Imagine!

  43. You are not in love again indeed! Na that her kidney you carry go send you to the grave you were already heading to before she came to your recue, so you better use your head.. Imagine!

  44. Powerman Mufuni

    you have a spirit of anti christ. who doesn’t believe that jesus came in flesh. it was jesus thru her who gave you that kidney. divorce her and loss your life. you live becoz she gave to you. leave her and all you don’t have will be taken away from you

  45. Powerman Mufuni

    you have a spirit of anti christ. who doesn’t believe that jesus came in flesh. it was jesus thru her who gave you that kidney. divorce her and loss your life. you live becoz she gave to you. leave her and all you don’t have will be taken away from you

  46. Thumba Purevirgn Chabalala

    Tell her the trueth myb shes no longer in with u2

  47. Thumba Purevirgn Chabalala

    Tell her the trueth myb shes no longer in with u2

  48. Simple. Return her kidney. Case close…

  49. Simple. Return her kidney. Case close…

  50. Adeniji Oladele Bolatito

    Na wa oooo

  51. Adeniji Oladele Bolatito

    Na wa oooo

  52. Freeman Ndlovu

    Its not a matter of choice here man of God yu need to reconsider coz when Jesus gave his life he had all the love to all living humans and their possesion
    So the mercy this girl had on yu was like The same Jesus had on us
    So when yu reject her yu will be cursing yourself and yu will be rejecting Jesus ‘s love
    I rebuke the devil in yu my brother may the holyness come to u and let yu live in peace and love with your life saver .
    Amen

  53. Freeman Ndlovu

    Its not a matter of choice here man of God yu need to reconsider coz when Jesus gave his life he had all the love to all living humans and their possesion
    So the mercy this girl had on yu was like The same Jesus had on us
    So when yu reject her yu will be cursing yourself and yu will be rejecting Jesus ‘s love
    I rebuke the devil in yu my brother may the holyness come to u and let yu live in peace and love with your life saver .
    Amen

  54. Give it back nd go

  55. Give it back nd go

  56. Kingsley Akaninwor

    u are a wicked man

  57. Kingsley Akaninwor

    u are a wicked man

  58. Michael Ezeanodo Nmoso

    If a girl can offer her life to you just to safe your life.Then she is the love of your life. Open your eyes and love her because she deserve the best from you

  59. Kingsley Akaninwor

    nna dat girl go kill u o u better go bk to her b4 she kill you as u bk her u no no waiting she day reason go bk go bk go bkoooooooo

  60. Malyne Abena Karikari

    Hahaha nnipa ny3

  61. Give her kidney back.#ANIMAL#

  62. Return the Kidney. It seems you don’t need her anyway whatsoever.

  63. Udu-okoro Catherine Chinyere

    Return her kidney and go and die

  64. Dougie Dg Doug

    Return her kidney

  65. Dougie Dg Doug

    Mmmmh when You a recipient, You directly have that donor living in You. So if You don’t love her, just give her back her everything then we see how many generous people You’ll find like her who can risk their own life to see You kicking.. Dude grow up love is just something that begins slowly from friendship to the level of Best friends as lovers..tame your heart to be more appreciative

  66. Dayö Timöthy Ajibade

    What you’re trying to do, only a woman can do it and go scot free. As a man, you’re supposed to be locked in a relationship especially one in which you have received such a precious gift as that but a woman can do that without repercussions.

  67. Chinyere Mbaegbu Oyeka

    U are an ungrateful human being beach.

  68. If ur father. Treat ur mother like dis dey for born u. Ashawo. Man

  69. Ewaen Brooklynn Isibor

    Go set ur ass on some overdose and kill ur self

  70. Tunde Owoeye Abrahams

    You are not serious at all, not just that, you need deliverance, may God deliver you, Amen.

  71. Adeniji Augustine

    Give her are kidney back and see if u no go die bad human being na u be

  72. Chritiana Koranteng

    Selfish man , oya give back her kidney to her. Yeye

  73. Bolnaba Seidu Bashiru

    It’s as simple as 1 minus 1. She gave you de kidney bcos of the luv u guys shared. So if u no longer luv her return her kidney to her. Stupid selfish man.

  74. Francis Ndegwa

    U moron return her kidney back ed walk awai ed 2 those u will get check out weda thei wil giv out theiax, UA craixy

  75. Maame Ama Greezy

    give her back her kidney…simple

  76. Calouze Miyawa

    run away as fast as u can!

  77. U ar stupid!

  78. Harbbey McDairey Oluwadhamilarhe

    return her kidney en let her go meet a better person…

  79. Better learn to re – love her. Na Kidney wey she donate o no be offering. you must love her beacuse she has given you part of her life. you know wetin dem they call kidney at all? no try that kind rough play.

  80. Guy you are just ungrateful

  81. ﺷﻼﻗﺎء ﻋﻴﻮﻥ

    ما لك ايان ولا ما لك

  82. Precious Okoli

    Na pure craze dey worry u

  83. Return her kidney

  84. Dan Asabe Ejim Damisa

    Go 4 a proper drugs

  85. Miriam Ofonghor

    You don’t know what you are saying. Did u kw what it takes to donate kidney for u?? That is life. Put urself to dis ad think hadn’t been u were dead wat we people around u would ve done think ad dont be a ticket

  86. Jst die 4 her

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