Got married to my husband three years ago and some months, but my three years of marital bliss is nothing but confusion.
I met him on Facebook in 2008 and we met in person late 2011 and we got married in February 2013, but the person I thought I knew was a total stranger.. After our marriage I got to know my hubby do bed wet, but I take it with a good fate and started praying along with him.
I gave birth to my son August 2013, after the birth of my son, my loving husband started his fornication in 3d without control, I pray I begged, and even fought with him to tell me what am doing wrong but all these led to him beating the hell out of me, leaving me with bruises…
In Dec 2014, I caught him with a secret phone with over 50 contact which is only female contact from Eskimi dating site and some other place…I was very hurt so will had a big fight over it, but later settled… but after everything there is this particular lady that my hubby refused to let go, for the reason known to them, he flaunts their relationship in a coded way but I do find out…the problem now is any time I confront my hubby with this girl’s issue, he will deny it and even curse myself if he has anything to do with her..anytime we had any disagreement now first thing he says is I should leave him and go..
I’m really confused, is it man ego or there is no love left in my marriage?. This is the man I accepted in his darkest moment and I still keep my mouth shut about his bed wetting thingz..
Please note: we are still struggling to move forward, so money is not involved o…my son spent last term at home coz of money..
Do support u. Leave dat b4 u die nd it wld be its bcos its all abt d word ‘For better for worse’.
Let go of that man and begin a new life, believe in yourself…..you will raise your child without stress, let the man enjoy his life
Too late dear
Sometimes I just read at some people comments n wonder if they actually have common sense U0001f914U0001f914U0001f914U0001f914 if u don’t have nothing good to comment it’s better u keep ur mouth shut or keep ur negativity to urself U0001f64fU0001f64fU0001f64f this person asked for ur advice only ooh n for ur informations she didn’t force u to help her or anything it was was a question so don’t comment if u don’t have nice things to say don’t say mean things to people cause u never knw wats coming ur way U0001f44cU0001f3fdU0001f44cU0001f3fd I don’t understand some people anyways peace and I hope God will help u with everything u need cause he is able n above all things stay strong sister His with u every single day ur not alone U0001f60dU0001f60dU0001f60dU0001f60dU0001f64fU0001f64fU0001f64fU0001f64f
Manage am like that
Bed wet go get him pampers lol
Its not like I only want a divorce but when a man doesn’t love u anymore there is nothing u can do. Even the nice things u do or try to do for him will even annoy him bcos there love is gone. She asked for an advice in general and I gave her my opinion. Get off my comments u nosey thing
Tonia Anthonia, lf actualy you think or reason rightly as a human, what you should have done is to send your own advice direct to this lady that seeks advice of people, and not challenging people’s advice with insault, it is left for her to take her decision. I think you need deliverance because you think devilish while l think righteously because l am a child of God, so do no put asunder between a marriage God has joined togerther otherwise your own home shall be broken.
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Im so happy that i didnt met my husband trough facebook hahah
Jjhonson people are actually in relationships where d spouse has never raised a hand on them even during conflicts. Her advise is perfect.
Facebook is not the best source if you want to settle down.Just as he met you thru Facebook, it’s likely he will continue searching for younger girls. Did he love you in the. first place? Girls be wise! It was INFATUATION. It is a pity that many gullible young girls are serially deceived..
No you can’t do anything. Cope
No it’s easy wake him up 3to 4times a night if he does not improve pumper him or make him wash blankets
Somebody said, take him back to Facebook were u met him,
u should hav known that bfore yr marriege… u jst dont get married instatly….
those guys who wet beds’ they happen to have many children, get to bedweting.com and read..pray to god he’l stop that habbit.
Start bed wetting aswell
Go before God
If that man beats u leave before it becomes do or die. Insecure little man. Bed wetting indeed. This man doesn’t deserve a woman or family. What kind of environment is this to raise a child in? He met u on fb dont u think he will continue to find girls on fb? Leave this brat. He is not fit to be called a man
Only him can solve it for
My dear pray and continue advising him, there is Nothing God can not do
It does not matter where you met him,
On ur own…OYO
Nothing but prayers for God to give you the grace to carry the cross. Happy married life.
Return him back to Facebook where you met him.
Return him to facebook
Look my frnd is now till death do u part
help 2 trt it
Take your husband to TB Joshua for deliverance
Pls don’t divorce him keep on praying and God will answer yur prayers
Ws d weddin on Facebook too?
Take him back to #fb
mari anoda facebuk guy.
Pls report him to Mark zukarberg
English lost to Facebook.. U0001f612
Be strong my dear and pray God
Wash the matress and the lines lol
You never did ur home work
Send him back to Facebook n run for ur dear life.
