Facebook user, Olubunmi Ajai Layode shared a picture of a woman whose husband allegedly smashed a plank onher head during an argument at their home. She wrote;
“SOS! I’m in private inbox with a lady who has fled DV She is in Abuja with her sister. Her family is putting pressure on her to go back to her husband. Her mother says ‘da’le mosu’ – single parenthood is not good. Her father who is retired is fending for her. Can we have Abuja helpers please! She sent me several pictures but asked me not to show her face. This one below is one where he smashed a plank on her head. And her family want her to go back to the man! They say there is no couple that don’t fight. Yes. But how many smash planks on their spouses’ heads? Can we get help in Abuja please! She needs a job, shelter. She’s got kids. Her son wakes up in the night screaming ‘MUMMY! DADDY IS GOING TO KILL YOU!’
Yea go back let him kill u. Okay!!! OMG some women smh
Forgive and forget
GO BACK AND DIE JAREE…!!
Run for your life.
Yes go back, then when he kill u, ur family will come and carry ur corpse. Mtcheeewww
Nonsense.. You go soon love am for inside grave.. Abeg enter bush.
Jamb question
#smh
No darling even if u already hve 1000kids for him.such an husband is a born killer.run for ur life,bt if u dnt value ur life,den i sincerely advise u to forgive him and go back to him!
give him one last chance to hit the front our head.idiot!
go nah than he can finish his job completly
If na cheating matter, I no support you at all, bcos I hate any woman who cheat on her husband.
Austin-j Dj-locco haahahah ur people dont have mercy U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602
Go back to him at least he will feet your funeral bill
Ure mad 4 saying u love someone who wanted to kill u…if u like go back to him then u will become history
Can’t stop laughing
Did he marry properly according custom demand
What did you do? Apologizing to him will help and he’ll take care of you. He’s the father of your kids. No amount of pride will resolve this. He was wrong yes but there’s no smoke without fire.
Mumu,if u want to go back then go ahead
He that seek equity must do equity
Idiot!go back and Die
Na truth you talk my brother
He who comes to equity must come with clean.
Please return to him….ur friends will post your RIP for us to condole wif you….mumu.
Question now is, is her U0001f450 hands clean?
People ask her, what happened?
Put him in prayers , at least for the sake of your kids try not to break ur marriage, broken homes affects kids most,put it to God in prayers, there is no problem God can’t solve, seek him diligently.God bless you
Did you know what she did? Mrs adviser
so shud come & help u carry ur head or what?
We all gonna die just one day so when its ur turn receive it..✌✔✌ don’t ask me ask Tiwa Savage ?
End time husband U0001f608U0001f479U0001f47a better run for your dear life, before RIP become your story U0001f60fU0001f60fU0001f60f you love him ke? Na who love help? ?
Maybe another man don do the thing, to me I can’t stand that
I dnt believe dis head am luking@ Luks like a man’s neck.
What abt the guys who cheat on their wives?????
Font worry if you don’t quit he will kill you and say it was that same love that lead it do the killing stuff. Say no to marital violence when you still have the time and right.
Yes go back,your family will come fore ur body
Ronke Iya Won see this
Yes go back and get killed, so once he kills you he can take another wife to be the new mother of your children
But this head isn’t woman head?
My dear it’s either you run for your life or you invite your brothers to teach him a lesson.
Even at dat , a plank ??? Pls bro let’s be reasonable. Wht if he succeeded in killing her instantly? Then d story will change. There is no amount of offence she committed dat justifies d husbands act
Well I’m not trying to be supportive , I’m Jst straightening facts out.
Yes go back to him. You know you are the problem of the marriage
Na mistake please go back
Lesly Matt what if the husband met her in bed with another man ? Don’t forget she’s still saying here that she loves the man no matter what. We’er here to give her a way forward not a way backward.
The moment you ask should i go back!!! You already have an answer And you know it.
If your wife hits you with a plank, you should also apologise to her. For crying out loud we campaign about domestic violence everyday and this is just a typical example of such, before you gave such a shallow advice you should have put yourself in her shoes, if the husband can do this that means his liable to killing his wife. Some times make we dey reason before we talk
Some people are saying go back and die, some are saying go back and ask for apology. What kind of a society you live in In my country the woman would have booked a case with police for attempt to murder and jailed that guy and took divorce and looked after her kids by doing some job. By these posts I realize that you afrikaans believe in Jesus and you are highly backward and equal to shariah rule of middle east
You deserve that whack on your head, if after that you are asking such a stupid question!
if she something he has no ryt to take her life
Dolly Gaceri , that one is normal
if I were u will push hard to put him in prison
Let him marry your sister, and tell her to apologise from her grave….
You would be death by now if not God. U may not survive it again next time.
Their mother murdered by their father will affect them a lot more!
