Most problems in marriages today started when individual men started forming churches and making their wife head of marriage counseling, and their wife started propagating funny doctrines with the support of their husband (the Pastor) claiming that husband and wife are equal.
Read Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s position:
In marriage, you have the man who is the head of that union and because he’s the head of that union, its important to understand him. You think he’s the one that needs to understand his wife and that is where you are wrong. He will eventually but you have to know the type of man you are married to and his needs.When you say you are marrying a man, you are coming under his authority. The Bible says, the man is the head of the woman (1 Corinthians 11:3) so when you marry him you come under his authority, you are not authority sharers even though you are both heirs to the kingdom of God.When you decide not to subject yourself to that authority, you are a rebel and God is not going to accept what you are doing because you are not functioning correctly.
Why did God make the woman?Making woman was not God’s original plan because after God created Adam and before He made Eve, He said in Genesis 1:31 “Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good”. God made woman because of man so woman was not His original idea. This is reality.Genesis 2:18a “And the Lord God said “for it is not good for a man to be alone..” The Bible didn’t say “lonely” but “alone”. There is a big difference. Man wasn’t lonely but alone. Genesis 2:18b “…I will make him an help meet”. He didn’t say a partner or a supervisor or a special advisor or someone to tell him what to do.I will make him someone to help him. God gave man a responsibility so woman was made to help man achieve that responsibility.
If this is understood in every home then you won’t have problems.I tell people that you don’t need a marriage seminar, you need the Word Seminar.
To be happy in your family and home is the easiest thing in the world, just take your role. Take your place. That place that God gave you is a beautiful place. Its a place of peace. Its a place of love. It’s a place of excellence. Every wise person listens to wise voices (advice) but he listens to a wise voice that is presented wisely. Everyone rebels against the voice that is trying to make a fool out of him. When you want to correct your husband, don’t lord it over him,present it as a wise suggestion. Humble yourself and be smart. A wise woman will always be an influence to her husband, the foolish one will always annoy the husband, make him mad, make him angry and when you make him angry, you will be the victim.
I live this truth.let’s respect each others position.
F*ck you.
You either take it or live it: that is the world of God. Remember that this teaching is not for everybody to follow but those who claimed to be the children of God.
You’re right… God bless you.
Ladies am a man but Jesus ? is your Master
Jesus taught Love. He did not try to be the “master” of anybody. Only mankind sets up masters and slaves.
I love this truth.let’s respect each others position.
What truth you talking about… What pastor Chris wrote as word of God?
That’s absolutely correct. The man is the head of the house.
And why is that?
And his penis,that he cant control,there u go
Look up helpmeet in Hebrew and see what it says.
mathew but what’s reference please ?
Then why are so many women working to provide and take care of the bills. My master is God.
In 2019 no man is head of the house everything is split down the middle man lost that head of house when he gave that power away when he stopped taking care of the house you know provide was his job foh
This is an absolute truth and the only truth
I really like that ad all u have said is truth ad thank u for. That sir
Not wholly accurate. The man is the head truth. The man is the Master – wrong. He is a leader and not a master.
Exactly
The word husband is translated Master
So wrong on many levels
Real life talk I did not sign up for that when I got married I am old school values and I have to say I have been married for 23 year now and it is because we run our home 50/50.. there is no master in my home I have a King and queen in my home I will not take of my crown for no man no queen need to be controlled by no man them days are gone from any woman thinks her husband is a master well I am sorry for you I rest my case
Love lady elegance UK talk show host
I agree with u alllll the way. .I had 43 years with one man…7 children. .and we were a team..50 /50…hes on gods team now ..some day I will see him again …..
Wrong. You didn’t pay attention to what this man, and the Bible says. You are WRONG!
Yes, Gen 2:24 and Ephe 5:31!!! “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united with his wife, and they become one.” Not one and a half….
PlS. This is Bible réf. what you said is correct that you have a King and a Queen in your home that is Nice , But in a Kingdom the King is the head of the Queen not 50/50 as you said in your comment. Let us look at Esther 5:6-8 Queen Esther have to make a request to see the King, if the King dose not approve the request the Queen will not see thé King, So you see there is always a head
Maybe that relationship should be renamed “compeer”
True
I have study my bible very well. Being the head of a home doesn’t give you the right to abused it. Yes, a woman need to submit to her husband who inturn should also respect and treat the wife as one flesh that they are and not a trash bin or house girl.Listening to this msg it calls for concerns because when a man cheats on his wife and such an act is exposed you come to tell the whole world that the wife must obey abi. Well done my friend. Your msg is one sided.
