10-15% of children are being raised by men who think they are the biological fathers, but are not.
There are several reasons, why women are cheating their partner and I’m pretty sure that more than 50% are guilty of it. But how should you know if your girlfriend is loyal? We explore the most common signs that can help you tell whether your woman is cheating on you.
She falls off the radar for large gaps of time
So, she disappeared for five hours for the third time in a week and blamed it on falling asleep, and you actually believed her? That’s cute. We guess what they say is true—love is actually blind. We hate to be the ones to pry those stubborn eyelids open, but if your girl goes M.I.A. for days at a time, you need to stop making excuses and start getting answers.
Not Excited About Future Plans
When your girlfriend doesn’t share dreams of settling down with you, she might as well have the dreams with someone else in the picture. She would practically avoid anything and everything that moves in that direction. She could be cheating on you already or be making moves to replace you.
She starts pointing fingers in your direction.
If your previously secure girlfriend suddenly goes into paranoia mode, you should take notice. If she snaps at you over seemingly innocent actions (basically, anything on this list, but in small, completely commonplace increments), she might be trying to throw you off her scent. By focusing your attention to your perceived failings, you’ll be less apt to interrogate her about her actual foul play, which is just the way she’d like it.
She makes a point to say she’s unhappy
It’s easy to misinterpret any of the aforementioned signals as infidelity when in actuality, there is a perfectly reasonable explanation. But, if you start noticing that the signs are slowly piling up, and she’s recently admitted she’s no longer happy in the relationship, you might be on the verge of a full-fledged confession.
Guilt is a tricky emotion, and she might feel that by fessing up to her flailing satisfaction in the relationship, she is offering you (and herself) an explanation for her selfish actions. Or, she could be gearing up to act on a long-held impulse, and making her excuses in advances so she can later utter, “I told you so,” with aplomb.
20. She flirts with other people in front of you
This points to larger issues of being attention-starved, having an insatiable ego, and otherwise being insecure. But more notably, if she’s comfortable batting her eyes at other people in front of you, what is she doing when you’re not there?
– Quick To Throw Tantrums
A cheating girlfriend is always trying to be smart around you. Every time she feels she may get suspected, she starts to throw tantrums and cover everything up by being emotional. She tries to change the subject in order to shift focus.
19. Conscious Of Her Phone
Handling your girlfriend’s phone to her when it rings becomes a crime. She rushes to the phone before you could reach out for it.
She takes the phone everywhere with her even in the house. When she can’t keep her hands off her phone and she doesn’t trust you enough to hold it, or walks into the room every time to receive calls, she is definitely cheating.
18. She isn’t making plans for the future
If you look in your iPhone’s calendar, are the upcoming months looking unusually devoid of commitments? None of her 200 cousins has a wedding planned, you’ve yet to confirm any plans for your accrued vacation days, and hell, you haven’t even heard about one of those double dates with her best friend she usually forces you to pencil in each month. It’s possible she’s overwhelmed at work or otherwise preoccupied; it’s also possible she’s plotting an escape and is hesitant to extend any invitations knowing she’ll eventually have to rescind them. Or, even worse, she’s too invested in someone new to realize she’s been neglecting your shared social schedule.
17. She’s overly concerned with your whereabouts
Remember when you first met and every day was peppered with a constant exchange of flirty, borderline-salacious text messages? It’s normal for your text game to fall off from that initial honeymoon phase, but if she takes hours to respond without explanation, and can’t muster up an ounce of enthusiasm when she does, it’s not a good look for your relationship.
There’s a real possibility she’s under stress at work, or just in an emotional rut. But if you’re able to rule that out (which you can do with a few simple questions) and you notice she rarely takes the initiative to text—and if she does, it’s to ask where you are—she might be tracking your whereabouts for less than innocent reasons. We hate to be the ones to say it, but she’s not suddenly interested in the minutiae of your day—she’s covering her ass.
16. Conscious Of Her Looks More Than Ever
When your girlfriend’s mode of dressing changes without you implementing this change, it would be better to watch her closely. When she suddenly becomes conscious of her looks and worry about something being out of place in her appearance, she may be trying hard to impress someone else. When she takes extra time dressing up and is always eager to step out alone, it’s likely she’s having an affair.
15. She accumulating new clothes at higher rates than usual
If your girl goes into makeover mode and tears through the mall like Sonic the Hedgehog on a mission, you should take notice. Most women have an affinity for retail, but if her shopping takes on a rabid focus seemingly out of nowhere, you should ask yourself why she has become invested in reinventing herself.
Again, it’s about a departure from the norm. If your girl normally puts on a full face of make-up to run errands, don’t think twice about her putting on mascara to go to the dry-cleaners. But if she’s a sweats-and-Chapstick type of chick, and she suddenly starts taking an hour to get ready to go out (particularly, without you), you have a reason to worry.
14. Lesser Time Together
You can’t miss this sign. When a woman who used to be crazy about you finds a reason to stay away from you, this could only point to one thing; she may be sending you an indirect message of a pending break up or she’s cheating. if a woman who used to be clingy and all over you finds it difficult to hang out with you then she’s created time for something or someone else.
