A pastor has authored a book which says it’s okay for singles to indulge in sєx before marriage, Christian or not.
Having sєx outside marriage even though accepted by society, is frowned upon by christians. An author, Bromleigh McCleneghan, has attempted to explain why it may be okay to actually indulge in ‘guilt-free’ sєx even as a single christian who doesn’t conform to the world (okay na).
According to her, it’s okay to have sєx along as it’s “mutually pleasurable and affirming“. She also said it’s not by force to stay off sєx, especially if you became single by circumstance.
The married mother of three who is also an associate pastor at the Union Church of Hinsdale in Chicago, USA, said it’s also great to be faithful to your sєxual partner, even if you are both unmarried.
Here’s what she said below:
“If we refrain from having sєx that isn’t mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn’t respect the sacred worth of ourselves and our partners…Chastity, or just sєx, requires that whether we are married or unmarried, our sєx lives restrain our egos, restrain our desire for physical pleasure when pursuing it would bring harm to self or other.”
Hmmm! 4 me,am jux passin by ooo. Speechlex
Story… Story. Anyway,dere’s God o
What do u expect if u want crowd in your church d end has actually come. Dat is if it’s true a pastor said dis
One shud be careful of what goes inside one. The bible has the final say. Know ur bible, there are wolves in sheep clothes claiming to be pastor.
Please i don’t know about that
This is heresy. Where in the Bible that support this your assertion?
U want to turn girls to garri ijebu abi may GOD forgive u
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Osas the point is that it’s a sin. And where do you 95% percent from, that’s just an assumption. Tashah a woman cannot have authority over a man. You’re putting up bible quotes but I don’t think you really understand the real meaning of it. Women speak in church, the real meaning of it I think is what you don’t get. Just like Bonno said you’re misinterpreting it. The point is it’s a sin before God.
It funny AF tho. Answer this, If a person get AIDS, will they have to take medicine? Or will God keep them alive without? If a person gets Cancer, will Medicine keep them alive, or God? Its funny how God heals, yet there’s still a need for medicine. Prayer doesn’t cure diseases, illnesses, disabilities, etc. Science do tho. And low behold, science can actually be proven to be trueU0001f610
Don’t mislead your followers where was it written in the bible. Remember the day of reconation
We should be mindful of what we read and say here,its call ” Gossip Mill Nigeria”.Im sure no pastor would ever say that.only a fake pastor would do.
Divine Sogikammachukwu Okeke did u here d case of a woman asking for divorce after a week on bases that her husbands manhood is too big for her? Or another one that cannot handle the prolonged time for his ejaculation?
That Pastor has gone too far against the Holy Bible.
Does bible we even claim exist in our minds…i cnt marry a porcelain doll and keep in my house…i have to conclude after so many trials that she is gud in bed
I’m good in reading bible but I can understand it. Can anyone point it out where it’s been written that sex before marriage or no sex after marriage.
These stories are not true people.
Naija!!!the LAND OF THE GOOD ,THE BAD, THE OGGLY,.
Roshonda Smith exactly haha to be honest I like to take the piss out of people, but people that are so serious about this are the best kind haha
hehe see how Nigerians are pretending to be holy as if they are not all having sex. haha there is God o !
Na true o
it is obvious that the pastor has written his own book , you are all grown up and know what life is about, so just do what you do according to what you think is good for you
Told everybody about these pastors, that’s why I don’t trust them. They preach to you out the part of the bible thats ok for their lifestyle and twist the other part to fit their lifestyle.
Gossip Mill Nigeria, stop stop posting nonsense against Man or woman of God…
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Hmmmmm jst passing U0001f44b
LIES FROM THE PIT OF HELL……U0001f612hmmmm,one of them that change the word of God,tread carefully,your lashes frm the whip of Almighty awaits you
Olu Thomas,may God bless you for that, it shows that you’re in tune with his true wordU0001f44dU0001f44c please tell them
Sin is Gods word is final .You sin in secret but the unseen eyes watching. Wow unto you if the rapture catches you in the in such position sinning.
No but the righteous. That why it would be easy for a camel to go through a needle eye.Ha Ha judgement is surely coming non but the righteous including you and me. Paaassssteeer.
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Dont you all this pastor is a realtor for satan. She trying to how much people she can get to buy a plot in hell she is already there.Outside is 98 degree i cant manage that much more hell .
Pastor i wonder if you Satan dont allow air condition in hell it will be under is condition.