GO BACK TO FACEBOOK
Kill your self if you can
Bed weting is never a problem, unless you are viewing it from Africa mentality as a spiritual attack or relationship. Here in Europe it is a sign of good development of the homonal grand that is responsible for sexual activeness. The secret phone number is the reason for the bedwetting, because he is having imagination of sexual intercourse with the person in the secret telephone. Only what you will be afraid of is him cheating on you in the real world. As for the bedwetting, he is alive sexually. Take it from me.
What will u do about it? Stay married… Happy married life
@Osasu viv, my condolence to your bf if you have one and I don’t and will never hit my woman and stop telling people what you can’t do ,I don see people like u finish ..My dear ask your father or mother if you have one about marriage,I believe d will advice you well.
@Ojo Eduvie,I get you my sister ,to raise your hand on a woman or man is totally wrong but social media it’s like a bag everyone carries his or her own issues but advice people on what you can do..
Deliver him from that spirit of bed wetting and divorce him on Facebook since you met him on Facebook.
Bed wetsU0001f636prayer works but secret phone….find out what’s up before you make a final decisionU0001f612
Johnson you seem so pained… Woman beater.. Ominiknowest… See your ojukokoro head.. Next time don’t come on social media and talk trash under people’s comment.. It seemed cool when you took a jab at me now I do same to you and you get all defensive… Mr man go and work on yourself you don’t know nothing about me… Remember not to hit ur wife tonight.. OK bye U0001f605U0001f605U0001f605U0001f605
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All advice is ok is lift for woman in question to decide what to do
But if u ask me if he no he did not love her in the first place y did he married her
Now is are come to this point some men do realise there are misk when them don longer see the woman around , at this time I will advise the woman to he a space for now but not to stop loving he and pray for GOD to change he
What’s a secret phone??
Go for prayers
Hmmm!toxins in relationship so true…GOD help us all in JESUS name
AMEN!!!!!!
Go back to Facebook and leave him there….. simple
You are dumb like a Goat I must say,sorry.
My sister you choose that man so Wat you can do is to neel down and ask god wat to do, and dont give up,
Is not good
Lots of husband and boyfriend like that just ignore and pray he will realize one day …don’t give up and be strong for the sake to your son keep pray for him…U0001f47cU0001f47cU0001f47cU0001f64fU0001f3fbU0001f64fU0001f3fbU0001f64fU0001f3fb
Shut up and build your family, you ungrateful complaint.
Is that scientifically proven?
Kneel and pray to God
@Osasu ‘viv’ Igbinidu, you funny wella shaaa u even notice my headU0001f605 abeg leave me I’m taken ooooh…I no won know anything about u go joor..Bad advicer nwanyi ojo lol.
Walk out of that marriage if it will be okay by u
My dear, repack and send him back via EBAY, then look for a better one via BADOO cos Facebook won’t accept used item back.
if he bed wet,u wear him napkin,better
That is ur cross. Carry it, it will soon be over
Take him for delivarace ok.
All that glitters are not gold,it is a pity that u have made the mistake of not seeking God’s opinion before u entered into it,my prayer is that God will see u through, just be courageous .
It can be very dangerous to date on social media. There are demon possessed, satanists, witches, criminals, fraudsters and even killers prying for innocents souls pretending to be desperate for “true” love when they are looking for something else. It’ll be your money and marrying you then kill you for benefits, to gain entry in a foreign country, convince you to trust them even with your children then they drug them with muti to turn them against you to appear iseless (when you realize you’re in a wrong “relationship”). They will use your children as their slaves, even take them to school, buy them clothes etc without them being aware during their drugged(with muti) stage. Please good people be very careful. I, personally am in sh..t as we speak because a woman I happened to date on one of the social networks (Eskimi) as I was trying to get the best mom to bring up my children after a failed relationship after their biological mother’s demise. She told me in my ears that she’ll drug them to teach me a lesson after using unfounded and psychopathic accusations not knowing I’ve recorded the conversations as evidence since I can’t talk to my own children, my own blood !! BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL. Of course not all those who are there are bad, but I can tell you more than 75% are there to destroy other peoples lives. And please be careful of some “traditional healers”. They’ll tell the lies you want to hear and take your money and if you don’t verify, you’ll end up bewitching everybody. Even your mother ! God bless you. YOU’RE FREE TO SHARE THIS TO OPEN OTHER PEOPLE’S EYES. INBOX ME FOR FULL DETAILS.
you need to prayer to God everything we be ok very soon.
Don’t let him but pray to God