The actress wrote on her instagram today that she doesn’t want to ever get married. Guess all the abuse stories is turning off single women. But there are many happy and good marriages. Many!
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U don’t need to tell it to anyone, just continue ur ashawo job like that and don’t drag other innocent women along wt u to hell. Idiot nien
Those that are miserable are the ones who married someone who they keep pretending around…but those who marry one who is their friend and do not feel the need to be perfect around them are in the best relationship ever…..If you not free around you man…its a waste of time….
That means your parents too were in misery…thunder fire you there!!!
u r jst an ass
its true jor
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Hope your a virgine
Wow you are so stupid
Birds of a feather,lesbianism ruins.
Irrelevant talk who cares? Please live & die alone ok don’t ever dream of becoming even a single mother cos you’re doom before any child, I wish you happy staying alone forever, AMEN. Yeye fowl wey no wan lay eggs, am the VOICE of the VOICELESS.
Agreed its soo overrated
I’ld rather be miserable in marriage than be miserable alone
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Gbenga Irewole why you hunting me like a wounded gay guy…….only gays act like women…so take you bitterness back n sit your ass down…..n yes check your sexuality……all I said is true n I aint taking it back….when done checking get back to me.
Why did u so
@JENNY…WHO IS STUPID….????
Marriage is sweet nd also bitter, no marriage on dis planet earth is perfect without quarrels, so my dear if u choose not to get married is not by force nd be ready not to hv sex so dat what happened in 1999 won’t happen to u #Lol
U no notin about marriage so kick off
All is ur choice dear
ANSWER NOW…ARE U SCARED….?????
Don’t speak about it just keep quiet remain single, please we have a enough beautiful ladies to marry to,
Halima you are right,joor
nobody force you togemarried , It’s a matter of choice for you to remain single or been married so dn’t use what others are going through tto destroy people’s relationship…
Rosana Philda ….LOL…..U CHECK URSELF BEFORE U WRECK URSELF……FAT ASS BITCH…..DONT TALK TO ME ANYHOW…OR ELSE U GONNA GET UR FAT ASS KICKED…..
May the Lord Grant you your heart desires IJN….AMEN
It you marry your best friend its will be heaven on earth. But if you marry for money, you are close to hell fire. Try be happy with yourself before thinking of marriage. Every strong hard working woman deserves a loving hard working man.
u r sick
Gbenga Irewole funny how you think calling me fat will make me feel bad…the bitch part….i crowned myself one when I was 16 so not really a big deal so you need to come up with something much better that that……I will talk to you anyway I want coz nobody is the boss of me…..so again sit your ass down…..n try better……N id you think you can kick my ass bring it on…you know gays fight like women so am sure this will be a fair fight……;)
Why are u casting aspersions on
My dear, I know why your heart has been turned so dark about marriage but trust me until you taste the other side of the U0001f382 cake, you may never know. I pray you one day meet the one who will really understand and appreciate you as the woman you are so that you will understand what I am talking about. If you lose your child through water, it doesn’t mean you will not drink water again. A Ghanaian proverb…..
Datz her own opinion about marriage n she s entitled 2 it, so stop insulting her.
Ok
So be it for you.
Go and get married and stop deceiving your self with this excuse,not when is late you will go and marry a man who already has a wife.
thats what u can see.
I wonder why most of the men are angry about her statement, chaiii can’t a woman have a choice now? Or does that mean she is right about what she said? My people, you will say na wa oooo
Is it by force go marry goat na and enjoy ur blissful marriage
Useless woman.. How could u generalize? Meaning u are in everyone’s home to know how miserable they are living? Prostitute who hv no hope of getting married is talking rubbish.
