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Got married to my husband three years ago and some months, but my three years of marital bliss is nothing but confusion.

I met him on Facebook in 2008 and we met in person late 2011 and we got married in February 2013, but the person I thought I knew was a total stranger.. After our marriage I got to know my hubby do bed wet, but I take it with a good fate and started praying along with him.

I gave birth to my son August 2013, after the birth of my son, my loving husband started his fornication in 3d without control, I pray I begged, and even fought with him to tell me what am doing wrong but all these led to him beating the hell out of me, leaving me with bruises…

In Dec 2014, I caught him with a secret phone with over 50 contact which is only female contact from Eskimi dating site and some other place…I was very hurt so will had a big fight over it, but later settled… but after everything there is this particular lady that my hubby refused to let go, for the reason known to them, he flaunts their relationship in a coded way but I do find out…the problem now is any time I confront my hubby with this girl’s issue, he will deny it and even curse myself if he has anything to do with her..anytime we had any disagreement now first thing he says is I should leave him and go..

I’m really confused, is it man ego or there is no love left in my marriage?. This is the man I accepted in his darkest moment and I still keep my mouth shut about his bed wetting thingz..

Please note: we are still struggling to move forward, so money is not involved o…my son spent last term at home coz of money..

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272 thoughts on ““I Met My Husband On Facebook, But After Our Marriage I Discovered He Bed Wets, Has A Secret Phone””

  2. JJohnson SStanley

    Hahaha bad advicer, talk true ur bf never beat devil comot sense from your head before ?

  7. Regina Hangula

    This problem is only God that can solve it you love I’m so don’t run from him there is solution to it God visit SCOAN synagogue Church of all nation Nigeria lago

  8. Regina Hangula

    This problem is only God that can solve it you love I’m so don’t run from him there is solution to it God visit SCOAN synagogue Church of all nation Nigeria lago

  12. JJohnson SStanley

    @chi u know say behind close doors alot d happen and girls na them sabi form say we get our better half and nice husband …lol but husby d beat love enter there sense and d go still smile and this my sister come d form holy mother taaaa..na today

  13. Magie Bee Ma-Timbeuh

    Its not funny!!! Just commit all into the hands of God my dear sister,he will surely fix it.

  15. Sharon Blankson

    It’s the truth wat do u expect me to say when a man tells u can leave whenever u argue….that meanss he doesn’t love u anymore and has fallen for the new girl. Go read the story first b4 u talk trash

  19. Fortunate Egbuchere

    Girl u havent been married so u have no experience in giving advice.There is nothing like perfect relationship. You should have talked of marital counselling before jumping into walking away. When u say till death do us path and in richer and for poorer what do u think that means? Both of them need counselling before any other suggestion.

  21. Ezekweshiri Ray

    Sounds like bedwetting is what you think is your hubby’s biggest flaw. Lol what you dnt know is you dnt humiliate people with such natural struggles. Next you mentioned cheating and secret phone. How come you never saw this coming before getting down with him? Were you in a hurry to tie him down? Listen Marriage is not just for selfish gain, marriage is for better for worst, what you see is what you get but if you think your life is also threaten then you have every right to take the next exit. Manage your home well.

  30. Sharon Blankson

    Till death do us apart right…..The bible is against divorce good but thesame bible states that the only time u can divorce is when one spouse commits adultery. Adultery is one of the deadliest sins. Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits is outside his body, but whoever sins sexually sins against their own body (1 corinthians 6:18) Your body is the temple of the Lord u were bought at a price therefore honour God with your body.

  36. Mariagorathy Ngozi

    Dearest go to God in prayers.job 5 v 8 says if i were you,i would turn to God and present my case to him.cry to God midnight prayer will help you alot.luke 1 v 37 says for there’s nothing God can not do? The answer is NO my God your God can do all tins

  37. Simba Desmond Nvangile

    Thus ya husband stop crying u said death till us apart go to synagogue Church of all nations he will stop

  39. Stephen Osa's

    as for ur husband bed weting,u the cause ot it,instead of u to buy him agbo jedi and bitter leave u leakin he’s weaking point to d public,plz let’s know ur husband to also tell us your weaken point,maybe u are a prostitute wen he met u

  40. Mariagorathy Ngozi

    My God your God can do all things.is your duty to deliver your hubby from that spirit that’s responsible for that bed wet.and is evil spirit.present it to God and holy spirit will direct you on how to fellow it up dear may God strengthen and empower you to pray your way nd home out in Jesus mighty name Amen

  45. Munachi Okereke

    U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602omg comments mehn u guys are so funny,story too is so funnyU0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602someppl said buy him pampersU0001f602U0001f602U0001f602actually make sure he doesn’t drink water before going to bedU0001f602U0001f602U0001f602

  49. Emancipate Redemption

    The hell do you mean “what should I do? ” you didn’t ask us when you married him

  53. Becky Nsikanabasi Edem

    It is unfortnate though, but there is a healing at the balm of Gilead. May God heal him completely.

