Oh my! This is a case of wedding gone TOTALLY wrong – unfortunately showing people the disadvantages on online dating, the runaway bride seen in this photo dashed out of her Church wedding service in Akwa Ibom after she discovered her groom-to-be wasn’t a Chevron staff as he had self-proclaimed on his Social media.
Below is how a Facebook user shared the story:
“The Running Bride Cancelled Her Wedding On Discovering Her Man Isn’t A Chevron Staff”
THIS AFTERNOON AT EKET
Bride just discovered on wedding morning that her husband-to – be was actually not A CHEVRON STAFF.
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Badoo etc all said he was a Chevron staff , but the truth was revealed this morning..
See more photos below:
Hellen Evo Eugene Seiuli ahhahahhahahhahaha except the groom will run away from us haha
Are you sure that this is not home video? Cause I can’t see their wedding ring on their hands!!!
D lady made a very big mistake. Why didn’t she mk her own research? Why didn’t she visit her hubby to be in his place of wrk or beta still ask questions from d guys family n friends. She is a gold digger who was carried away by empty promises. This will serve as a very big lesson to we ladies. All that glitters is not GOLD,
She can go and marry in oil if that is what she wants.
U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602U0001f602 there’s gonna be a uturn there hahahahah the groom left cos it takes forever for us to graduate hahaha
This is what happens when ladies are too desperate for marriage, if she had giving him time just maybe she would have found out the truth herself.
Hellen Evo Eugene Seiuli hahahahaha when they find out the truth on what our major really is hahahaha
is possible he never lied that he was working in an oil company, what the lady would have ask for was his portfolio in that company. remember he can be a cleaner or even driver, they are all jobs.
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The company…. Hataki hustlers
D prblm is dis n men hv cum to realize dis. Whn a man tell a woman d truth, d man can’t get her unless d man lie. So u can see she wanted to marry him cos he works in an oil company n not bcs she loves him, if dey ask her, is it dat men who had handwork never approach her. She will say dey do, but she just need lyf of enjoyment. Some of dem after a hopeless, useless lyfstyle, which dey call enjoyment, den dey wish to settle down wid a big boy in Chevron. Una dey forbid who dey drive cab or is he not a human being? It dis days i hear single ladies wid dead background sayn dey can’t manage wid a man, forgotten God can lift anyone anytym, but their end will be miserable, bcs nofin good cums easy. Ladies are d real prblm men have. n dey shld try to accept a man for who he is n shldn’t allow a man to lie b4 getting her. Nigeria ladies should change for good.
Anytin can happen @ Eunice imade Edo, a lady in my street just discovered dat her husband 2 b was a married man even d so called family he brought was rented right there on dere introduction day. We ladies should be careful abt material tins. Biko
Sometimes men lies to a lady to just to get her precious gift but when he finds out that the lady is the best thing that has ever happened to him and he wants to spend the rest of his life with her, he should try as much as possible to tell her the truth on time not on the wedding day, because for sure she will need sometime to think about it, and believe me she will come back to him because time heals every pain. Due so many times is the ladies that makes the bobos to lie to them sha, bobos be ur selves and stop lying just to sleep with a lady. Just saying ma mind sha.
let the lord forgive him
Lol, THIS IS CHANGE
You know like seriously… I am surprise that pple are saying the lady did wrong by running out…why won’t she when She is just scared of more lies that can be waiting for her ahead and not just because the groom does not work in an oil company . Let’s be realistic… A man that can lie about something like that has other cooked up stories stored somewhere which can kill that woman one day if she does not decide now. So take it easy on the lady.
She is not ready to marry,
Nkem, you mean it? Please explain
Waw men the are full of promises
De woman in question is very greedy of money that’s why she agreed with the marriage at the first time. Oil company in deed.
Makuba Madibana that’s what we call dating phase. Testing such limits on the wedding is asking to be left at the alter.
And the last time i check your name is not China or India, and beside any one who attained secondary school can pronounce your name, that by the way, i was not referring to you because i can type and pronounce your name, rather i was referring to the person whose name i can’t type or pronounce because he decided to be a citizen of India or China i don’t know. @Kay Bin Iriemenem
Serve him right
This is change lol
Bae Kai Njoroge
I thought they said car company now Na oil worker
Mwale Doreen, Told you oil is important 😀
The way she ran out of the wedding cuz the guy is not a Chevron staff is also the same way she will run if the guy was a Chevron staff and lost his job tomorrow, ladies don’t get married cuz of love money money is all they want smh.
