Stunning Nollywood actress and fitness expert, Kate Henshaw in a series of tweets, pondered on why Women will put themselves in a situation where they are not financially stable or capable to help themselves if there’s an emergency.
Well, for one… I don’t know! Lol…
I think some women who are financially stable have a bit of pride,they feel they do not need to submit to anyone,thats why some of them are single,too much pride and ‘self acclaimed contentment’ i wish such women all the luck in the world cause some are in denial,they do get lonely at times,stuck in their big fancy houses all alone
A man should respect you,financially stable or not,period..i see some men still disrespecting their women even if they are financially stable,so respect must be given out regardless
Bonno Mokobi you are absolutely correct such men exist too. But the point I and Kate are trying to make is women should just have their things and not rely on men period
The truth is,women have brought themselves to the stage where men see them like they can’t survive without them. Go on social media and see how women lose their self respect with comments like” if my can’t do this,then he’s not a man.” Women are their own worst enemy.inasmuch am ready to do anything for my woman,I respect the woman who made it on her own a lot. It shows me that the woman will be a strong pillar to every effort I make to support the family. Like I always say,I will teach my daughter to go out there and make it herself. If help comes her through a man or a woman,good. But she won’t depend on any man to survive. People that make it through life don’t have two heads. She will earn her respect without begging for it. You women used to say what a man can do,a woman can do better but that is yet to be proven right until you women start showing it and doing it.
The truth is,women have brought themselves to the stage where men see them like they can’t survive without them. Go on social media and see how women lose their self respect with comments like” if my can’t do this,then he’s not a man.” Women are their own worst enemy.inasmuch am ready to do anything for my woman,I respect the woman who made it on her own a lot. It shows me that the woman will be a strong pillar to every effort I make to support the family. Like I always say,I will teach my daughter to go out there and make it herself. If help comes her through a man or a woman,good. But she won’t depend on any man to survive. People that make it through life don’t have two heads. She will earn her respect without begging for it. You women used to say what a man can do,a woman can do better but that is yet to be proven right until you women start showing it and doing it.
If she decides not to marry,that’s nobody’s business.
If she decides not to marry,that’s nobody’s business.
Very rubbish mentality.
Very rubbish mentality.
So if somebody decides not to be financially stable how is it her business? Uche Nwaoze
Don’t you want to be financially stable?
Chidinma onyinye…lol abi oooooo I love you
Uche abeg leave chidinma alone ooo…she made her point just as kate did
Uche Nwaoze you are very correct we are the author of our problems. I wish many people had your way of seeing things because even in 2016 some sisters still want to be given everything.
Tnk u Mrs teacher, am I d only 1 who replied her, why re u diverting ur aggression on me
Annah i dont disagree with you with regards to women empowering themselves and not always wanting to cash in on men..some even abuse the men as if they(women) are the ones working hard to earn that money
My God i luv u Fola Jubril u said my mind
Bonno Mokobi very true such women exist everywhere it’s sad
Doesn’t she want to be happily married? Uche Nwaoze the point is…. When u are privileged to be in a certain position don’t brag. Nobody choose his or her destiny.God does and the fact that he blessed u today doesn’t mean he hate another. Let’s be wise and learn to talk sense. If she made herself let her also make a husband or is she happy being single?
Gbam my sister
see another ashewo talk. next please
Hahhahahahha u and Kate dey quarrel?
I wonder why woman no go don marry and don born see ur yeye mouth
Marital stability nko
Tru talk my dear
She’s not bragging. Why do you confuse advice with bragging? So getting married makes you somebody in life? My dear, marriage has nothing to do with what she said. So if God has blessed her,is wrong for her to give advise? I don’t understand you women sometimes. All I feel from what most women commented here is just intimidation. As Daniela said,you made your own point. But what she said has nothing to do with marriage.
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U are a very big fool for that statement. U have the stupid mind to say this because u are fortunate enough to be rich.
‘Not all fingers are equall’
If you are blessed tell God thank you some of us are still hustling to make ends meet.
