Ronke Bewaji Shonde was found dead yesterday morning at their home at Tiemo Crescent off Awori street in Egbeda, Lagos, and her husband, Lekan Shonde, is missing.
He is believed to have beaten her death during a domestic dispute.
A family friend who reported the case said, Ronke and Lekan had a fight in the early hours of yesterday, while their kids were sleeping.
One neighbor later said he heard noise coming from their flat early in the morning but didn’t think it was something serious.
Around 7am, the couple’s nanny came to the house to resume work only to find the house locked and no one was opening the door.
She tried to call Ronke but her phone was switched off. She peeped through the window only to find the couple’s 6 and 4 year old kids crying and saying they couldn’t wake their mum up.
Neighbors gathered and forcefully opened the door to find Ronke’s lifeless body on the floor with blood gushing from her head. Lekan was nowhere to be found. Ronke’s phone was also missing. He’d locked the kids with their dead mum in the house and taken off with her phone.
Her body has since been deposited at the mortuary. She was in her mid-30s. According to family friends, Ronke suffered domestic violence in her husband’s hands for many years but refused to leave the marriage.
God will punish the man
Tragic to kill your wife and mother of your two kids.
Dis the work of the devil
A sori excuse of a man
So bad indeed, and what causes this perpetual happening every now and then —- the major causes are known and should be preached all the time so to serve life.
Una see ko marriage is not do or die affair
God forbid what you gonna tell your children when the grow.
This is pitiful…
May her departed soul be granted eternal peace Amen.
So sad marriage shdnt b do or die. Before it got to this divorce shd hv been d best God help we naija babes we too pity
Just thinking of what his going to tell his kids whn they grow up,knwing their father killed their mum,sad
Very bad of the husband. Once beaten, please carry yourself and go. Before it will be too late. I don’t know what some men are becoming.
That’s why when he hits you once. You hit him twice so that he will also feel the pain.
God!!!!! Y would a woman in her right senses, hearing what happened to other women, how they lost their lives, body parts and yet still sit down in that relationship or marriage…..with the exposure of d media? I just can’t understand it… Even d Bible does not support it not even d church…..no marriage is what that….
He wil regret dis alll his life
Yes it is sad but then again woman hit men as well let’s talk about that. All I am trying to say is know one should be treated like a punching bag.
what a pity
Before anyone judges cases like this,we should always see the spiritual aspect of it.Most of Marriages are facing Spiritual problems,the wife might be hell too nobody knows,it has happened several times where the woman violently kills her husband,so in other words we should pray for the rest Families and also pray so that our Marriage does not end in violence cause if there’s no tolerance for each other,there can never be PEACE.
You be naughty once, he hit you once. You be naughty again, he hit you again.
Here come men taking away the sorrow for the victim U0001f644
Sorrow is not taken but added.its more common with me but women do it too. Let’s not sweep it under the rug.
is a pity
Never you tried that with a heartless man or any man. Just ask God to give you man that will not think to touch you no matter what you do.
End time vibes
The hubby is an animal in human flesh. Wicked soul.
The wife i s dead right? Why did he stop the beaten,for me go head because the fight just started now.
Any man that raises his stupid hands on a woman is no longer a man but an idiot, marriage is not do or die affair why will a woman allowed a man to lay his hand on her in d name of husband? Please my fellow women if you have experienced such in ur marriage and u are still there my dear your life is in danger! No be by force to stay under a man. This man will go to jail for some time he will come out and start jumping from one woman to d other while he have sent this innocent girl to early grave, God! This man will no no peace from generation to generation ,his death is going to be a painful death I swear. Any body weh wan defined him should inbox me make I load insult for that person.
So your saying there is a reason why she deserved it???? For real…..so the blame is not on the victim……domestic violence is bad on bot but fact is the number on men beating women is higher that women beating men…and men are stronger…hence cause more damage..
Yes women do it too but the death toll of women is more….domestic violence is violence…do not try and justify it by saying it happens to men too….are men really this selfish….some say it was her fault other…it also happens to men….we know that..
ohhh really till he kills you right so that will be justified….so what will he say in jail….and with the kids having no parent…..
will he even get to see his kids…that life imprisonment…the kids will have no parents.