Bro you’re getting it wrong, in fact you just want to talk because you don’t really get the picture here, He talked about women who feels it’s normal to rebel against husband and women who thinks husband and wife is the same, time has change, women now see themselves as equal to men. There is nothing on this article that is encouraging men to cheat on their wife or men who abuse their wife. Read again and understand, it’s one thing to read and it’s another thing to understand. If you don’t understand please meet your pastor or someone with wisdom to teach you. God bless you
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
Genesis 1:27 KJV
Man here refers to a spirit being which has no gender, and this spirit is put into two physical bodies ( Male and Female). Male and Female has one spirit ( Man) then we equal in this aspect but Male and Females are different not because Male is better but our bodies are different because of our functions (design) here on earth ( Purpose determines design). Gen 1:26, let THEM have dominion not over each other but over all that is created, a woman is a leader because you cannot rule or have dominion without being a leader ( male and female are equal).
And God blessed them, saying, Be fruitful, and multiply, and fill the waters in the seas, and let fowl multiply in the earth.
Genesis 1:22 KJV
A woman is blessed the same as the Male. When the bible says the Male is the Head it refers to accountability, only Adam had accountability in the garden of Eden and that is why God said Adam where are you, God did not call Eve although He knew that Eve started the whole thing . Here we are different on ACCOUNTABILTY that is why I will consult my wife on family issues but if there is no solution my wife must go under me ( submit) for the sake of progress not because what she is saying is wrong. Man is Spirit, Soul and body and a woman has all this. We are equal and different by design because of our functions on earth.
Very correct lack of understanding make u get the msg to be one sided to me its a clear msg.
Thanks
Yes it is necessary to relax our venom and get it right.
God bless you my brother… A lot of people just read to talk instead to read and understand. That is why the word says “my perish because of lack wisdom and understanding”.
Right bro
Amen
Yes more serious read the bible more and more for understanding friends
Yes @mike 100% true
That is the word Bro. He didn’t write the Bible.
No, some other dudes did… about 300 years after jesus supposedly lived. Religion is about controlling female sexuality and always has been. This is no different. The good news is that only incels buy into it.
This message is for women. He has similar message for the men. Most men cheat bcos their wives denied them sex.Richard . Comment on this.
Sorry Sir, men cheat because they fulfill the lust of their flesh not because a woman denies them sex. Men cheat because they give in to sin. It has nothing to do with their woman. Because my husband does not provide all of the earthly things I need or want, Am I to go and steal those items he won’t give me?
A man cheat cos of lack of discipline, lust is in him that he refuse to deal with. Why is d man not held responsible for d woman’s infidelity?
This is Avengers Walker keep up the mighty works for the Lord and round the world Lord continue to use you in a special way what up Dora or his commune
Ahh? Really? If you’re a cheat by nature you will always be …you don’t have to be denied sex before you cheat! How do we understand loyalty and faithfulness,? This is one reason women are fighting for equality
Some men are highly promiscuous not because their wives denied them of sex that laid to their cheating is who they are.
Real fucking talk I love your vibes yes sis speak on it
Love lady elegance UK radio station talk host
You got it all wrong. You are just relating this message to your own preconceived thoughts.
You are yet to catch the relationship behind leadership in marriage.
The best leader(husband) is the servant. If you (wife) want to be served in your marriage, accord the needed respect to your leader and he will do same and more.
The Bible gives no room for abuse.
Exactly if a man respects,cherish and adore her she will reverence his authority automatically submission means the willful giving of your will over to another…Honor works both ways…Christ laid down his life for his bride…how about u!!!
Well said. Thank you.
I believe and know that God created every person equally, but we have different positions in life. I personally liked being a biblical wife, but knew I had the right to exercise my rights. God every person to be equal, but our position us different. I am not the president, who has a lot of authority, and understands his job, but I am equal to him and have all the rights he does, outside of his position. It is really simple…. just think. I like a man taking care of me…. that doesn’t mean he is my controller….