Everybody has become student of the immediately just because of what someone said, buh when the devil will come with his challenges none of them will remember the Bible again. The real deal is not all what you people are discussing here is winning with the word of God that’s what matters to God. Use your faith. For without faith it is impossible to please God, for he that comes to God must believe. God bless. Use tbe word of God to get job of yours, repel that sickness with the word of God, get that husband or wife with the word of God, thats what makes a child of God. But Grow in grace and in the knowledge of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ. Win with Gods word. Dont allow the devil to rub off of Gods blessings for your life bro and sis. Thanks
I wonder the teaching of the Bible this days, could you just imagine that, well I can remember what the Bible says, on that day many will call upon my name, performing miracles in my name but yet I do not know u, all this will happen but the end will not ready, this just the beginning.
Roshonda God has his own time of healing. A lot people that get sick like the ones that don’t believe in him don’t pray to him when they’re sick. There’s more to it than I can explain but accept Jesus into your life and the rest you’ll figure out.
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You are a liar,you fake pastors.The judge ment of God awaits you by making God a liar.Repent now or you die.Hell is real .It awaits people like you if you don’t repent now.sin is sin no matter how you paint it.Hell will explain to you better when you get there.
Saintrich well said man.
A believer and a non believer are equal. God loves all of us. Please whoever doesn’t believe, repent.
Who gave people the brain to create medicine and new inventory?
Obviously God created man.
I don’t agree
im a living testimony
Which female pastor, lie lie
Useless fake frustrated Pastor.
In last dayz pple wl abondon the truth ~Thats abomination according to revelation chapter 22 v 18~19~i warn evry 1 who hears the word of this prophecy of this book:if any one adds anyting to them God wl add to hm the plagues describes in this book-19 it says and if any 1 takes words away frm this book God wl take away from him his shares in the tree of life and inthe holy city which are discribed in this book.
Admist all our doubts, there’s still one thing that can’t change ”without God, we’re doomed” human’s future will be extinction without a God to give us a direction, the government wil be our Gods and who can trust those greedy and selfish folks, who don’t care if you live or die. I think we should be wise to focus more on studying the bible than worshipping in the church. People had terrible experiences where it felt like if God actually didn’t exist but that isn’t a grand proof that God doesn’t exist, there’re still things that science hasn’t been able to explain, sometimes they just assume but still i applaud their effort. I have my own doubts sometimes but God existence still feels more reasonable to me, without God in some hearts, i think human’s will justify evil without hesitation.
And she claim to be a priest. What is she reading to her congregation God’s words or the devil’s?
is like u get a license b/4 u learn to drive u will kill urself
There is God. He sent his son to die for us. The non believers must repent. You don’t have to worship in church all the time, only on Sundays. God can hear you anywhere you are. But for God to answer you you must repent, our god is a loving god and he will forgive you. No sin is too great for God to forgive.
“Who is on the Lords side?”.The Bible is the ALPHA AND IMEGA of Gods Word.Any persons or pastor version is just an opinion.
Remember,Fake pastors exist
Brother do you knw the difference between fornication and adultery?
Shame to you Pastor
she is an evil pastor,she is not one of us ‘followers of Jesus Christ’
Where u see am for ur own bible?
Isn’t that man captioned Jose chameleon
All l have to say is that heaven is real and hell is real for me I have chosen the truth part of life which my bible teaches me
all chiristian people have boyfriend and girlfriend and make sex before marriage
Hian! I no follow for this one oooo
Where do you get all? Do you know all Christians in the world? Think before you comment.U0001f607
Victoria what’s your point by saying fake pastors exist?
I know you jim,and thats exactly what you gonna do!
I feel sorry for those who say there’s no God. Ok my question is who created u?.
Souls r perishing because of common sense. Read the book of Daniel 1;7 going. Read everything abt Daniel n u will find urself busy. Tashah Stack
Cyc Yasin. I pity ur believe.
The bible tells you about antichrist!! There are many pastors and other so-called servant of God who try to manipulate God’s people and his words to suit their own filthy lifestyle. This is why real children of God need to know God for themselves and not hang on every word Pastor says because a lot of them are the devil’s recruit. I had sex before marriage but I am not going to twist God word to suit me because I know it is wrong.
Is sex our problem in this country?
Sex is everything..God makes animals as well. Ask urself why they don’t wait for marriage before having sex..
Na bad thing to test again na wa ohh abeg fremile all of you commenting and attacking him are you all VIRGIN say the truth for once.. we all have disobey God for not keeping our vigirnity to one person as be said by the bible what is the big deal inside again, TESTING is allowed if you don’t like it forget jare..