Well men are stronger in Strength but women are stronger in words,none of it is good and i am not saying it is good to hit a woman.
Before saying anything,there’s a reason for everything. Sometimes girl are the ones that star everything and the husband is always quite , once the drop of water goes to far away man react that’s where lot of bad things happen,I got the same experience but never kill anyone
Before saying anything,there’s a reason for everything. Sometimes girl are the ones that star everything and the husband is always quite , once the drop of water goes to far away man react that’s where lot of bad things happen,I got the same experience but never kill anyone
What reason will make him kill
What reason will make him kill
I’ll urge men to please calm down in whatever situation they find themselves. Most of the times women are evil, they can push you to the wall, just to be free from marriage which they probably think it’s a bondage to their freedom. And to women, whenever you think your man is going nuts, don’t trade words, but be as humble as a dove and you’ll win. There are always hard times to every journey in life no matter how hard, true lovers build bridges and cross it together. It’s so sad reading this. May her soul RIP
I’ll urge men to please calm down in whatever situation they find themselves. Most of the times women are evil, they can push you to the wall, just to be free from marriage which they probably think it’s a bondage to their freedom. And to women, whenever you think your man is going nuts, don’t trade words, but be as humble as a dove and you’ll win. There are always hard times to every journey in life no matter how hard, true lovers build bridges and cross it together. It’s so sad reading this. May her soul RIP
it just happened during the fight ‘ I think the punch just landed in the wrong place
it just happened during the fight ‘ I think the punch just landed in the wrong place
” I want to marry , I want to marry, age is not by my side, I need someone to take care of me financially, I need a handsome man, TUSH blah blah blah , ”
in the end, domestic violence
Mmmchhheewwww
” I want to marry o , I want to marry, I’m tired of being a single man , all my mates are married with kids, beautiful wife with big ass and boobs, flexing like say tomorrow self no dey , I need a wife by my side oo who ‘ll be telling me what to do and what not to do blah blah blab”
in the end , you can’t tolerate her behaviour
Mmmchhheewwwwww
” I want to marry , I want to marry, age is not by my side, I need someone to take care of me financially, I need a handsome man, TUSH blah blah blah , ”
in the end, domestic violence
Mmmchhheewwww
” I want to marry o , I want to marry, I’m tired of being a single man , all my mates are married with kids, beautiful wife with big ass and boobs, flexing like say tomorrow self no dey , I need a wife by my side oo who ‘ll be telling me what to do and what not to do blah blah blab”
in the end , you can’t tolerate her behaviour
Mmmchhheewwwwww
An he did nt rember d gud tym dere spent togeda watch dere pix,my dear rip.
An he did nt rember d gud tym dere spent togeda watch dere pix,my dear rip.
Ladies,,beasts in human skin are for real,, is good to study some one well before you agree to marry him,,,don’t let any cow put it in your mind that you are useless or ashawo just because you are a single parent or woman,, never accept it that way cos is never true,, love your self and your life,,, remember you get some one who suffered to brought you up as a woman before any man met you,, go to them the moment you realize you are in a wrong place,, don’t wait till you get mad, kill or damage,, please women is about time you learn to live alone than to be with an enemy who want to hurt you all the time or kill you,,, now men listen,, God made you stronger than women because he wanted you to work hard to take care of your wife and kid’s now you have refuse to do so but rather use it to beat and abuse women, hmmm may God forgive such people
Ladies,,beasts in human skin are for real,, is good to study some one well before you agree to marry him,,,don’t let any cow put it in your mind that you are useless or ashawo just because you are a single parent or woman,, never accept it that way cos is never true,, love your self and your life,,, remember you get some one who suffered to brought you up as a woman before any man met you,, go to them the moment you realize you are in a wrong place,, don’t wait till you get mad, kill or damage,, please women is about time you learn to live alone than to be with an enemy who want to hurt you all the time or kill you,,, now men listen,, God made you stronger than women because he wanted you to work hard to take care of your wife and kid’s now you have refuse to do so but rather use it to beat and abuse women, hmmm may God forgive such people
Rosana Philda You play with fire, you get burnt. Don’t be near fire, don’t play with fire…..!!
Rosana Philda You play with fire, you get burnt. Don’t be near fire, don’t play with fire…..!!