The wife should not forgive him he should surfar.
Prince Nwachi thanks bros
Matthew Oke at all my brother, I go always hammer the truth as e be
It happened live at Eket in Akwa Ibom state.
Chinenye Nnamani Obu lets reason together, first am not supporting the man for lying but it’s wrong for her to abandon the wedding, it’s impossible to completely know who ever anyone is getting married to, if she genuinely love him, she should’ve waited for the wedding to finished then their families would be invited and deal with the issue, there’s need to ask the man why he had told such lies at least to hear what he has to say, if the man goes on his kneels and apologise she should forgive him, remember she’s in love with him and not where he works, I know such lies hurt but anyone who always make drastic decision and don’t have the spirit of forgiveness will always end up badly because no one will marry an angel, no matter who you marry there must be some fault in that person, some successful marriages have seen worst things but they dealt with it amicable. Her attitude shows how much she’s in love with where he work and not how much she love him, I will never leave my bride just because she lied about where she works, people react to things differently, believe me, some people lie not because they’re wicked but for the love they have for someone, this man may have lied in order to get the girl marry him, he’s so much in love with her and the only way to get her was to lie about where he works, it’s not the right thing to do, it’s a bad decision but that’s he’s own level of knowledge, so many lovers have finds themselves in this love triangle, you may not believe me but honestly love for someone can make anyone lie in order to keep such love flowing.
If this guy don’t love her would he had proposed and wedded her? She should forgive him.
Chinenye Nnamani Obu lets reason together, first am not supporting the man for lying but it’s wrong for her to abandon the wedding, it’s impossible to completely know who ever anyone is getting married to, if she genuinely love him, she should’ve waited for the wedding to finished then their families would be invited and deal with the issue, there’s need to ask the man why he had told such lies at least to hear what he has to say, if the man goes on his kneels and apologise she should forgive him, remember she’s in love with him and not where he works, I know such lies hurt but anyone who always make drastic decision and don’t have the spirit of forgiveness will always end up badly because no one will marry an angel, no matter who you marry there must be some fault in that person, some successful marriages have seen worst things but they dealt with it amicable. Her attitude shows how much she’s in love with where he work and not how much she love him, I will never leave my bride just because she lied about where she works, people react to things differently, believe me, some people lie not because they’re wicked but for the love they have for someone, this man may have lied in order to get the girl marry him, he’s so much in love with her and the only way to get her was to lie about where he works, it’s not the right thing to do, it’s a bad decision but that’s he’s own level of knowledge, so many lovers have finds themselves in this love triangle, you may not believe me but honestly love for someone can make anyone lie in order to keep such love flowing.
If this guy don’t love her would he had proposed and wedded her? She should forgive him.
A man bought an egg from a shop. when he got hoime to prepare the egg,it was empty. He took it back to the shop and complained. The shop keeper broke the eggs and all were empty then they took the complain to the poultry farm. When they got to the farm, the fowls saw them and started laughing. LOOK AT THIS STUPID PEOPLE, THEY DON’T KNOW WE HAVE STARTED USING CONDOM….Don’t laugh aloneU0001f602U0001f602
A man bought an egg from a shop. when he got hoime to prepare the egg,it was empty. He took it back to the shop and complained. The shop keeper broke the eggs and all were empty then they took the complain to the poultry farm. When they got to the farm, the fowls saw them and started laughing. LOOK AT THIS STUPID PEOPLE, THEY DON’T KNOW WE HAVE STARTED USING CONDOM….Don’t laugh aloneU0001f602U0001f602
Tjo! naare one a nyala oil?
Can’t she be fair like her mother cz i thnk her father is a village idler
He had to lie to get her up de alter , cause she was all about de money , he pick de ‘apple’ before , if not then , the game just over! Weddings are not marriages these days , so let the woman be, and he find a ‘oil job’ next time
Onyeka Gift Ijeh some men are just desperate to marry a certain woman not out of love but what ever reason. Trust me any man that lies about where he work is not worth Bn called a man. I still maintain she walked out, it’s better to walk out than be tagged as once married. There is nothing to resolve. Be proud of who you are. It’s only fools that claim what they are not. If he had lied about trivial issues out of love then I can understand
Well truth be told… If the man could lie about his work then nothing real could come out of him. Well… except for the wedding tho. I need to hear a different version of da story.. Cus I’m not sure da lady is a gold/oil digger. She just couldn’t believe he could lie abt his job all da while they’ve been in courtship.