This is obviously a battle of the mind. Whoever does not believe in the Bible will always find it hard to comply to any Bible based instructions. On the other hand those who believe comply and enjoy the benefits.
The choice is yours,you don’t have to vexed by any point of view that is contrally to yours.
The same book that justified the enslavement of these so called masters. And the rape and murder of their wives and children all in the name of God. Since your masters why didnt you protect your kingdoms from slavery. Sit down and let women be. Without us women man whould have destroyed earth much earlier because everybody want to be rulers.
Jesus is the Master of the Church so a man to his wife. Ephesians 5:23 KJV
For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
tho! Knowing that … do you always follow he’s teachings.
On which scripture do you base your assertions?
Oh dear, the poor brainwashed men and women who haven’t used their brains to realize all religious texts are fictions. Wake up. Women do not need to submit except when they want to.
I agree with you ?
I TOTALLY agree with everything he said. It is ALL SCRIPTURE AND YOU CAN NOT FIGHT WITH GOD AND SAY IT IS NOT TRUE THEN YOU ARE CALLING GOD A LIAR. GOD IS A GOD THAT CAN NOT LIE?
Women do not need to submit, except when they want to? Right; women do not need to submit to governments, states, international laws, regional or country laws, except when they want to!! Great!
The authority we’re talking about here is that of the world’s leading institution – the family. Not a terrorist organization. How does this institution function? Same way a nation would function! Is there a president? Yes. Vice President or Prime Minister? Yes. Do these different positions in the administration of a nation point to human inequality? No! Then, what’s the issue with the apprehension of leadership in the family setup for the proper functioning of such a fundamental unit? If women don’t understand the authority of the man/father as the head of the family, then, children shouldn’t understand the authority of their mothers as well.
There you have it
Yeah no. Not buying it. I really don’t care what you think of my spirituality. I am a Bible believing Christian woman, and the last I checked, the road to heaven does not cut through your back yard.
Jesus is the master of the church just as the husband is the master of the home
Husbands are not Masters of the home. Paul said follow me as i follow Christ. Not one Godly woman is going to follow a foolish man. I’m sorry but you not only need to read, but also study and meditate on the scriptures both day and night. Make sure you read from a King James Bible. Not New King James, LT or NIV but KJV., so you can get your facts straight.
And so if you follow Christ then you follow the laws written before him. “Think not that I am come to destroy the law or the Prophets. I am not come to destroy, but to fulfill.” Matt 5:17. Meaning he followed the same laws his father created. All of them. And he is truth! Are women calling their savior a lie?
This biased teaching only makes it sound like Jesus is the God of man and man the God of woman. Which is completely wrong. He should have remembered that God said the two shall be one, and God called them man in some versions Adam Gen 2:24; 5:2. His sermon I must say can encourage wife battering. Leadership has nothing to do with inequality, it is simply an office. Just like Buhari is the head of Nigeria, is a God given opportunity, that doesn’t mean others are not equal to him or he is more human than others. In as much as the Bible commands us to be subject to governing authorities doesn’t mean we will agree with every stupid thing a leader decides to do. Does that make us rebels? Any woman who follows her husband to do evil in the name of submission will go straight to hell, God will not spare her because she obeyed her husband. The soul that sinneth must die. In as much as the man is head of the home, he must lead with the fear of God. Christians should remember that the issue of headship over woman was as a result of the fall of mankind- curse, but every one who truely believes in Jesus knows that He came to return us the the initial plan of God, which had nothing like the curse, but pure equality. All that we owe each other in marriage is respect, love, forgiveness and helping each other progress in life. Not struggling for superior position or lording it on a wife. Just keep up the Jesus’ teaching; do to her as you will want her do to you.
Don’t you see your view as the source of all the troubles of marriages. There being no master, everybody does what he or she likes and when there is divergence, seperation/divorce results. That is the concept of courts’ system in the west, but in christianity God arranged for headship with authority and that is what is called ‘master’. The author is clear on this.
