Nollywood actress Foluke Daramola recently shared her take on Gender equality in a quick chat with TS Weekender.When asked to share her view on Gender Equality Bill, the actress said:
“I’m sorry I don’t think men and women should have equal rights in this case. I think the male should have more than the female, but it should be with proportion, maybe on a ration of 60 to 40.
The reason why I think so is because we women tend to be extremely domineering when it comes to issues and sometimes sentimental. Men can be detailed even though we are sometimes. So, there are proportions in all these things.
The role of a man can never be over emphasized. Even though I’m a woman rights activist, I still believe in the place of a woman and a man. The man is suppose to be a step ahead of the woman; you can never take that away.”
Do you agree with her?
Well my dear… The bible says that the wisdom of men is foolishness unto God… Man failed when he began to think on his own… The bible says… Trust the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding… So my dear, I don’t ve to think on my own because I didn’t create myself.. So what God says is all man should do… Ecclesiastics 12vs 13..says that the only duty of man is to fear God and keep his commandment… Pls think again.
Good for you until he dump you and you have children to support.
Na wahoo for you na this kind thing you Sabi
It’s not bad dear for your man to do such duties but what is wrong is your view that u nd your husband is equal.. Baby it’s wrong..
Wisdom Uche Godswill I will give you some advice dont tell people how to live there lives, what to do, you must let people lead there own lives and think on there own and take there own path of responsibilities, that is a bad thing to do did they teach you that in church? it is like forcing someone to convert into a religion when you know for well that is up to people for there own individual mind learn to think on your own that is why your brain will never expand and you will always be stuck where you are, Im a hybrid I don’t stay at the bottom I rise to the top
@Cardice, getting married is just d beginning of a journey that doesn’t determine a perfect end. More reason why single mothers re increasing everyday. Ur believe can work at where u belong but not in this country. Strong women doesn’t believe in equality but believe in their husbands as the head and the man in control. That’s how God made it and our culture supported it.
Wisdom Uche Godswill don’t call another mans partner baby its rude and disrespectful to my soon to be husband
I sabi everything ooo…
oh! God bless u
Lolz.. Am a successful person my dear.. Through Gods grace in me I am indomitable… But note that God will hold me responsible if I should fail to tell a sinner that they re comiting sin… A true Christian won’t see this as a problem nd would never go ahead to run insult on someone for correction given…
Wisdom Uche Godswill well good luck on your path
But just no that except a sinner repents, God will not forgive… So take another thought about life after now.. A life that comes when Jesus returns…. I love you dear.. God loves you more nd I ve forgiven you for the insult… Pls do ask God for forgiveness…
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I’m sorry I called you baby
Is only the Lazy wives that clamour for Gender Equality. It started with Laziness, then culminated into pride. They are losing their uniqueness without them even knowing it. God help them!
@Cardice, u said “I went to the best university in my country and I will soon be owner of a fruits and vegetables company in europe dispersing the product around europe and making business in countries around the world”. Sis, I can see u ve allowed ur achievements got to ur head which is bad. Fine any weak man may seems to like ur philosophy now probably bcos of what they will benefit from the relationship, but at d end of d day they won’t be able to cope and that’s why u see broken relationships everywhere dis days. Besides, u don’t describe the word of God d way u re describing it, its wrong as a Christian u called urself. U re not to tell ur man what he should do for u, a wonderful husband assist her wife in everything with love. But u ve to show him that love first by being submissive and not being arrogant. Being submissive doesn’t make u a dog or caged as u said, it shows u re an obedient child of God and a woman of wisdom.
Isaac Linus Ndrimbula if to marry two husband good i for even gree before u ask my brother hahahaha.
Thank God you can’t vote in US elections.. Big Dummy!!
Thanks Queen Temmy Ayanfe..u re a true Christian..
