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I Am a Man But I Want To Change To A Woman, Still I’m Scared Of How My Family Will React – Confused Man

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I’m an Muslim gay man, who is also trans inclined. I was forced into marriage a year ago, but the woman I married is not with me at the moment, which is good as I hate this bubble of lies.

I know I want to be a woman and I only like men. My family will never accept it, though, and will disown me or may even hurt me.

Everyone around me knows what I am, even my family, but it’s a case of ‘see no evil’ with them and they just bury their heads in the sand.

I don’t know what to do or who to turn to. Every other aspect of my life is great, but this is ruining me.

In the past I’ve suffered from depression and suicidal thoughts, but I’ve come through that and don’t feel that way any more.

Please help, what do I do?

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267 comments

  1. Y should be scare not good idea with GOD who made you a man not a woman…nastyU0001f44eU0001f3ff

  2. Maxwell Chinedu Goodluck

    Western ideology always thinking they are more civilised and intillegent more than any other creatures..

  3. Joseph Ike Onuorah here here I’ll drink to that U0001f44c

  4. Moono Parker S

    Tash. As Much I Agree With U M Human Rights, I Wouldnt Want To Raise My Lovely Children In A Society Were Men Marry Men And Women Marry Women. Imagine If All Pipo Were Gay,how Are We Going Replenish And Feel The Earth. Why Change Yo Sex Identity, No Amount Of Human Rights Can Justify Such An Imoral Act! What We Do Affects Pipo Around Us. No Man Is An Island. My Negative Choice Will Negatively Affect Pipo Who Love Me And My Positive Choice Will Positively Affect Pipo Who Love Me. Unless U Dont Have Children, A Loving Parents Duty Is To Impact Good Morals In Thr Children.

  5. Maxwell Chinedu Goodluck

    If your mom n dad changed their genda,I’m sure there won’t be you in this whole wide world

  6. But you should be teaching your child not to judge or Bully others. How would you feel if your son or daughter came out gay? There has been gay people out there for years before us and will be years after. I’d be more worried about child molesters, rapists, and murderers

  7. Maxwell Chinedu Goodluck

    It’s total different from what he was trying to achieve

  8. Okay then say they came out as gay and changed there gender would you disown them?

  9. Hmmmmm, God have mercy. …

  10. Jukyangel Muna Jukyangel Muna

    Na die u dey ni. Be careful!

  11. Tamufor Patience

    Very soon u,ll ask

  12. Go back into your mother’s womb then be born again as a baby gal, nonsense you no go put shame on men like this and go scot free, mumu look at him, if u were near me i go give u a dirty slap to turn u into a woman, some men we no get shame at all chai!!!!!!!!!!!. God forgive me if i talk bad oooo, na this man cause all these wahala.

  13. Sarudzai Rangarirai

    L wish if they kill every gay in the whole world

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  15. Enzani Enzi Chabangu

    La nnyela bafan ke dilo mang tse le dirang?

  16. Mildred Mammie

    Don’t think about your family what about your Heavenly Father

  17. Elizabeth Agbenyi

    Just change OK.. Don’t worry

  18. satan is using you

  19. Hahahhahaa Bros Na u talk well can’t comment on this u said it all

  20. Hahahahha my sister a beg make Una no kill me with laugh

  21. Tamwakawame Nobubi Ubo

  22. Karisma Kennedy

    Lol can’t stop laughing #tag upgraded ur coment kept me laughing.

  23. But not how God will Judge U,u tink only abt ur family

  24. Ossy Udechukwu

    God will poinsh u na

  25. Blessing Onome

    where is bokoharam,to cut dose bitches neck

  26. may God punish u

  27. You are confused alright

  28. That picture is a picture of an headmaster and one his student he lost his phone and these pictures was added to Facebook, shortly after,happen in Jamaica , or one of the Caribbean island, why you people keep making up stories ?

  29. Stack ur OK wit guys changing 2 gals rite.

  30. Yea to be honest Mark Isaac If it makes there life happier or easier then why not? It’s there body to do what the want with it

  31. Alisiobi Chinedu Rita

    IF U LIKE CHANGE TO GOAT NO BODY CARES . ANU OFFIA

  32. You are a disgrace to manhood

  33. To you who is a gay or a lesbian, you are a disgrace to God’s creation, devil incarnate shame on you

  34. Lefang Innocent Njie

    Do wat palaces u

  35. 7 pastors need to attack you like a thief. they will round you up why you will be in their middle. ..Each of them will bind you from different angle .left and right. ..just try that you will change unexpectedly

  36. Your genuinely a horrible human

  37. God doesn’t exist, science does U0001f618

  38. Mukwamalanga MN YaShikalepo

    Scared of your family reactions!!! And not scared of God who you think you are?

  39. Gloria Jaiyeola

    Mumu. Give yr life 2 christ.

  40. Your a horrible human

  41. Your a horrible person

  42. Can’t be punished by something that doesn’t exist

  43. And some posts that don’t deserve your opinion U0001f618 the list goes on babe

  44. God doesn’t exist science does

  45. God don’t exist science does

  46. Oh please don’t

  47. Nebedum Onyeka James

    Then ur a fool for siding them

  48. Are you part of them. No wonder

  49. Nebedum Onyeka James

    Good idea, my advice.. Just take razor blade and cut off ur manhood then dig a deep hole in between ur two lags. As simple as that. don’t mind them, i have done it before. Good luck!