Yess queen dump his lying black ass
Chinenye Nnamani Obu wether he lies about trivial issues or not lie is lie, anyone capable of lying over trivial issue is also be capable of lying over any issue when face with a hardline situation. Some women are also desperate to marry a certain men not out of love but whatever reason. We shouldn’t claim holy here, you should see how we Nigerians lie at the embassies in order to get visa and travel out, some have lied that their parents died while their parents are still alive in order to get out of certain hash condition, I am not talking to support bad things but I am telling you the different faces of human nature, it’s easy to blame anyone when they’re faulty but if face with the same situation those who blame may do worst things that’s why Jesus said “If you have not sin be the first to cast the stone”. If you say any man that lies about where he works is not worth being called a man then what about some men who have stolen because of their women, what about men who have lied in order to help their women get out of some difficult situations, remember what I told you, love can make anyone behave stupidly, I have seen a woman who gave her body to men in order to help her lover financially. You can say “over your dead body you will never behave that way” but I won’t blame you because lovers react differently when it comes to love.
Onyeka Gift Ijeh I don’t know the point you are trying to make in this case. That’s exactly our problem in Nigerian. We tend to shy away from wrong deeds, we find a way to paint every evil to our favour. Let’s call a spade a spade. You can lie to a girl to get the piece of her , that’s ur wahala but telling lies to a lady to get her the marry you is absolutely wrong . There is more to marriage. I have seen people marry people so sos below there class for love, now that is love. You don’t have to lie to get a woman or man to marry you. I do not care if many people do it, the fact remains that it’s wrong. The lady sleeping with men to support her lover, doesn’t love him one bit if not there is pepper to go and sell in the market to help him. Since he needs support from a woman. She just wants something to fall back on when she is tired of her waywardness cos trust me she is doing it for own interest. My point remains let’s call evil evil. Love is peace and let’s not mistake it for desperation and selfishness. A man stealing because of a woman is just a thief,he can steal for any other reason. Let’s not just deceive our self and tag every thing on love. Let’s people own up to their responsibilities. If you keep pushing this matter next time a man will lie about his HIv status and you will come here to argue that it’s love
She cannot come and go and suffer lolzz…..
She is not yet pregnant I guess!
Chinenye Nnamani Obu After all your comments and seemingly a highly responsible lady, I want you to give me a straight answer, will you be able to count how many times you’ve lied since you were born? Will you be able to count how many time you must’ve offended some people, have you no fault of yours? You think on judgement day God is only going to judge those who only lie about their occupations? You speak too holy yet if you check yourself you will find out you too must’ve done something wrong, it may not be as something serious as the lie the groom have told but have done wrong. Yes let’s call a spade a spade and evil evil, we all have sinned, you inclusive.
is she a car or a car engine that she needs an oil worker… nonsense
Onyeka Gift Ijeh I have lied, I have sinned, I only live by the grace of God. Also know there is consequences for every sin we commit even when forgiven. All I am saying that the man should face the consequences of his sins and learn from it. Imagine if the lady bn lied to is ur sister, has struggled all through her life, making a decent living and just needed a decent man to spend the rest of her life with and hence a man that lies about his means of living. What if the man is jobless, no zeal to hustle? So she should forgive and start working for both of them? I am not saying people should not marry jobless people NO but let the person know so she can prepare her self for the suffer/struggle ahead. I never prayed to God for a rich man as a husband. I only asked for a man that fears God not even a man that knows God cos we all do. And a good looking husband, yes I am that vain lol don’t go searching for my husband’s picture oh lol see let’s drop this case and stop judging. The girl chose to walk away let’s support her decision. She wears the shoes.
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U never even see race u go run tire…..q #thief
He is a conman stay far from this liar.