Hitting you on the most dangerous part of your head,means he wanted you dead.flee for your life because you might not lucky to tell your story next time.there are many ways to treat a woman’s fork up. by just ignoring her,you have just killed her spirit and she will apologise for her actions. any man that hits a woman is a beast and a moron.if he wants to exercise his power as a man,he should visit the nearest army barracks and slap an army.
Do you know, Mr pessimist?
Halima Ibrahim there’s no need being rude here ok. Those were my own words to her. Give yours.
Noo continue staying with him, until you see your spirit moving around. Mtweech
“My husband used a very heavy plank to hit me at the back of my head”. You are lucky to be alive to tell the story. You may not be so lucky the second time. Why on earth will a man used a plank on a woman if not to kill her…..
In all this explanations , I still can’t see where she stated the cos of d fight that warrant d planking . So wife beaters pls…………… save our mothers, sisters & wives. IN D NAME OF WHT U BELIEVE IN.
Yes go back so he can kill you. Stupid…….
Jeremy Vanen do you know that what ever you say here will not still stop this girl from loving this man ? She’s in love and she needs a way back to him. Get real brother. I’m against domestic violence tho.
what is LOVE? love is wen ur husband catches you naked on d bed wit anoda woman and still says “baby dress up lets go home. what is DEATH? death is wen u follow him home
That’s y we need God’s intervention, when God steps in every storm would be calm.Acknowledge him in all your ways. God bless you
Noo go back so he should kill you,what kind of stupid love is that
Dolly Gaceri men ‘ve the right to ‘ve modan one wife ,but my wife ‘ve everything that make me happy so I can’t cheat on her never.
Too bad madam,but all d same pray to GOD for a change in your marriage,and also be a good woman to your world,be wise with d tins you do dat brouth such act,cos am sure your husband is not a mad man,wish you well ma
My dear… Please repeat that to yourself in the mirror and if you don’t feel stupid, then go back. Really ??? Please let him go, unless you want to die, period.
Ndonwie Celestine pls stop assuming things on your own bcos they never stated d cos of d fight, so I don’t think & believe it was a cheating case . Jst read and comment with Wht they gave .
There is no reason what so ever a man should put hands on his wife . Trust me from a woman who noes they will always do it again ! 1st time I’m gone
What did u do
You no go Ben Johnson commot from there.
Hell no you mad
Yes do! You will have ample time to leave after he murders you
Before you go back , do pay for your coffin and other burial expenses in advance, you hear?
Please go back with a coffin. That’s all.
Mumu go back and die leaving your kids
In addition to Wht I said , d victim knws Wht is gud for her ,
NEVER advice anyone to brk up their marriages bcos at the end , U might be blamed for their failure. So if she knws Wht is right and Wht she want , let her do it .
go back if u want him to kill u
Help me tell am
Like seriously a man that can hit his own wife with plank on the head should go and apologise
D man s a coward now, fighting a woman ad using stick ole okurin
This is what I alweys say how can a man hurt his wife so bad like this No..no..no this is so bad my god…. Woman you really want to go to him…But the fat is that whatever you have don to him he shouldn’t hurt u… But i like to knw what happened between you and him
A word is supposed to be enough for the wise , but this one even planking no reach am to get sense
Go back to him, mumu. Until he cut off ur head then u will have sense. U are still talking about love. Hisssssss
U better run now ,remember the case of ronke shonde,after you are dead he will say he caught u cheating ,your kids then will be mother less
Fool go back and love him more
Kim Okosun are you for real? U mean there’s no reason to lay hand on a woman even if she sleep with another man? OMG.
The next one his going to kill you
Noo Dont leave jst stay ND die they.
God said it for beta or worse, abi na in attempted murder or in murder
Please madam don’t go back he will kill you is bad man
And that’s the reason Ronke Shonde is dead
What leads to this act? U loved him so much u want to go back abi??? Very good but ‘ve it at the back of it mind it happens again u ‘ll not see mouth to talk again believe me
Go back and die there . Rubbish ….
Go na as u no get sense
Collins M Ekele. Never should a man lay a hand on a woman and a woman shouldn’t lay a hand on a man ..They cheat then you get up and leave . Trust me my baby’s dad hit me when my son was 5 weeks old he bust my c section scar open . All becos I had found out he was messing around . It felt to good to see him up in court . A man will never put hands on me twice I’m telling you
Die there U0001f621
This is so sad…darling.but here is my advise if it was not the first time he hit you…his gonna do it again and again.Make sure you insured him aftr he died u claim the money to support ur kid’s and start a business mybe…slow poison him GOD will understand.
Eventually he’ll kill u, so just end d union now
Look life is only once, the moment you die you’ve gone forever. And he’ll have chance to bring another woman to maltreat your children, what do you mean by love? You say you love him, you’re the most stupid woman on earth and you’re the type who can not stay without a man rubbish, be on your own with your children as a mother, you have to fight for your children. I don’t know what you do for a living because most women depends on their husband’s alone, that was why he won’t respect you everyday fighting, women should learn how to make money so when an issue like this came up you’ll find your way, men are he goat
Guy you are so funny.