If it is so important to use this word master, then you must also look at the connotations it bares; it makes marriage very undesirable to the female. Why? One of the first things that comes to mind is the master-slave relationship and the awful emotional, physical, and spiritual horrors that took place all in the name of headship, Leadership, or perhaps better stated control and ownership. Of course the world would be chaotic without leadership and so would the family but not just any leadership will suffice no matter the gender. I believe in one man and one woman in a marriage and that the man is the spokesperson for that union; that is the way our Lord instituted marriage. However, it doesn’t always work out this way. In some cases women may find it difficult if not impossible to submit to a man who is leading her to insanity, poverty, and eventually he’ll. Thus, the qualifications for being head, never master, far exceeds his anatomy, and a marriage license accompanied by scripture. Remember this: “ one should rightly divide the word of truth”.
What do you understand by the word Master and leader? Go get understanding before writing a post.
But de Man is reffering 2de word husband it also mean master,y du we negatively respond b4,reading
A leader is not a master???
This is the kinda ignorance that sends a person head first over a cliff thinking he/she is on a rollercoasterride.
Absolute laziness that prevents a person from studying God’s word(the Bible)is the simple root-cause of statements like this.
The Bible states that Sarah loved Abraham and “called him Lord”.
So a person who qualifies to be called “Lord” is not your master?
Your comment here my friend is a derivative of your undiluted ignorance of God’s word.
Have you ever taken time to study the Bible?I guess not. If you have you’ll realise that what the man of God said above ought to be an epiphany for you.
Stick to God’s word not human ideas,ok?
Wow thnx dear we ought to learn to read ND understand Gods words by let someone come ND hypotoniz us wit his own ideas deviatin from God’s standards
Which one of these four things mostly represents LOVE?
Tyranny, oppression, dominance, team work?
If God is love, how would a Master represent God, if a Master represents tyranny, oppression, dominance?
Some women are the head of the house, not because they are rebellious, but because the men are useless, pathetic, sorry excuse for a man.
None represent love.
Amen amen
Lord means master,ruler,or someone who have authorities . Thats a simple definition and you got it wrong trying to tell someone else to study how bout you post the definition of Lord!
If men are masters and leaders then why the hell are you all so damn needy. You cant find a God damn thing, you cant not piss on the seat, you cant control yourselves. God made woman because he needed a do over. And if you are going to get biblical at least pit the parts written by women back in if you want a fair fight. But I’d guess if the fight was fair you’d lose 10/10
You might want to learn the definition of the word “master”
Good
Any one called a leader or your boss is your master.
Boss explains it all lol
Absolutely. There’s no master in my house.
Also bullshit. Most guys I know can’t figure out the dishwasher. No man is capable of leading me (in life). Dare ya to try
Little wonder you are still this way sister…
Who did this to you?
Any woman that thinks she have no business in submitting to her husband should prepare to face the worse in her marriage.
Making the man the Master implicitly makes the wife the slave. But wives are not slaves hence husbands cannot be masters. Instead the husband is the head while the wife is a helper comparable to him (Genesis 2:18b). The use of “comparable to him” does suggest some kind of equality.
Amen
Yes I agree with you
Too much book
True
Wah does a leader significant?
Which bible do you? Haven’t you read that a man is the master and head of the family as Jesus is the head and master of the church
If you say hee not your master and even Sarrah called her husband my lord. That is the humility God expect from woman to man and that is the reason when Sarah ask her husband to send Ishmael and mother slave away He did obeyed his wife ……submitting unto one another……..
The bible called the man the head of the woman. So I will implore you to treat your husband the way you treat your head.
Bless you
The man is the head not master.
@Rev Davidson Master=male head of a household.
‘the master of the house’
Most you be contradictory? If you read the entire piece and understand what he is saying is true then the issue of the caption / header is baseless ,,leader.. master head …all litrarily means the same…
If you are a master in your business you are as well a master in your family
Then what is a Head? Because even our primary school knows the Haed is d Master Dats y we have HeadMaster
de master is de head Rev..
“Rev”Davidson Ahebor,i guess you’re one of those who made their wives head of marriage counseling in your church(Just as Pastor Chris stated above)?,So his comment hit you hard.
Reverend you are indeed!!!
A so-called Reverend who contradicts God’s word.
What a world we live in these days!!
Says a man who has had a failed marriage
Men and women are equal because spirit has no gender, lets us learn to respect and uphold ladies and we will be the best men ever .Most of us will not be here if not for the help of women.