Tee Smith vibrator is not good for your health please do with men natural *what God gave men is standard *standard as Reekado banks sang.. Because that’s what most woman who have been brain watch by the European do or believe .. So my dear you need man in every way #standard
I dont see anything wrong with what she said, just that some women are depending too much on men just to make ends meet. And those of u who are talking aba marriage, how many married people are even happy in this kind of world we live in? U all are hidding behind d mask all in the name of marriage. Or is it that u just want to be married? even if it doesnt make u happy? abeg live Kate alone
The truth hurts but i think she’s right 100%, Y should a woman depend solelly on a man to make ends meet? And who said marriage is everything? How many people are even happy in their marriages? Its counsellors n pastors that are suffering cos of your problems, why cant a woman be happy without marriage? No one can hv a perfect marriage in this kind of world we live in, if shes decided to wait till she gets the right “Man not Boy” whats wrong with that? Give her a break.
She is married o,with white man for dat mata,hw she nor go talk pass me
I really don’t think some some people understand the point she’s trying to send across!
I really don’t think some some people understand the point she’s trying to send across!
@fola jubril, U deserve a nobel laureate for this….. U made my day
Nigeria Media . Smh
Nigeria Media . Smh
I have no business with the unmarried both male n female cos they think they know all but I bet u,u haven’t seen all.its just God’s grace(unmerited favour) upon u woman.#bewise
Kate marry me ur so beautiful
Kate marry me ur so beautiful
@pamela u killed d whole gist, kate of all pple cant say a tin like dat,As for gossip mill una too lie, just passing ooo hmmmm
@vivian tell dem may be dey will understand, i guess some tin Is missing, hmmmmm GS101useofenglish
U re welcome
The hypocrisy on this page is ridiculous. In another video that was posted a woman was making fun of “broke” men, most women found it amusing and loved the video. Now a woman is talking about how she doesn’t understand why a woman wouldn’t be financially stable all these females are offended smh. Wow U0001f602
d bible states clearly dat all our desires shall come frm d man even if she is financially stable nko she should also b maritally stable den we will knw she has arrived
kate u fall my hand sha even join my leg God made u wat u r by his grace nt ur power so y diz statement hw much do u v sef u get pass beyonce oya go nd bcom marritally stable nd see if its ur power
She encouraging prostitution
Her tweet should have ended with ‘…should the opportunity present itself’ rather than “…should the need arise”. Now she just made herself sound like the typical celebrity ignorant of the plight of the regular people.
Disappointed if truly u said this
Go thank your God. Stop blabbing. Its not good for the health.
You think she didn’t suffer? That’s d part no one pays attention to but only the glits and glam attracts.
Anyway this Buhanomics have taught us lessons.
There’s difference between grace n race.
This is a wake up call for women who think men enjoy them being liabilities. Go and make your own money – you have brains arms and feet. I wonder why sine ladies are angry. Those who wish for expensive things should try work and see its not easy. Gold diggers r not smiling gone are d days men waste money on their worthless heads. Let me see them insult men for being poor
Ya puanla dia….
Can you toast let alone marry a woman richer than you? De Joe if you can then woo Linda Ikeji
Will u shut up? Bitchy indeed – when she was struggling where were you?
When men start giving birth to children???? SMH. OK let’s wait and see if you can impregnate a man! Rubbish
Undeserved wealth? How do. You know someones wealth is undeserved? If you get wealthy now it will be deserved huh? Idiot
I wonder if it was a woman who raised you or a bitch also
Sister you sound useless oooo
Some of you are angry because the truth is bitter
Well said Fola Jubril
Really Kate Henshaw dat s rich comin from you n uve neva suffer in yr life abi?? Well it’s nt yr fault n tnk you I am happy bcos money n fame s nt everything n it’s nt d key 2 happiness in life
Abi o De Jo Int well said
Abeg leave matter, because you are lucky to have hard you are running your mouth any how.
Abeg shut up jooor
Sharna after all the guys in Jamaica have finish with you, u have no were else to put yr mouth, yr mouth will not fit on my d***
Success Irene-Oshias inferiority complex might be your problem, not mine. It is either yes or no, no one is gonna kill you for talking to them…
Kate You Are Very Stupid, Make All This Chronic Sickness Catch You I will start to hear, Donate Donate….. After Your Stupid Bragging.. Abi Na Today? Is Your Mother Financial Stable Before Marriage After Marriage and Even Before and After She Give Birth To You? You are Very Stupid For This Statement…. Rubbish
There’s no reason she can’t be. 🙂 She has to work on it just like anyone else. Money doesn’t grow on trees.
You don’t know her story and she’s also trying to motivate the ladies. Nigerian Ladies can’t depend on men and still ask for equal right.
