ee2
I’m an Muslim gay man, who is also trans inclined. I was forced into marriage a year ago, but the woman I married is not with me at the moment, which is good as I hate this bubble of lies.

I know I want to be a woman and I only like men. My family will never accept it, though, and will disown me or may even hurt me.

Everyone around me knows what I am, even my family, but it’s a case of ‘see no evil’ with them and they just bury their heads in the sand.

I don’t know what to do or who to turn to. Every other aspect of my life is great, but this is ruining me.

In the past I’ve suffered from depression and suicidal thoughts, but I’ve come through that and don’t feel that way any more.

Please help, what do I do?

267 thoughts on “I Am a Man But I Want To Change To A Woman, Still I’m Scared Of How My Family Will React – Confused Man”

  1. Imarhiaugu Odion Eghosa

    you are a fool a very big fool and above all you need prayers

  2. Tasneem Abubakr Khan

    Our Almighty God created men and women in purpose who are you to change yourself idiot?God had his reasons to make you a man so stop all this madness and repent before its too late.

  3. Akwari Chidinma

    Do u have a family? Y r u concern abt them? Just go ahead and do it. Attention seeker

  4. Rico Ehis Itua

    You should be scared of how God will react….misplaced priorities…mtsheew

  5. Olufunmilola Temitope Olugbile

    U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602 I trust my Naija people

  6. Big lie from gossip mill…
    They are just looking for likes and comment..
    MtcheewU0001f60fU0001f60f

  7. Patricia Debrown Sinuma

    u are right my dear its too much of these pipo mocking God he had his reasons of makn him a man.

  8. You’re already ugly and if you change your self to a woman who knows how you will look like stupid man like you

  9. Samuel Amoako

    You are a fool,very big fool,you want to tell the world that you are wiser than God.

  10. Olufunmilola Temitope Olugbile

    Alabi Oluwasesan Oluwaseun my Naija people will reign curses on the guy that wants to become a woman and I predicted right. Check peoples comment

  11. Success Irene-Oshias

    See as Una dey curse gay people anyhow! Chai Nigerians hate them sha. These guys are really crazy and they have guts. Una say make dem rot in hell. What about the likes of Saraki, Tinubu, Jonathan etc are they supposed to be in Heaven?

  12. Yoko Ibrahim

    Thunder wey go strike the both of una still they do push-ups ?⚡️????

  13. Mimi Obodoyibo

    You will die as you are going to do it ,that is my good prayers for you

  14. Lawrence Ukpabi

    Give your life to God.God forgive u and others that doing this evil to your self

  15. U need 40 days dry fasting ,may be our God almighty he will forgive u ur sins coming from ur dirty mouth. May God have mercy on u

  16. Monelisi Mgwatyu

    the only problem is that you are mad and sick in the mind so you need help in that regard.

  17. Florence Kibirige

    And u post those stupid pictures of them kissing. Keep it behind closed doors

  18. Laypay Laypay

    Foolish ppl. Thank God you’re not in Arab you’ve been dead by now. Idiot

  19. Amarachi Ibem

    This is just confusion from the pit of hell. be strong in the Lord with time it will fade away

  20. Abraham T Larry

    We don’t need such sickness to read don’t patronize them on social media it ain’t news let them be ! We need something better

  21. Alice LoveJb Barratt

    People can be whatever they want to be I hope when he has a sex change he will be happy and if we are using God in these comments god doesn’t like foul language and your horrible comments on his life is disgusting U0001f613

  22. Tapiwa Rasta Chopi

    run to the lord b4 its too late u will see hw ur family will react

  23. Diana Isokpenhi

    Satan has succeeded in confusing and deceiving u. Even the devil is not gay and he went to Eve(a woman) bcos he knows the difference. U can change to whatever u want but on d resurrection day, u will still wake up a man, the way God almighty made u.

  24. Ifeanyi Sylvester Egbunamu

    There’s a different between man to change to woman and gay! I don’t get the headlines!

  25. God will handle their case, I pray they change for good b4 is late, because the punishment is going 2be unlimited bundle

  26. Amadou Sanneh

    I dont think in one second you belong to any Religion or beliefs you’re from the devil and satan.. i think you need very seriouse prayers so that the devil from you can set you free idiot may God help you come with your Right senses best of luck.

  27. In Psalm 139, we learn that God fashions each one of us. “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made. . . . My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. . . . your eyes saw my unformed body” (verses 13-16). God’s creation of each individual must surely include His designation of gender/sex. His wonderful work leaves no room for mistakes; no one is born with the “wrong body.”

  28. Enedah Chinazom Dymphna

    Actually, he is simply possess. .May God have mercy on you, and may our Lady of Perpetual help intercede for you.

  29. Emmmm so so disgusting I wondering the kind of feelings they get sleeping with their followed man

  30. Joseph Ike Onuorah

    Tasneem Abubakr khan. First of all, your god is imaginary and does not exist, (2) no human being was created by any of the thousands of gods out there, we all came to existence through evolutionary process. (3) he is an adult and has the right to do whatever he wants to do with his body. (4). It’s only a delusional coward that threatens another human with hell. (5). How about you learn to fix your own life before you begin to judge others, it’s a common fact that religious people are mostly judgmental, hate filled, vilifiers, sadistic and filled with bigotry.

  31. Prosper Ebuka Ibeabuchi

    Spoken like a true Americana, what you fail to see though is that Africans are not as twisted and polluted as the West, we know the natural order of things and respect it, changing from a man to a woman is not only wrong but stupid, ever wondered why you were created the way you were?

  32. Joseph Ike Onuorah

    Your God is not real, stop getting into others people’s life….

  33. Danny Mbongu

    Tashah toi si tu étais ici en Afrique j’allais te faire oublié ta con qui te ser de je ne sais pas quoi ?

  34. Joseph Ike Onuorah

    Prayers don’t work, why not learn to live your life and let others live their own..

  35. Kenneth De Iroro

    The western culture has brainwashed you. Don’t be scared , just cut off your masculinity up. …

  36. Joseph Ike Onuorah

    You trust your naija people because majority of them are uneducated, ramshackle, uncivilized and petty idiots …… That’s not something to be proud of.

  37. Joseph Ike Onuorah

    You first called him a fool and with the same breathe, you said he needs prayers !! You religious fools are a pain in the ass…

  38. Joseph Ike Onuorah

    Why does you God love punishing people ? I thought he was a loving and peaceful one… ?

  39. Fair Dzastar

    Watchout people dis is propaganda to just drive people in a valley of disunity,let we africans concetrate on uniting other discussing such non developmental issues.

  40. @ Joseph Ike Onuorah, you are not God. Galu, buluzi, kwangwala, lastly but mfiti. Get it in your mind

  41. Akhigbe Michael Taiwo

    This guy is a waste sparm that form to human and have his brain aborted. Your mama 4 use u do monthly circle of every woman.

  42. Upgraded Upgraded

    I don’t have much to say but the only words i can tell you is…NA THUNDER GO FIRE U IDIOT

  43. Kolawole Ibrahim

    why telling the world go ahead and change to woman, either ya gay or woman body go tell you very soon…………

Comments are closed.

Scroll to Top