Chinenye Nnamani Obu first I won’t support her decision. You’re quick to judge, if this girl is my own sister I will never support her to leave the man, for Christ sake what did he do, lie about his occupation? You talk about facing his consequences, if we all start facing our consequences, believe me nobody will be alive, if God should start condemning us for every sin we commit you and I wouldn’t have seen today’s light but His mercy always lead us through. The man is not jobless, he works, I mean how did they spend for the wedding, there was no way the bride had sponsored the wedding when the groom said he works in an oil company. We humans are so quick to condemn yet we all must’ve done something equal or even worst than what we condemn. How could you leave someone you genuinely love just because he lied about where he works? Is your love so fake you can’t forgive him when he apologised? What about women who have forgiven their husbands for cheating on them or even some men who have forgiven their wives who have cheated on them with another man. He lied about where he works and so, she left him, let her and find angel who have no fault, people should learn how to forgive when it comes to certain things, this man did not kill anybody, he didn’t attempt to use his wife for money rituals, he only lied about where he works, the bride should forgive him, period. If you know what’s in marriage you will understand that something like this it’s not enough for the lady to leave the man. This is my nature, I am not quick to condemn.
If dat is near d truth in any form den dat woman must b a fool for not knwin d exact person she is gettin married to,wat abt der coutin or datin period dint she hav enof tym to find out who d man she wnts to liv d rest of hr precious lif wit really is or is it me dat wil go n do it for her?i guess she fgot hr senses due to som little cash he must hav used on her’lucky her d senses came bak
Why did she disgrace herself. She is not a child anymore..so she never knew all dis days..before accepting him..She is big enough to b deceived. In fact is a dream
See the latter day defilement of the wedding altar! So does wealth have to be before a woman can marry! Every person today are more concerned with wealth than peaceful marriage. As for the man, does he think his lie one day won’t be exposed? There is absolutely no reverence for the word of God and absolutely no fear of God!
Onyeka Gift Ijeh my dear they are not married yet hence my opinion yes married women forgive their husbands cos marriage is for better or worse. A girlfriend forgiving a boyfriend for cheating should be ready for more forgiving. How are you sure he didn’t borrow to put up the wedding? How are we sure he has a place to live with the lady? So many things are uncertain. I will forgive after I have heard all that needs to be heard then we can come back and do the wedding. Marrying blindly is the worst thing. He lied abt his job are you sure that’s the only lie. He might be impotent as well, he might be a thief, he might even be a ritualist cos as it is he is has lied and probability everything about him is fake is high. So she can choose to forgive him after and marry him but there is no point continuing the wedding on that day. She needs to know ALL so she can choose to forgive or not. That one truth came out is not enough to forgive. He should say all truth about him then the lady can decide if she can live with all that.
WHO GO COME CHOP D RICE TINS NA?
People should stop bad mouthing the man, when a lady shows a man al I want is money she will be lied to ad used ad later on be dumped, it all depends on how she carried herself ad that serves her right. How I wish some ladies will lear frm this and bring there stupid ega ad love 4 money down.
Chinenye Nnamani Obu this is exactly what am saying about we humans, did you see how wickedly you condemned him, “He might be impotent, he might be a thief, he might be even be a ritualist, and probably everything about him is fake” what about he might be a decent and responsible man or you think decent people don’t lie, you think anyone who is responsible don’t lie or have some bad behaviour? Any woman who cannot forgive a man because he lied about where he works has a questionable character, if she genuinely love the man she can only be angry and express her dissatisfaction but will never leave the man, she’s in love with him and not where he works that’s why forgiven him will not be difficult for her but if she’s in love with him for working in an oil company then she will be quick to leave him, I can’t imagine me leaving my bride because she lied to me about where she works, NEVER!!! Dear, stop condemning, nobody has condemned you for all your own fault ok.
Where I used to live in Lagos, a man caught his wife cheating on him with another man, the man families and the woman’s families came together, their purpose was to tell the the wife to leave her husband’s house immediately because she has brought shame to both the families but the husband told them he has forgiven his wife, his family said no way, an adulterous wife will never be tolerated in their families even his friends were mad at him, but he stood on his ground and took his wife home, today they’re living happily, the woman is now loved by everyone. There’s what we call the spirit of forgiveness, any woman who will not forgive her man because he lied about where he works have no such spirit, if she marry’s she will still not forgive her husband when he offend her.
I agreed with everyone points many men lies to marry ladies this days.
May God help all the ladies with bogus lies from the men.
Onyeka Gift Ijeh am done, for the record I didn’t condemn him. All I said has *might* in it. I still don’t get ur point. I am sure you don’t get mine too or choose not to. So let’s quit the argument. Have a blessed day.