Well said. He should have remembered Hosea…
a help mate helps you win the race. Although you carry the trophy everyone know the trophy belongs to both because without the helpmate you’d have no trophy.
A master, a leader, only because God wanted to hold someone accountable. Remember how Adam shifted the blame in the garden regardless of the fact that he got the instructions from God as he landed there first.
Stop demeaning *the woman, what if the helpmate was exactly another man. Perhaps at this rate there would have been lesser men.
Humans are equal. Respect equally.
My dear, God bless you massively! If i didnt know the word myself i would have wondered if i was going crazy.
Jesus wept!
So If he has failed marriage meaning he cannot teach u the basic things in life?listen dear any body can FAILE,failure has no master,remember 12 DECIPLE of Jesus was carefully choose by holy spirit still Judas was among them ,pls stop judging people base on failure ,rebellion woman are everywhere ,pls learn to acknowledge good teaching when u see one ,you can dispute anything about this fact pastor Chris is the best teacher of the word of God in the whole world ,his teaching has nothing to compare in
Sorry
Master,head etc are just naming variables-Its irrelevant-Man be my master.Thats fine but doesnt stop a wife from airing her views and opinions on subjects.
You are master doesnt say u shouldnt treat me well with love and care
You are master doesnt mean you shouldnt provide for the family
And the list is endless
This is a senseless write up
I disagree on all levels
A husband that treats his wife in the right way with respect,honour and love will get the very best from her.She will not only refer to him as master.He will be her Lord.Every woman wants a man to drive the ship.
The intelligent women are not dragging position of head. They are only saying one thing: treat me with respect and love
I need to begin a youtube channel on these topics
I am tired of being quiet and seeing my fellow women suffer
Enough is Enough
I can see the frustration in you. He never said a woman can’t advice her husband, he said do it suggestively wise
My brother, this witches will never learn! They want wimps for husbands who they can manipulate all the time. This witches who called themselves feminist will end killing themselves. No man should marry any feminist. And it’s not a must for this witches to marry. They should stay single with their madness!
You don’t sound like a Christian, when you begin to call ladies witches then of a truth you are one of those masters and the ladies are the slaves
For calling dem witches I hope u hv my forgotten dat u are also referring to d generations dat brought abt ur fada down to ur mother with gave birth to u. Mind ur use of language dear….. ND abut being single I hope u hv nt forgotten were d Bible says it is not a sin to stay single as far u can uphold ur dignity ND stay away from immoral sin I Jst hope u re nt “gay” ND anti Christ Pls lets uderstnd down word before we speak Xo we don’t mislead others ND learn to go back to ur Bible no matter d position of a preacher.
God bless you
Just listen to yourself,you made your comment without a single bible reference just like pastor christ, you can figth for your follow non submissive wives but enough of challalleging Men of God who took courage to bring God’s message for our spiritual and physical uprightness with The creator
My brother, this witches will never learn! They want wimps for husbands who they can manipulate all the time. This witches who called themselves feminist will end up killing themselves. No man should marry any feminist. And it’s not a must for this witches to marry. They should stay single with their madness!
You sad sucker. Arrogant and egotistical. Effed up men who actually still believe they are smarter and better and more entitled than men. Women will enjoy relationship when it is equal and both treat each other well and communicate well to organise daily life and decisions made sometimes by one, sometimes by the other. Only insecure men think they are superior or head. And BTW, religious texts are fictions anyhow. Wake up and use your brain. Women can be happy without men, especially so many disgraceful abusers and arseholes. Why bother with those types. Freedom is preferable. We don’t care for insecure men’s opinions anymore.
How are the suffering…because they respect and subject themselves to their husbands or that they believe their husband does not have final say over things…and tend to fight their husbands especially when they are being corrected over their mistakes?
U don’t have sense
I dont expect you to reply skypilot that way insultively he is only making an opinion@ANONYMOUS
My dear i agree with you. In our world today women are really suffering when it comes marriage the love , respect etc. Which need to be reciprocal, these men will not because we are women (wife) we are the maids, slaves etc. We are women doesn’t mean we are senseless! They forget God has created us with same brain they have and the wisdom to take charge of our lives. Ahh am tired of all this nonsense may God help us .
…that you fail in marriage does not mean you can’t advice someone else. I have never been a fan of pst Chris, but I like his teaching and I think he knows the scripture.
