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“Sєx Before Marriage Is OK As Long As It’s Mutually Pleasurable”- Female Pastor Says

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A pastor has authored a book which says it’s okay for singles to indulge in sєx before marriage, Christian or not.

Having sєx outside marriage even though accepted by society, is frowned upon by christians. An author, Bromleigh McCleneghan, has attempted to explain why it may be okay to actually indulge in ‘guilt-free’ sєx even as a single christian who doesn’t conform to the world (okay na).

According to her, it’s okay to have sєx along as it’s “mutually pleasurable and affirming“. She also said it’s not by force to stay off sєx, especially if you became single by circumstance.

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The married mother of three who is also an associate pastor at the Union Church of Hinsdale in Chicago, USA, said it’s also great to be faithful to your sєxual partner, even if you are both unmarried.

Here’s what she said below:

“If we refrain from having sєx that isn’t mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn’t respect the sacred worth of ourselves and our partners…Chastity, or just sєx, requires that whether we are married or unmarried, our sєx lives restrain our egos, restrain our desire for physical pleasure when pursuing it would bring harm to self or other.”

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512 comments

  1. satanic pastor, but know this God can’t change his standard…

  2. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    It’s not. You should only have it if you’re married and the bible says that. I’m really surprised and shocked a pastor would say this but the judgement belongs to the God Almighty.

  3. It has always been mutually pressurized

  4. Dialaeme Kelechi

    Tell her to back it up scripturally

  5. Baleke Alfred Mwakalenga

    aaaah ur trying to decorate sin? mmmm agents of wicked one

  6. Evelyn Prophetic Peters

    Seriously? Daughter of Jezebel.

  7. Olu Thomas Emmanuel

    Dat is not what my Bible teaches…. Enough of what all dis pastors says…. What we should focus on is what our Bible says about a particular thing!!!

  8. Olu Thomas Emmanuel

    Dat is not what my Bible teaches…. Enough of what all dis pastors says…. What we should focus on is what our Bible says about a particular thing!!!

  9. Please, let’s not try to help the bible. What is written is written. That’s her own opinion, and not biblical. It is a sin and it’s call FORNICATION in the bible.
    Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge. Heb 13:4
    Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 1Cor 6:9-10

  10. Adekola Olanrewaju Adebukola

    Who want buy phone without testing

  11. na w a ooooo…..God pass u

  12. Devil sent pastor, that’s not what the bible said.

  13. She just likes doyo

  14. Favourgracey Chizaram

    Pastor,sex before marriage not OK. Bible is against such. Sin is sin, no matter how u try to package or paint it. Hmmmm….agents of darkness everywhere

  15. Nsikak Nelly George

    Lmao but when a pastor flogged his members for fornicating, u all casted him..

  16. Beverly Iseeomah Eze

    She needs more members

  17. Na wuna go cry later! That’s why most westerners don’t care about marriage .. What the heck .. Why marry if u can get it for free

  18. Her teaching is not good but most hypocritical comments here as if non of you have tested it in one way or the other .

  19. Kucheli Peter Wudiri

    nawo! abeg new generation pastors that the bible talks about with sheep cloths but they are wolf it not how can a pastor says this nonsense abeg but thak God the bible is opened to all. and what ever if the bible did not even allow women to speak thats why we see alot of funny Churches with women dressing any how and when you speak they will quoted the bible for you

  20. Pls someone help me call the pastor @ the door waiting

  21. Wow, I’m not going

  22. Adediji Oluwatofunmi

    She is saying rubbish. That we humans do it does not make it right.

  23. Is she a real pastor ?does she understand what the bible says about sex before marriage

  24. Sueellen Kimberley Mafumbika

    Beware of fake pastors

  25. Hormohtohyorcee Hitunu

    sex is 2 be enjoyed under d pleasure of marriage…….

  26. Riccardo Malimpensa

    what if after marriage do you discover you dont enjoy sex with your partner? wouldnt it be a big disgrace?

  27. Riccardo Malimpensa

    bible also says to stone unfaithfull women. are you agree with this part too?

  28. Chidiebere Frank

    So called .ministers of God this days now turn bible the other way round. Bible is against it..period

  29. that pic though kkkkk

  30. pls note. u don’t call those type of pple pastor pls they are agent of the last days.