No relationship should start with a lie.
The fact that he lied shows that he knows that he needed to give her some security that hes capable of taking care of her.
if she is knows his status and still accepts him, then that is her choice.
all relationship needs honesty and respect. run mi dear run him too lie .
Madam no make me laugh abeg
Chinenye Nnamani Obu all your “might” about him were negative, try to look at human nature and soften your judgement on others ok, bye
What do you expect when most girls don’t even try to find out the full details of the person they are getting married to. If a guy tells u he is the President without you finding out urself, it will tell at the end. Or there was no courtship before plans for the marriage?
People should be wise.
And to the man, he is just fooling himself for not being sincere Cus whether u like it or not, its not all about the money, riches and the influence u have but tins like things also matter. As a man, don’t try and impress any lady beyond what you are Cus when the girl find out, it will also affect you. I believed the the suppose oil man have made plans for the marriage and spent money already so he will be d one to suffer it if the lady decide not to go on with the marriage.
My dear am a living witness it happens at Liverpool road in eket akwa ibom state
@Donna No relationship should be pegged material wealth either.
The guy’s only crime was to use what ladies/girls want to hear from a man to get her. If you speak the truth you’re always stupid. Serves her right.
If only the guy is going to accept the money that have been paid on her head already, or are u guys forgetting that befor wedding can take place traditionally the lady has already been given to the man by her parents? I just feel she didn’t take her time to check well.
Le salopard U0001f602U0001f602 Farida Bagnan
Oh so she was going to marry the supposed guy for his pocket?wonders without end!!!!
Where is his father working. Palm oil is also oil company
it couldn’t be real.
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Old money is all she wanted that is why she leave her Ex boyfriend and run to a man that lie to her that he is working in old company, stupid life …. Take a look at what she did to her family
If the man knows the kind of woman she was – one that like rich guys, why would he have gone ahead to marry her? If she is the type that actually like rich guys, the man would suffer in the long run. So it was better to do away with the whole thing before there is casualty in the future.
Was she after a husband or job
Did she date him at all?so all d while they dated she didn’t find out we’re he is working na wedding she discovered say she be fool?abeg people make una eat rice make e not waste
Ladies this is an eye opener
I don’t believe this for 10kobo
Cheap??? lol nne onu ojoo
The total problem of life dia is lie between both of them
Izt da men she want or oil company???
Na oil company she wan marry abi the man
Pls the story didn’t say d lady insisted on marring a rich man ooo it didn’t say wat led 2 d lie d man told it only stated dat d man lied, how can u marry a man who lied about himself up to marriage it’s better 2 tell her the truth if she accepts u lik dat fin if she doesn’t fin too. Pls comment carefully don’t show how broke u ar via ur comment pls
haahaaa…funny indeed wat if the man also told her dose lies the last minute to see if the lady was after her money….. finding real love is smthg of a compromise dis days…u gv smthg to get smthg…if dats d case its her lose if not sorry…for better for worse naa….
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Will you marry a person without knowing their best friends, family, coworkers etc? I mean won’t that be enough to be sure where your partner works?
A serious person would visit the partner at their workplace if possible. Fact is she should be ready to carry that responsibility and make her life better. After all the liar did not escape. And she should not go after oil money cos I believe she didthat.
Nigerian una no go kill me wit fake News
D PURPOSE of all d Lips Love n Kisses is been EXPOSED .
I WONDERED how often dese IDIOTS of Guys n Ladies SEEN some White Fellas (Europeans) wears d Black African Outfit in their Marriages .
U Guys ‘re bt a BUNCH of Normskulls n Confused Decapitated DISGRACE to African Heritage .
A bunch of Ingrates .
Man should let woman know what they have not what they did not have
But in the post I only read that his social media status showed he was a Chevron staff and not that he told her with his mouth…so what are we saying? She was After the money jere
Cnt stop laugh, serve her rit, olojukokoro
He is a liar. Let her run very fast.
You girls want loyalty and u be displaying artificial package for the men. The guy must be a leaner…
I’m cooking for the commentators. Timzzy Temi Akinyele hear something .
That is a perfect reward to greedy these greedy girls. A guy must have told her truth about his person but she refused and gambled on Cheveron staff. You know most girls dont like truth.
It is good ooo,so they don’t just comment & go empty handed lol