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Stella Damasus Wades In On Pastor Adeboye’s Controversial Statement

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Popular Actress, Stella Damasus has also waded in on the controversial statement made by Pastor Adeboye.

In a video posted on YouTube the actress says, if a woman can spend hours watching makeup tutorials and gisting and cannot pray for her family such woman is dangerous.

“If a woman who is married is not able to spend at least one hour to fight for what she holds dear which is her marriage, then what is the point marrying her? If we can spend hours on our cell phones doing social media, we can spend hours gisting with friends, spend a longtime doing fashion and watching makeup tutorials and we cannot spend one hour to pray for our family, that is a dangerous woman to marry.”

Pastor Adeboye was talking in a Christian gathering and not to the whole world because whatever we say is not for everybody.

On cooking, she said:

“As a female it would help you to know how to cook.” Make an effort even if it is once in a while, you have a responsibility to make sure that your man is taken care of because your expectation of him is that he provides for you.”

This comes after Adeboye at the RCCG camp ground advised young men not to marry a woman with poor culinary skill, or one who cannot pray for at least an hour.

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  1. Gloria Francis Morah

    Yvonne leave her…that’s what she does for a living,so she thinks all female will be like her

  2. Gloria Francis Morah

    Yvonne leave her…that’s what she does for a living,so she thinks all female will be like her

  3. Ennettie Raphael Summerfield

    Happy for u don’t mind the haters.

  4. Thank you sir

  5. True. No matter hw small ur prayers r, as long as u hav faith, its done. Even its in d bible, when you pray, do not repeat words, for ur father already knw ur probs nd what u wnt, jst ask with faith nd its done. He even told us how to pray in the bible “our father, who is in heaven, hallow b thou name……

  6. oh u dat believe in prayer,why can’t u pray to God for ur own husband instead of snatching another woman’s husband shameless woman

  7. oh u dat believe in prayer,why can’t u pray to God for ur own husband instead of snatching another woman’s husband shameless woman

  8. At last someone is making sense here U0001f44dU0001f3fb

  9. Ur the pastor of ur home,as a matter of fact you should pray even more than ur wife,the area she didn’t understand in bible you should be able tell her more,you should not sleep too much while only her prays,never allow urself to be dragged by ur wife to pray instead always lead as the head of ur home.

  10. Folusho Penosen Fashola

    I Love Stella but i think she needs to clear out this issue with her and Doris so people can understand whats really going on

  11. Don’t judge her, don’t b surprise she will make heaven. Prayer is good for every human being. But d issue of praying for one hour does not make u a good xtain. I know u are a staunch believer of ur Daddy G. O. Don’t b blind folded. That’s is my advice for u.

  12. Husband taker like DAT quote.lol

  13. What about a man who can’t pray for a minute? This is BShit!

  14. I love this quotes

  15. Lol haba dats too harsh. Una don finish dis woman today, jst hope she is nt goin tru the comments if nt she wil die of hrt attack

  16. Lwkmd….. U re wicked o

  17. Why all dis people are against prayer so to pray for one hour is now ur problem u better check ur self n see if u are posses or wat but u can spend hours on phone n clubs n bars hummmm may God HV mercy on u ooooo

  18. This man of God u hv made ur point. From my observations I noticed this long prayer with poor people. Check rich people they don’t waste time In there prayer. So am sure his talking about poor people. Pray for one hour Hmmmm mountain of fire.

  19. Uchenna Ezeoguine

    You mean she is in her 4th marriage now?

  20. Huh! You are equally a Genius spiritually. God bless your wisdom

  21. Prince Wale Ade-Benson

    Even the one that pray 2hours and do night vigil every day are bad too. God help

  22. God bless you Stella what a true word to the people.

  23. Okeke Catherine Oluchi

    My dear u are not married yet, wen u marry u will know dat union is not for kids or premature heart. Marry ur own before u condemn others.

  24. Okeke Catherine Oluchi

    And if u are married pray dat ur marriage produce good generations u don’t know wat it takes to be a real wife . come down to some families in the word if not prayer and patient from the wife that family would hve been story. My dear Gloria don’t be too fast to judge life never humble u and I pray it doesn’t . u better humble ur self . from Stella ply u will know dat life isn’t wat u always wish. Let me ask u . can u be a widow and still be strong like her. I repeat again don’t be too fast to judge.

  25. How will the man know her cooking ability when they are not married? Or should the man go ahead to divorce her after marriage if she can not cook? Or can both of them live together without been married for the woman to be cooking for the man?