Frankstargh,you see your life?
You’ll rather learn to “uphold” ladies than uphold God’s word,says the Godless and unspiritual Frankstargh.
What has the man’s failed marriage gotta do with his genuine Bible based advice?
A diseased mind ain’t gonna ever accept pure counsel because it’ll be offensive to it.
A foul-mouthed fella who has reasoning warped will always appeal to base emotions instead of the truth.
Keep on this lane and you’ll see where it’s gonna take you in no time,ok?
My brother can’t you see that this frank whatever is a mangina?
He fears women than God. They are the reason why this witches have wings to fly. But they should not cry when the consequences stir at their faces. Men with no spine to stand for the word of God.
“Failure” find out the meaning of failure before using the word
That you are managing your marriage does not make it a successful one
Amen, this is the truth. People need to Stop taking away and adding to God’s word.
man is the head and leader not master,and also they have to submitting to one another in the fear of God.Eph.5:21-33.Amen.
See the comparison in that scripture, ” women be submissive to your husband as church is to Christ ” meaning the same way Christ is the master of the church, husband is the master of the woman
What about Lilith ?
True word of God thanks sir more grace
True word of God keep up
1 Pet. 3:6 reads “…as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord…” “Leader” not “master” is a question-begging fine tunning. I am no fan of Chris but he spoke God’s word here
Why did God make the woman?Making woman was not God’s original plan because after God created Adam and before He made Eve, He said in Genesis 1:31 “Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good”. God made woman because of man so woman was not His original idea. This is very laughable, so God can make two of the same kind for animals and not so with human, is this person saying God didn’t know the end from the beginning, that you’ll say woman was not God’s original plan. So Adam was not meant to procreate or was he meant to do so with a female of another kind, please ppl should stop preaching what dey can never have an infinite knowledge about.
So Jesus Christ that doesn’t have a female partner now doesn’t have sons? HEB 2:10
‘Procreate’ you think carnally. You don’t understand God’s intent and purpose.
I think he should have stopped at “God made Woman because of Man”
Hater you are very correct that is the part they should argue about not who is the (is) head or who is the master. God created every things in pairs but created ADAM alone before he creat a woman to be his help mate how can the man of GOd says creating of eve is not God’s orinal idea? There was a time this same man of God says that abortion is not sin why is he missing up issues?.
That again is a lie. What about the scriptures that also said, God made man and he made them Male and female ?
This is the absolute truth .If the truth(Gods word) is adhered to properly marital issues and breakdowns will minimize and peace will reign in marriages.
It’s well with we women
This is it sir. I love you
This master should behave as a master too. Some men are just …….
That’s a great ! Yes the husband is the head and the leader and hence the one whk gives the final authority,
But I don’t agree when he says woman was an afterthought!
From the bible, Gen 1:27-28, In God’s original intention, woman was in man!
That is why God declared in Gen 2: 18 that it’s not good for the Man to be alone!
The same God who said everything he had made was good, also declared that ….it was not GOOD for the Man to be alone!
So women are not AFTER THOUGHTS!
Yes, man was not LONELY……Meaning wasn’t feeling sad for being single or without anyone of his kind But Man Was ALONE….and God himself said that was not good…..ALONE ….meaning without companionship or helper.
So Woman is to help Man. So the man/ husband is the boss or leader.
But that does not mean Woman/wife is inferior, and
I think most marriages are not mirroring Christ and the Church, his Bride that’s why we have divorces and marriages not working even amongst Christian.
From Ephesians 5…..Paul teaches husband and wife their specific roles which are MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE!
So the husband is to LOVE the wife as CHRIST LOVES the CHURCH regardless, and the Wife must respect and SUBMIT to the husband AS THE CHURCH SUBMIT to Christ regardless!
Sometimes, I say some men/husbands have been the cause of some women/wives rebelling, because throughout history and even in my own mothers life, women/wives have bullied, cheated upon, treated as second class humans….and hence, as some women began to be enlightened, rebelled. Which should not be.
So for a marriage to be successful, both husband and wife must play their roles irrespective of the other…..the ultimate aim is to please God!