I dont know oooo
Is premarital sex even one of the problems we have in this world? To adults have sex yet they love each other so much, if there’s love in the world, will we have a cause to hurt each other ? Preachers are busy condemning fornication and saying nothing about rape and abuse which is an act of cruelty that leaves a sense of have in the victim mind forever
You may accept JESUS now or not,
Go to CHURCH now or not,
Believe the WORD of GOD now or not,
Deny there is GOD now or not,
Deny there is HEAVEN and HELL or not, to be candid, you are entitled to your opinions and choices now,but one day..which am very sure is coming soon,when your OPINIONS and CHOICES, including RIGHTS and EXCUSES will no longer be relevant as every soul will be facing the reality and consummation of all things before GOD ALMIGHTY. But my prayer for you all is that you’d decide for JESUS now you have the time…which I know you’ll certainly do someday,but may you never become BORN AGAIN or SORROWFULLY REPENT in ANGUISH in HELL when it is TOO LATE… For whatever GOD calls Sin stands to remain Sin,not minding who says is not!if not He,(God)would apologize to SODOM and GOMORRAH…be INFORMED and be WARNED!!!All that has BEGINNING,will certainly have an END.
U guys commenting are de fake ass be true 2 urself can u wait?
Tashah Stack, when the bible said woman shouldn’t teach or have authority over a man, He is preaching about respect. Woman should respect man in every area bcos they are our head.
Riccardo Malimpensa, u cannot be a free person, its either u are with God or u are with Satan. And we all know Satan is full of evil things. Human is created as human and animal as animal, they are 2 different things. U are talking about working brain? Who made ur brain working? The earlier u know the truth the better for u, bcos Satan is only cheating u by deceiving u.
Faisal Mohammed, bcos some Christians got pregnant b4 marriage doesn’t makes it right my brother. The instruction is from God and I want to believe that even ur religion doesn’t support fornication, yet ur people are doing it. So it doesn’t matter how many are doing it or how they do it, what’s wrong is wrong.
Roshonda Smith, even b4 Christianity was introduced in African, they still believe in God, just the mode of worshipping that’s different. Go and do ur research u will discover that those traditional worshipers even believe in God more, they cannot do anything without calling the name of God first. U asked who heal someone that’s sick? Haven’t hear about miracle in ur life? Haven’t u hear about a situation where doctors have lose hope on someone and God healed the person miraculously? 1st, ur faith matters a lot. 2nd, its not the medicine people use that get most of them cured, but the intervention of God. 3rdly, its even with God’s ability those producing those drugs are able to think of the right things to use. And lastly, its God that created what they use for those medicines.
Victoria Shinyi Uweh, u re right, fake pastors do exist and u should expect that. It was written in the bible that at d end time, different prophet and pastor will rise in His name, so u should not be surprise when u see them, just be careful so that u don’t follow them in their path of destruction.
God help us all.
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Devil in collar, pls people be careful the Antichrist is already in the church ooo
hmmm a lot of people defending the word of God n condemning her. i hhope yall are keeping yourselves nd not having sex as singles. dnt bve quick to condem another person for a sin you still commit. let her creator be her judge.
None or few can boast of righteousness that’s y she is being condemned for that statement. Her duty is to keep helping the weak n helpless in sin till the favor of God find us all n not to lead us into temptation. Oh, also exodus 18:22 encourage us to judge the good from the bad. Peace unto u.
Church Of Satan Has Spoke. (If She Really Said So.)
Eeeh!! I must test before marriage
The end time is very near, I doubt it if she is really a female Pastor, anyway, God knows who really serve Him
Once u try it , u might not stop again, it’s either u take it or live it, and how sure are u dt u ll be able to seek for forgiveness before death comes, it is well o
At the end of the day there’s no point in arguing or debating about matters like this..everyone has been given a free will,there’s no perfect person but for one to deny there’s no God is a different matter..lets just say if you dont believe He exists,you definately will see his existence one day…Thats a most definate thing.
I think she has read or understood the Bible well.
We all know the truth but we all don’t apply the truth to our lives
I really do not believe this no female pastor ever said this
They only want you to participate that all
end time pastor. this is more reason why christians must sit up n live like christ because de end is here.
Nah not buying it
It’s sin mate and if you get into it you need to beg forgiveness daily
At least say the Lords Prayer every night and start planned the wedding
na ur type the mari wrong women instead of u to talk abt agal gal wit good charater u are here sayin testin go n do anything u lik na ur life i pity alady dat wil cme ur way
I don’t know why, but this cracked me up U0001f602
Na so God talk
No pastor would teach you that. Its Heretical. All I know is dat this Facebook pages is designed to RUBBISH about Christians. I would advise True Christians watch. Stop joining them to attack Christian Leaders. Be a wise Christian.
Owoyemi owe nobody an apology, I repeat nobody, why are u guyz holding him to ransom, He is responsible for what he believes in
This is the sign of end time, brethren pls,be careful,it is not biblical.
That is a message from the pit of hell,dnt listen to it.
That is a message from the pit of hell,dnt listen to it.
Are you all Virgin
for a so called female Pastor to boldly say Sex before marriage is not wrong, that is demonic and heresy, this contradicts God’s law of marriage. As servants of God we should not bend to the world system because we want to retain our members. don’t lead people to hell with your heretical teaching.