  26. Okeke Catherine Oluchi

    For Tessy onoze u never jam difficult in marriage u better stop all this ur pretence and be real. When dat time comes u will be begging for 6 hours to pray and it won’t be enough. Nawa all this fake Nigeria youth self God help u all . no pray for one hour u hear bt u can WhatsApp for one hour bitch.

  27. With all this painting on your face eyes and lips, are you sure God will answer your prayer?

  28. Okeke Catherine Oluchi

    U never read ur bible well. Anyway thank God for ur home if u are married and not experiencing any abnormalities. And I pray u won’t because if u do; only then will u realize dat some thongs don’t come easily expect by intensive prayer and fasting . u never jam just dey thank God for his mercies. Because u if don jam u won’t talk like this .

  29. Okeke Catherine Oluchi

    Witch dey say Amen to prayers because ur prayer no cross even the air, ur prayer lacks fire . wen u pray intensively my dear u will be surprised to seeing that witch confessing
    U all don’t know wat prayer is if u know u won’t joke with it .

  30. April Twenty-Eight Harkym Abiodun

    Yvonne Jinx Patrick I guessed she love doing it with someone else husband

  31. Chukwuwike Etuh Austine

    Typical Africa church routine maybe I lazy to pray but na which kinda praying person go dey pray for even 45mins with out repeating a word

  32. Moses Jacob Zarma

    “Husband snatcher”please someone should tell me more,did she really snatched a husband?

  33. It doesn’t matter how many hours you pray for, what will be will be and what will not be will not. God doesn’t require our time in hours, he wants only 1 minute, seconds even of our sincere service.

  34. Talking to God isn’t the same as talking to your partner. You Only need a minute or less to ask God for something and if he’s going to do it,he will.

  35. Siyabulela Ndlebende

    Cnt u be with me for atleast an hour?…..This what Jesus said.

  36. Jonathan Don Seepepper

    Husband snatcher really? And how do you know someone is a witch please?

  37. Siyabulela Ndlebende

    Its in the bible #Matthew 26:40

  38. Thanks my beautiful and amazing sister.
    God bless you.

  39. the problem with some nigerian like some of you here is I HEAR SAY!!!! none of them that will tell us that she took their man the will only say I hear say

  40. Vincentor Dan Adams-sheyin

    @ Siyabulella. was Jesus directly referring this one hour prayers for women only…? aside this, all his disciples were men no-single woman. (mthew 26:40)

  41. Vincentor Dan Adams-sheyin

    I believe strongly in “The parable of the persistent widow Luke 18:1-8” …but i do not believe in one hour prayers as a test of faith….i know my relationship with my creator…

  42. Vincentor Dan Adams-sheyin

    @ Siyabulella….if a lady cannot pray for an hour…we should look at the issue with spiritual eyes and wisdom…not with carnal knowledge. (see Galatians 6:1)

  43. Rich also cry inside them but you will never know .

  44. Charles Kambalazaza

    Satan uses social media to destroys pple

  45. Yes… Yes… Yes…so true, cos prayer is jux d key to a successful home,.

  46. Gloria Francis Morah

    If having Someone husband will make you strong clap for Yourslf @oluchi. My mum is my role model n hero…no husband again for many years yet we are all in sch and well trained so don’t come here telling me if i think it’s easy it’s not easy YES. That doesn’t give any woman the right to hurt other women..even if the husband left her on his own.at least go for someone who’s not married.or pray for a better man. Nd I’m not being judgmental so i rest my caseU0001f4af

  47. Aftr prayin den u wear dis typ of dress showin us ur expird boobs,prayer warrior!

  48. Just shut up

  49. Mtchew. You don’t need 1 hour prayer for God to answer/grant your request.

  50. For sure that is true

  51. Praizee Tee Wonder

    gloria hmmmm d fact remain a woman who cannot pray cannot protect her home cannot defend her children she can’t guild her territory if u will take anytin today let it be dis a prayerless wife is weak wife Queen esther did not make it alone with beuty she was a prayer warrior also

  52. Okeke Catherine Oluchi

    U need to be rebranded in thought .

  53. Okeke Catherine Oluchi

    Live ur mum out of this and marry ur own first den u can comment on other people weakness .

  54. Rita Oby Obodo Kulayo

    Bcos u slept wit a married man doesn’t mean everybody did likewise

  55. I am seriously surprised at people commenting on this gloria ‘s comments can’t you see she is still a minor even after age 18 or 19, and you can see from her comments and responses that all she think about making a good home are materials, and that makes her materialistic. My dear you think you know your but I bet you did not learn anything from her, she is a good and strong mother to have raised all of you single handedly as you claimed but ask her there is power of prayer still behind her success. So Gloria pls get matured about fact of life.