Very true sir. You have hit the nail wit the hammer. U are a rare gem
I want a woman who will be my mother. It all depends on how you see a woman, but for any one to think God made him a master over his woman will surely encounter problem. Perhaps, his marriage failed because of this. I don’t like this message at all. Stick to what works for you.
Any man that know that he is the head and act that way as the head of the house will definately be respected
This message should have been more forthright: Men must dominate women period.
Just look at all animal species: the male always is the leader and keeps the females in line. Evolution stipulates that. Troubles brew when the female is larger and takes a dominant role – they kill and chew the males
Acts 10:34 King James Version (KJV)
34 Then Peter opened his mouth, and said, Of a truth I perceive that God is no respecter of persons:
I think, marriage is all about loving and submission without conditions. Eph 5:21-25. Has instructed the woman in everything to submit in everything just as the church is to Christ, and the man is expected to love his wife as Christ is to the church and gave his life for her. The challenge has always been when to submit and when to love. There is no condition given for that, everyone should play his or her role to please God. You will be held accountable for your deeds on the day of judgement. Waiting for your partner to love or submit before you play your role is not an excuse before God.
Good point
God bless you. I like what you said.. I pray God grant us the grace to keep our part of the covenant
Men are to play their by loving their wives as Christ love the church.but my question is can a man love his to the point of death.
A marriage can only be enjoyed if the two parties play their role.
# a loving husband and submissive wife make a Godly.
May God help us all to play our role well because we will all give account when he comes for the church.
A class rep or class monitor is not the master of the class. This is what is killing christian marriages till today making a woman think and feel marriage isn’t about them but about men. The man is the head of the home. As simple.
A woman who do not come to terms with teaching like this ought not to be married.
This is pathetic. No wonder his marriage failed. Men want to be acknowledged as Masters, as this allows them to manipulate and control their spouses. Especially those lazy, irresponsible, good for nothing husbands who are totally dependent on their wives for their survival.
A woman who do not come to terms with teaching like this ought not to be marr
A woman who do not come to terms with teaching like this ought not to be married, stay single and be happy is not a sin, you cannot be married as a woman and claim equality. The woman was created for the man, if you can’t submit stay single. The man obligation is to love his wife as christ love the church and the woman is to submit to her husband.
If they refuse this naked truth then they have no business with marriage. Or maybe they should be taking to Afghanistan for brain tune up.
Men who feel they need to be a “master” over a wife is insecure and infantile. God created us ALL to be equal, regardless of our sex and in all situations and relationships. Whatever the Bible says about marital relationships was authored by men of an ancient time (not God), men who had little understanding of human psychology and sexuality. Beat your chests all you like, men who subscribe to this, but it’s not part of God’s will.
This is the most Rubbish write up about marriage I have ever seen. The writer never had a good home, his wife walked out of there marriage because of infidelity. am sure is because of this his stupid mentality of marriage that destroyed his home. God created everything in two, what makes you think He doesnt have Eve in mind……. All I see is a Tyrant man who doesn’t have idea what marriage is all about. Even God who created us said All man are equall to HIM. You come here to tell us that a Husband and a Wife are not Equal, you need Christ.
He never asked for divorce the wife asked for it.
Should it be I’m hearing this from a man of God that’s living it. It would have been better..but you as as a divorced man of God has no jurisdiction over anything concerning marriage cos we follow by examples…in married life you failed…maybe ur mastership mastered your wife out of your house..next pls bikonu
Absolute true but”what we all need in our marriages is RESECT.
Search the scriptures @UJ. The word husband does not mean leader.
For those who are still confused and ignorant!
Please, read…..
(1 Corinthians 11:3)
Ephesians 5:23
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Hang him.
What a crock of bullshit! This is one of the reasons I will always be an atheist! The buybull is full of lies and written by weak men to keep women oppressed. ALL abrahamic religions are sexist and chauvinistic…its obvious that African christians, are the most chauvinistic and sexist not to mention fanatical christians in the world.
As my mama say the devil is a liar and the truth ain’t in him. Take your false doctrine and shove it
The word husband is commonly
defined as (1): “a married man
considered in relation to his wife.”
The word comes from the Old Norse
húsbóndi “master of a house,” from
hús “house” + bóndi “occupier and
tiller of the soil.” The original sense
of the verb was “till, cultivate.” This
shows us two concepts about
husbands. First, he is the master of
the house. Second he occupies and
tills or cultivates the soil. This has
significant meaning when looking at
the Bible definition of a husband.