How long will you continue to deceive yourself. Face the reality and settle down…
Thnx@kingsley, U just spoke my mind, and any lady who respond negatively on ur comment is a prostitute too, cos no reasonable woman will ever make a comment like of this prostitute who hv no hope of getting married… So she is in everyone’s home to know how miserable they are living..abi?. Nonsense
You are right sweetheart, when you have a boring husband and stupid who always want sex, quarrels, loud, very mean, threats, snoring and always telling you my money, my cars, my houses the list is endless
U are asking d question cos maybe u don’t understand what she said, how could she generalize that all that got married are living miserably? If u can reason well u too would be angry with her too, is she in everyone’s home to know how miserable they are living
These words of urs are simple meaning tht u’ve also had some rough relationships experience bt thts nt d end of life sweedy cuz life must go on, like it or nt
Are you for real?
Your spiritual husband talking not you.
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Many ppl fail to realize that the foundation of marriage is very important.
I wish u happy staying alone pls dnt get married ooo becos if u do God will nt be happy wit u becos dat is what u want nd stop sleeping wit men too becos u dnt like men bt i knw dat people like u if dey love any man dat man is in problem too bad u enjoy just boydriend bt u dnt knw dat husband is moer den a boyfriend nd wen u will get old knw one will take care of u wen u get old dat is wen u will knw dat brother is brother sis is sis bt child is child nd knw one can take care of u moer dan ur child dnt get marrid ask u said enjoy only boyfriend
Jenny U Ekanem is this you or your grandma?
But she generalized…(those that are into it are miserable) how does it sound to u?
She right though
d only people supporting her are d ones who coukdnt afford to stay in their husband house instead they were busy commuting all sorts of atteocity till luck runs out of them and no where to start from, only repent that’s all it takes cos u can always meet up if u repent this very moment
Then if you don’t merry you are what
Kingsley u are right
Like if she said she won’t be getting married all the Nigerian babes will finish or what
Chew it for yourself
She be lesbian
So not true
Azubuike Jude Jucel relax is not everybody that thinks let you , she has her own opinion so chill out .
Are you a wife ?? Why call her a prostitute ?? Have you seen her selling herself ? If not shut up , am married as well ,as a reasonable married woman you shouldn’t tag any single woman prostitute just because she feel that way about marriage .
Nawa ooooooo! I people really have time to carry people’s problems on their head n make it an issue, are u among the miserable husband? Y is it becoming a disease to u, this kind sickness is incurable. My dear whatever that pushed to make the comment, pls let it go n pray to the maker of all to give u the best among the list. Because a lot of people’s happiness been infected with negativity.
so shall it be for u IJN.
Good, but try and have at least one child, children are important for every woman, what is good about a marriage where a man don’t see you as a life partner but a maid or slave, who cannot even reason with him, chat and laugh but clean his dirty clothes cook for him, open your thing for him and after he see nothing precious about you but a goat he can do any shot he feels like around you dammn
Silence the only answers given to fools
Usman Putin Usman thats me alright who is asking???
That’s a fat lie……….. I am married and very happy.he is my best friend.
Clap for urself for taking drugs for another people’s diseases voice of the voiceless n speaker of the speechless. Real men have no time for useless things. I don’t know y people have not finish solving their own problems n still strive to help others while they have no solution to their p.
And what ashawo job is are you talking about, why are you upset about her choice, is marriage by force
Who told you she’s doom, why getting married in the first place is it not for d sake of having children incase of old age to see or have who will take care of you.
There was no Bible that said a husband is the lord of a wife, neither did the Bible said you should beat your wives Mr , get this, your wife is your partner not your goat, cow, or chicken so stop beating them, if I may ask how many rules in the Bible are you obeying
Enjoy judging people’s decision to bcoz its ur life style, it’s something some folks here cannot do without because that’s who u are, allow somebody to wish him /herself what she want to see. Never u wish somebody what u will not want to see bcoz it can come to u bcoz u are not God. I life is spiritual. Pray 4 her when her comments explains hurt, don’t hate her, I No matter who she is, I God still love her the way she is n u cannot stop it because God’s love is unconditional. Mr and Mrs righteous that knows how to judge. Grow!!!!!!!!!!!!