  56. Stella I agree with you on this, in short you among the few of our celebrities who has not thrown caution to the wind all in the name of modernization. Many ppl talk as if we are Westerners and not Africans.

  57. Gloria Francis Morah

    Like you are blind to read when I said prayer is important too???Adedayo..Lol and what makes you think I’m a minor if you want to knw my age ask me n stop running around

  58. Olabisi Keji Oladimeji

    See talk of the devil,u self dey talk.u are a disgrace to womanhood.yeye dey talk,abeg go hide ur face jor.

  59. Bishop Olawefa Tiezoma

    Go read d Bible….there is virtually no truth in what u saying. Jesus cautioned his disciples….Can’t u even pray for one hour..? That’s d least he expects us to pray…..

  60. Biola thanks alot.

  61. Olamide Folakemi

    Prayer warrior!with this your cloth to start with.I don’t think is how long if only you not praying amiss

  62. Marvis Mfgn she should av thought of dat before opening her mouth to judge. How dare she use d word ‘dangerous to marry’ even prophet Adeboye didn’t say anyone is dangerous to marry

  63. Only in Africa

  64. Mercy Edebor dear I’m not wicked.its d bitter truth. Those who lives in glass house don’t throw stones

  65. By their comments you shall know them! By their comments you shall know the church they attend, their denomination, etc. Prayer is the key. That is all that matters. Muslims pray five times a day. They don’t complain. Some Christians are so lazy even Satan no send dem.

  66. @gloria, even the way you talk is enough conviction that you still have a lot to learn, pls get education beyond four corners of classroom. Learning is not all about book alone.

  67. Gloria Francis Morah

    You need more of it

  68. Bia Okeke Catherine Oluchi. U r very stupid, is u DAT wen u marry u ll jam difficulty in ur marriage. For d record am married, yes I ve my issues buh,I found out DAT,den more I worry noting ll change,I just pray and live everything to God. Obvious u need 6hrs prayers bcos from ur comments to me ur a very bad person. Bad mind.I wish u wat u just said ,u ll b begging for 6hrs pray and it wouldnt b enough. Old cargooo

  69. Over sabi, na by pray for hour … I don see pple wey dey pray shout cry etc but their situation remain the same. Me wey dey pray only our Lord prayer every morning. I better pass them, even i con dey imagine watin dey happen wether God nor dey hear their cry or shout

  70. Thank you swt heart

  71. My dear u there judging her , she lost her husband at a tender age she took care of her kids without d help of anybody in your family , do u know if it’s d prayers she keeps praying that s keeping d guy with her . Who nor fit hold her husband well nor get right to call another person husband snatcher moreover d guy don leave d wife before he date Stella , as beautiful as she was she couldn’t keep her husband even after having a son for him . so please don’t call someone a husband snatcher when u don’t know if your mom is out there sleeping with someone else’s husband to cater for your needs

  72. Thank you. .God bless you

  73. Return husband? Lol as if its a commodity

  74. Gloria francis has said nothing wrong where did all this shallow minded halfwits cm out from

  75. Bia Okeke Catherine Oluchi ur very stupid ,is u DAT ll face difficult in ur marriage, i ve right to my opinion.Am married if u must kW.God has been my the head of my family, so go take a chill pill.indeed u need 6hrs prayers bcos u ve a very bad mind,I wish everything u wish me.old ugly fool

  76. Shorinolu Olusola

    Do u pple know what it takes for another woman to take ur husband. It runs some mad. Point of correction even if u are taking care of ur man as a perfect wife, it doesn’t stop them (men) to do whatever they want to do. At the same time I’ll not blame Stella bcos she needed man then but where she made mistake was she shouldn’t have fallen for her colleague’s husband. Too bad. She snatched Doris Simeon’s husband ‘Daniel Ademinokan

  77. Pple misinterpreting d bible as if dey knw it beta but their lives r getting worse evriday. Something is not right then

  78. Shorinolu Olusola

    Pray for 20hours, it doesn’t move God. Ur personal relationship with God matters.

  79. Gloria Francis Morah

    Tess Onoeze leave that one…when some one takes her hubby she will smile n welcome the person.

  80. Shorinolu Olusola

    If u like pray 24/7, go on marathon fasting, it doesn’t move God. Take all titles in d church it doesn’t matter to God, Ur personal relationship with God matter to Him. Even before u ask He has done it for you. Fear God & eschew evil. Pray as ur strength can take u

  81. Gloria Francis Morah

    Its not a must you have a man before you look good, you can always start from small business to large one.n take care of Your slf n kids…learn from people @kelechi. I started doing small tins for myslf at age 9.so you can do better. Then look at yourself n bank acct n say “”I made it” I’m proud of myself baby girl

  82. Shorinolu Olusola

    Do you know God answer our prayers mostly we worship Him wholeheartedly? Try it.