Look I have my beliefs in the lord and my own opinions as well. A relationship w the lord has nothing 2 do w church a minister none of that. The church was created bc common people couldnt read, and it was a way to have control. You my friend are taking a book written by men and interpreted by other men and giving an opinion. Just 2 reiterate your giving me your opinion of another’s opinion. If you were a columnist you would have been fired. The church is the biggest scam in the history of man. Now sir do I believe, yes I do. I believe that my relationship with our lord does not channel through you for he is an all knowing god, and I’m sure we can have our own conversation wo you muddying the waters. Couple questions: how big is your church, how many times u pass the collection plate, jesus was a carpenter can you my friend do labor? The church is a fraud. Assaulting children sexually, lying 2 the masses for gain causing wars 2 further your tainted word. Sorry sir I do not subscribe 2 your sexist hateful searches weather about women nonbelievers or anyone else who doesn’t comply 2 your standards. They are your by the way not the lords. I recommend anyone who reads this 2 read the bible and make your own conclusions, instead of listening to a outdated medicine man. Women are our equal w equally important roles. Do we as men do certain things better, absolutely. I ask you this though can you sir stay home w young children all day cater to their needs all day clean the house buy groceries get a part time job (ok on that 1 prolly so,cause that’s wat ur doin now) cook breakfast lunch dinner clean again oh the feel subservient to your husband bc he worked 1 maybe 2 jobs that day. Well in my eyes from what I just explained the woman of the house just had 3 to 4 jobs in that same day, then had 2 cater 2 your bigotry, lil man sir cause now shes your psychiatrist.. give your lady praise bc she is an extension of you not a slave beneath you. Good day
Shut up you misogynistic white suited conman.
Typical Cuntservative Mongoloid
God bless u sir.
And people wonder why I am no longer Christian.
Love to hear his views on gay marriage!
Very simple: For any woman who has a God fearing man, have you tried being onedient to the Word? If so, please share your results. If not, why not try, after all the Word is given to us for guidance from God…ahould we doubt the Word? Do we have faith and trust in Him?
Boy bye!
Mary Magdalene was closer to Christ than all the disciples put together. She was His equal. Mary Magdalene was one of the women who saw Christ resurrected first and believed. We all know his male disciples did not recognize Him, “Doubting Thomas” even asked for proof. Your beliefs that a woman are subservient is unfounded and outdated. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/middle-east/mary-magdalene-feminism-metoo-jesus-disciples-apostle-christianity-judaism-pope-francis-vatican-a82
This is the biggest bunch of crap I’ve ever heard. Jesus did not die to put women in bondage. He clearly has a penis problem.
Let us take a closer look at these verses with all the objectivity ,for once forget all about defending your opinion and be objective. NB, even a fool has an opinion so do not make yours a stronghold.
29 For they hated knowledge and chose not to fear the lord.
Proverbs 1:29
30 They rejected my advice and paid no attention when I corrected them.
Proverbs 1:30
31 Therefore, they must eat the bitter fruit of living their own way, choking on their own schemes.
Proverbs 1:31
32 For simpletons turn away from me—to death. Fools are destroyed by their own complacency.
Proverbs 1:32
How do you relate with any of these?
women do not like to hear the truth and i wonder why how they can find peace being in longer head with the man, God originally made man the head, to be in control, women have their position, they handle other things like home and family and helps the man to succeed. my candid advice to women, never try to control a man, you can only control a man true submission. no man want to marry another man, full of authority and disrespect.
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This is a bunch of half truth. There are many verses that he left out because he is selling a DOCTRINE based on a lot of conjecture. He left out how we are to SUBMIT to one another. Yes the headship order is the Father the Son the husband then the wife however it does not say ANYWHERE that our job is to see what pleases him.
This commentary he put togethet lacks a lot of scripture.
Bologna! Women were not an after thought of God! God with his infinite intelligents had women in His plan from the beginning.
Respect is reciprocal. What you give is what you should expect in your marraige. Be you husband or wife, the principles are the same. Give love and reap love, respect begets respect. Don’t use whatever you think is your position or right in marraige against each other because that would be counter productive! This is my take on this.