Queen Temmy Ayanfe my dear Queen the man is the head does not mean dominate … If you read the words of the actress you will understand what I mean dear .. Man Is always the head does not mean the woman must be dominate luv is reciprocal…
But make sure you put it in practice and if you are not yet married let not be that you want to use it to lure men so that one will marry you then you come out of your shell . Hollywood actress I don’t trust you guys at all , marry today divorce tomorrow . May God help you people in Jesus name
Queen Temmy Ayanfe lmao different cultures yo we don’t roll like that where I come from as far as I am concerned women are the gods we make the babies, broken relationships come from lies and being sneaky behind your partners back, not working as a team and not encouraging each other to better yourselves in your courier to be financially stable you have your philosophy I have mine, mine works for me, my empire and my partners is only getting bigger and stronger and our amazing united front with how we communicate is very strong we just keep growing and growing bigger and bigger im so happy where it is headed and where it is headed.
But for man to dominate doesn’t mean d man is not in love with his wife. I come to discovered in life that when u let God be d foundation of ur home, submit urself, love and respect ur husband as God instructed us, there won’t be any complain at all bcos u won’t even see ur husband overshadowing u, all u will see is love and happiness in him.
For me my partner has to be my best friend I should be able to tell him anything and everything tell him how I feel trust him and not hide anything and be myself first and formost if I was somebody Im not then Im a liar and that means the trust is gone and is not a true authentic partnership.
Queen Temmy Ayanfe my dear we ar saying the same thing in different ways … Don’t misunderstand me … Stay blessed.
It make no sense still.. Now here is a woman like you telling you the right thing… And you still keep arguing. You society is not the standard,the word of God is.. So if your society practices that then my dear just know that they do the wrong thing.. Woman re never gods of the home…
Tell you what?? If you go into marriage with your philosophy, then be sure that your partner will look elsewhere for a humble woman.. A woman who will respect him nd that will lead to adultery..
Ur totally dormant @ibezim chiwe
And a divorce will follow.. So now you no why men cheat in your country…. Because your women re not submissive… Don’t be like him..
Don’t be like them
Wisdom Uche Godswill learn to read properly before coming at me with your brainwashed tactics I am the one with a thriving courier and fiance that loves me, and I have worldly opportunities and here you are spitting all these theories with nothing to back it up? where is your faithful partner where is your thriving financially stable courier that will support your family the means to make it foward in this world with a good education and a good house , and so you and your partner can go on holidays together and you can spoil each other you come at me with this and that but your arguement has no substance at all.
a woman can b strong but still respect her husband and make him feel like a man so he doesnt look for women outside the marriage to make him feel like Man
Ok.. So the only real way for man to be equil with women is have children… Hummm…..so I suppose the transgender males will be biologically able?? …HAHAHAHA!!!U0001f495U0001f493U0001f49e
If the referred dominance is not subjugation the there is no problem.
U have spoken, but, the arrogant ones would not listen to you. Even, in Bible and Qur’an women are not equal to men. Any reasonable woman who wants to remain in the husband house will not equalize her with her husband.
Lolz!! Am not the sort to Bragg dear!! All that I ve was given to me by God, it’s nothing to Bragg about.but for my partner.. Oh dear am not the sort to beg women for money… I’m an independent man.. Am not into businesses but I’ve got a good job given by God.. (Glory be to him) so my dear ladies beg me for relationship.. Am not in a haste to get married. Am a guy, can marry at anytime. So dear am so confident of myself….
Lolz!! Am not the sort to Bragg dear!! All that I ve was given to me by God, it’s nothing to Bragg about.but for my partner.. Oh dear am not the sort to beg women for money… I’m an independent man.. Am not into businesses but I’ve got a good job given by God.. (Glory be to him) so my dear ladies beg me for relationship.. Am not in a haste to get married. Am a guy, can marry at anytime. So dear am so confident of myself….
Wisdom Uche Godswill you have no respect from me you can bounce now……
Wisdom Uche Godswill you have no respect from me you can bounce now……
So don’t think I don’t no what am saying dear.. I let God direct my life.. I live to glorify him in my body… Bless you dear..
So don’t think I don’t no what am saying dear.. I let God direct my life.. I live to glorify him in my body… Bless you dear..
@Cardice, its well. God Himself will speak to u.