  31. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    That’s why you pray to God cause only he knows. Pray so that he gives you a husband and he will surely put you with who is meant for you.

  32. Owoyemi Ogunsona

    As for me i can’t marry a woman i won’t sex before marriage cos i need to know if she’s good enough for me in bed… Then there is 80% chance that i won’t cheat on her after marriage. Dis is my own Opinion

  33. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Riccardo God knows the meaning of his words. We might not know but he does.

  34. Still haram. .marriage 1s

  35. Riccardo Malimpensa

    hahahaha poor people. you believe that an imaginary entity will solve all your problems. brainwashed mood:full. good for you

  36. All this ladies here calling this woman names for saying her mind but 98% of our girls today have sex before marriage, judgement is not for us but God

  37. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    De Moon test what? I’m 15U0001f604.

  38. I want to marry this pastor

  39. sex b4 marriage is sin against GOD, also sin against pple cuz

  40. sex b4 marriage is sin against GOD, also sin against pple cuz pple sees it as immorality, and also sin against the unborn baby,

  41. Riccardo Malimpensa ,Only a fool would say there is no God.

  42. Manghaka Bawlte Manchunian

    Tell me the verse

  43. Sex is only for married people, bitch pastor

  44. jahahaahahaha see comments hahaahahahh make i go buy rice i day come how much is a bag of rice now ?

  45. Thank u ma broda

  46. Charles-Owaba Daniel

    This is just an end-time satanic teaching. Believers should take care and not give in to false doctrines

  47. which verse manghaka?

  48. which verse manghaka?

  49. Biongbo Benjamin Benwari

    am just passing by

  50. There is no god.
    Sex is good.
    Sex before marriage is amazing.
    Riccardo I’m with you haha brainwashed people trying to follow rules by a man in the sky that if existed would probably have sex with plenty, possible love a drink or two.. and might just smoke weed

  51. if you allowed woman to be pastor , sorry things will never be the same again

  52. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Tashah and Ricaardo may God forgive you guys for what you’ve just said. I hope that one day you know the truth.

  53. Morrisara Fofana

    But why should Woman be come a priest? Because I never heard prophecy review to any Woman.

  54. Morrisara Fofana

    But why should Woman be come a priest? Because I never heard prophecy review to any Woman.

  55. Kel Ishola Duruaku

    Psalm 14:1 psalm 53:1

  56. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya are you married ?? NO , If yes , swear you haven’t slept with any lady before marriage ??

  57. Samuel Erinfolami Asikong

    Good one though Owoyemi. But, thats Man’s Standard, and not the Standard for making Heaven. Thanks and Humble Regards!

  58. Haba!!! So now we have started to firmly encourage fornication to the public ??? No one can cast the first stone concerning fornication but to publicly encourage what is clearly a sin???

  59. Those who are condemning this great woman are hypocrites,until we learn how to express ourselves and differentiate what the bible said and what Paul said we will keep living a frustrated lives trying to please others people’s believe to the detriment of ours
    sex outside marriage is for pleasure and enjoyment,but sex in marriage is for reproduction.that’s my personal beliefs

  60. Those who are condemning this great woman are hypocrites,until we learn how to express ourselves and differentiate what the bible said and what Paul said we will keep living a frustrated lives trying to please others people’s believe to the detriment of ours
    sex outside marriage is for pleasure and enjoyment,but sex in marriage is for reproduction.that’s my personal beliefs

  61. If nature supports the sex till after marriage thingy, then your sex organs would be given to you on your wedding night

  62. You people should stop using the bible to cover your shame…. almost everyone commenting here have slept before marriage… stop deceiving your self.. say what you want to say and shut up

  63. What’s the name of the female pastor??

  64. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    Cliford I’m 15U0001f602U0001f602

  65. Faith Rosemary Uno

    What a teaching! I feel sorry her flock. She’s leading them astray by this. Hope she repents before it’s too late

  66. Chinyere Omeje Ahaneku

    By your words ,you shall be condemned….be mindful of what you feed the young ones because you shall answer for it.that every body do it doesn’t make it right.

  67. Faith Rosemary Uno

    She married already!