13. Her social calendar is suddenly bursting at the seams.
Saturdays used to be your day. Nothing was said, no plans were made; it was just assumed that you’d be spending time together.
But lately, it seems something more important to her comes up each week.
Your weekly dates are no longer set in stone, and everything and everyone else takes precedent.
If you see your quality time slowly dwindling away, it absolutely points to her waning interest in the relationship, and it could mean she has transferred her affections elsewhere, or is at least entertaining the thought.
12. Unaccounted movements
When your girlfriend stops sharing information about her movement all of a sudden then something could be wrong.
When her location isn’t known or she isn’t found where she ought to be found, she could have a skeleton in her wardrobe. When she suddenly becomes a fickle and she springs up various excuses as to her whereabouts, she could be cheating.
– Distractions
When a girlfriend who has shown a total lack of interest in her boyfriend gets distracted easily, she may be thinking about someone else. She could daydream all day; smiling lost in thoughts until she’s being jolted back to reality.
11. She pays more attention to her phone than you
If you inevitably spend every dinner glaring at her as she pivots between various social networks and replies to every text message that springs up, don’t be too quick to write her behavior off as a sign of the times.
Sure, we’re all guilty of being so overly engrossed in our digital lives that we neglect the present moment. But if she makes a continual habit of talking to her Twitter followers more than you during dinner dates, it may point to her lack of investment in the relationship, not just her fleeting attention span.
We don’t want to say she might be spending your night together making plans with someone else, but stranger things have happened.
10. She Stops Caring
Women are wired to care about the smallest details about their men and relationships. She cares how many times you call and whether you make time for her. She gets angry with you when you forget those important dates in your relationship and will make a big fuss about it. So when your lady stops caring that you didn’t call and when she doesn’t throw a fit that you forgot all your special dates, then you have cause to worry.
9. Change In Appearance
When you were dating, your woman went to great lengths to look amazing for you and consistently made your heart stop. But after dating for a while or after marriage it seems that she doesn’t care so much like before, which is normal. Has your woman started again dressing a little more special out of the blue? Does she suddenly seem to pay extra attention to her appearance while leaving to meet up her girls, more than when going out with you? She may be out to impress and catch the attentions of another man.
8. Sexier Underwear
When a woman is involved with someone new, she often will go out and purchase sexier bras and panties – because she feels sexier. There is a pleasure women get in being appreciated as a sexual being and will behave a little more sexier… maybe she’s leaving an extra button undone on her blouse or wearing her hair down instead of neatly tied up. Maybe she has changed her perfume (and that could go either way, stronger to cover the scent of his aftershave or lighter because he’s not fond of heavy fragrances). She may also change the way she wears make-up for similar reasons.
7. She Just Won’t Commit!
Most women want a man who is willing to commit to them for life. They will drop hints if not directly ask their boyfriend what his plans for their future are. So if your woman is being dodgy whenever you bring up the topic of the future of your relationship, it may be a sign that she’s cheating on you and has other options to explore.
6. No Interest Intimacy
In a relationship the couple builds on intimacy by having s*x. If there is no more interest or urge to have s*x with you, it is obvious there are chances of unfaithfulness. These are signs that she has already engaged in s*x with her new found love.
5. Super Busy
Can you pop by for a visit and maybe take her out to lunch or dinner without making a formal arrangement? Is she open and welcoming to such a pleasant surprise from her man? Or does she rush you out and postpone your spontaneous gesture? Now, don’t sell yourself short. Make sure you test her on this when she should be able to go out with you. Think hard, is her schedule as open to you as it used to be? You’ll know your woman is cheating if she barely ever has time for you claiming a busy schedule. A woman in love will move aside a mountain just to spend time with her man. But if she is constantly making excuses why she can’t see you or dine with you, then she is dining someone else.
4. She will start having secret schedules
The moment your spouse becomes secretive in her schedules, it clearly shows that there is something she is hiding. She could hide here whereabouts and start having a lot of business trips that care unexplained. If you find yourself knowing less about her itinerary, there is reason to worry.
3. Increased Privacy
Is your wife or girlfriend less likely to let you look at her phone and does she keep it away from you? Perhaps, she is using the vibrate instead of the ring and even pressing the ignore option far more than she used to. Is she giggling about messages that she doesn’t share with you? Is she texting more than she ever did before? Is there an element of privacy she displays over her phone? There could even be a second phone if the other relationship is that significant. You can tell your woman is cheating on you if she insists on keeping her things private and doesn’t share as openly as she used to.
2. Avoiding the questions
If your wife or girlfriend starts avoiding simple questions that you ask her, there are high chances that she is hiding some truth. Avoiding questions is an obvious indication that she is looking for a lie. The woman may also act defensively if you persist with the questions.
1. Acting defensively
If your woman is cheating on you she is afraid of getting caught; she will get defensive and anything you ask or say to her will be taken as an accusation. You can know she is cheating if she is defensive about how she spends her time, who she spends it with and when she refuses to answer simple questions.