  50. Success Irene-Oshias

    Nebedum Onyeka James you are a bigger fool for your lack of understanding. If I’m really gay you think I will be as foolish as you tinz expose it? You are a disgrace to your useless old age – all your life you have lived you have nothing to show for it mentally. Big empty rock headed fellow. Ewu

  51. Success Irene-Oshias

    Only in Nigeria when you don’t join the bandwagon in cursing gay people you are among or supporting them. That’s why we will always have fools from generation to generation.

  52. Edna-Patra Opuiyo

    Wot r u waiting for…. U shldnt telk d world cos der ll discourage u…. Jst go n do it n i’ll foot d bills… Mumuish fool

  53. Dats so akward, and so stupid, damm too like those guy dnt even deserve to be in this world..

  54. Oladunjoye Ajisafe

    Pls don kill me wt laugh here

  55. Brown Smith Walter

    You are not a man u are dead dead dead creature

  56. Brown Smith Walter

    If am your father immediately you change your gender i will disown your.

  57. Khafayat Seedy

    No let d yeye boy vex u jare. He can change to whatever he likes who cares. Iya re lo sofo

  58. Yet we go onto your page and your name says peace maker. Grow up don’t breed please.

  59. No fyi I’m actually not I’m in a relationship with my boyfriend nearly three years now, it’s 2016 but that shouldn’t matter because they’ve been around for years and will be around for years more. Btw god don’t exist science does

  60. No fyi I’m actually not I’m in a relationship with my boyfriend nearly three years now, it’s 2016 but that shouldn’t matter because they’ve been around for years and will be around for years more. Btw god don’t exist science does

  61. Johnbosco Nwaobi

    Somebody here need a doctor seriously.

  62. Johnbosco Nwaobi

    Somebody here need a doctor seriously.

  63. U0001f60d yesssss someone gets it hahs

  64. U0001f60d yesssss someone gets it hahs

  65. Well then you’d be a bad father wouldn’t you.. in fact you’d tecniqually just be a sperm donor

  66. Well then you’d be a bad father wouldn’t you.. in fact you’d tecniqually just be a sperm donor

  67. You darling 🙂 I can send a decent one out there, they modernise your life to 2016 not 1470

  68. You darling 🙂 I can send a decent one out there, they modernise your life to 2016 not 1470

  69. Your a disgrace to the world eat a marshmallow and pipe down

  70. Your a disgrace to the world eat a marshmallow and pipe down

  71. Ur a big fool

  72. Ur a big fool

  73. What is wrong with u people

  74. God forgive u. Lack of knowledge make ppl perish

  75. When God created this earth man was one that lonely and God make woman, and who so ever contradict his words or change anything would be called least in his kingdom. So who is this idiot should take time and read his bible

  76. Lord God please forgive us all

  77. You’ll have to consider how many people you’ll hurt, I guess you should realy think what you want and makes you happy.try sit down with your family explain to them what you feel and why you want to change your sex,our African culture plus other cultures and religions doesn’t accept it though may be you chained in this circumstance. If this what you want and its going to make you comfortable and out of the zone you in,you should prepare losing so many love ones if they disagree plus community around you casting you out… Finally I suggest you should see a shrink..sometimes its hormonal imbalance. Your happiness matters life is short.good luck

  78. Trafficia No Nonsense Malcolm

    This was the principal

  79. Darling I have a boyfriend just about 3 years you spa. I love how people jump to the conclusion im a lesbian. Bitch ill slap you with a dildo

  80. The likes of you

  81. Burn the bible

  82. Remember those words at the gate of judgement

  83. I will don’t worry. Science exists god don’t

  84. Take your on advice do you believe in Santa aswel?

  85. Vivian Ojiyovwe Enaworu

    U nid urgent medical attention

  86. Don’t you see, you don’t have the fear of the God of heaven and earth. I say you’re devil incarnate period

  87. Yes Mr Mrs idiot seem that science have it all. How the ass you are breathing

  88. Samuel Abiodun Alamu

    Little Tashah stasck : Birds of the same feathers flocks together, drawing line of demarcation in principle between desires and purpose is a hard nut to crack to those who have falling off the cliff of soundness in mind into ‘insanity’ a symptom of reprobated thought and dead conscience . You should realize who really need some growing up tutorial

  89. Rico Ehis Itua

    Tashah Stack …Science is one of d world’s problems…God didnt create weapons of mass destruction…Your science did!..while i love science!..i am not created from science!..u need to be enlighten dear!

  90. Chinonso Austine

    Thunder fire both of you

  91. Natola Christie

    Go to hel

  92. Natola Christie

    Go go hel

  93. Melvin Queenstar

    U tink say na one naira dem dey use?poor u,better tink of sumtin reasonable wit ur life gosh sooo disgusting.

  94. Emmanuel Minkah

    Kind of world we live in

  95. Christopher Joseph

    Na die you dey

  96. does this have anything to do with my name. Please I like to know

  97. Like I care?

  98. Up to you

  99. Imagine@onuorah…….xo u think we came thru evolutionary process

  100. Wakisa Jonathan Msukwa

    If u was in my country u ar dead man for sure

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