  68. Apostle Emmanuel Temitope Akinde

    Agent of darkness!

  69. Senami Oketunde Abulude

    Fornication is a sin,that female pastor is a deceiver and will lead souls to hell.the word of God cannot be altered or broken in anyway to suit you.

  70. Evelyn Prophetic Peters

    Sex is only for married people…

  71. Alexfabulous Solomon

    Bible didn’t say dat

  72. People try to twist the world of God just to please the people

  73. Faith Rosemary Uno too bad, let me wait for her daughter

  74. Block head female pastor

  75. Evelyn Prophetic Peters

    In the Bible the word Fornication is a sin ok..so for a pastor to say that is wrong pls.

  76. WOW!!! Didn’t know satan just got out of jail. See the stupidity his children are pouring out. God safe yours plzzzz.

  77. I wonder which bible she has

  78. Nwaigwe Ezinne Francisca

    AntiChrist woman Pastor…ur judgement on the last day must be terrible if u don’t repent.cos u have misled many with this hell message

  79. Please C.A.N should start certifying these pastors. This particular pastor knows nothing about the Bible.

  80. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya your 15 . Fresh out the womb, so you have no idea U0001f602U0001f602

  81. Tiina Keskisimonen

    Make sure you use protection and enjoy! 🙂

  82. do you think i am you,

  83. Pastor of doom

  84. End time pastor U0001f604

  85. Signe of end of the world!

  86. Adeniran Omotayo

    Sex or no sex is not the big but how compatible couples becomes in marriage after dating or courtship. If your spiritual configuration detest premarital sex abstain from it but if otherwise catch your fun moderately and everything must be observed in love.

  87. Osas Marv Ikhihibhojere

    Most so called Christians and Muslims that i know are regular fornicators, so what’s new in this?

  88. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    But my age don’t mean idk the ways of the God Almighty. I wish you also knew the way. God is real, please believe in him. In time of trouble call out to him and he will answer you.

  89. What is fornication? My understanding of Heb 13:4 tells me it applies to married couples

  90. Keep on testing you will see where you end up.dont conclude the journey you have never walked in.Dont think sex will always be the same satisfying in marriage.So many factors affect sexual fulfillment .

  91. He will in his arse plenty of times of trouble everyone has had where was he then . I’m sorry but you’ve been brainwashed along with alot of other people

  92. Testing machine, continue. When you have tried all the ladies who’ll marry them. I hope other guys like you doing testing testing also test your sisters and dump them if they’re not good on bed before marriage (and you give them chop knuckle for it). I also hope your dad tested other ladies to see if they were good on bed. And I also hope your daughters will be tested by other testing machines too. Rubbish! So you now know better than God who created sex itself. Mini-god I hail your office o! #So_many_sick_minds_everywhere_not_weighing_their_words_before_speaking

  93. Fake pastor what does your bible said about fornication

  94. People please back your arguments with scriptural references. Don’t just say it’s a sin and start condemning or bashing someone. I know there are characters in the bible that had sex with people they were not married to, some with the approval of their wives…

  95. Nor be lie

  96. From a biblical point of view she is teaching heresy. The Bible has strong warnings against sex before marriage. 1 Corinthians 6:9 Read it, explicitly says no fornicator shall inherit the Kingdom of God. Now for her to say the Bible says its ok is heresy and a lie. She should rather say she feels its ok and not use the Bible and God and twist the interpretation. Thank you ma Broda

  97. If you believe there’s no God, you also should believe there’s no air.. cuz we don’t see them both. Your unbelief though doesn’t change the fact.. believe it or not God reigns and rules.

  98. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya, may the Creator bless you for trying in your own little way to preach his word..

  99. Johnson Chisom Oparaeke

    Tashah Stack
    After serving God here on earth ,working so hard to live by His principles which in effect does not harm but makes me a better person ,if at the end there is no God definitely u won’t be better than I am ,where u end I will also end as a human being ,but if it turns out that there is a God at d end I will be more happy that I believed Him and His son saving Grace, but I Believe Him totally

  100. Dieudonne Mwibelecha Lusambya

    God has his way of doing things and also he does thing at his own time also does what’s best. Don’t question God my friend. May God forgive you you don’t know what your saying.

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