You can get a child adopted or even make one by your self without husband, the fact that people don’t have husband does not mean they cannot make a baby too, she is just afraid to be hurt or maltreated by a man
@Jilly Cindy’ Do u know what it means by calling those into marriage “Miserable”? as she generalized… Such a statement can only come from an irresponsible woman and its only irresponsible women like her will protest on my comment.. Period!
And so shall it be
I can see someone set ablazed over there lol u don’t deserve it but ignorance in high rampage cost u d shits.
how can you marry since lesbian spirit will never leave you alone… Idiot..Chioma chukwuka will hear this so she will not allow you near her matrimonial home
True talk dear
i support u dear
@BabeDoll she hv right to choose what she want but she hv no right to condemn all..get that fact’ i hv no problem with her if she decides to remain single till eternity, it’s her choice, but generalizing that those that are into marriage are miserable made her irresponsible..
Vashanta Samuel bros u go like quarell like woman ooo, this matter never reach to quarell or insult person nah!
@Jilly Cindy u are more irresponsible than the lady in question… Birds of same feather
Who con dey beg u is bcos u dnt av d quality to a wife. Stop talking nonsence no b face we won chop.
Badly conditioned mind!
@ Amaka am not insulting anyone ok have heard, tnks
Azubuike Jude Jucel your a useless man by insulting me .see your jobless, my own husband can never call a woman a name or even ague with women . Son of a bitch
Azubuike Jude Jucel maybe your wife is miserable that’s why it pains you . She was just stating her own opinion, why do you take it personal foolish man . Are you the only one that is married. Nonsense
BabeDoll Richie hmm sister i shock self,, is unfortunate that some dumb people still don’t realize that some men are monsters in human skin and no need for women to be around them,,, it is only a fool that will not run when danger is coming,, so if a lady try to get a husband and she realize the person is wicked to her,, must she continue to be around him till something bad happen hell no,,, must she go and snatch some one husband or what,,she is a human and she knows what she want so if she don’t get what she want,,, will definitely became a single woman and that don’t make her a bitch or useless get this africans dammn
and that is what others did and get killed at the end,,, is only a fool that will not run when danger is coming
there are some men who will dump you or abandon you when you are seriously sick that you need their attention, abeg leave the actress alone let her enjoy her life
some men will even dump you or abandon you, even maltreated you, when you are seriously sick that you need their love and attention abeg allow the actress to be
Birds of same feather @Babedoll & Cindy,
She completely a disgrace to womanhood and his generation unborn oneday her ancestors will have sex with her wasted generation
The actress was trying to speak for all of us by saying that married people are miserable, just cos shes never experienced true love doesnt mean everybodys case is the same.
OK, we hear. Matter end.
Marriage na by force
@Cindy I don’t think u will ever wish to like ur life like that just as this Halima meant and any man who maltreated his wife or killed his his wife is definitly a monster like u said and it is not encouraging but is actually something of a choice just she did but she should’nt come up here to even say it is just as wrong as man and his wife fighting or carring out domestic violence in d present of their little kids. Every body deserves to a responsible life but whoever prefere on d other way round shold keep it to him or herself. Let people stop ranning insults on each other here is not proper cos we are all adult or matured peoole, sincerely d only reason why I hardly drop comment on most posts in so many pages is because of this insults and abuse. Even one has not come to understand ur comment or d post they just pick up on d person and start throwing insults and abuse as if that’s what they know best to do. What Halima posted here is totally wrong my dear people. God bless u all and God bless Nigeria. Thanks @all
Who care nonsense
I’m pretty sure, no one wants to marry you either. Stupid bitch
Dear I totally agree with you
you guys should mind your business,,, how is she a bitch the last time i check you were not a virgin before you married,,,there are some actresses in this world who are not married but they brought up their kids in a good way than this so call partners who abuse and beat wife infront on their kids,,, see pray that where ever you are,, if you are a woman your man madness don’t wake up, cos you will regret
How about you kill yourself. That’s the good example you two are showing FYI not all marriages are bad . don’t discourage others because nobody wants you