  54. Michael Chima Ogbonna

    Evangelist Sharon Blankson. Husband scarce ooo.let her manage the one she luckily secured on fb.abeg

  55. Oloke Alex Dare

    Why do you want to break my heart? l was about to propose to you online some minutes ago. @#Phina hahahahah

  56. Princess Amarachi Uzor Donald

    If the guy beats u to stupor anytime u have an argument pls separate for a little while and watch the next step he will take.. But this time around make sure you put him in a corner that will make him decide what he really wants in the marriage.. (dats if he really wants a home and plan for the future or he wants to be irresponsible all his life)… But whatever he decides pls play along..

  57. Alphonse Alphonse

    Okay, you had your baby after seven months of marriage!!!! Hope he is doing well and okay!! Continue to pray harder!!!

  60. Ben Kelechi

    @patience marriage is not for better for worse any longer,is for better I stay for worst I go.

  61. Ben Kelechi

    I blamed her for not test run the material very well before buying it,these days there’s nothing like non tested.

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  72. Alie Munu

    Why get a husband / wife on social media in the first place? That would be the clue that something is not quite right at all. The worst mistake is to start a family together. Never mind, it is too late for you dear, you are stuck with this mess.
    Probably you are not the first woman this man used. Having said that, however, I strongly blame you. Sorry dear.

  74. Lourdes Trabajal

    You better talk. Tell him your grievances being the wife.if he loves you he won’t do that . If he loves you yet he can’t fight temptation Tell him you ‘re all enough. That s infidelity even just through the wire. Make him promise you not to do it again.
    Do your best to be his wife . Do not just cry there. Make yourself his friend , his mother , his sister , and his mistress instead of being just a wife. Marriage is not always a bed of roses. He wouldn’t have married you if he didn’t love you. Fight for him and don’t be a loser in this battle. Call God s help . He is the most powerful to fight wit you.
    And don’t forget ” women empowerment too.”.

  75. Bakary Camara

    That’s doesn’t matter where you meet him but married cannot continue without love, try you best he can love you more than before, but life is not easy may God give you happiness in married U0001f48f…..

  82. Zubair Yakubu

    it seams like sharon is only interested in divorce but this lady want her marriage work that’s why she is seaking advice soppose she want a divorce she wouldn’t ask for advice

  83. Sesilia Makalio Lelei

    Some men are different..some will change some wont..no one is perfect. My advice leave him and keep praying for him. Keep strong and have faith..❤

  85. Godswill Mercy

    I can see that u guys are against getting a life partner through Facebook or any social media.
    but prefer to date and dupe the opposite sex, what a mentality ?
    look so many people are so lucky while others falls a victim.
    I my self is one of the most lucky lady who met her Heart Desire on the media. Yes am so proud to say that aloud, and we are happily married with no side effect. so plz CHANGE your way of thinking. when the ryt man/lady comes your way grab him/her.

  86. Marshalee Martin

    Darling dear with all due respect pack u damn bag tek u pickney and do yourself the favour and leave his ASS

  87. Love All Parker

    SECERT PHONE , A BED WETTER, CHEATS, HE LIES, HE BEATS THE HELL OUT OF U LEAVING U ALL BRUISED UP AND Y’ALL R STRUGGLING. …
    YES HE IS A KEEPING! !!U0001f62fU0001f62fU0001f62f

  91. Chikerendu AdaNze Nze

    Please will agbo jedi and bitterleaf help? My friend is going thru something similar and it’s not easy for both of them.

  97. Samson Onsando

    Talk to him about the problem and go for medication and about phone ask him if he really loves you. If he does he won’t do such a thing. If nothing bears fruits leave as early as possible

  98. Rolinda Tumusime

    Sorry my sister life full of fake people can u focus on success coz da child is growing up en needs to go at school.

  99. Tendai Kashiri

    Dont encourage people to stay in abusive relationships. She needs to leave him. lets not forget there is a child involved here. Dont allow him to grow up in this situation where his mother is beaten up. He will grow up with resentment, anger & might even become a woman abuser also. Run my sister, run with your son as far away as you can from that man.

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