The back up for my ideas is the bible…
May GOD bless u and ur family,its simple lik ABC,ur husband will neva divorce u if u are loyal to him
Look for a Seventh-day Adventist church around you for proper counsel before you get married… That’s my advice to you… Gudnight..
Candice Witehira and that is why in ur so called country there are more shrinks…in ur country u guys are always running to a therapist…in ur country divorce rate are epic becuz the law will gladly gv the women everyfin that men has worked for in his life…in ur country u grow old and ur kids send u straight to old pple’s home becuz properly u guys hv more authority in ur relationship than love…in ur so called country the women are quick to end ur relationship if the guy refuses to wash the plate with u(u no fit try am with naija man) the rest are endless. Sweety this is Africa baby…we submit to our husband and we are loving it that way and we dnt feel caged,i bet u,try it out and u will be happier cause u actually sound like an angry lady. Have u imagined why Nigerians are always happy notwithstanding the level of hardship in Nigeria. like Queen Temmy Ayanfe said,submitting doesn’t make u a dog or caged…u can still air ur opinion and talk to ur man with love and respect and our wonderful African men reciprocate too… Listening to the way u talk u will hv multiply divorces and properly end up in old pple’s home. Ur system is simply faulty for a happy home,in Africa we must hv gotten alot of fins wrong buh this one? pack one side, we hv happy homes with little resources and lovely submissive African women..
Amaka Nwodo Idimogu..I’m proud of you joor… The whites think they re smart… But Gods grace makes us wiser….
Your opinion as you rightly said! Because, the word gender equality is ambiguous.
You will make a good housewife .May the Lord give you a good husband.
They won wise pass God .let see.
My dear. U ve not been to my land too so what re my gonna look for in yours?? All I can boldly say is that you people with what you re saying does not ve respect for the word of God…. Ask someone else..
Wisdom Uche Godswill this isnt a issue about god stop trying to make it about yourself stick to the subject that is why you are not smart
If European women hear this, u will end up in prison just for saying it lol. God bless African women jare.
Well done my friend
U seem 2 b d woman dat men re lookn. Am happy dat u re married, may ur husband recognize ur right n treat u wit love
This is another radical perspective and a woman that does not leave by external pressure.
Ok, that’s your opinion. I agree to disagree.
That is Germany but she is in Africa, hope you get the difference. Deal in Germany the way your things are done and do not confuse African women that clearly express their views as things happen.
You can say it again.Even by nature/creation,they are different.
Where is the equality when we have different sexes/genitals
God bless u madam.
The equality thing that women are fighting for is not just for the family level, its for how we re treated at work places, to have a say in government matters,… look at what a woman s doing in Liberia nd…. Women should be given that post bcos she has the qualifcation not ignored cos oh its a woman… I respect the male around me so dont get it twisted.
No matter how much money you have and position I sit in, it is true a man is superior in the house I mean ” my husband ” when you reach home
Dominate a woman? No wonder domestic violence is rife in Africa. Africans don’t keep records, so no one can show Foluke how many women have died in the hands of DOMINANT men.
@ Lynn Chihera those are the results of knowing a your position as a woman I am happy for your mum she has set an example for you and the rest may God bless your parents as they celebrate their jubilee.
If u really bliv in equality not by mouth den dont get marry bcos ur husband must b d head
The only sensible comment in this post.
God made it to be so and do s
Shall it be till kingdom come take it or leave it
I respect your opinion but did you ask yourself why Jesus did not marry and we followers of Jesus choose to marry
Millions of African women lives here
You are a good woman and may peace remain in ur home
Gender equality is a concept that was created at a time Men thought they’re gods of their wives and at such can do as they please with her… I believe that concept was meant to bridge the gap and earn women some respect before their husband that I honestly think they deserve. Haven said that, I believe 2 captains can’t control one vessel and at such, one of them must be incharge for a coherent and successful result to be achieved! Please don’t insult this Lady as you don’t know exactly what she meant when she told the actress to have a rethink.. we can submit our opinions without name-calling
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I support wat she said.nd i also support gender equality also.in wat way????wives need to b sumissive to dere husband i agree nd d case of gender equality is dat d men shd also listen to wat women wnt to say.even though if dey re wrong u av to listen nt dat u shd b d overall authority nd nt listening to ur wife.