Did I hear someone say marriage is not a do or die affair??? If I hear am…
So as them just hit u, u go just carry your load pack…na wa for women of these days…. Whatever happened to perseverance.
God will punich dat man for me
Foolish and stupid man.if am d girls family i will shot him to die.
Men ar evil…. D’s s their tradition. Ladies beware!
Must you hit her any time, why don’t you send her away
70% of women wish to rule and beat their husband , but for the fact the don’t have the power to they can’t , now what happen when a man get married to a lady who is reacher than him ? That aside , back to what happen its very possible the mans brain was manipulated by witch craft or by the evil once , because I see no reason why anyone will kill his own wife the mother of his children , only God really know what happen
What ever it is,, he should have divorce her than to kill is she not a human, stop abusing women,, your strength was given to you to work hard take care of your woman and kids not to kill
My dear dis one pass me one of my Aunty died just like dat just becos of wot pple will say at end de huby beat her Ijeoma died wit 3 months pregnant RIP Ij
Divorce her don’t kill her,,she is not your goat or cow,, let her go bros
Oscar the same perseverance that claimed her life? The thunder that’ll strike you is somewhere practicing
The ability of a man to discipline himself never to raise his hand against a lady makes him the man.I guess your punches landed on all the right places,that’s why u didn’t kill anyone
You are right sis,, I did exactly that the very first day my Edo guy beat me,,I was in love with him,, but that very moment I run and never came back to him,, but some stupid ones will remain and even beg am,, the moment you do that hec will value you as an animal and will do worse next time
Jesus! This is terrible
It is only a very big fool that cannot control his temper.. it is only a biggest fool that reacts to every action.. fighting a mad person also makes you a mad person.. a wise person claps and counts 7times before he reacts, a wise persons goes out of a scene when a person is running mad….. alot of men are very very very very very very BIG FOOLS…
Off course the fight just started… he should get ready to continue the fight in the spiritual realm cos that woman spirit will haunt him as he will live to eat his feceas.. he will watch himself rotten… he will cry for death but death will be to far for him.
Let us unite in denouncing violence against women and girls failure to which the problem of gender based violence will wipe out all our mothers, sisters, aunties and grandmothers. Break the silence on GBV.
#Olewunne Chioma Ezurike you’re are just saying what you never experienced before I had to leave my house some many time just to be in the safe place and to avoid unnecessary fight
Wat did people like about dis post ,God pls never give me a man dat we raise hand on me,i need a bother,father nd a soul mate in jesus name
That is true.
I know it very much that is why am trying to make it clear to the women , love your self before any one and you will never become a goat to any monster,, I was having a boy friend who was from Edo state I was so much in love with him, one day he beat me up for unnecessary reasons hahaa, my crime was I wanted to follow him to where he was going to see his friend. During the fight his neighbor help to stop him, on my way going home I tried to stay at the back of his door, he thought I was gone, the next thing I heard him telling his neighbor was can you imaging I wanted to see my friend and she want to follow me by force you should have allow me to design her face and body to teach her a lesson,, wow what an animal he is,,that was the day I realized I was mingle with an enemy,, I run from that place and never returned to him,, say no to violence relationship run my fellow women run and never come back
there is no reason to put your hands on a female no excuse…he is a coward
Your aunty story too is very sad,, she should have run away from the monster house,, you see when you allow a man treat you in that way,, it affected your brain because you get no more happiness in your life,, and this will make things worse so let help advice our women to learn how to live without a man
Am not justifying any thing am simply saying that we are all bad.a man at admit wife hits him because he will be seen as less of a man and we all need to know that u don’t just wake up and kill some one there are reasons and motive behind every action. She is probably as much to blame.
LA Iam Austin Kiss you guy’s are so right. Mehn I love your senses. Welcome bros
Ladies do hav complicated issues, for wch most times drive’s men to go long and later wrong ways. Yet a man gotta be a man and handle things well. A man gotta be in control of hiself his temper and all/spiritually sound too. It’s called Discipline. When you discipline your self to the brim, things like this doesn’t happen even if the wife first attacked you wit a knife. To be a MAN.. Is a tough task and journey. But If you devout to learn the right way, You’ll be Honourable, and you’ll love it yourself. Let’s be Real Men.
