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Dear Admin, I have been living with my boyfriend for the last two years. I love Him so much but his violent habit is becoming too much. He picks up fights over small things like when I receive a phone call from a male friend, or even my relatives whom he has met. He hates it when I visit or host friends in our house. He is two years older than me and he loves me too much. Truth is beneath the possessiveness and bad temper is a man I see as a potential father and caring husband. He provides, cooks and spoils me on the good days. I could tolerate him but last week’s incidents got me thinking. I returned home at about 9pm and found him bitter. He ignored my explanation for returning late and started slapping me, got the clothes I had just bought and set them ablaze. The worst part is that i have done more than 20 Abortions for him, also some weeks back he got a razor and cut my braids because “he gave me the money to plait my hair”. And just few days back he beat me up just because i returned from the saloon late and did not cook food for him. I still love him so much but I fear it could get worse. He takes good care of me and regularly gives me money i think if i continue been a good Girl he might reduce the beating. Please help.

326 thoughts on “After 20 Abortions, My Boyfriend Beats Me, But I Still Love Him, I Am A Good Girl”

  1. Firstly a man who raises his hand on a woman probably never raised his hand in class, just for the love of women please EXIT this relationship he doesnt deserve your patience let alone your LOVE and fertile womb

  2. Thomas Thor Itoro

    20 abortions?thats not possible. Just stop been foolish that’s all i have to say

  3. Girl you are nothing but a MuMu fowl… you are just a national cake to your boyfriend. When it gets to the time for him to get married, he will drive you like a fly out of his presence and by then he will not be blamed, but, People will blame you for not using your sense in the first place…

  4. 20 abortion….. oh woooow she is not ok. other woman will give anything to be pregnant

  5. Engr Alajo Tajudeen Temitope

    Are you pig, dat u have 20+ abortion for him alone. Maybe you have probably aborted for another set of guys not knowing to us

  6. If you want to die , stay with him. If you want a normal life , leave and go get some counseling. God Bless!

  7. Christian Chimezie Franklin

    Both you and your boy stupid friend are useless and stupid. Next time, he will kill you.

  8. Ongodia Samuel Patrick

    Very good, get more, kill them, get beaten , mbu in the name of LOVE, stupid gal, n u still call urself a human being, nfact ur beast, a hog .

  9. Ongodia Samuel Patrick

    Very good, get more, kill them, get beaten , mbu in the name of LOVE, stupid gal, n u still call urself a human being, nfact ur beast, a hog .

  10. To me it is a mistake u were in the world.
    Let those that comment wrongly tell y the lord lord JESUS came for.
    for me u can live a beta life than b4 i pray that the chain of sin will b broken

  11. To me it is a mistake u were in the world.
    Let those that comment wrongly tell y the lord lord JESUS came for.
    for me u can live a beta life than b4 i pray that the chain of sin will b broken

  12. Alijosu Alijosu

    አንዳንዴ ፈጣሪንም መፍራት ጥሩ ነው።እሱ አይወድሽም ቢወድሽ አይመታሽም።

  13. 20 abortion, with this face, and u call this love or did u say lost. Better ask God for forgiveness if not, hell fire is waiting for you.

  14. Congratulations for being a good girl. But when time will come for you to be killed………………….

  15. Yes u re a good girl and pls keep it up till u re able to count to 50 abortions. I promise u he I’ll start loving u by then. Never give up o. No mind people and their advice, take mine

  16. Latifat Ogunsola

    u are mad,how more you have left mama.u are not the good girl u camed urself. kk

  17. Kikirose Aduku

    Girl you are on a long thing dear this is not love sorry to say is stupidity bcos a man that really care n love like you claim will not be hitting you n I pray for God to open your eyes. Your life is at in danger forget that relationship n get a perfect guy for your self

  18. Innocent Nwabunwanne Madu

    Indeed what is the name of all the children you have aborted? you still have the mouth to talk ashawo

  19. Charity Miriam

    Stupid fool,love z nt a slap or a blu eye.20 abortions, damn gal r u in sane, CNT u use protection n in this age of HIV,wuz stupid enuf to have unprotected sex.wez ur self-worth wen he 1st proposed tu u d he slap a I love u on u.y put up wth al this crap,u need deliverance

  20. #When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable…. did u just say 20abortions……i think you’re from the lineage of slaves… otherwise you will not be a slave to any man….Na wah ohhh.

  21. Do not be deceived love does not goes that way. He is not in love with you rather he is a psycho who needs help. You too i think you need help. A man that loves you will not put you through abortion for as many times as 20 abortions. You are just destroying yourself and the lives of those innocent children. God have mercy. Please retrace your step back and ask the LORD JESUS Christ to have mercy on you. I am sure HE will greatly pardon you. Stay Vigilant

  22. Ufuoma Blessing Ajakpofo

    U are a very good girl in ur foolish luv. Mumu e use juju for u. Babe na die u dey u call am luv mumu

  23. You are very foolish to have done 20 abortion for a guy. My dear repent from your sins. You really need help.

  24. Many woman wanna have babies but cannot what is sick is when woman continue to get pregnant just to kill their own child.theyre many protective messures to keep you from getting pregnant including not having sex.it means you are selfish..stop having sex if you have no intesions of caring for a baby if your not gonna use protection..

  25. Patience Agorbia

    Is not love foolishness u don’t go be and pay the penalty of aborting 20 innocent babes. Clever n gud girl indeed…….. Typical fooooooollllll

  26. Someone mess up SERIOUSLY in her life. Her self esteem is non existent. She have no self love. Mothers, fathers, guardians, caregivers, etc, please give love to your children at an early age so their can continue to love themselves at a later stage in their life.

  27. Love is blind, but still u don’t have common sense, how can u let a man that are not street forward to do this kind of a thing to u? What can of love is that, better wake up.

  28. Akinleye Oluwagbemileke Akinwunmi

    Yeah doh., tell am make he dey use baton next time he wan beat you

  29. Nicole A Congo-Oyejobi

    You OBVIOUSLY dont love yourself to continue to put yourself thru this 20 times. You should just prostrate and keep that position forever. Smh smh

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