Even those that live in western world still believe that a man have to be the head and when it comes to family tradition, most of the western ladies always regard the man as the head and those that don’t accept it, are bond to be baby mamas, single mothers and live a lonely life in a reality.
Botoka hunter Jesus didn’t marry bcos marriage wasn’t in his earthly mission, God didn’t send him to come and get married, but some of his disciples were already married b4 Jesus came. An example was Peter, Jesus healed his mother in law. Ephesians 5: 28-33 states Husbands should love their wives as they love their own bodies, no1 ever hated his own flesh, rather he feeds and cherishes his flesh, in like manner, a man should cherish his wife. And on ther other hand, verse 33 states a wife should have deep respect for her husband. In Ephesians, marriage was constantly compared to the relationship christ has with the christian congregation, just as christ loved mankind enough to die for us, similarly a man who loves his wife enough to give his life for hers would not dominate her, he would exercise his head ship in a loving manner like christ did. Christ was a perfect man and with God’s spirit he was able to clearly see human flaws. He could see the flaws in his earthly parents, yet he submitted himself and respected his human parents as a son. He could also see the flaws in his disciples yet he patiently listened to their arguments and repeatedly corrected their way of reasoning. Even on the night he was to die, they argued, Jesus could have yelled at them out of frustration, did he? No, he patiently corrected them, even when he repeatedly found them sleeping when they should have been praying, he recognized that the spirit was willing but the flesh was weak and lovingly corrected them. Husbands should lovingly correct their wives, patiently recognize their limitations and weakness and treat their wives wit dignity. In return wives should respect the husbands as God has assigned women to do. When each person play his part, God would indeed bless the union and make it a real marriage and not “manage”.
I’m an equal to any man in my work place, but when in the home front, my husband is & remains the head,though l be d one footing the bills.
I’m surprise earring this from a person like you , a star, may you countinue to enjoy the peace of God
And check out women did during GEJ administration
As they dominate you, why can’t you settle down with one husband? Nonsense!
True talk my sister anything with two head is a monster. The man is the head
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@ Bunmi, that is what is killing a woman. gender equality. When created Adam and Eve, he never said Eve, be dominant to your husband simply mean not gender equality. The real African woman knows that the man is the head of this house and if then you want to have same right as he is, then is better the household be share equally.
@ Tianna Neola, where did you read your own Holy Bible from? You’re just writing out of comment, simply question, your answer to that is not even shows that you will be submissive to your husband. Una men. Na big wahala you they ooo at this your tender age.
Queen Temmy Ayanfe dear pls am looking for that oyibo girl that said she n her boyfriend go soon own a company…i replied her post to annoy her and i cant see her anymore
Gender equality z man made nt God made
U ar d one thinking backward chinwe
U ar rigth
That z why 40/ of them ar divorces
Even 70% re divorced
That’s the way God created it to be!
You are the best and your husband must be proud of you am sure.
Majestic what is a submissive wife
God bless u amaka for ur comment…you husband must be the most happiness man on earth to have u as wife….may God continue to be with u and ur family…Amen
A man should be the head and love his wife, that is how God made it
GOD BLESSE U DEAR
I agree with you madam a man should always be a man an woman a woman but sum women they act like they hav prick U0001f61cU0001f44dU0001f3fe
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Dear Jude,
I couldn’t make it home last night because I
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am here lonely and afraid in pains and in
torments The torture is unending, I cant explain
it but am dying a thousand times in a second.
You never told me this place was for real and
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but you never told me about this new life of
yours. I asked you severally and you jokingly
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You betrayed our friendship, you never told me
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Depends what morals you have been raised on, I have been married for 22 years, and I put my wife,s needs before mine, and we are has strong has anything together …
Well, not dominate but assumed leadership of his family, responsibly.