Wanawake tukiambiwa hatusikii
I put dis question to some of u men in DAT does not want to speak d truth,if u grew up and u asked ur dad “were is my mum” and he replies “sorry dear I beat her to death” wot will u do?another question is ,if u woke up dis morning and received a phone call DAT ur junior sister was beaten to death dis morning by ur inlaw ,wot will u doo?will u tell ur Inlaw DAT its d devils work or maybe he should not pack DAT u also see cases were wives beates dea husbands to death and den u go ahead and bury ur Sister, be honest wid ur self wot would u do?????????
I put dis question to some of u men in DAT does not want to speak d truth,if u grew up and u asked ur dad “were is my mum” and he replies “sorry dear I beat her to death” wot will u do?another question is ,if u woke up dis morning and received a phone call DAT ur junior sister was beaten to death dis morning by ur inlaw ,wot will u doo?will u tell ur Inlaw DAT its d devils work or maybe he should not pack DAT u also see cases were wives beates dea husbands to death and den u go ahead and bury ur Sister, be honest wid ur self wot would u do?????????
Some men even if you do all that he will still hit
Some men even if you do all that he will still hit
His own death will soon catch up with him
His own death will soon catch up with him
Ladies can you hear dis people out ladies it is high time u learn how to live without a man hence dey will be killing women men dont give a damn about children they are just animals can you hear dem women are strong in their tongue so u animals are strong in killing if a man kill ur sisters will u still be saying dat idiots
Ladies can you hear dis people out ladies it is high time u learn how to live without a man hence dey will be killing women men dont give a damn about children they are just animals can you hear dem women are strong in their tongue so u animals are strong in killing if a man kill ur sisters will u still be saying dat idiots
Regrets comes after many drastic actions…..but his regrets
will nt bring back d lady or give those poor kids back their mum.
This man should be killed…
Wat else can i say de deed is done
Don’t mind the hypocrites.
Ogunade Simbiat Busayo Adenusi Is this how you talk to people,calling all men idiots? is your Dad a woman?. is your mum currently married to a woman?.
What a world we are living in? Anger is anger, you will be angry that time and later on you will reglet. Men of africa, what have we do to you, we carry you for nine months, sweat for you in labour, breast feed you, taking care of you, watching you growing up, given you love yet violence is our pay back, why why? God hear our cry. If you know that you can’t control your temper than hit the wall, hit your head on a tree, not women please. Now who will take care of your kids?
D problem will ladies have is,I don’t want my children to suffer I will stay, who will takecare of d children now.
Oscar Solonzo are you sure if your wife or woman is stronger than you,, and she beat you up, you will continue to stay,, be honest tell us the truth
Well said and agreed but some people only start to show their true colour after marrige or after you have said yes. Like Namibian women they are living their life in fear because if you said you don’t want any more to a namibian man it obvious he will kill you, so the majority of namibian women the are sticking to their abuse marrige or relationship to avoid suffering the consequence.
At Frankenstein Phillipoinzhag so after beating her did she stop making ur house a living hell.. leaving your house to a safe place is it not better than killing some one either intentionally or unintentionally..
Its so sad.but we need to find out what happened.from the picture i dont think he intended to kill her.it might have been a push or a blow.guess he didnt bargain that it would lead to her death.
The lesson here is that men should be careful.only a slap can even send a woman to her grave.the economy is hard .The women are going thru too much stress.the body is becoming weaker and cant take any form of pain.
Married men should use this one as a warning and shouldnt hit a woman no matter wat.The worst thing anyone can live with is the guilt of being the cause of someone else. death.
#value life #value your reputation#love God #lets pray for them.
for me i run the very day my ex guy beat me up,, the truth about it is,, when a man raises his hand on you, it means he is done with you,, if you refuse to go,, the next thing is to delete you from the system
wow,, namibian man will kill me right and nothing will happen,, so why don’t you also put poison on his food so that he will die,,since he will not let me have my peace and he will also kill me if i decided to leave him,,then i will kill him first and nothing will happen to me too
I hate Husband beating
Ngatunda Skalu my sister no one can hide his or her original character after some months,, the problem is,, the women are the one who rush them selves into some monsters hand just because they want a husband,, at least be with him for a year and you will know the real character of him
My god U0001f632
yes and what again
Oghor Cheriegbe lol