  83. Shorinolu Olusola

    When we worship Him wholeheartedly?

  84. CONFIRMATION. The way Jesus wants us to pray
    Matthew chapter 6 vs 5-15. U can even read more dan dat if u wish. Let me write vs 7. “but when ye pray, use not vain repetitions (dnt repeat words), as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.
    Vs 8: be not ye therefore like unto them: for your father knoweth what things you have need of, before ye ask him. Then verse 9 downwards, jesus taught us the manner we should pray. Please those misinterpreting the bible nd tink u knw too much more dan Jesus Christ.

  85. CONFIRMATION. The way Jesus wants us to pray
    Matthew chapter 6 vs 5-15. U can even read more dan dat if u wish. Let me write vs 7. “but when ye pray, use not vain repetitions (dnt repeat words), as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.
    Vs 8: be not ye therefore like unto them: for your father knoweth what things you have need of, before ye ask him. Then verse 9 downwards, jesus taught us the manner we should pray. Please those misinterpreting the bible and tink u know too much more than Jesus Christ should be careful, you can pray for one hour if u wish, if u have a lot to talk to God about or if u find it difficult to connect easily that it must take one hour prayer for u to connect and b in d spirit. Its OK. Pple r different, pple connect in different ways, some pple connect with worship/praise and do more of that while others connect with hours of prayers. No problem cos its God that sees our hearts and faith and answer our prayers according to our faith and obedience to his commandments or just by his mercy. That’s his marking scheme, he doesn’t mark according to d hours we pray. If you think that you can deceive God with the number of hours u pray or shout so dat pple will hear u, jst d way u deceive ur fellow men, well am sori for u cos God is not man. So its OK if u r d type that pray for 12 hours but don’t condemn pple that don’t pray up to that hours and say dey r evil. U r not God, u don’t c our faith and heart and u have no rightt to judge

  86. Wise saying , have they not heard that ye pray but pray amiss ? Even if you whisper God hears .

  87. U are talking about God …but u snatcher Doris husband ,and u don’t want to hve baby anymore. …why don’t u leave d man for someone dat need it

  88. Who lied to you Shorinolu Olusola? What relationship do you have with God without the place of effective prayers? Prayers moved God, it’s still moving God and will keep moving God. You see the good thing about spiritual principles is that your ignorance of them, or deliberate refusal to accept them doesn’t change the fact that they are there.

  89. one thing with me is when praying and I dnt no what to say again the nxt thing to do is worship

  90. Okeke Catherine Oluchi

    Hahaha I laugh at ur pain. Now u see how it feels wen u comment negatively on people post. Mtchewe@ Tess Onoeze.

  91. Jeses thought us to pray in Psalm 23. Chikena!

  92. If you openly opposed praying for one hour how am I sure that you ever read your bible. Moses while leading the children of Israelites, apart from ten commandments he also admonished them on so many personal ways of life to makes them spiritually relevant. This is a true reflection of our society today where congregation dictates words for their pastors while neglecting spiritual sanctity of the church but welcomes every bizarre miracles with both hands. But when pastors is giving any spiritual counsel on prosperity and financial breakthroughs, almost everyone will believes with no resistance but when it borders on holiness and spiritual disciplines, many will rebuffed it. May God help us.

  93. Okeke Catherine Oluchi

    People will not kill me with laughter. See u Tessy I no wish u anything bad I said if u jam , dat means u don’t read well . see how it is paining bt u hve the hand to type wronging abt ur fellow woman. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion bt wen dat ur opinion hurt other its evil. Continue married woman this is just the beginning of u calling me stupid . it takes a stupid person to know its follower. U better repent from such thought .

  94. Even Lucifer pray to God ?.what’s the difference between6hours prayers and 2hours prayer.praises alone moves God

  95. Worship is vry good, infact, its d bst form of prayer. it brings us to God’s presence. Worship is more important than our words. Through worship, our spirit is united with d Holy Spirit n worship of God bcomes so romantic.

  96. She’s right serious men and women understand better.

  97. “Then He came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, what? Could you not watch with Me one hour”? Matt. 26:40. Men & Brethen, this is JESUS (the only begotten) asking for one hour prayer, talk less about you&I

  98. Pls tell me were I comment negative in my post Okeke Catherine Oluchi

  99. Ur a very senceless woman Okeke Catherine Oluchi

  100. “A good woman is a good woman,s nt hw long u pray buh,hw well u pray,u don’t necessarily need 1hr bfor God ll hear u,he s nt deaf. Is only God dat knows peoples who truly serve him.”

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