Undeserved wealth, Are you her God? Or do you know her story?
hmmm Those that have their palm kanel cracked by a benevolent spirit should not laugh to the misfortune of others.
Abeg ask them abeg..infact let me answer the question, cos they all depends on men
Where re u from..i love ur brain
See them lazy ladies them supporting fola,what is nice about this nonsense? Someone is advising u people and here u are judging her of how she makes her money,oya if na beans go and make urs now.did she say u most me rich? Or u don’t know the meaning of financially stable? Please get something doing for ur own good.U0001f613
My dear thank u,leave them let them remain like that.judgmental people
Princess Happy Latoya first your grammar is wack and that leads me to the second point: how can you be financially stable and you won’t be rich? My dear go and read more books and study more. You need to work on yourself and bottomline financial stability and being rich is synonymous.
Well said madam kate,only the wise will pick something good out of what she is saying,why the ignorance will judge her,the truth is bitter.oya make una stay there now.
So many senseless people shaa
Nice one. Tell her
excuse me mr English,u speak without understanding,go and check the meaning of financially stable,dull brain@iyke.
don’t be stupid iyke,do u know why some rich men or women fall?why they are not stable?no dull brain u don’t know,if u want to be financially stable u have to get something doing if u are rich and u don’t have something doing u will fall,anyways u just said rich,which is different from wealth.ladies should run from u because u are just too stupid,learn to also understand English.
don’t be stupid iyke,do u know why some rich men or women fall?why they are not stable?no dull brain u don’t know,if u want to be financially stable u have to get something doing if u are rich and u don’t have something doing u will fall,anyways u just said rich,which is different from wealth.ladies should run from u because u are just too stupid,learn to also understand English.
Iyke Francis-Efizzi Reloaded for ur information,I mixed pigin and English together just to make it fun,if u want to talk about English I think you have a lot to do,go and also learn how to understand English not just to speak,I pity u.
Annah Lewanika-Tarumbira you understood the post unlike most people
Osakwe Tochukwu brother that’s because most people don’t read properly before posting a silly comment
my dear they do,just that they don’t understand English,they are only good in speaking english.
Princess Happy Latoya I agree with you on that.
if u want ladies to make it,u can create a way for them.
I can read some irresponsible comments , how can a woman be proud to say that marriage doesn’t mean anything ? @ Uche Nwaoze so if getting married can not make u somebody , being single till death makes u a hero abi ,
Chibyk Frank….if you have to criticize me,read where am coming from. This woman gave a simple advice and suddenly it became a marriage issue. Secondly,marriage is a personal choice,don’t tell me that getting married makes you responsible cos they are a lot Irresponsible married people out there. Being responsible has nothing to do with being single or married. Responsibility is how you decide to shape your life. So Kate is irresponsible cos she not married abi? Africans sha
God bless u Chibyk Frank . If being financially stable is by our powers why is getting married not? Then to u Obaa Adwoa Adiepena Edzii so financial stability gives happiness?. U need Jesus dear.
Yes we are Africans and we have our culture , lets stop emulating westerners cos its there culture , am not against Kate but you abt d comment u made abt marriage , my dear marriage is a pride to any woman in our culture ,if ur due for married ,keep ur pride aside and get a good husband they are out there, and it will add a great value to ur life ,God never created u to be single , thanks for understanding
Go and check those dat bragged ” we don’t need husbands ” how dey ended up there lives in regrate at last , we are not whites let’s embrace our culture its our pride ,it doesn’t make us less of a human , since we started emulating whites life starting being complicated to us cos we trying to be wat we are not
all fingers are not equal ma,am
True talk!!!!!!!!!!
Don’t mind them lazy men.
You want me to earn same as you while I still bear children and keep the home huh??
Always on social media with her bad mouth. Either cursing out her followers on Instagram, or bragging about how she has gotten to the top and other are still struggling. Pls all fingers are not equal. And as far as life is concern, they is something some lady’s have that you Kate don’t have, nobody has it all.
Good write up but let’s remember we have no idea what her story is. How can we assume she’s had life easy just because she is where she is? #justsaying
Why are women getting angry by what this woman said? I bet if she were like “I just can’t understand why men will not be financially stable”, you all would have agreed with her and magically forgotten how hard some of these guys work. You were not created to live off a man. A man is the provider, yes! But a woman is the “helper” and how can you be a helper without money? Work towards being financially stable so you can help your home, don’t worry you won’t die!
She has said nothing wrong.